When we first told our boys we were having another baby, we told them baby was the size of a bean now but would soon grow big and then we would have a new baby! From that point on baby was dubbed "little bean," and even now, Kade is still called "little bean." Although we have had these comments from the other two:
Carter: It's not little bean, it's Kade!
Vance: We better stop calling him little bean so he doesn't get confused. He's Kade.
Despite these comments they both continue to call Kade "little bean" and so do mom and dad. We love this "little bean"!!

This pregnancy and delivery were so different from the other two it is amazing. With Vance and Carter my water broke at home, two weeks early, around midnight, and we had baby by morning. Kade decided to wait til he was two days early to come. Several days prior I had pretty steady contractions and got excited but they never got closer than 15 min apart and not any stronger. Darn! It was so new to me to time contractions anyway that I was convinced that once you have to start timing they just got closer together. No such luck. On Wednesday, the 24th, I had a doctors appointment at which he stripped my membranes (another new experience for me) which helps put you into labor. It worked. By the time I got back my contractions started again and continued to come. Closer and more intense. Again being new to the timing contractions bit, I followed the doctors instructions and once I had consistent contractions 3-5min apart for an hour I called Adam and headed to the hospital! Exciting and new! I felt like a
first time mom all over! Once there they debated sending me home (please no! I don't want to be pregnant anymore!!!!) but decided I should stay. Unfortunately my doctor was stuck at another hospital and wouldn't let them break my water (another new experience) or start pitocin. I did get an epidural which was fantastic but it did slow my contractions. Once they finally got word from the doctor they broke my water. As things progressed, again my doctor was stuck at another hospital (really?!) and so I was not allowed to have my baby (nurses told me that if they would have been allowed to break my water when they wanted and give me pitocin, I probably would have had the baby by 6 pm but as it was Kade was not born until 10:24). My memory is a little hazy but I remember adjusting my position to see if contractions would come more consistantly and like lightening the pain hit and I got nauseous and I threw up. In my mind I remember thinking, "this is how I felt after I had Carter and the epideral was wearing off." Crap. Contractions started coming hard and fast and let me say it hurt. Especially cause I wanted to push and they said no. That is the most painful part, when they don't let you
push. Getting the baby out isn't that bad and afterwards I felt amazing!!! I don't know if all the drugs wore off (it sure felt like it) but I was pretty impressed with myself for a "natural" delivery. I still am a believer in the epidural however. So once the doctor was there and I was able to push and baby came pretty quick. It is the first time I really remember holding and seeing the baby when he first comes out and the doctor puts him on my tummy for me to see. It was amazing.
Sweet baby Kade. He is a good eater, has put on major poundage, but still has tummy issues just like my other two did. He looks like Carter but has the build of Vance. Solid. With a big head. He so far has been slow to smile with his mouth but I can see the smile in his eyes. I swear he had control of his arms from the first minute. He does not like the nuk but I am trying to train him otherwise. He sleeps pretty well. He is up twice at night and is starting to stay awake for longer periods during the day. He is the first to even sort of like the swing. When he is hungry he
practically rolls himself all the way over trying to find mom and the milk. I swear he is going to roll himself over before he is two months old. He likes to sleep on his side. He hates to be swaddled and MUST have his hands and arms free of the blankets. He likes to have his face and head rubbed/stroked. He is a back archer and loves his head back. Oh and we finally found the magic hold for when he is fussy. Works like magic 90% of the time. Bum in the crook of the elbow, tummy resting on the heel of the hand so there is pressure, head up with the other had holding in the nuk. I don't have a picture yet but will post when I get one. Love this baby Kade. My "Little Bean."
