Friday night Caleb and I had what was to be the perfect date night. Caleb had purchased Justin Timberlake concert tickets for me way back on Mother's Day. We had someone lined up to watch our kids and had carefully picked the perfect restaurant to eat at before the concert.
Me, being the barely still 20 something girl I am, could not have been more excited to see JT. I was between 13-16 when NSYNC was at its peak, prime boy band loving age. Then I was late teens when Justin launched his solo career and my love for him grew.
He has sung me through little girl crushes, first dates, first kisses, embarrassing moments, breakups, death, dorm room dances, road trips with friends, a wedding day, dances with my husband, kitchen dance parties with 2 little loves, life, and so much more. So many significant and insignificant moments intertwined to make up a beautifully, imperfect life.
It is funny how music can transport you directly into past moment quicker than just about any other thing.
He is also pretty great to look at, super talented, and an awesome dancer, I am not sure what's not to like. ;)
The plans were set, the expectations high, and the excitement through the roof.
And the real life happened...
Presley grabbed my curling iron approximately 10 minutes before we walked out the door. I screamed NO at her and she avoided further injury. However, the damage was already done. Huge tears streamed down her face with a silent cry engulfing her tiny body.
She was fine, but she was hurting. And we had to leave.
So we left her crying, clenching her blanket, and watching her favorite show, all while a cheeseburger hung out of her mouth. (I wish I had a picture!)
We began the quick 30 minute trip to Nashville around 5, a little shaken, but excited.
Cut to 2 and half hours later and we were still in the car, hungry, and desperately trying to maneuver around traffic to make it in time.
I wish I could say that this offered us a time to talk and connect and share. However, this is about the time I began to begin to panic.
And by panic, I mean, tears, mumbling on how this was the worst night of my life, and I might die. This is only the first time of the night when I transformed into an overly dramatic, 15 year old girl. I also may have sent a desperate tweet to Justin Timberlake himself begging him to wait until I got there, desperate times...
The real panic started when the clock in the car switched to 8 pm, concert start time and we still had not made it.
We finally parked and sprinted in the building a little after 8. We missed nothing.
We went to the bathroom and then quickly found our seats. Caleb went to get us some snacks, but the concert started before he made it through the line, so he came back empty handed.
The concert was amazing. It is safe to say 15 year old, starry eyed, no worries, big dreams, fan girl Amber camped out in section 306 for the next 3 hours.
He put on a great show. There was so much energy and excitement. It was so fun.
I think it is safe to say that Caleb now fully knows what it would have been like to know the teenage version of myself.
After the concert was over we were starving! We walked around towards the car hoping to find a restaurant open. We walked into Joes Crabshack at 11:45 pm (open until 1 am) and giggled over dinner on how imperfectly, perfect our life together is.
Whoever claims the life of those married with children is boring, has obviously never experienced that life.
The night didn't go just as planned, but in reality nothing memorable ever does. :)