Thursday, December 18, 2008

It's a Christmas Miracle

Christmas came early to our house this year, though you would never know it looking around the place. We don't have a single present under the tree yet (with only one week to go) and the stockings still aren't hung by the chimney with care.


But, mark my words, Christmas came early.





It's a girl!



I can't believe it myself, but after checking and re-checking, it is definitely a baby girl! Not only that, but she looks healthy and perfect and currently weighs an estimated 10 ounces.


The kids are so excited and Andrew is over the moon. What more could we want for Christmas? Now, if we can just wait until May to meet her.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Christmas Conversations

Here is the unofficial transcript from my conversation with Henry earlier today:

Henry: Mom, can someone be Superman for Christmas?

Me: I guess, but usually someone would be Superman for Halloween, not Christmas.

Henry: But Mom, Superman was there when Baby Jesus was born.

Me: (totally confused by where this conversation is going) What do you mean?

Henry goes to the Nativity and brings back one of the wisemen.

Henry: Look, it's Superman. See the cape he's wearing. There were three Supermans there when Jesus was born.

Me: Oh, I see what you mean.

Henry: So can I be the Superman for Christmas.

Me: Sure Henry. You can be the Superman for Christmas this year.

Henry:  Thanks Mom.

Don't you love the way a three-year-old mind works?

Saturday, December 6, 2008

Seventeen Turkeys

Although Thanksgiving was last week, here is Andrew's post recognizing the historically significant event.


Wow, one of my favorite days of the year, and definitely in my top 5 favorite meals (forced into 1-2 sittings that is).

As with most people, along with the food, the day is not complete without being surrounded by family. I have always felt very close to my family at Thanksgiving which is why it seems astounding that this year was the first time I have spent Thanksgiving with my parents in 17 years.

It was amazing, delicious, comfortable and more than satisfying. My mom's gravy was as good as it ever was, and everything was perfect. All these years I have always felt close to them and especially grateful to them on that day, but it was nice to be able to sit with them, cook with them, relax with them, hug them and just be with them.

Seventeen Years, that was exactly half of my life ago. Which half seems longer, it's hard to say. Back in the day, gas was only $1.47 a gallon. Oh, wait, that's what I paid last night. "Please Hammer, don't hurt 'em," was often said back then. There was talk of recession then, War in Iraq, and President Bush. How things have changed. I don't remember thinking I was halfway to anywhere specific at that point but I was. Halfway to here. I had a lot to be thankful then, I have even more to be thankful for now.

Lets see, for my own benefit where have I been since Thanksgiving of 1991:

1992 Connecticut with Brian and Pam, saw the movie "Singles" in NYC with my Aunt Betsy

1993 Seattle, mission- two dinner appointments, first one much better than the second.

1994 Seattle, dinner at the Jory's. Their oven caught on fire and two fire engines showed up.

1995 Connecticut with Paul before his mission, Nathan's first with Marian.

1996 Connecticut, watched Duke at Madison Square Garden, lost to Indiana.

1997 Connecticut, flew home from Scotland to see the new love of my life for 4 days.

1998 Connecticut, first Thanksgiving married to previously mentioned love, Elizabeth.

1999 Connecticut, Betsy raises the food a notch with the addition of Larry's gourmet touch.

2000 Connecticut, Grandpa and Grandma flew out from CA. Saw "Billy Elliot" and "Unbreakable".

Add Abby

2001 Virginia, large group gathering at Lewises, multiple long tables, great food and friends.

2002 Virginia, dinner at Hougaards with the Bells (and whistles).

Add Isaac

2003 Minnesota, the Dunn's drove through blizzard to eat in our new kitchen, went to see "Elf."

2004 Minnesota, dinner at the Harmers, best stuffing ever.

Add Henry

2005 Minnesota, drove to Elizabeth's cousin, Eric's in-laws in rural Minnesota

2006 In Salt Lake, at the Dunn's--fantastic. My parents were in Denver with my sisters.

Add Peter

2007 San Diego at a beach house with friends the Lewises, Boston Market never tasted so good.

Not bad off the top of my head, eh? Think you could do it?

Who needs a journal? Life is measured by your Thanksgivings. Or at least it should be measured by giving thanks. That is a very nostalgic list of cozy fires and delicious food and wonderful family and friends.

I wonder where we'll be in 17 years. Abigail will be 24 and our youngest will be the age I was at that last Thanksgiving home in '91. I wonder what I am halfway to now, besides 68, will my youngest be joining us after a 17 year drought? I guess I'd better treasure each one.

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Christmas Book Countdown

A few years ago, I came across a blog or a website somewhere that gave me the idea for what has become one of our family's favorite Christmas traditions.

Every year, I wrap up all of our Chirstmas books (about 25 of them) and put them under the tree. Then each night, starting on December 1st, one of the kids gets to choose a book and unwrap it and we read it together curled up under the Christmas tree. For me, there is nothing more fun than having my four kids in their pajamas, faces glowing with excitement as they anticipate which book will be chosen tonight.

They each have their favorite they hope to choose. Isaac loves "Mr. Willowby's Christmas Tree", Abby loves "Christmas Day in the Morning" and Henry loves "The Night Before Christmas" illustrated by Mary Englebreit. They have become quite adept at feeling the spine of the book and measuring the size and weight, hoping they will choose the one they want. But, even when it turns out to be a book other than than the one they were hoping for, we all snuggle together (okay, usually Peter is running circles around us) and read a wonderful Christmas story together.

It's the perfect way to end the day and the perfect way to enjoy the Christmas spirit all month long.



So, what are your (or your kids') favorite Christmas books?

Monday, December 1, 2008

It's Beginning to Look A Lot Like Christmas....sort of

The tree is up and decorated. The candles are in the windows. Andrew has put up the lights outside. The kids have started opening the advent calendars. Christmas lists have been made, checked and rechecked. Wood is stacked by the fireplace ready for a wintery night. Carols are playing through the house and wassail is simmering on the stove.

Yes, at our house, it's beginning to look a lot like Christmas.

Except... it's 60 degrees outside and there is no snow in sight.

C'mon.

LET IT SNOW, LET IT SNOW, LET IT SNOW!

Happy December!

Saturday, November 8, 2008

Survival

Over the past few weeks, we have been in survival mode at our house. Survival mode is not pretty. It's not fun. It's not easy.

For me, this is what a day includes when I am in survival mode:

-getting the kids to school
-feeding the kids three meals a day (not necessarily homemade, not even necessarily nutritious.)
-giving Peter and Henry naps.
-getting homework done.
-reading the scriptures
-getting four kids to bed.

The number of things that don't make this "survival list" is staggering. The list doesn't include:

-showering
-doing laundry
-picking up toys
-cleaning the house
-doing the dishes
-combing my hair
-getting Henry a vampire costume
-making dinner
-going to the grocery store
-bathing the children
-returning phone calls and emails
-posting on the blog

Honestly, the list could go on and on and on of things that don't get done when all I'm trying to do is survive the day.

And to what do we owe this lovely state of affairs.....?




Yes. Don't faint.... but number five is on the way and due to arrive in May. We are so happy and will be even more excited when I get over this "morning" sickness and get back to being a real mom.

Until then, we'll just keep on surviving the best we can.

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Piano Recitals

Growing up piano recitals were some of the most painful moments of my life. I can't think of a time when my heart would pound harder, my palms would sweat more profusely or my vision would blur more. I was not good in those situations. Very seldom, if ever, did I make it through a recital without a missed note, an incorrect count or both. To this day, I wish I was better at piano, but given the choice, I would never wish to revisit those experiences again.

On Saturday, Abby had her first recital and as we sat there waiting for the recital to begin I realized I was getting nervous for her. She had spent weeks practicing her piece and had it memorized perfectly, but as the time for her to play got closer I felt that familiar feeling of my heart pounding and my palms sweating.


Fortunately, Abby doesn't seem to have inherited my lack of confidence or my inability to play the piano well under pressure. When it was her turn, she calmly walked up to the stage and with great poise announced her piece: "I shall play 'Rainbow Fish', by Kathryn Rollin."

She looked so tiny up there next to the huge grand piano and she struggled to get the bench into the correct position. Her little legs didn't reach the pedal if she sat on the bench, so she just kind of leaned against it with one foot on the pedal and played her song.

She played it beautifully and confidently and didn't make a single mistake. When she finished she took a bow with a huge smile on her face. My heart calmed, my palms dried, and I was so proud of Abby and what she had accomplished. She was wonderful. Her first recital is done - and was done well and somehow, I'm already excited for the next one.

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Halloween

Halloween has come and gone and suddenly it's November! Like most children in the country, my kids started discussing their costumes shortly after school started and in the end, these were the choices that won out.


Abby decided to be a Geisha (or a girl from Japan or a Japanese princess depending on who was asking the question - just don't confuse her with Mulan.)


Isaac went with with traditional favorite of Indian - or Native American. Andrew single-handedly made the top/cape portion of the costume. I admit I was skeptical when he came home with a piece of leather and some lacing, but he really pulled it off and Isaac loved his costume.

After months of asking if he could be a vampire, the night before Henry's preschool program, I was able to convince him that he should be a pirate. Luckily he agreed, because I had done nothing to get a vampire costume ready and had no back up plan if he refused. Henry really made a cute pirate and he grew awfully fond of the old pair of red shoes he wore. (Maybe too fond of those shoes.)


Peter learned to walk just a few weeks ago and he made the cutest toddling pumpkin you've ever seen. He has also developed a sixth sense for candy and can find it hidden anywhere in the house. He also has three older siblings who are willing to feed it to him on demand. Needless to say, Halloween is his new favorite holiday.


This is Peter's newest expression. He walks around like this all day long.


It was a fun Halloween that seemed to last all month. We had a trunk-or-treat, a preschool program, two parades at school, a parade at the "assisted-living facility" where Andrew's grandma lives, an amazing potluck neighborhood party, and of course, trick-or-treating. We have enough candy to last throughout the year and well into next year.

Anyway, good times. Now we all need to come down off our sugar highs.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Arches

With Summer Fun Mix 2008 blasting on the car stereo, we hit the road for yet another adventure. This was a great trip down to Moab to the Riverside Inn and Arches National Park. The more we see of southern Utah, the more trips I want to take with the family to see more.

It was beautiful mid October weather. In fact the kids were very disappointed in me for not packing swim suits because I told them the pool would be closed. I was wrong, it was so warm that after our hike to delicate arch they insisted in swimming in their clothes. Big deal, just shorts, and a shirt for Abby. Why the drama?

We hiked, climbed, drove and ate all day, then after getting kids to bed, stayed up talking until 1:30AM with old Virginia friends. Hougaards drove over from Denver and Bells drove down from SLC. The kids were in heaven.

Henry finds a window on the west. Then points to it.

Abby and Rex scaling the slickrock.


Double Arch. Isaac's favorite.

There are three backpack bound kids missing from this picture. Quite a parade up to delicate arch, and everywhere we went. Isaac, Rex, Lucy, Anna, Maggie, Abby, Henry.

Isaac surveys our first look at Delicate Arch
Isaac, Rex, Lucy and Abby at the base of Delicate Arch.

Peter wolfs down the remainder of the footlong turkey sandwich Abby insisted she could polish as she had the day before.

Having just been launched from a makeshift cannon, Abby rests on very comfortable sandstone at the top of the hike. As they used to say, "Take only pictures, leave only full body indentations."

The taking of this picture almost caused Steph Hougaard to have a heart attack. She thought it was a 200 foot immediate drop and that Peter couldn't maneuver the ledge on his own. It was actually only a gradual slope and then a 50 foot drop. I agree, he should have had his helmet on.


Henry, giving into the universal urge: once at delicate arch, raise both hands and snap one's fingers. This picture did not cause anyone to have a heart attack because no one was watching. Plus it was only a gradual slope and then a 50 foot drop.



Peter asleep on the way down, with his helmetless head glistening in the sun. 2 more months then he gets it off for good.

Elizabeth was an amazing trooper, but I'm sure she'll tell all about that in another post. What a beautiful place and a great trip. After we die if we ever get to glimpse back through time, this is one place I want to watch the creation of. Job (as on Old Testament) says we shouted for joy as we watched it happen, I wish I could remember it. All I remember was the Grand Canyon, which was pretty cool in its own right, oh yeah, and the oceans. (if these last few lines stay in, it just means Elizabeth hasn't done any editing.)

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Happy Birthday Laura!

Many, many years ago, I was just starting 7th grade - also known as: "the most painful year of my entire existence." I started the year with total confidence in myself and my social position in life, but it didn't take long for me to encounter the "Mean Girls" of Clayton Junior High. Nor did it take long for the social food chain of junior high to be created, and when it all came down, I was no where near the top.


Despite how it looks, not nearly cool enough.


The girls who ruled the school, made it clear that I did not have what it took to be among the social elite: a killer wardrobe. Now, my mom had taken me school shopping before school had started and had outfitted me with what I thought was a great wardrobe, but the queen bees of the school made sure I knew that it wasn't. I was lacking some key elements: Firenza parachute pants. A Firenza v-neck sweater to be worn backwards. And most unforgivable of all, I did not own a pair of Guess? jeans with zippers at the ankle.

I spent hours trying to convince my parents that I needed that pair of Guess jeans if I ever hoped to amount to anything in this life, but with the jeans costing $55 a pair (an outrageous amount of money back then) my parents assured me I would be fine without them.

Well, a little more than a month into this torturous school year, my mom gave birth to her sixth child. A baby girl. THE baby girl she had been waiting for ever since my own birth. She'd given birth to four boys in a row, and now at last this long-dreamed-of daughter had arrived. My parents named her Laura, and she was darling. She had the fattest cheeks and head of thick dark hair. She was my first sister and I thought she was perfect.

Meeting Laura for the first time.

So, as I was suffering through all sorts of pre-pubescent hell, my mom did what every mother of a new baby girl does - she went shopping. Oh boy, did she go shopping.

Well, after weeks of the "Guess jean debate" and discussing the ridiculous price of a pair of jeans, imagine my shock, when among the spoils of one of my mom's earliest shopping trips, I found a small white dress intended for Laura. It had a little white collar and had little red cherries embroidered along the waist. It was darling. It was tiny and dainty and it would only fit my sister for a matter of weeks. But the real shock came when I saw that the price tag read $58.00! Suddenly, I saw how it was now that I wasn't the only girl in the family and the guilt trip that ensued with my mom was powerful. Within a matter of days, I had my long coveted jeans. And though they did nothing to improve my social standing, I felt I had won an important battle. (Mom, I have long since forgiven you for this event.)

Well, all that to say, that today is my sister Laura's birthday - and I am glad to say that I have overcome those early days of sibling rivalry and envy. I have grown to accept the fact that Laura is and will always be more spoiled than I am, and that she is way more fashionable than I will ever be, but I am okay with that.

Laura is gorgeous and fun and smart and funny. She is always up for an adventure and she is always planning trips for my parents to take the whole family on. (Although, so far, she and my sister Emily are the only ones who have actually gone on any of those trips.) She is an amazing aunt to my kids. She entertains them for hours and they love her. She and Abby are kindred spirits as there is nothing too girly for either of them. Laura loves soaking her feet and has taught my children the joy of doing the same. She is my go-to babysitter and my stand-by helper when I need it most. I didn't get a sister until I was almost thirteen years old, but I am so grateful I got Laura. She is a sweet sister and a good friend. I couldn't ask for more.


Happy Birthday Laura!
Now, I wonder if I could still fit into those jeans? (Not really.)

Monday, September 29, 2008

Letter of Intent

Last week, as Andrew and I were discussing BYU's impressive back-to-back shut out wins, I enthusiastically asked Isaac if he wanted to play football for BYU when he got older.

Isaac's resigned and less-than-enthusiastic response: "Sure Mom, I'll play. Just sign me up for wherever."

Okay. GO COUGS!

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Henry's Excellent Bedtime Adventure(s)

Our Henry is the funniest kid. We never know what to expect from him. I would love, just once, to get inside his head and figure out what makes this boy tick. I would love to be able to comprehend where he gets his ideas. He is an amazing blend of mischievious and angelic, cunning and naive, and exasperating and hilarious. When he's awake, he's a force to reckoned with (just last week he painted his legs with White-out) but after he's gone to bed he still has some pretty funny ideas. We never know what we're going to get when we go in and check on him after he's fallen asleep.

One night this summer, I found him sound asleep on his bed wearing a Patagonia fleece and his green flip-flops. It was that same night at 2:00am, that he came and woke me up to let me know that he had lost one of those flip-flops. No matter what I said or what kind of logic I used, he would not go back to sleep until the shoe had been found and was back on his foot.

Another night, I found him asleep wearing six (yes, six) shirts. He had his pajama top, a polo shirt, a soccer jersey, a t-shirt, and long-sleeved t-shirt and finally and t-shirt that was so small, he couldn't pull over his head, so he'd fallen asleep with his face poking out the neck hole.

A couple of nights ago, Andrew went in and found Henry asleep with a balloon tied to his binky. Henry had the binky held firmly in his mouth as the balloon floated a few feet overhead. And while I'm talking about binkies, let me just say that yes, I am embarrassed and ashamed that my three-year-old still has a binky - but when we have tried to get rid of it, he ends up just stealing Peter's during the course of the night. So, I guess he gets to hold on to it for awhile.
For the past two nights, I have awakened to find Henry asleep on the floor of my room right next to my bed. At some point during the night unbeknownst to me, he had moved his blanket, pillow, stuffed animal, backpack and binky into my room and had put himself to bed in there.

Anyway, we never know what to expect from Henry. We have found him in bed with his lamp lying next to him (fortunately turned off and unplugged.) We have found him in bed with his suffed animals on his bed all wearing his underpants. We have found him in bed with Peter sometimes asleep and sometimes covered in diaper rash cream. And we have found him curled up asleep on his floor.


The amazing thing is, no matter how much mischief he was into before he fell asleep, when I go in his room and see him lying there asleep amid the spoils of his adventures, my heart melts and a smile spreads across my face. It is in those moments that my heart is so full of gratitude for this funny little boy that it feels like my heart may burst.

So, here's to my three-year-old boy. I will love him and treasure him and enjoy the days that his adventures are small and relatively sweet and kept within the confines of his bedroom after dark.

Monday, September 22, 2008

Liza & Brady's Wedding

A few weeks ago, Andrew's sister Elizabeth got married. (Yes, for the past ten years she and I have shared a name, but that wasn't the only reason I was thrilled when she got married.) Elizabeth is a lovely person - she is beautiful and artistic beyond belief. She is smart and compassionate and fun and athletic and driven. We all knew it would take someone pretty outstanding to catch her heart.



Well, almost a year ago, Brady came along and from the beginning, I think most of us knew that he was the one. The thing I love about Brady and Liza together, is the influence they have on each other. Like all great couples, they bring out the best in each other and others feel comfortable just being around them. Brady is handsome and smart and thoughtful and generous. He is the perfect compliment to all the great things that Elizabeth is. And even with all the wonderful qualities Elizabeth has on her own, with Brady, they are even better.


The reception (or I should say "PARTY", to avoid any negative connotations) was at Andrew's parent's house up Little Cottonwood Canyon. Countless hours were spent this summer getting the house and yard ready for such a great event. To say all the hard work paid off would be a gross understatement. It was a beautiful night. Family we haven't seen in ages was in town for the wedding and it was great being able to reconnect with them. Elizabeth looked stunning. Brady was beaming. And the entire day was perfect and magical. What a brilliant way to start off what guarantees to be a long and happy marriage.


We wish Brady and Elizabeth the best! We love you guys.





Liza dancing with the nieces and nephew.

Friday, September 12, 2008

Happy Birthday Baby Emmy!!

Eighteen years ago, I was a pretty typical freshman just starting BYU. I was living in the dorms, taking American Heritage and getting used to being a tiny fish in a huge pond. What made me somewhat atypical (even at BYU) was that my cute mom, (bless her heart), was nine-plus months pregnant, ready to give birth to her eigth child.


Because I was so mature for my age (not really), and probably because I was old enough to be this baby's mother, my mom invited me to come to the hospital and witness the birth of my youngest sibling. My mom was due on September 1st, my dad's 48th birthday - so every morning, I would call home from BYU and ask my mom if she thought today would be the day. For some reason, my mom's doctor kept her waiting around until September 12th, when he finally agreed to induce her. (Twelve days overdue with your eigth baby - are you kidding me!?)

Well, eighteen years ago today, I drove from BYU up to Cottonwood Hospital to witness the birth of my sister, Emily. It was an amazing experience. As soon as she was born and they had cut the cord, the doctor handed her right to me. I was the first to inspect her fingers and toes and her little nose and swollen eyes. She was perfect and I was smitten.

East High's Biggest (smallest) Fan

From the time she was a baby, she has been a total sports fan. When she was tiny, she would put on baseball hats to watch baseball games and football helmets to watch football games. (With five older brothers there was always plenty of sports paraphanalia lying around.) She never went to one of our brother's football games without wearing a jersey and she's always been a total athlete herself - golf, tennis, soccer, skiing and basketball - she can do it all, and she can do it really well.

Emily & Abby June 2001

Emily is such a fun aunt to my kids. When Abby was born she came back to Washington with my mom so she could be the first to meet her niece. All my kids love her, and she is so cute with them. She is also a great example to my kids. She works hard in school. She has so many good friends and she really strives to make good choices. I am so grateful for that example.

We all love Emily. She is a wonderful sister and despite our age difference, she is a dear friend.

HAPPY 18th BIRTHDAY DEAR EMILY! WE LOVE YOU!

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Remembering 9/11


This morning we woke up and noticed that the local scout troop had put an American flag in our yard to commemorate September 11th. As the kids asked us question about the events of that day, it brought back a flood of memories from that tragic day seven years ago.

At the time, Andrew and I were living in Arlington, Virginia and Abby was only three months old. The morning of September 11th, was a beautiful day: the sky was blue, the air had a touch of fall, it seemed flawless. I was in our little apartment with Abby less than two miles away from the Pentagon, when I heard a plane fly overhead. I remember thinking, that the plane sounded like it flying really low, but didn't think too much about it. A few seconds later, I heard and FELT a big boom but couldn't figure out where it had been coming from. I went in our bedroom to see if something had fallen off our shelf but nothing seemed out of place.

Within minutes of hearing that loud noise, my friend Steph called me and asked if I had the TV on. I didn't, so she gave me a quick run-down of the mornings events. I immediately turned on the TV and watched in absolute shock as they descibed the horrific events of the morning. I will never forget watching as the World Trade Center Towers collapsed as Katie Couric and Matt Lauer were describing the morning's events. At first, Katie and Matt were oblivious to the crumbling towers behind them, and I remember screaming at the TV, "The towers are falling! The towers are falling!" I remember sitting there watching in disbelief as the stories and scenes unfolded.

Andrew was in his third year of medical school and was doing his Pediatric rotation at Arlington Hospital. He was on-call that day, which meant I wouldn't see him until the afternoon of the next day. My family was in Salt Lake and I felt very alone in dealing with this event. I remember going outside, and the sky was the most gorgeous blue and there was that glorious feeling of fall in the air. It all seemed so ironic - that such a tragedy could occur on such an amazing day. It was crazy.

I ended up going to Steph's house and for the next several hours, she and I sat there with our babies, our eyes glued to the TV. Meanwhile, at Arlington Hospital where Andrew was, the entire hospital prepared for the worst. All the medical staff in the hospital prepared themselves to care for the wounded masses who might be brought from the Pentagon. As Andrew describes it, it was on that day, seeing those doctors ready for anything that might come through the door, that he decided he wanted to be an ER doctor.

Later that evening, after spending the day on Steph's couch, I went home to our little apartment. I hated that Andrew wasn't there - and wouldn't be home until the next day. As I got ready to go to bed, I put Abby in bed next to me. As I cuddled and loved and snuggled my sweet girl, I wondered what kind of world she had just been born into. There wasn't much I could do except cry a little and hold her a little tighter and pray a little harder. That night, it was enough.


The Sunday after 9/11 we took Abby to see the Pentagon firsthand.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Jumpin' Jack Flash

Peter has more energy than anyone I have ever seen. Instead of sleeping, he jumps. Thank goodness he is a good napper, but when we put him down to bed at night he pops up to his favorite spot in his crib and becomes a human piston. When he's tired, he still jumps but just jumps grumpily. It makes it pretty hard to put Henry to sleep in the bed across the room when you've got a shrieking, laughing, panting whack-a-mole a few feet away.

Lately I have gone in later to find him finally asleep, having pulled off his pajama bottoms and thrown them accross the room. Last night I caught the act on tape. I was trying to just capture his jumping so we could work on his technique for Olympic Trampolining, when I witnessed his new trick. Notice his hands never leave the handles of his pogo-stick. Flawless execution.

.... And then of course the exhilerating feeling of freedom.

Monday, September 8, 2008

Back to School

After an amazing summer - a really fun, relaxing, Olympic-filled summer - I wasn't sure I was ready to send the kids to school. But, now a few weeks into it, I realize that as much as I love the lazy pace of summer, the staying up late and the sleeping-in, the slow mornings and the long afternoons, I also really love being back on a schedule.

I love being forced out of bed (at the unearthly hour of 7:30 am) and getting kids out the door and my day started by 9:00. I love having earlier dinners and getting kids tucked in by 8:00-ish and I love the routine that comes with kids being back in school.

And, so I present, our back to school report:
Abby started second grade and loves it. She has discovered the Magic Treehouse series this year and reads two of those books every night. She can't get enough of them! She is back to habla-ing Espanol half her day and seems to be understanding everything she hears. We are looking forward to a great year.
Isaac started Kindergarten this year. He started school a week after Abby - and that week was the longest of his life. When the first day of school finally arrived, there was a little apprehension, but he has embraced life as a Kindergartener and loves going to school everyday. I think his favorite thing is that he is able to walk home with Abby and her friends at the end of the day.


Henry started preschool this year and loves it. I was getting a little nervous about him when, by the second week of August, he still wasn't toilet-trained. Luckily he rallied and got it figured out and was able to start preschool on time.

As for me, I am enjoying having the kids in school and I am relishing my afternoons when Abby and Isaac are in school and Henry and Peter are asleep and I have my afternoons to myself. I should be doing something really productive, but so far, I have been pretty lazy. Being able to curl up on the couch and read a good book or a magazine, is just too tempting to pass up. Luckily, after a couple of blissful hours, school is over and the kids come home to jolt me out of my fantasy life and back to reality - which isn't a bad place to be either.

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Just Another Game: Its a small world after all.

Now that the Olympics are over I can start getting some sleep. The other night Elizabeth (the best late night viewing/cheering partner in the world) and I got hooked on the cold war revisited when the US/Russia men's volleyball game went down to the wire. We forgot briefly about sleeping kids as we erupted in cheers with the final match point.

Saturday night we were exhausted and should have gone to bed but we started the Gold Medal basketball game. I assured Elizabeth that if it turned into a blow out we could just go to sleep and watch the highlights later.

The blow out never came. As we watched what was supposed to be another easy 39 point win against Spain I despised Pau Gasol of the Lakers and actually found myself for the first time in my life cheering for his Laker teammate, Kobe Bryant. In some ways I was glad it was a close game because it was fun to see a sense of urgency and almost desperation on the faces of these perennial all-stars. How was Spain's 17 year old point guard not star struck?

The game stayed close the whole time. Just as the US was starting to go on an expected run, a young Spaniard dunked emphatically over Dwight Howard, this year's slam dunk contest winner, and instantly guaranteed himself an NBA contract by tomorrow.

Kobe then drained a long three and was fouled for a four-point play. He put his finger to his lips in a gesture as if to SSHHH the raucus crowd. It was the first time I have ever wanted Kobe to get cocky. (I will regret those feelings next time the Jazz play the Lakers.)

The US was up by 4 points with only 3 minutes left in the game... My cell phone rang...

Who's calling at this inappropriate hour when we should all be asleep?

"It's probably Paul," Elizabeth said.

"Are you watching this game live?" Paul asked as I answered the phone. The emphasis was on the word live, he knew I'd be watching. "It's way to close!" We both agreed. "Come on Coach K, Please don't let them just start shooting three-pointers. Play some Defense. Then take it inside." We've echoed this sentiment countless times late in games with Coach Mike Krzyzewski but he has always been coaching Duke.


This time its Coach K and the USA Olympic "Redeem Team". There is a moment of doubt, will they redeem?

And this time its not Duke taking on North Carolina on a Saturday afternoon in Cameron Indoor Stadium on ESPN (often with Paul giving me play by play over the phone when I didn't have cable or if I was not by a TV.)

This time its 2 AM Sunday morning for me. Paul is in Beijing, China on his cell phone sitting court side at the 2008 Olympics accompanying Jaque Rogge, President of the IOC, giving me commentary as I watch it a full world away.

The next drive is by Dwayne Wade for a decisive dunk, resulting in him slipping and falling on the wet floor in the key. Paul and I both react simultaneously from our respective continents. I guess it really was live.

I already knew he'd been having yet another opportunity of a lifetime at his fourth consecutive Olympic Games--escorting Rogge to state dinners seeing Bush and Putin, riding in the limo caravan, with red-carpet rolled out (isn't all carpet red in China, big deal), visiting every venue including a trip to Hong Kong for horseback riding, then watching the Gold Medal woman's soccer game against Brazil sitting 2 rows behind spectators Kobe and Pele (I don't know Pele's last name.)

We didn't talk about any of that though. We were just watching the game. In the last 8 years we've probably watched 3-4 games together on the same TV, dozens have been watched together this way. The fact that it was even possible for this one, seems like it should be shocking and miraculous. But in the end it was just another game. Kind of hard to watch at times, but great result. They pulled it off. Talk to you later, thanks for calling.

Paul had to leave quickly with his man Rogge, back home we stayed up to watch the Medals Ceremony. The world's problems weren't solved but at least something felt right. Good night.


By the way, a Deseret News Article about Paul at the Olympics:

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

The Race

Last night Andrew and I were discussing the 100-meter race won by Usain Bolt, with a dizzying time of 9.69 seconds. I explained to Andrew that, obviously, I knew that he had an amazing time and that this guy is now considered "the World's Fastest Man" but I had no real context for how fast his time was. I had no earthly idea how long it would take Andrew or me to run 100 meters, and therefore couldn't fully appreciate how fast Bolt ran his race.

I asked Andrew how fast he thought he could run 100-meters and he said he thought he could do it in 14 seconds. I burst out laughing. "You seriously think you are only four seconds slower than the fastest man in the world?" I asked. Andrew assured me he could do it.

So this morning, we got dressed and took all the kids to Olympus High School, so Andrew could show me his skills. It was so funny. On the way up there, Abby and Isaac kept asking where we were going. "We're going to watch Dad race", we explained - as if that should make complete sense in the minds of our children.

At one point, Isaac asked, "Dad, are you fast?"

"No," Andrew answered, "I'm old."

Isaac responded with, "You're not old, Dad. You're smart."

"And handsome," Abby added.

When we got to the track, Andrew went to one end by himself, and the kids and I went to the other end. Isaac, totally confused at this point, asked, "Is anyone coming to race with Dad?"

I raised my hand, and yelled "On your mark, get set, GO!" and Andrew took off running with the kids cheering him on. With no warm-up or training or even ever running in the past year, Andrew crossed the finish-line with a time of 14.51. Not a world record - but pretty awesome. And pretty awesome that he was willing to actually go to a track and show us what he could do. Now he can sleep knowing that if nothing else, he is the fastest man in our family.

Saturday, August 16, 2008

I Have A Dream...

I hate to belabor the point, but I really love the Olympics.

When I was in sixth grade, the theme of the National Reflections Contest was: "I Have a Dream..." That year, I entered the competition with a picture I had drawn. It was of me standing on the blocks at the 1992 Olympics winning a gold medal in swimming. At the time, I was a decent swimmer for our local swim team, and as an eleven year old girl, I really believed that if I worked at it, I could someday represent our country in the Olympics. My Olympic dreams were pretty much maxed out with that Reflections Contest when the picture I'd drawn, received an Honorable Mention at the district level.

Meanwhile, that same year, across town, my future husband's second-grade brother, Paul, was also entering the Reflections Contest with a picture he'd done of himself skiing in the Olympics. Although I am fairly certain his entry did not receive an Honorable Mention at the district level, he is at this moment working as the Assistant to the President of the IOC in Beijing, so he went a little further with his Olympic dream than I did with mine.

In any case, this week as we have watched the Olympics, I find my Olympic dream being re-ignited. Even with Dara Torres swimming at age 41, I have given up on myself ever swimming in the Olympics - I realize it's just not going to happen. However, since hearing that Michael Phelps coach knew he was something special at age 11, I have been looking at my children differently - studying them and wondering if one of them could have what it takes to compete in the Olympics. Could Abby do a back handspring on a balance beam - or stick the landing after a difficult vault? Does Isaac have the physique of the next great swimmer? Does Henry have the discipline to be a track star? Peter's helmet has a "US Ski Team" sticker. Could that someday be a reality? These are the thoughts that have been keeping me awake for the past few nights and I realize that my Olympic dream isn't over, the focus has just shifted.

Ready for the balance beam?

Last night while we were at a swim party, I looked over and saw Isaac warming up to get in the pool. He stretched his arms behind his back and then bent over and swung them back and forth three times - just like Michael Phelps. Afterwards, he jumped in the pool with his goggles on and started swimming butterfly. He's never learned to swim butterfly before, (he can barely do the front crawl) but after watching swimming this past week, he knew what to do - and believed in himself enough to give it a try. I stood on the edge of the pool watching with as much pride as Michael Phelps mom has watching her son race.

The next great American swimmer?

I don't really think my children will someday be great Olympic athletes. I doubt that I personally have the discipline it would require to even try to help them reach that goal. But I do love that the Olympics inspire each of us - my brother-in-law, my children and me - to dream of what may be possible.

I'm not sure swimming is his sport.

Future Olympic downhill skier?