Saturday, March 31, 2012
I have always wondered why the victim or the one wronged is judged for sharing their pain and story!? Why isn't the one who did the wrong to begin with the one judged? I don't want anyone judged but really, the victim who is just trying to deal and heal!? Come on people, feel empathy for the one wronged and disappointment for the one who wronged...but always Love everyone!!!
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
Saturday, February 11, 2012
If you would like to still follow me and my wonderful kids, we have a new blog. It is http://angiannhardy.blogspot.com/. Love you all!!!!
Sunday, October 16, 2011
A New Adventure
This week Jon asked for a Divorce. I have loved and supported him always and will always love and support him. I love him very much and wish him what I have always wished him, to really have, experience and cherish real relationships with Heavenly Father, Jesus Christ, family, friends and himself. I pray he can find his way and will find love and acceptance where ever life leads him. He is a great man and a wonderful father and I hope that one day he will truly know that of himself. I wish that he believed what I see in him and held that close to his heart.
I am finding that to really love someone, sometimes you have to love them from a far. I hope he will always feel and know my love for him and know that it will be forever.
I am finding that to really love someone, sometimes you have to love them from a far. I hope he will always feel and know my love for him and know that it will be forever.
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
A white blank page and a swelling rage
You did not think when you sent me to the brink
You desired my attention but denied my affections
So tell me now, where was my fault
In loving you with my whole heart
Lead me to the truth and I
Will follow you with my whole life
-Mumford and Sons-
How many times have we all felt this about someone who is so very important to our soul!!!!!
If only we all could be truthful with ourselves and everyone else, how wonderful it would be!
Friday, February 25, 2011
"Sometimes, we prefer to stay angry. It helps us feel less vulnerable and more powerful. It's like a protective shield. If we're angry, we won't feel hurt or scared, at least not noticeably so." a quote from 'Codependent No More' by Melody Beattie
Why do we hide behind our anger, when all we really want is to heal our hearts and be close to those we love?
Why do we hide behind our anger, when all we really want is to heal our hearts and be close to those we love?
Monday, January 31, 2011
These are some of the things I believe to be true!
Love, Forgiveness, Generosity, Grace, Integrity, Compassion, Charity, Communicating with love, Honesty, Always being your word, are the keys to a loving, joyful and safe relationship!
Being perfect is impossible, that is why we should all embrace our imperfections in ourselves and others, it is what makes us special and unique! We are not our mistakes, but what we learn from them, helps make us who we are!
Forgiveness, for myself and others will create opportunities to grow closer from our mistakes!!!!
I believe the bonds we create and nourish in our relationships are really the only important things we have here on earth. I hope to do what I need to do, for those that I love, to strengthen them.
The truth shall set you free and those that truly love you, will love you enough to tell you the truth!
Reality and it's hard truths is so much better than denial and ignorance, because being able to look in the mirror and see reality and love our self and others in spite of it, is priceless!!!!
Learning the love language of those that we love and learning to speak it, shows them how much we love them and creates more opportunities to communicate with love and joy. Being patient with those who don't speak your love language is hard but necessary.
Happiness is only truly possible, when we love and accept ourselves and others, for who we really are, not who we pretend to be.
Love, Forgiveness, Generosity, Grace, Integrity, Compassion, Charity, Communicating with love, Honesty, Always being your word, are the keys to a loving, joyful and safe relationship!
Being perfect is impossible, that is why we should all embrace our imperfections in ourselves and others, it is what makes us special and unique! We are not our mistakes, but what we learn from them, helps make us who we are!
Forgiveness, for myself and others will create opportunities to grow closer from our mistakes!!!!
I believe the bonds we create and nourish in our relationships are really the only important things we have here on earth. I hope to do what I need to do, for those that I love, to strengthen them.
The truth shall set you free and those that truly love you, will love you enough to tell you the truth!
Reality and it's hard truths is so much better than denial and ignorance, because being able to look in the mirror and see reality and love our self and others in spite of it, is priceless!!!!
Learning the love language of those that we love and learning to speak it, shows them how much we love them and creates more opportunities to communicate with love and joy. Being patient with those who don't speak your love language is hard but necessary.
Happiness is only truly possible, when we love and accept ourselves and others, for who we really are, not who we pretend to be.
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