Healthy & Happy, Hardy's

Monday my work out was good, yesterday, not so good but today is going to be great!!!!!

Being a single mom is hard but so worth me and the kids being happy. I know we have some bumps to work out and a schedule to get down but we are all strong and will get it all down very soon. Jon has been very kind lately and very generous in many ways, makes me wonder where this man was when we were married!!!! (He was very good at many things. I don't want it to seem that he wasn't but those who know him, will understand when I say, he was never very open)

I am making new friends and enjoying their company. I really hope to find good quality friends to add to my other good quality friends! I love you all sooo very much and appreciate all you who have stuck by me in this really difficult time. You truly find out who is really your friend or not when things go yucky!!! Thanks to those who stayed my friend!!!

The Divorce is almost final! We are filing this week and going to the mandatory parenting class on Monday and after that I am going to push for a rush! I really do not want to be attached to Jon in any way! I will have to find a way to co-parent with him, which might be difficult since we have very different parenting styles. Of course I think mine is way better!! LOL!!! I told the kids that we are going to start new habits and they are all revolving around being healthy and strong. I am going to wake them up at 5:30 am every morning to work out and then get ready for the day during the week and on the weekends, I will let them sleep until 9:00am, then our workout and clean house will begin. I will have set chores for them for the week and will need them to help out, taking care of the dogs and house, so that we can spend quality time together when I am home. I know that it will be hard at first but once we are consistent it will get easier. I love my kids more than anything and want them to be healthy and strong, as do I. We will do it! There is no other option for me or them because I said soooo!! LOL