6th Birthday 13th Birthday
Along with the Christmas Festivities in December, we celebrated Spencer’s 13th Birthday! At the last minute we decided to have his party on the actual day so Spencer called/texted his friends two nights before to invite them. After lunch at FIVE GUYS we went in to the mall where I divided the boys into teams and played a mini AMAZING RACE. I had made up the clues that morning and it turned out fantastic. Such a blast! I had so much fun watching the boys try to figure out their clues, compete with each other, and even lie to me and my friend whose son was at the party and came along to help me. We laughed ourselves silly at the things the boys would do to figure out their clues. Spencer is such a fun kid and his friends are all the same!
On a more serious note , I can’t believe that I have a teenager. Seriously, am I old enough? I remember the day I turned 13 and it doesn’t seem like it was that long ago! I’m so blessed to have Spencer as my son. Just thinking about him makes me smile and there are so many reasons that I love him. For his birthday I’ll list a few.
1. Spencer is my oldest child. Being the first he is the child that took me from “sister”, “daughter”, “wife”, and friend” to all of those things PLUS “mother”.
2. He is soooo much fun and always has been. Even as a little guy he was always up for a fun time. The older he gets the more game he is to just have fun!
4. He takes such good care of all of his siblings. They are lucky to have him as a big brother. And he helps me out with Avery a ton!
5. He is very thoughtful with me. If I’m not feeling well or if I seem to be having a tough day he’ll text me to check on me or come find me as soon as he gets home to see how I’m doing.
6. He LOVES to have his back tickled by his Nana and Gramma. He’s loved it since he was a baby and I LOVE that he still likes it.
7. He’s not scared to talk to anyone. If we need directions he’ll walk right up to someone, look them in the eye and ask them. At his birthday party/amazing race one of the clues was to find a salvation army volunteer who had the donation box and was ringing the bell. He and his team went straight to a mall security guard and asked where one was in the mall. He wasn’t nervous or afraid, just walked right up to him and asked.
8. He is best friends with his little sister, who is now 4 plus inches taller than him. Even though it bothers him that she is taller than he is, he takes it in stride and even introduces himself to her friends’ parents as “Annie’s little big brother”. (You’ll grow Spence, we promise you will….someday!)
9. He gives me back massages and will rub my feet whenever I ask.
10. He still likes to snuggle up to me on the couch when we are watching TV.
11. He works his tail OFF in school and has straight A’s this year. So proud of him and how hard he works!
12. Has taken our move to California really well and even when things were hard for him, he was always willing to face it instead of have a pity party about it. He’s such a HUGE example to me of just dealing with life as it comes!
13. He still kisses me goodbye when he goes to school and he doesn’t care if his friends are there or not.
I could go on with another 13 things I love about Spence but will stop there. I’m so so blessed to be his Mom! I love you Spencer! Happy 13th Birthday!