Monday, March 26, 2012

The Difference

I'm going to be completely honest here. 

Before Christmas Break, I was swamped and exhausted. My house took a back seat to our busy life, I had very little Christmas shopping completed, and still needed to put up most of our decorations. Needless to say, I was very much looking forward to having over 2 weeks off of work to get things done.

My plan was simple. I will clean up, clean out, Christmas shop, and visit family. I wanted to spend the first part of my Christmas Break cleaning out the kids toys and all of the closets to make room for the overwhelming amount of gifts I knew they were going to receive {not from us but from our family}. After I had my Hannah Home bags dropped off I wanted to deep clean the entire house so it was all nice and ready for Christmas morning. In between this I was going to get some Christmas shopping done.

I knew the Littles would be excited to be home with Momma for such a long stretch of time and I imagined our lazy mornings, productive afternoons, and cozy nights by the fire. The dream did not become reality. Let me back up a little. When AR was younger she was so destructive. She could destroy a room in a blink of an eye. As she has gotten older she has gotten better but she still loves to pull out her babies and everything that goes with them into the living room to play house. She will completely empty her dress up basket in search of that one princess shoe and leave a trail of bangles and plastic earrings she's worn throughout the day. Thankfully, she is finally getting to a point where she can clean up after herself when told forced to do so. Westin, on the other hand, is far worse than AR ever thought about being. Westin can destroy the entire house in a blink of an eye. He loves to empty everything and bounces from room to room doing so. He pulls all of his cars, trucks, and tractors out of his toy box to make a choo choo that stretches across his bedroom floor. He will make a b-line for the bathroom to grab the plunger and toilet bowl cleaner brush to use as a stick horse. While galloping around the house, he picks up loose coins, bobby pins, and any other tiny item he can find to stick in his mouth. Of course, my favorite part is when he stands at my feet and smiles as he bites my fingers with his tiny little teeth, trying to keep me from prying whatever he has out of his strong, little mouth. Sounds cute doesn't it?

Well over Christmas Break this was not cute. I did not laugh and felt no need to be reminded of these moments. I was completely irritated, impatient, and {lets be honest here} that psycho mom. I was immediately reminded of why I was not a stay at home.

I promise we made the holidays fabulous -- but the day to day over the break was torture.

So with Spring Break coming I decided to approach my days at home differently. Of course I had a plan but my plan didn't revolve around what I needed to do. My plan revolved around what the kids would enjoy doing. Thankfully, the weather was gorgeous and although I didn't get my house or the yard like I imagined I would, the break was fabulous. We spent 70% of our times playing outdoors. We got boo boos, ant bites, and skipped a couple naps and I didn't just survive it -- I enjoyed every minute of it.

One thing I need to remember as a working mom is to take advantage of the moments I actually get to spend with my Littles. On a daily basis they spend more time away from me than they do with me. Therefore, the little bit of time I do get with them needs to be for them and about them. They need my attention..... my interest..... my time. These moments create the greatest memories. It's hard to find time to mark everything off the To-Do list at this point in my life, however, my babies won't be babies for long. They won't beg for my attention, destroy my living room, and smear cheesy finger prints on my couch. What I love most about my home is who I share it with so at this point in my life I have to put the To Do list to the side and let my little family take precedence.

Sunday, March 25, 2012

Project 365: Week 12

Week 12 = Spring Break
I will do a more detailed Spring Break recap as well a post on how Spring Break went for a "not meant to be" stay at home mommy.

Until then, enjoy a quick recap of week 12. It was a week full of outdoor activities, boo boos, and family time. We were even able to fit in a mini getaway at the end of it all!

Day 78: Sunday, March 18th
We had a baby shower to attend for a sweet friend and one of AR's favorite people. Of course, I waited until the last minutes to pick up my gift so I went ahead a dressed the Littles and took them with me to the closest baby store {which isn't very close} in hopes that they would nap early. Thankfully they did!

Day 79: Monday, March 19th
Monday wasn't a great way to start off Spring Break. A kidney infection hit me hard Sunday night which put me in the doctor's office first thing Monday morning. After an xray, a shot in the booty, and a round of antibiotics they sent me on my way. Since I wasn't feeling well, the kids and I lounged around the house doing very little and recovering from our weekend. I gave them an early bath and planned on putting them to bed a little earlier. Westin decided to dart back into the bathroom after I dressed him and slid on the soaking wet floor, landing hard on his hip and smacking his face into the toilet. 

Day 80: Tuesday, March 20th
We met Memaw for lunch and a little shopping to celebrate her birthday!
Happy Birthday, Memaw!

Day 81: Wednesday, March 21st
I decided to blow up the inflatable slide and invite our cousins over for a Fun Day and boy was it fun!!


Day 82: Thursday, March 22nd
After running a few morning errands the kids and I came home to pack for our weekend trip. However, since I knew bad weather was moving in I let them let out some energy outside before we were stuck in the house for the afternoon. AR fell and scratch her knee and elbow on the concrete. You would have thought she broke every bone in her body by the way she reacted. After I got her cleaned up and bandaged I plopped her on the couch in front of the tv and there she laid until bedtime. She refused to walk, move, or let me take her picture. Can we say over dramatic?

Day 83: Friday, March 23rd
We took a road trip to MiMi and Poppa's. After we got settled in and our bellies full, MiMi surprised AR with new Toms.

Day 84: Friday, March 24th
We spent the entire day out and about with MiMi and Poppa. These 2 Littles sure do love their Poppa...and MiMi too!

I'm linking up with Laura at Between the Lines.

Friday, March 23, 2012

The Wedding

Weekend before last was the fabulous wedding of my brother and SIL.

The festivities began with Amber's bridesmaid luncheon at Bella Cucina at the Villiage at Lee Branch in Birmingham. 




 Afterwards- a spray tan {Best Decision Ever} 
Maggie waiting patiently...
Rehearsal Dinner
The rehearsal dinner was at the Eagle Point Golf Course. Stephen and Amber were blessed to have so many friends and family in from out of town and got to spend an extra night visiting with them. 



They opened the mic for speeches. My little {8 years old} brother who was also the Best Man had prepared a speech that put the entire room in tears. It was so well written and spoken from the heart.
Wedding Day: March 10, 2012
Stephen and Amber's ceremony and reception were in the church where they met and currently attend. 
MiMi entertaining AR before the wedding
Afterwards, they had a "family dinner" at the Matt Jones Art Gallery in downtown Birmingham where they had their first dance, a fabulous catered dinner, and an open dance floor.
Father/Daughter and Mother/Son Dance

Of course, the pictures don't do it justice. The wedding was amazingly gorgeous!

I am so happy for Stephen and Amber. They have an absolutely amazing relationship that beams with love and most importantly, glorifies God.

Sunday, March 18, 2012

Project 365: Week 10 and 11

I am so behind but this week I plan on getting caught up. It's Spring Break week and I am determined to get some things done! Week 10 was one of those weeks where I didn't load the dishwasher until I realized every sippy cup we own was dirty, I didn't wash a single load of laundry, I got so behind on grading papers, and I only put my Littles to bed twice in 7 days. Yes..it was that kind of week. Not because I'm lazy but because I was so busy. It definitely won the busiest week of the year so far. Week 11 we spent the entire week catching up and recovering.

So here we are, week 10 and 11 of 2012.

Day 64: Sunday, March 4th
 Before bedtime, Daddy painted AR's nails...at her request.

Day 65: Monday, March 5th
Westin has decided that not only does he need his kankie {blankie} and cup with him when he goes to bed, he also needs a ball.

Day 66: Tuesday, March 6th
I was long past due for a highlight. Thankfully, my MIL does my hair so I was able to get it done after school at her house. When I got home, the kids and the hubby were all in bed and I realized I never took a picture. So, here is the best I could do. Self portraits...no thank you.

Day 67: Wednesday, March 7th
AR and I met Mimi, Poppa, and Memaw at Chic Fil A and then went on to Belk. Mommy was able to add a few new summer/spring items to the closet.

Day 68: Thursday, March 8th
We had Literacy Night at our school and our reading and math interventionist came up with this precious roller coaster for our picture booth. So fun!

Day 69: Friday, March 9th
I got to spend the day with the girls. Amber's Bridesmaid Lunchean was Friday morning and then we got to spend the rest of the day with Mags and Aunt Sarah before the rehearsal dinner!

Day 70: Saturday, March 10th
The big day. My brother's wedding day!


Day 71: Sunday, March 11th
Our entire family was exhausted from the wedding weekend and struggled getting going Sunday morning. Daddy finally pulled me outside to help detail my car. We enjoyed a beautiful afternoon outdoors and a fabulous sunset.

Day 72: Monday, March 12th
This is the kids favorite spot before bedtime.

Day 73: Tuesday, March 13th
Heath and I completed our March Madness bracket. I have to mention that I never watch basketball and I know nothing about it. However, I am whooping Heath's booty this year!

Day 74: Wednesday, March 14th
Crazy/Lovin it!!

Day 75: Thursday, March 15th
AR got her dance recital costumes so we had a fashion show after her bath! They are a little wrinkled but we got the idea. Can you say that I have one excited "ballerina princess."

Day 76: Friday, March 16th
AR had her first tball practice. We have several friends on her t-ball team so the season should be super fun! {Note: I didn't actually take this picture. I was too busy keeping Westin off the field. Thanks, Krystal}

Day 77: Saturday March 17th
Happy St Patrick's Day.
Nana taught AR how to find 4 leaf clovers and after searching for a few minutes, she found one..ALL BY HERSELF..as she says.

Linking up with Laura!