so...lately, ben david has been coming up with these "big boy" things he can do, all on his own. such as...fastening his own bike helmet (one feat that, i'm afraid, springboarded from the day i accidentally pinched him while trying to fasten the clip), riding a big boy bike, cleaning up after himself, etc.
each time he does one of these things, i'll say: "ben david! you are getting too big. i'm not going to let you get any older!!"
to which he will respond: "no mommy...PLEASE, PLEASE let me get older!!"
and i respond: "no...i want you to be my little boy forever!"
and he'll say..."no...i want to get bigger and bigger...just like my dad!!"
and finally...i say, "ok ben david..i guess i'll just have to let you get older."
and he just smiles:)
so..the other day, i was caught off guard as we were outside playing, just the two of us.
he said, "mommy, this is a special time..just you and me!!"
i said, "it sure is"
ben david: "mommy...i'm not going to let you get any older!"
me: "ok ben david...that sounds great to me!!"
ben david: "i'm going to keep you as my little girl forever and ever!"
wow...what do you say to that:) i'm not quite sure logistically how that would work, but i can say one thing for sure. i am so blessed to be this little boy's mother. these precious moments are ones i hope to remember for a long time...hence, the blog.
on a side note...i would really appreciate any help he can give me with the aging process! i'll take all the help i can get!:)