Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Christmas '08

Wayne and I were up late wrapping gifts and laying them under the tree.
Santa brought Grace and Caroline an art easel and I felt the need to make smocks for the girls. {thanks Christensen cousins for the groovy shades!} So, at 3am Wayne went to bed and I got out some fabric and the iron-on vinyl I bought, and set out making 2 smocks. 2 1/2 hours later I was finishing up the FIRST smock and Christina woke up...then Thomas. I was cracking up..."Go back to bed, I'm working on a surprise!" I was sharing this story with my older sister on the phone and she said, "That's so mom." I wouldn't be surprised. All I can say is that projects take a lot longer to finish when you're sleep deprived. I finished Grace's smock (I *heart* iron-on vinyl), and told Christina, Thomas, Wesley, and Grace...."I'm just going to lay down for a minute on the couch while we wait for daddy and Caroline to wake up." I was OUT like light, and woke up at 7am when the whole family emerged to open presents. The kids were so good to wait and let me get a little sleep. I'm sure they studied the gifts out a bit, but if so, it didn't matter.
We started with the stockings. Everyone got their mini box of cold cereal, & went in the kitchen for Christmas breakfast. Sorry, Ama, no strada here. Wayne always liked the cereal better, and I'm fine with not cooking Christmas morning.

A few highlights on the gift giving that took place:
Santa brought a "new" piano! I was thrilled when Christina ran to the garage and quickly found the bin with the piano music, brought it all upstairs and put it all in the piano bench. She sat down at the piano and was rusty for a little bit, but quickly picked up where she left off after a 4 year hiatus. She's good!
christmaso8-3The family gift exchange was a highlight for sure. Wayne found an unfinished box for Caroline and gave it to her along with some paint so they could work on that project together while he's on vacation. There's a little wooden "C" to go on the box too. Caroline loves to paint and she loved this gift. I made a little pendant necklace for Grace. One side has her baby photo and the other has a letter "g." Christina made Wesley a stuffed frog which Wesley quickly took to. Thomas made Christina a notebook for her to keep her voice lesson sheet music organized. I love the note he put inside..."I love the way you sing! Your voice is 'asume'! I love it! With love, Thomas." Grace made me a little pin cushion that actually sharpens the pins. Wayne helped her sew. Caroline's gift was brilliant. She painted a picture for Wayne of her and him walking together along the banks of a river. She even signed it. We were all impressed and the kids said they all want to paint for their secret pal next year...hmmm. We hung Caroline's masterpiece in our hallway next to our thankful heart. Finally Wesley gave Thomas glow in the dark stars to stick to the ceiling of their room....ok, not so homemade, but Thomas loved them and Wes doesn't get this whole thing yet.

More memorable gifts....I made Thomas a jedi robe out of brown fleece. The sleeves ended up being a good 6 inches too long, but he LOVED it.
The blankets were a huge hit. The fleece is so soft and cozy. The kids are snuggled in them as I type.
I found inexpensive journals at Borders for Christina, Thomas, & Grace and included a note on top that read, "This is a scripture journal. Each morning when you read your scriptures, record your favorite verse and what it means to you...this will warm your heart. Next, go enjoy a mug of hot cocoa which will warm your tummy." So far each of the kids have used their scripture journal and enjoyed at least 3 cups of cocoa. I'm hoping that the cocoa incentive will fade and they will find worth in personal scripture study {although, I'm willing to continue a simple incentive as long as their under our roof!}.

Mid-day, Wayne told the kids that Santa had left one more thing, and to their delight, there was a Wii wrapped and hidden behind the piano. It's been crazy fun, and will be nice active play during the cold winter. The mom in me is glad that our kids will be able to hold their own against their friends and cousins who have Wii's too. Wii notables: Thomas bowled a 218! Caroline has a hilarious "spare" bowling dance. Grace strikes a modeling pose after she bowls. Christina likes creating Wii Mii's {we've got Chewbacca, Fat Albert, Ama, Dude, & Junie B. Jones}. Wayne and I have had a few good tennis matches that have required a dose of Advil.

CHRISTMAS DINNER: I think we're on to something this year. When I was deciding on a menu, I wanted to make this dinner a family affair, so I asked the kids what they wanted more than anything for Christmas dinner. The result? Ham, mashed potatoes & gravy, and corn. Done. Wayne made some of his insanely good artisan bread, but we forgot it, and munched on it later. The kicker was that whatever the kids chose to include in our Christmas dinner, they helped prepare. Wayne put the ham in the oven {from Trader Joe's...it was delish!}, and then helped Christina with the mashed potatoes, and helped Thomas make a rue followed by gravy. It was good! I was so impressed with our kids' cooking. Wayne said the best part was when they could see the food turning into the end product, like when Thomas was whisking the gravy, and all of a sudden it thickened and darkened, and he gasped, "Hey, it's looking like gravy!" Christina did the same with the mashed potatoes. It was nice having the help in the kitchen while I set the table with Grace and Caroline. I love
that Wayne is talented in the kitchen. My tummy loves it too.

Christmas cramming means there will be Christmas napping.....or at least an attempt. I have to say, as much as I wanted some zzzzz's, I'll take this kind of nap ANY day. The perfect picture of contentment would be if Wayne were in this photo too, but this is the next best thing.

xo!
love forever,
mom
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Christmas Eve at home

Our Christmas Eve family time was short and sweet. At about 7pm all of our kids were exhausted and asked to go to bed! Wayne and I were stunned, bewildered, and a tad delighted.  Before the kids went to bed a few non-negotiable family traditions had to happen. {sorry for the minimal photos}

First, We sprinkled the reindeer food our friends, the Chipmans gave us. Here's a recipe. The kids left peppermint Joe Joe's and hot cocoa for Santa...lucky man!

Second, we opened one gift...the Christmas pj's. Flannels for Christina, princess nightgowns for the little girls, dino pj's for Bub, and Wes had the coolest pair of USC striped pj's. Mom and dad's were of course from Cotsco:)  This was a favorite tradition for both Wayne and I growing up.  Wayne's favorite pj gift was his Pat Haden  nightshirt (he was #11 for the LA Rams & USC quarterback-I'm dictating:)).

Third, we read from Luke 2. We skipped acting, our scripture/hymn program, puppets, and costumes this year due to the sleepy children, and simply opened up the Bible and read of Christ's birth. Without fail, every year this tradition brings the Spirit of Christ into our humble home. 

Finally, we ended our Christmas Eve gathering with a new tradition that MADE my Christmas...we sang "Stille Nacht." My grandfather served his mission in Germany, then my dad served his mission in Frankfurt, his brother served in Hamburg, and finally my grandpa served as a mission president of the Frankfurt Germany mission. Growing up we lived close to my grandparents, and we would visit them on Christmas Day and/or Christmas Eve. I have vivid memories of my grandpa reading Luke 2 as we all quietly listened (a Christmas miracle considering there were 10 kids spanning 16 years). We then sang "Stille Nacht." I can hear my grandpa's deep voice and our family's chorus in my mind. What a JOY it was to teach my children "Stille Nacht" this year! They picked it up quickly at the beginning of the month, so throughout December "Stille Nacht" could be heard at random times day and night in our home. One child would start and by "...heilige nacht" everyone joined in, and this mom was in heaven feeling a link between past and present take place. This is a perfect example of the worth of traditions in my opinion. Traditions don't need to cost a penny, but they should strengthen the family, past and present.
***I rounded up the family
{a week later} to sing "Stille Nacht" for all of you, missed notes & all...Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!

With love,
The Menzie Family
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Our Christmas Top 4 choices

With four kids old enough to have opinions on celebrating Christmas, but with no money tree, we asked each of our kids to pick ONE thing they absolutely wanted to do to celebrate this Christmas. At the very least we could grant them their number one wish. Here's what they came up with....
  • Christina asked for the Trader Joe's chocolate advent calendar. The kids all agreed and come to find out, part of that tradition involves finding a good hiding spot for your calendar, away from certain little hands. The calendars were bought, handed out, and devoured in a flash. There is definitely room for improvement with that tradition! I've got a project up my sleeve for next year's advent. It omits chocolate, but there is more than enough of that going around in December, so I hope that aspect isn't missed.
  • Grace wanted to decorate the house! I asked what she meant by decorate the whole house, and Grace said, "Cover every single wall with a picture!" We certainly fell short, but we did all right....

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  • Caroline asked to bake gingerbread cookies. 
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This tradition stemmed from another family tradition...growing up in CA, we used to get together with my Dad's side of the family for Thanksgiving and my mom's side of the family for Christmas. It was at a gathering with my mom's family that my cousin, Sharlene brought her delightful soft gingerbread cookies, and was kind enough to share her recipe. This is a family favorite!

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Having the kids pick one activity each made this Christmas fun for them and for Wayne and I. It was nice to know that we each contributed to our month of celebration, and the ideas weren't all mine. The other benefit was that it helped keep cost under control since there was a mutual understanding of limited choices, and there was no pressure to do more or spend more than the choices the kids made. We added the kids' choices to a few non-negotiable family traditions, and everyone was happy. We'll make it our "Christmas Top 5" tradition next year since Wesley will be able to speak his mind and offer a request as well. This year he simply enjoyed the festivities with the rest of us.

I've got a couple more Christmas posts to come, I've simply been enjoying Wayne's vacation time & lots of family time {OK, there was a little Christmas cramming & napping too}. Seriously though, it's been wonderful!
Best Wishes to YOU!
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Tuesday, December 30, 2008

New Years Resolutions...for real!

I've never put weight into New Years' Resolutions, although I've always tried to improve in one way or another, whether it's learning a new skill, racing in a Sprint triathlon, or designing and keeping this family journal of a blog (ok, so I'm a week behind right now, but it's progress from the backlog of photos and scrapbooking I've had for YEARS).
Last year I lost my pregnancy weight with a Biggest Losers group...the weekly introduction of a new element of dieting (which I generally don't do) was key.  That was then.  Getting in shape and improving time management with my priorities in mind would top my '09 list if I had one.
So, what to do for 2009?  As usual I hadn't given resolutions much thought...that is until I found the Resolutionary Challenge on my friend, Whitney's blog, Dare to Dream.  I read the challenge and mulled it over; not wanting to sign up unless I was really committed, but the more I thought about it, the more I felt like this was a good fit.  Parts of the challenge are things that I've "been meaning to do," but haven't made the leap of commitment yet.  I've been "meaning to" jog consistently, but it's freezing outside & I haven't signed up at the Y.  I've been "meaning to" be habitual and sincere with my scripture study, but I'm exhausted in the early morning hours, and exhausted at the end of a full day.  "Meaning to" hasn't been working for me, and change will only come by committing to make changes, and DOing.  I know that strengthening my core, physically & spiritually will help me serve in the roles I hold dear, and help me feel more true to who I know am.  That's my main motivation for the Resolutionary Challenge.  That friends are part of this challenge makes it all the more fun.  I love the support.

So, if you're reading this and would like a fresh approach to reaching your personal goals and/or goals for the New Year, head on over to Whitney's blog and see if the Resolutionary Challenge is for you.  
I hope you join us....the more the merrier! 

All best,
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Sunday, December 28, 2008

The Making of a Gingerbread Village

The Saturday before Christmas we set out making a gingerbread village.
I covered the kitchen table in butcher paper, and we all filled dishes with a plethora of candy while Wayne made a perfect batch of royal icing.  Everyone got a plate and were told....
The rules: 
1. Be creative  
2.  Eat only YOUR house
3. Eat YOUR house whenever you want
4. Have FUN!  

Wesley heard "candy" and was totally on board!
Wesley is sure that the set up is taking too long...bring on the candy and crackers!
So far Wesley has kept Rules 1, 2 & 3...Bravo!!!
Trouble is brewing as Wesley eyes Caroline waving her candy as she explains her design plans.
Caroline defends her house well, but Wesley moves over to Grace who's house is in a more advanced stage of completion.  Grace is quick to note that Wesley is clearly in violation of Rule 2....
So, Wesley was banished to his highchair with his tee-pee to munch on while the rest of the crew constructed a delicious gingerbread village...
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Successful gingerbread house construction is dependent on strong royal icing.  We found that Alton Brown's recipe worked perfectly, so the recipe is now in our family cookbook.
Five faces of sweet success....

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Let's do this again next Christmas, OK?

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Friday, December 19, 2008

Dear Thomas,

I just couldn't go to sleep without recording our conversation from earlier this evening....

You were misbehaving a bit today. I don't recall the particulars; I wasn't there, but dad got after you and apparently said something to the effect that "Christmas would be cancelled." I know what he meant, but you weren't quite sure. Later on we had the following conversation:

Thomas: Mom, can dad really cancel Christmas?
Mom: He can't cancel the holiday, "Christmas," no, but he can make it so that there are no presents under the tree on Christmas morning.
Thomas:  Mom, doesn't he know that I'm old enough to understand what Christmas is all about?  The presents aren't what's important at all.  I'd be happy with just a candy cane.
Mom:  Me too.

Your heart is in the right place, Thomas.  I'm thankful that you have figured out while in your youth that Christmas is about Christ, not so much the gift giving, although that can be wonderful in many ways.  We will have several gifts under our tree this year, but I know that even if all we did Christmas morning was sing carols around our tree, and sip hot cocoa with peppermint stirring sticks, we'd be full of joy.  We might have some explaining to do to your sisters though:)

I love you more, son, and always will.
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frogs and trees

Shhhh...  I'm going to let you have a peak, just don't tell Wesley!  This squishy, adorable frog is the gift Christina made for Wesley for Christmas.  Wes was wreaking havoc while I tutored Christina on the sewing machine, but we love him the same.  We won't go into the inside joke about frogs and Wayne's family...let's just say it involves gas of sorts.  This frog, however is sweet as can be.  One side is Minkee super soft material.  Wes is going to LOVE him!  HERE is the pattern over at Purl Bee.  I love Purl Bee's fabric and they've got some fun patterns too.
Check out THIS free pattern over at Amy Butler Designs.  (Just scan down the patterns until you see the trees).  It's super easy.  I used a pinking rotary blade because I couldn't find a scalloped blade that the instructions suggested.  I think they turned out nicely.  I also saw a set of these trees where the woman simply ripped the strips of fabric.  I love that the trees are lightweight, so they won't weigh down my Christmas storage bins.  I chose to make three trees so I could use them as an illustration when I read the book The Legend of the Three Trees to my kids during the Christmas season.
Amy Butler has some really fun free downloadable patterns.  I also love the cloth napkins, napkin rings, and tree skirt, but no time for those before Christmas this year.  And then there are the quilts.....and her fabric.  Yep, I'm a fan.
Happy Christmas cramming!

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Thomas' Choir Performance

Thomas loves to sing.  I love that he sings out and does his best with this budding talent at church and at school.  A few nights ago Thomas had a performance at his school.  He had a small speaking part and was in a small choir along with the entire choir made up of each class in his grade.
 Thomas really enjoyed participating, and we were all really proud of his effort and performance..."Bravo!"
XO, mom
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Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Celtics 100 - Jazz 91

Thanks to our friend, Neal, Wayne and Thomas were able to go to the Celtics game last night along with Neal and Aaron. Thomas had a great time.  I think his expression in the photo says, "I'm out of adrenaline."  The boys got home late and Thomas went straight to bed. He woke up early this a.m. and said to me, "Mom, I had so much fun last night." When asked what he liked best about the game, Thomas said, "When the Celtics scored 100 points."   Thanks, Neal!
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Sunday, December 14, 2008

Friday, December 12, 2008

Ice Storm '08

Look what we woke up to this morning!  We could hear some snapping and crashing last night, but slept through the ice storm. This morning the trees are still covered in ice and you can still hear snapping and crashing from the upper limbs falling down.   You can see branches down all along our street and in nearly every yard.  In the center of the photo you can see that our grill was crushed.  The tree trunk to the right of the grill was uprooted and the top of the tree can be seen up close right outside our kitchen window....
Thankfully no windows were smashed.  We were without power last night so I got to bed at a decent time.  The kids are home from school today...Christina and Thomas are thrilled, Grace- not so much.  We'll have some fun and hope that we've seen the worst of the ice storm.

ADDENDUM:
Wayne took the following photos.  We were without power for several hours, so I'm just now able to add them here.  Pretty amazing.  We've never seen anything like this.  The sun is out now and everything is melting.  Icicles are showering down like rain.  Branches are still breaking and falling here and there.  We've got a fire in the fireplace and the kids are "cleaning the playroom."  We all cheered when the power came back on, let me tell you!  I need to melt chocolate to make my cake bites!




PS. Cheri, do you recognize Wayne's tan coat in one of these photos? It's the one John gave him ages ago...LOL!
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Thursday, December 11, 2008

The Code

I recall a moment one Christmas morning long ago when I realized my parents were pretty darn smart.  Now that I am a mom of 5, I realize more and more that they were down right geniuses in many respects.  You see, no matter how hard I plan ahead, Christmas morning arrives, tags fall off of gifts and for the life of me I can't remember what is for who and what what is!  This confusion has resulted in a few awkward moments & unwelcome frustration, and yet with 10 kids my parents always seemed to have things under control (I just heard a roar of laughter from near and far)!
Back to the Christmas when I smiled on my parents....I found their cheat sheet, a seriously amazing cheat sheet detailing their Code.  On this cheat sheet was a list of everyone in the family.  Next to each of our names was a dot, or dots.  Those dot(s) identified our gifts.  I looked under the tree, and if there wasn't a gift tag, no worries because the code was there.   Two green dots- Becky's gift.  No shaking or partially unwrapping to jog the giver's memory.  There was a code, an ingenious code.
This year I came up with my own code.  It's called everyone gets their own wrapping paper.  I love the durability of packing paper, so I used a big roll of it to make wrapping paper.  I painted green stripes for T, green dots for W, red dots for CE, and red hearts for G.  Nina gets wrapping paper I had from last year.  Family gifts are a different wrapping paper from last year.  No cards needed so far.  I can tack them on Christmas Eve.  Next year I might just use different ribbon and keep the paper plain.
This is my "code" and I'm sticking to it!  I like it better than my Plan A which was: Take a large black Sharpie and write directly on the gift.  Do you have a code or do your gift tags magically stay on gifts 'till Christmas?
Thanks, mom & dad...you really DID know a thing or two and I really WAS paying attention!
Happy Gifting & MERRY CHRISTMAS!
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Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Christmas Kindness & a few mommy notes

I set up my favorite nativity today, or gave it a new home I should say.  This is the nativity that my mom made over easily more than a years' time.  It's a treasure.  I remember seeing her working on it many a night when I went in to say good-night.  She loved it.  I get to love it now.  I would really like to find an appropriate setting for it though.  My mom displayed it in a basket with pieces of pine, but I don't have a basket the right size.  This IKEA tin bin will do for this year, but I'm still on the look out for something "just right."

My friend taught junior sharing time in primary last Sunday and sent a bag of straw home with Caroline.  Attached to the bag of straw was the note I place in front of my nativity.....

A Bed for The Baby Jesus
Each time this month as you do or say something kind, take a piece of straw and add it to the bed for Baby Jesus.  See how full and comfortable you can make his bed by December 24th.

The girls were excited to see the straw set up and know which baby Jesus (of our several nativities) they'd be making comfortable.  Note: The girls have added a couple of straw blades...the light fake straw at the base of the nativity was already there.

More on the home front....
  • Kids continue to rearrange the ornaments on the tree.  Ornaments found hanging from garland are a dead give away.
  • I realized I didn't get the '07 ornaments done last year.  They were small oval frames (I think I found them on clearance at Exposures AFTER Christmas...some years are like that:)).   I checked that off my list today.
  • As Thomas whipped together a Thanksgiving graph that was due last Wednesday and Christina finished research for a report due in 2 weeks, I was reminded how different our children are.  One's strength may be the others' weakness.  As their mother, their unique needs keep me humble.  I love them each individually more than I can say.  
  • We may look like adults, but to Wesley, if we lay down we are much like a jungle gym.  Tonight I was laying down on my back by the Christmas tree and Wesley ran over, climbed on me, and counted, "Uh, Oo....EEEE!" as he jumped off to the carpet below.  I looked away and he grabbed my face, looked me in the eye and babbled, probably something to the effect of, "You missed my jump, mom!  Watch this time!"  I love this age.  I love this boy!

I dropped by Trader Joe's today and bought myself a treat...Dark Chocolate Covered Peppermint Joe Joe's.  I'll share with Wayne, but that's it.  (Thanks, Robisons for getting me hooked:))  Shay, I think we should get a free box for advertising!

Merry Christmas! 
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Sunday, December 7, 2008

O Christmas Tree - Part 2

Our Christmas tree is up and decked out.  
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We've got the tradition many of you do...a new ornament for the kids each year.  Do the math, and those ornaments alone add up to QUITE A FEW for our tree.
After our fake tree was assembled, the kids chose a silver snowflake garland, and then happily found their box of ornaments to hang on the tree.  I love this part of Christmas...our children naturally recall Christmases past as they hang each ornament.  This year Christina and I picked up a liberty bell ornament from our trip to Philly, so finding that ornament brought a smile as well.  We even still have ornaments made of photos glued to cardstock from when Christina and Thomas were in nursery with Sis. MacIntosh.  She was an angel teacher.  I love that those ornaments are lasting.
This years' ornament idea evolved...last summer I picked up red 3.5x3.5" frames at a Pottery Barn outlet in UT.  I thought I'd just put photos in them, but since then have seen lots of beautiful silhouettes on blogs & who knows where, so I followed THESE instructions and made simple silhouette ornaments.  I'm sure you get more detail if you paint them, but that will be a project for another day....maybe to hang in the hallway.  We had similar silhouettes from Disneyland when I was a child, so making these ornaments has sparked dear memories.  I'll personalize the red frames somehow, but haven't gotten that far yet.  I couldn't wait to hang them on the tree though and share....
MERRY, MERRY CHRISTMAS!
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PS.  "Fake" trees aren't so bad after all :)  I'm liking ours more and more...and being crazy for lights, I love that there are lights galore.  Simply Merry.
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