Since around the time I found out I was having twins, I started worrying about how to raise them (and Brooke too of course)! I want to make sure they feel like individuals, that they are not compared to each other too much, and so on.
I have read whatever I can get my hands on about raising twins. One book brought up whether or not to tell your twins which one is older. A family in the book didn't tell the twins who was born first until their 13th birthday.
By the time I read this particular book, between Grandma and me, all three girls already had several "Big Sister" or "Little Sister" shirts, and I hadn't given much though to keeping their birth orders secret.
And now that I've had time to think about it, I wouldn't want to keep it a secret...
that this sweet angel is my youngest baby girl,
and this one gets to claim being the oldest twin (and will probably use it to her advantage someday).
Keely
Claire
Because really, they'll get lumped together, mixed up, and labeled "the twins" enough.
I think they should know who's oldest and youngest, even if the difference is only 1 minute, 15 seconds. :)
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