the daily male

Life is rather exciting these days... work & all the travel involved is interesting, and I've been meeting lots of cool guys. Current project in Indonesia is scheduled to end this week - but chances are it might be extended for a few more months?

But back to the men - and at the risk of being labelled a slut again (yes, I am imagining you rubbing your grubby paws together chatting 'slut slut slut' AJ!!)... here's a brief report on this weekend's 'encounter' - which I must say was rather surprising even by my allegedly slutty standards!

The background: Annual regional company retreat on Thai resort island
The players: Colleague from singaporean office, myself


Scene 1, Day 1
Setting: Dimly lit seaside restaurant
Special costume: T-shirt with silhouette of rabbit shaggin' a cockerel frm behind

X: Oh hello! We haven't met have we? I'm X from Singapore. Nice t-shirt by the way!
Me: Geez looks like there r still loads of ppl I haven't met in the firm, I'm Y btw. You like the t-shirt? I couldn't resist buying it yesterday!

X and Me then proceed with 5 mins of small talk.

Scene 2, Day 2:
Setting: Dimly lit seaside restaurant
Special prop: Lots of alcohol

Me: Good seeing you again tonight! How was your day?
X: Oh not too bad - wanna grab seats together?
... Conversation wanders on until at some point...

X: So (while looking intently at the potato I selected from the bbq buffet)... potato over rice?
Me: Well, for food, yes... but not otherwise .. *naughty wink*
X: Ah...

Conversation switches to our girlfriends til dinner ends

Scene 3, Day 2, Post-dinner
Setting: X's room
Prop: bed and couch

X: So... when did you have your first sexual encounter?
Me: *blush*... rather late... nineteen!
X: So how did you meet her? Who was she?!
Me: Umm... it was a 'he'... (muttering "let's cut the bullshit" under his breath)
X: Oh...

Scene 4, Day 2, Post-revelation
Setting: X's room
Prop: bed
New character: Roommate of X

Me: Lock the door

The characters proceed to mess up the sheets until...

*click, turn* goes the doorknob

X: Damn!
Me: Fuck!

#Me leaps into the bathroom with amazing agility, clutching garments that have somehow fallen off in the process

Roommate: Arghhhhh I'm sooo tiredddddddddddddd
X: Oh. Go sleep then.

#Me exits bathroom in a calm and composed manner

Roommate: Oh you are here too. Sure I'm not interupting anything? Snigger.
X & Me: Haha. Funny.

Me returns to his room feeling frustrated.
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To cut a long story short... we ended up having a proper shag the next morning in my room. When my roommate was safely and securely detained somewhere else.

I suppose this reaches new heights of sluttiness. Sleeping with a colleague should be a big no-no, evem if he is from another city... but he's a nice guy, cute & witty... and I'm grateful I"ve at least found one other non-straight boy in the firm to bond with.

Am now back in KL and trying to reflect. He called this evening and we chatted. Apparently hopes something can develop out of this initial carefree tropical fling. On my part I think it's not entirely out of the question... but...

Decisions, decisions...

gosh! i can't believe it took me so many months to discover bodystep class!!! was pissed off that axis had cancelled their pump classes without informing on their internet schedules... so zoomed off to the next closest class at handcock (or manushit whateva it is called now... will always be handcock to me)... and voila, ended up in bodystep!

i had the misconception that step was like bodyjam... which i tried and was absolutely hopeless at, since i can't coordinate my arms and legs.. but step is cool! not as cool as pump... but cool nonethtless

the experience was enhanced by the presence of an amazingly good looking guy next to me, whom i focused my attention on (him being the only other male specimen in the room apart frm the instructor)... got myself into trouble as I pretended to be following his steps (being a step virgin) so that i could stare more... so ended up actually having to follow! tiring tiring tiring...

I wonder what his name is... if I see him again I promise I'm gonna make silly small talk... what's a good chat up line in a gym anyway?

In life, lots of decisions are screwed up because people don't take into account the long term repercussions of their actions, i.e. the present is valued much more than the future - think overpollution, energy consumption, shopping when you should be saving for your new apartment, stuffing yourself at buffets only to suffer at the gym ..

Unfortunately, this principle extends to our sexual lives as well, only amplified a hundred times over - how many times have you sworn under your breath to have given anything to have that hot guy lurking at the bar? Or screwed up a relationship because you couldn't resist a sudden urge? Or messed up friendships by being an obsessive sex-o-maniac? Problem is, in order to make sensible decisions we need to be rational. And that's not an easy call when you are overcome with wild animal lust.

Possibly the rational solution would be for everyone to be as slutty as can be. That's what lots of gay men are, and they often end up messed-up. Truth is, not many of us can go about sleeping around freely without hurting someone else, or more often, ourselves...

So, all you boys out there - next time you get that itch, think before you scratch. Sex is so much better when you wait for it. Or is it?

"If you have a dick, it's there for you to use it. Discuss"

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Yawn... am tired tired tired... why does work have to be tiring?

Nothing really concrete to bitch about actually... spotted a hot hot hot guy today and took a photo... but bloody laptop is acting up and not letting me load pics from my camera...

I like Indonesia... you can stare and stare at the men over and over and all they do is stare back and smile... let's me fantasize that all of em are eager and obliging... haha

I believe all of us go thru stages in our sexual lives - one of the requisite stages being the 'shag freely' phase. Being the highly organised and disciplined creature that I am, I had carefully planned for this stage to occur while I was 22 and at university where there was an abundant supply of young flesh. I wasn't desperate, but I was definitely easy. Heck, I knew I had to get the 'shag freely' bit outta my system if I wanted to move on in life and settle down... Unfortunately, most of the sex was bad - not least because most of the men I ended up in bed with were ugly!! (that's what happens when you have drunkenness or boredom on your side when you are on the prowl). But hey, I was leading a carefree student life! And anyway, I didn't sleep around when I was in relationships - except towards the end of one of them... but that was only cos we were in denial that we had broken up (long & dull story). So all in all, I'm not really such a bad guy.

Well, looks like my 'seven stages of sexual life' theory was wrong after all. Either that or I didn't shag out my 'shag freely' phase at 22. I'm horny all over again at 24!!! I have the same mercenary desire to sleep with lots of men, except that perhaps my standards are higher this time around (or at least they have been so far)... this is a most disturbing turn of events, which I can only attribute to me being cooped up in Sumatra or Bangladesh or Jakarta for too long. See pic above is of my hotel in Sumatra - not that ulu after all eh! hehe.. Or it could be perfectly possible that the view of so many lean, tanned, shirtless men toiling in the dust (or more commonly lazing away by the roadside) from my car window every day has made something go click in me...

Back in KL again and in an absolutely foul mood this weekend. Pissed off with everything and have resolved to be a moody lump around the house today. Tired out from work and have nothing relaxing to look forward to at all.. sigh

Anyway, went to a dressy dinner last night, luggage in tow from the airport. What the hell has my life come to if I don't even have time to powder my nose, change 3 times and adjust my hair 20 times before a dinner?! Fortunately I still managed to look partially good as the partially cropped off photo above shows.. HAHA

I have this nagging feeling that I need to be dumped in the middle of an orgy featuring sexy, sweaty, oily Thai, Indonesian, German, English and Hongkie boys before I cheer up... heh

Writing from Indonesia again...

Had a good weekend back home. Most relaxing one I've had in some time! May be due to something naughty I did on Saturday night! shame, shame...


Anyway, it's already April... gosh!!! Where has all the time gone?! Things have just been zooming by this year... it's nice keeping busy, but looking at the pimples, wrinkles and eyebags building up, keeping busy does exact its toll.. sniff... this female friend of mine from school days just 'confessed' to me on MSN that she used to have a crush on me in college - had a good laugh out of that! But it really made me think - gosh, that's almost like another life! So much has changed since those sweetseventeen days... The transition has been gradual tho, so much so that I still think I'm the same boy in school uniform standing at the school gate waiting for daddy...

... but I'm not, I can't be...