當你決定離開那事非地時我用陆游的這首《卜算子·咏梅》來為你的灑脫而喝彩。。。今晚我用同一首詩來歌頌你的一生。。。。

驿外断桥边，寂寞开无主。
已是黄昏独自愁，更著风和雨。
无意苦争春，一任群芳妒。
零落成泥碾作尘，只有香如故。

她終予離開我門了。。。那晚她安祥的躺在殯儀館之濟我做訪她家。在小茶几上看見那包她生前最喜歡的Virginia Slim就知那不是偶然﹐我好自然的拿起点了一支給她自己易抽一根。就樣我用這獨特的方式為這位易師易友的前輩說道別同守靈把。

正如那包香煙一樣我與她的認識我相信易不是偶然。。。。從初次見面對她的skepticism到當我在最傍惶時她申出那溫暖的支持在短短的幾個月裡我在她身上從新再什回一些我漸漸淡忘了的人與人之間應有的信任與關愛。

在她那學會的有些我是明白了但大部份是要在我往後的人生旅途裡慢慢的細味。但她常說的一句”let it be sweet and short rather then long and agony” 不 就是她一生的最佳寫照麼﹖ 她半生與病魔博斗但到最後一分鐘都不放棄堅強樂觀的去面對不正是她留給我門的最寶貴一課。

與她的相識可能是銘銘中早以按排了。。。。樣她給我指引樣我的後半生能夠活得更加精彩。。。。永別了娘娘。

She finally left us ……that night when she peacefully sleep in the funeral parlour, I visited her home. On the coffee table outside the terrace I saw that packet of her favourite Virginia Slim and I know its not a coincidence. I spontaneously open the box and light one for her and another for myself…….and I think this could be the form of unorthodox yet casual farewell she might want it.

Just like that pack of cigarette knowing her is probably not a coincidence…..from the skepticism in the early stage to where she lend me her hand when I needed it most, in just a few months I learn from her some of the basic things that distinguished us as human like love and trust which I almost have forgotten.

Some of the things that I learned from her I could digested it immediately but most of it will have to be digest along the journey of my life. Her favourite phrase “let it be sweet and short rather then long and agony” to me is the best to describe her life. She fight for survival half of her life and never give up yet live it full with fun and love…..that probably is the greatest lesson she had taught us.

Knowing her is probably had been destine …… where she provide me guidance to how to live the second half my life to the fullest…….Farewell Lady Jade.