Originally, we weren't going to have a friend's party for Jack this year. He was just going to invite a few friends over to hang out. Well, while talking with Jennifer Horne at our girls' basketball game we discovered that Jack and their oldest daughter, Harper, have birthdays close together. Jack and Harper are friends from church and Choral Fusion. Then later that day Jack tells me that Harper messages him and wants to see if he would like to do a combined birthday party because she was already planning on doing a murder mystery party for her birthday and inviting most of their Fusion friends. Of course, Jack said yes and I was fine with it too. How often do you get to go to a murder mystery party? Jack, Harper and her mom pretty much planned everything. I ended up bringing veggie and fruit trays.
They also asked if we would like to bring a cake for Jack because they are getting an ice cream cake for Harper. Those are smaller and Jack wouldn't be able to eat it anyway because of his allergies. When asking Jack what flavor of cake he would like, he responded that he would either want a German chocolate or a white Costco cake. So, I said, okay, which cake do you want for your friends' party, and which one do you want for the family party? He decided to get the white cake for the friends' party and do the German chocolate cake for family.
I was hoping that Costco made German chocolate cakes, but they didn't have any. I didn't see any at Walmart either. I wasn't sure I wanted to do a cake mix and cheap frosting like last year. I did some looking online and found a highly rated recipe. It had over 4 thousand reviews and 4.9 stars out of 5. It did require making 3 different parts of the cake, so I was a little hesitant at first. There was the cake itself, the coconut pecan frosting and the chocolate buttercream frosting. I have never made either of those frostings.
Jack's birthday was on a Thursday this year, but because of Curtis being gone on a business trip and Jack having Fusion practice, he decided we would celebrate with the family on Sunday. Curtis wouldn't be back until Saturday morning and then Saturday evening was the friend party. I didn't want to stress about making a cake on Sunday, so I decided to make the cake after Charlotte's basketball game that morning (which by the way, she made her first regular shot in a game, and their team made a great come back to win). I started with the cake and while it was baking, I made the coconut pecan frosting. Both of those needed time to cool before applying frosting. I made the chocolate frosting and put it in the fridge. This was my first time making buttercream frosting and I was just worried about how easy it would be to spread, because of past problems spreading store bought frosting on cakes and having it rip pieces off the cake before. So, I added extra evaporated milk, but it ended up being a little too much, as my frosting started to droop when I was spreading it and piping it on. Other than that, it turned out great and I would make it again!
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| I invited the Gale's to come to the girl's game and they came! They are like our adopted parents/grandparents over here. |
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| Frosting the cake and proof that I made it. I actually enjoyed making this cake. I even bought us a round cake platter with lid to make it easier to store and carry around. It will come in handy later on for pies too. It even came with two round cake pans. |
After finishing the cake, it was time to get over to the church to decorate and prep. Jack and I were in charge of music. He created a 50's list on Spotify and I added a few songs as well. We managed to get the music playing in the gym, but it sounded like background music and I thought I had it turned up all the way. Maybe I didn't turn up the correct volume setting on my phone, but we couldn't figure it out. We had also plugged in a microphone and whenever they turned it on to use, the music got loud. We'd have to pause the music so they could talk. For the most part it was fine to have background music volume but he would have liked to have it louder. I should have called Curtis and asked him about it. He later said that when he went earlier to test it for us that the music was blaring. And by testing, I mean he had to bring our cd player so I could connect my phone to it via bluetooth and connect to the gym sound system using a headphone jack.
Anyway, Jack and Harper had spent time working on this party for a couple of weeks. They got together and typed up special letters for each person that was coming and it let them know which character they would play. Jack also told his best friend from Nampa, Porter Ballantyne, about it and he ended up driving down here by himself to be able to join the party. He didn't have school on Friday and so he drove up Friday afternoon and then drove home Sunday morning. I would have been terrified to have my child drive that far being so inexperienced, but I guess he's been driving himself to ski team up at Bogus Basin, so he's had some good practice. Fortunately, there wasn't any snow he needed to worry about on the Blues that weekend. It may have rained a little bit on Sunday, but that was it. It was great to have him here. As soon as he arrived on Friday, I took him over to where Jack was doing some dance lessons with friends up the street at the Taylor's, so he got to do some dancing. Then Saturday morning he went to Fusion practice with Jack. However, about halfway through practice he said he would like to leave, so I picked him up and had him run errands with me. First to Costco to get the cake, then to the church to leave it in the fridge since we did not have space at home. Then we went to the dollar store to pick out some wrapping paper and a balloon (as is tradition). The line at the dollar tree was super long and they weren't expecting more employees to come in until 30 minutes later. We ended up getting home just before Jack got home from practice. Good timing! They relaxed and played videogames while I baked the German chocolate cake.
Party time!
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| Harper drew the silhouettes herself. She did a great job. |
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| The Horne's provided all of the decorations. I loved the color scheme. |
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| They wanted pigs in a blanket, pinwheel wraps, and another tasty appetizer they made. Then there was my veggie and fruit trays. |
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| They also had some chips and dips. And stuff to make Italian sodas or just drink regular sodas. |
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| Mingling and playing games at the tables. |
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| Jack and Harper didn't tell her mom that they would be setting up round tables and so she didn't buy round tablecloths. Otherwise, she would have. |
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| It helped a lot to have a microphone when trying to let everyone know what was going on at certain times. |
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| Jack's cake. His favorite color is still purple. I got lucky and found a premade one with purple writing because I forgot to have one ordered. |
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| Harper's ice cream cake. Chocolate with chocolate brownie pieces inside and on top. She's lactose intolerant and has to take pills to be able to have that much dairy. They dubbed it the "death by chocolate" cake. If she dies, she'll die happy, ha ha. |
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| Singing the birthday song along with everyone else. Such a cute picture. |
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| Opening gifts |
The first half of the party was mingling and playing games. Some people were getting into their characters but not much was really happening with the murder mystery part of it. At the halfway point, they paused to do cake and gift opening. It wasn't until after that, that Jen had to tell Harper they needed to get the murder mystery going. They only had one hour left. Originally, I think only one person was supposed to die and there was one murderer. However, Jack told a couple others to help speed things up by being murderers also. I didn't see how it all went down, since the parents were out in the hall or in the kitchen letting them do their thing. We would peek in occasionally to see how it was going, and I saw five people on the floor, including Jack, and others were deliberating who could have done it. I don't really know who did it in the end, but I think Porter was at least an accomplice. They enjoyed themselves!
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| Deliberating who could have done it. |
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| Such a great group of kids and I love that nearly all of them dressed up! |
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| Porter and Jack |
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| Saying goodbye before Porter left for Nampa Sunday morning. |
Jack was so tired the next day that he couldn't decide if he should skip the missionary prep class that he's been going to each Sunday for the past month. I told him it was okay to skip it this time since he was worn out and we're celebrating his birthday. Curtis made some curry for dinner and then we finally celebrated as a family. We lit the candles and sang a couple of the old primary birthday songs before Alice remembered that we needed to call Nikki! She had said to call when we were singing to him. He had to blow out the candles and relight them when we got her on the phone. Those candles were well used since we lit them 3 times total! We sang the usual song after we got her on the phone.
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| Looking good for "71"! (Silly Jack) |
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| Oh, we mean "17" |
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| He got a tie/belt holder for his closet that he's been wanting. He also finally got a blue and orange tie to represent BSU. I was trying to avoid sweet for the snack this time and got him jerky. He liked that. Charlotte picked out the squeeze cheese block and a Panda Express gift card for $15 and Alice picked out a globe wooden puzzle. It actually lights up as well. He got the new shirt that he's wearing in this picture. I also took him shopping the next day for several pairs of different colors of pants and several pairs of shoes. He said he likes getting new clothes for birthdays now. |
He had also wanted to get some new paper scriptures that would have space to write notes in the margins, but after spending a lot on clothes and everything else, we decided that will have to wait for a little while. He got some cool gifts from his friends also, but I haven't gotten a picture with them yet. I know he got a new big water bottle that comes with a bottle carrier and strap. He also got a machete (with our permission). He says the blade is pretty dull, so we don't have to worry too much. I can't remember what else he got from friends, but I think he's a happy camper and had an overall great birthday!