Some pictures, the house was outdated in a lot of ways. We got the financing figured out and closed on the house May 20th. We celebrated with pizza on the floor. Because our house was being rented, we moved in with Kristen and the remodel began.
To say this time of remodle and homelessnes was the hardest thing that ever happened to our marriage-would be an understatment. We disagreed about everything-and I mean EVERYTHING. I look at things in the house still and hate a lot of choices that were made and the thousands spent on things I didn't want or like. Dave had strong opinions about a lot of interior design things. I tried to give Dave some things, and was cool-and now very much regreat being cool on those things. I did fight for certain things and many of those things am glad for, example the 2 week argument about hardware. So glad I won that round. Every selection, every dollar, every communication, the timeline, how things were getting done was days of disagreements-a complete nightmare. I won't list all the rounds I compromied in and let him win-it was a lot. Anyway, it's over, what's done is done and thank goodness our marriage gets a little break. Now I'm slowly begging him to get some things wrapped up from the remodel and some projects we've found that need to get done. That's fun-not
Negativity over-it has been really great having some more space. The laudrey room, pantry, and door on the toilet room have been lifechanging-literally amazing. So glad. The extra space has been great, the ward has been so welcoming. We love our Ashbrook Circle House.
Moving out of Enid, moving in the Kristen, then moving out of Kristens, shuffling storgage all summer, remodeling at the same time-it was a lot. The night we slept here at Ashbrook in our beds was just so great. So many family memebers helped so much. Gary did all the real estate and remodel, many came to help with the demo and remodel, and moving so many times, and coming to help fix up our Enid house, and living with Kristen-it was so much help and support and time spent on our behalf. We are so grateful. This has been huge.



























































