This morning I wrote a long piece and then published it but only about a third came up so, I will try again.Monday I have to go in for a Heart Cath, been feeling less than the way I should for awhile and my Doctor and I felt it was time for a tune up, my warranty on the by pass expired about seven years ago. Talk about borrowed time, been there done that so we will see what they came do to get me back to at least 90%, but this is not what I was writing about, but it lead me to think about my life and the decisions we make through that time. My first big decision was to go to college, not a good choice at the time, lasted one semester and came home, bottom line, wasn't ready for what it took to be on my own and be successful.
We all look down many paths in our life and did you ever think what or where you would be today if you had chosen a different path? What if you hadn't married who you did, lived where you did, had a different job. This can take a lot of time and thinking to weigh the good and bad for each of us.
I joined the Army, I wasn't going to let them draft me, so off I went on what would turn into a seven year adventure. An adventure that as I look back on it was the path that brought me to where I am today. After about 18 months in the Army another path was opened to me in the name of Nancy Jean Howe, we were married on a sub zero night at the South Tunbridge Church on 26 Dec 67. This was a path that we both thought was the right way and as we are still married, I guess it was. We had been married six months when I was sent to Viet Nam (we are going back there in April) and Nancy went back to UVM to finish her degree. By the time I came back from VN I was a Captain and thought I would make the army a career. We went to Germany for three years. What a great time that was for two young recently married people. It gave us the opportunity to travel and see places we never thought we would see. In our third year there Andrew was born, no he does not have dual citizenship, but his birth certificate was issued by the State Department, hope he never looses it. After Germany we spent time in New Jersey and the Army said the War was over and they really didn't need me any more so a new path opened for us, and we moved back to Vermont. I settled into a new career in banking, most likely the last thing anyone who knew me would think I would be doing. But I did and stayed with banking until I retired five years ago. Again, a strange path, but it lead us to a good life. We stayed in Vermont for about six years and our path changed again. Before we left Vt Hannah Broughton was born, 1976, our bicentennial baby.
Florida, a different place for two Vermonters, but this path we took has served us well. We did not have to move south to retire, we were already here. We have lived in Fl longer than any other place in our lives. I continued in the bank and Nancy taught school until her retirement three years ago. What if we had not come to Fl, I wonder where we would be.
Have the paths that we have been down always been smooth, no, of course not, there are pot holes in every path, but the trick is to not let yourself get stuck in them. Get in and get out and continue on the that path.
Our path has brought us much happiness and continues too with the addition of our wonderful six grandchildren. Children are great but the path through grandchildren one of the greatest paths you will follow through out your life.
I will end this today with this thought, we are handed many paths in our life, some we choose and some are chosen for us. Looking back, I think I have traveled some good ones and not many bad ones. I hope that all who read will tale a minute and think about the paths you have taken or will take in the future, until next time....