
I have really been feeling like my days consist of me dragging my children from one place to the next. And that means that my days consist of me saying, "Hurry" "Come on!" "Faster" "Please get into the car! (as I wait with the door open) "Please get out of the car!" (as I stand there waiting with my arms full and the door open). Don't be fooled--my use of please does not always mean I use a sugar voice.
The truth is, there is no fast, quick, speedy way to move three little children from place to place.
At least not my children.
Natalie likes to cart 4 stuffed dogs, a purse, a wand, and a crown with her. One thing is always dropping. I have tried to limit the number of things she can take, depending on how hurried we are, but she always manages to slip a few extra things in there. Then they also end up in the car for me to carry inside. Ideally she carries them in, but that also depends on how rushed we are, because it is always just faster to do it myself. Andrew seems to get sidetracked by just about everything. Especially the TV at the gym when I'm trying to get out of there. Ugh. And James, bless his heart, is just as easy as they come, I just have to carry him everywhere.
And it isn't just the running around. It's the fact that if I'm gone all day, when I'm home I have to be cleaning, cooking, cleaning, cooking. So I feel like I am on repeat saying, "Just a minute" "After I'm done...." "Not now..."

If I'm not rushing around, Natalie and her entourage are so cute. And Andrew with his observations, comments, and distractions is sweet. And who wouldn't want to hold James.
So today I slowed it down. After dropping Andrew off at preschool and putting James down for a nap, Natalie and I read books, glued jewels on a crown, worked on letters. After picking Andrew up, we had a lunch that wasn't rushed, made a fort out of couch pillows and read more books. Then later, we got out the finger paints and even made it outside for some bike riding and scooter riding.

What a great day. I actually ENJOYED my children! They were cute and sweet and funny. And instead of reminding them to hurry it along, I laughed and they laughed.
But now I'm faced with the same dilemma I have been thinking about for a while. How do you fit it all in? And what do you cut out? Maybe some days are just crazy, but it's important to fit in the slow ones as well.
And today, I'm glad we slowed down.