Thursday, October 25, 2012

23 Months Old

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Miss Maddy is one month shy of being two!  And boy is she giving me a run for my money.  Lots of tantrums and throwing her shoes in public.  I cheated by using this photo which was actually taken yesterday, not the day she turned 23 months old.

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This was the best I got on that day.  She wasn't feeling well and wasn't going to pretend.

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This is from a few weeks ago when she had yet another cold.  Every time she coughed, she cried - there's not much I could do for a sore throat.  She's now on allergy medication that doesn't seem to do a thing.  Next month she can start something stronger.

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When she's feeling well, she climbs on everything.  She pretty regularly gets up onto the piano.  Sometimes I'll be washing dishes and hear her plunking keys.  Doesn't matter if I move the rocking chair away, she always finds something to use as a step stool.

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The other day Mike yelled across the house to me, "Hey, did you know Maddy can get from the floor to the top of the dining room table in under 30 seconds?" Oops, I had figured that out the previous day. Here she had climbed up onto the chair (by herself, no step) and when I ran for the camera she climbed onto the table.  It is really hard for me to get anything done in the house now while she is awake.  She is constantly getting into trouble.

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She has been practicing standing up.  Sometimes she gets into a position like this and lets go of whatever is supporting her arms for a few seconds.

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This was from the LPA regional earlier this month.  She combat crawled up and down this hall.  She was less timid with the kids this time than at the last LPA event we attended.  She was still too upset to be left in the kids room without a parent though.

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Super Why is her new favorite TV show.  At first I thought it's because she figured out how to say "why" but she really seems to like the program.  Yes, she always tries to get this close to the TV set.  No, she does not always stand inside a pumpkin.

Monday, October 8, 2012

Rain


Maddy is in her sassy toddler phase and is also teething, a lovely combination.  Last week, at the end of one very trying day, she was throwing a monster tantrum and wouldn't stop.  I was desperate to calm her down.  It had just started to rain so I took her out to the front porch.  She got quiet immediately.  She wanted to be in the rain.  We went back inside but she wanted to go out again, so we did, and I took this video.

Friday, September 28, 2012

Docs & Therapists

We've lived in one place for about a year now, and during that time Maddy has seen a lot of healthcare providers and therapists.  (Please note: not all achon kids have this many appointments, and some have way more.  Kids are all different, "little" or not.)  Here's a rundown of her doctors and specialists this year...

Pediatrics
She has been seeing the same base pediatrician since we got here.  Dr. V is wonderful.  She has educated herself on achondroplasia, uses the appropriate growth charts, and checks for hydrocephalus.  We had been seeing her every one to three months.  After her 18-month wellbaby checkup we were going to wait until she was two to take her back, but problems with ear infections, viruses and allergies have brought us back several times.

Genetics
We saw Dr. T at the skeletal dyplasia clinic that's part of a local children's hospital.  He was kind of our point of contact there and coordinated appointments with other specialists.  He gave us an overview of achondroplasia and told us what to expect over the next few years.  We were going to him every six months.  He left his position recently and we saw his replacement last month.  The jury's still out.

Orthopedics
Maddy first saw an ortho doctor at the same time we saw the genetics doc.  She sees him every six months and has x-rays of her back taken each time to check for kyphosis and hip problems.  Dr. McC wants her to come back in three months because he hasn't decided yet whether she could benefit from a back brace (she does have a small degree of kyphosis).
BUT... Last winter we traveled to a well-known dwarfism specialist who is also an orthopedic doctor.  Dr. P thinks her kyphosis is minimal and predicts she won't need any intervention.  We are pursuing authorization through our insurance to have Maddy primarily see this doctor instead of the local clinic.

Neurosurgery
Again, through the skeletal dysplasia clinic.  We first saw Dr. M last fall when Maddy was throwing up a lot.  He performed the spinal cord decompression surgery on Maddy last December and we had several follow-ups, the last one being this summer.  Her post-op MRI looked good, so hopefully we won't have to go back to neuro for one or two years (yay!).

Pulmonology
Maddy sees a nurse practitioner in the sleep study clinic at the children's hospital.  She had a sleep study before her surgery last year and will have to go back for a repeat this November.  I hate them.  But they are important, and we had a good experience with the hospital staff.  She will probably need many more sleep studies.

Gastroenterology
When Maddy was throwing up a lot last fall, Dr. V referred us to Dr. R, a pediatric GI doc at the children's hospital right here in Dayton.  He was unfamiliar with dwarfism but did lots of research.  We are both learning as we go.  He started Maddy on reflux meds that helped a lot.  In the meantime, I found several other parents of achon kids who said that throwing up is not unusual for our kids and that she may just grow out of it.  So I'm trying to convince Dr. R that Maddy doesn't need a scope.  She sees him every three to six months.

ENT/Audiology
One of the only specialists that Maddy can see at the base medical center is the Ear Nose and Throat doctor.  Dr. M put in Maddy's ear tubes last fall and she sees him every 6 months.  She needs a hearing test once a year.  Her tubes are still in place.  If she ever needs to have her adenoids or tonsils taken out, we'll have to take her off base to a children's hospital capable of handling her special anesthesia needs.

Developmental Pediatrician
Her dwarfism automatically qualifies Maddy as a special needs kid so she sees the developmental specialist, Dr. S, every six months.  He makes sure she's on track with developmental milestones and has the information from all the specialists she's seeing.  He talks with me about how it may be challenging to discipline her as she gets older because she's "special," but she needs discipline just like any other kid.  I needed to hear that.  He also said that her anxiety around strangers is partially due to her temperament but it's also worsened by all of her doctor and hospital visits.  So the "cry it out" strategy of leaving her with people other than Mommy or Daddy for hours at a time is something he discourages.  He said it may take her some time, but she'll come out of her shell.


And here's the parade of therapists...

PT/OT
Last fall Maddy started seeing Barb, who is an occupational therapist who also worked on some physical therapy issues.  Appointments were once a week for an hour.  Maddy did not like it, despite her having the best OT in the world.  Once Maddy started to sit up on her own, I chose to discontinue therapy.  Barb is the one who first noticed Maddy's loose joints and especially low muscle tone.  Physical therapy is one of those things that parents tend to have strong opinions about.  In Maddy's case, I'm glad we did it, but I'm not sure I'd do it again.

Speech Therapy
We were expecting Maddy to be speech-delayed, so the results of her speech evaluation at 15 months were not a surprise.  She goes to the same private therapy group that did her OT.  She sees two different speech therapists for 30-minute sessions.  So two morning each week I drop Ben off at a morning daycare program through our church so I can take Maddy to speech therapy without Ben taking over.  I am super happy with how it's been going.  Maddy has great therapists and she is making slow but steady progress.  Plus it gets her used to being with adults other than Mommy and Daddy, and she gets to be around other kids a bit.  Her stranger anxiety and shyness are still pretty intense.

Early Intervention
Our county provides either in-home or classroom services for kids Maddy's age.  We chose the classroom, and she's been going for one hour each week since the spring.  It was another opportunity to be around other kids and a different adult.  But budget cuts meant that her original teacher is gone and some of the other kids have transferred out of the class.  A PT, OT, and speech therapist touch base with us during some of the sessions and have been very helpful.  

Feeding Therapy
Maddy finally got authorization for a feeding evaluation (it's normally done at the same time as the speech eval, but our insurance doesn't include it.)  Two different therapists noticed some things about Maddy last month that made them recommend feeding therapy.  It could help to decrease the frequency of her vomiting.  She may not be chewing her food well enough.  And she may have some issues with texture that we're unaware of.  I'm hoping this therapy can be integrated into one of her existing speech therapy sessions so I don't have to add yet another weekly appointment to our calendar.  Juggling both of the kids is getting exhausting.




Saturday, September 22, 2012

22 Months Old

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Miss Maddy is 22 months old today and totally acting like she's already two.  This month she has been adorable, amusing, and exhausting.

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She loves her 'tato heads.  She knows where to put the parts but chooses to put them where she wants.  She can say "eye" and "muh" (mouth) and can identify the nose and ears.

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Her first Oreo cookie.  She instinctively took it apart.

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With Oreo crumbs on her mouth, doing the sign for "cookie."  Last week she started saying the actual word.  Her speech is really taking off.

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Last month she sat on this toy.  Then she figured out how to stand in it.  I snapped a photo before hollering at her to GET DOWN FROM THERE.

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The "new" (used) play kitchen.  Maddy loves to open and close the fridge door and stash stuff inside.

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After a nap, with her bears.  The one she's reaching for is The Bear, the one she needs every time she goes to sleep.  Bear has been puked on several times and is permanently stained and smelly.  Sometimes she insists on bringing Bear when we run errands.  I'm really scared of losing Bear because Maddy will never ever sleep again without him.

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Playing with Play-Doh.  Two seconds later she tried to eat it.

Monday, September 3, 2012

Kids on the Dance Floor


Here are some clips from the reception after my cousin Cory's wedding last week.  Above, my niece Sophie (a flower girl in the wedding) dances around freely while Ben runs up and down specific rows of parquet tiles.


Ben had promised his cousin Emily (his favorite person ever) that he would dance with her.  But he has his own personal dance style.  If you listen closely you can hear her say, "He's not even dancing with me!"


So this wasn't dancing as much as three kids chasing each other while Maddy crawled across the dance floor and we all held our breath hoping she didn't get trampled.  She got scooped up pretty quickly.  I heard that adults finally got a chance to dance after we left.

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

21 Months Old

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Well, I blinked and now Maddy is 21 months old.  She is sick today, so I was lucky to get this one photo of her smiling.

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From several weeks ago.  She loves Daddy's Cincinnati Reds hat.

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It's so neat to see the two of them becoming friends.

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From the day that Ben pretended he was a baby.

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This play kitchen was in the basement and the kids rarely played with it.  I moved it to the living room and now Maddy loves it.  Fork, anyone?

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This has been The Month of Books.  She usually wants us to read the books to her.  But when she reads them by herself, she uses her hands and feet.

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She is convinced that this walking toy is actually a chair.  Also, she seems to sense that I want to take her pacifiers away and she is now stockpiling them.  I swear she hides them around the house.

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Mike finally got her used to sitting on the grass.  No more whining, crying or screaming when her delicate feet touch the ground outside.

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Banana!


Maddy has come up with her own way saying "banana."  First she cracked me up by doing whatever this is.


Then the silliness continued.  When I told her she was cheesing for the camera, she said "kee" because that's how she says "cheese."  And of course at the end she asked for a book, because she always always always wants books.