Friday, December 31, 2010

Christmas Day

This was the first year that Ben got really excited about Santa bringing him presents for Christmas.  I was amazed that we got a tree up and lit this year, even if I didn't get a chance to hang ornaments.  Just like on his birthday, he opened and played with presents faster than we could take pictures.  Here are the highlights.

 A wooden food set - the pieces attach to each other with velcro so he can "cut" them apart.  It's just like the pizza set he got for his birthday.  He loves both sets a bunch.  And they don't use batteries!

 Here's the big hit of the morning: the toy trumpet from Nana and Pap-Pap.  He blows through it and presses the valve buttons to make sounds.  It made him forget about all his other presents for a few minutes.

 This was an impulse buy from Ikea.  He already has blocks, but this was inexpensive and colorful and had lots of shapes.  He insisted on playing with it immediately.  And he loves that he can pull the wagon around.  Again, NO BATTERIES :)

 He's really into shapes & colors right now.  We had to encourage him to open his other presents.

Another cheap Ikea buy: animal finger puppets.

 Taking a break to watch his new Sid the Science Kid DVD (with Mr. Grinch, of course).  I don't remember him looking that tired, but I'm not surprised.

 The awesome boat from Aunt Katie & Uncle Brian.

 The play tent (part of it, anyway) from Nana & Pap.  This got a big "Oooo!" from Ben.

After attaching the tunnel to the tent.  First looking out from inside...

 Then looking in from outside...

 ...then scampering through.  Too fast for pictures.

So where was Madeline during all of this, you ask?

In my arms, fast asleep.  For most of the day.  She pretty much ate in her sleep.  Then she woke up when we went to bed.  She'll catch on to this Christmas thing eventually.

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Ben With Microwave and Camera


Today I was going to post pictures of Ben opening Christmas presents but instead I took a nap.  But here's a video of Ben to hold you over.  He likes to heat up his food in the microwave because he likes hot food, and he likes to count down the numbers on the microwave display.  This video also shows what happens when Ben gets hold of our camera.

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Ben Turns 3

 Today is Ben's third birthday!  I'd say I can't believe he's already three...except that he's acting so much like a three-year-old: saying the most adorable things one minute, then making me want to scream in frustration the next minute.  It's great that he really understands the concept of birthdays this year.  He had an awesome time opening his presents.  Mike did his best to take pictures, but Ben was all over the place.  And Ben does not pose for pictures.  Here's a sample of what he got:

 Here's the fantastic train set (his first one) from Nana and Pap-Pap.  He wanted to look at every little piece one at a time, then realized he had oodles more presents to open.

 Educational matching puzzle cards, again from my folks.

Wooden clock from the parental units.

A wooden play pizza set with toppings that are attached with velcro.  This was from Aunt Katie and Uncle Brian.  Mike got video of Ben playing with this; I can't wait to look at it, hopefully we'll post it soon.

 The Damage.

 The Birthday Cake (which he was asking for all day long).

 This is what I got when I asked him to smile for the camera.  He's not in pain.

The Grinch (from Mike's dad), which Ben first chucked on the floor in order to get at another present in the same bag, ended up getting some appreciation in the end.  Ben hugged him a lot and took him up to bed with him.  In this photo, Ben was saying "ready, set, go!" and Mike snapped the photo on "go."  Someday we'll get him to say "cheese" while looking at the camera.  Maybe when he turns four.

One Month Old



Madeline turned one month old yesterday (and I'm just getting around to posting this now, oops).  She is such a sweetheart.  She's opening her eyes more and more.  She can track objects that are right in front of her face - it's neat to see how we can hold her gaze.  Most of the time she eats pretty well and doesn't have any problems going back and forth from nursing to bottle feedings.  She takes great naps during the day, sometimes for more than two hours (and then I have to wake her up to eat).  Nighttime is not so wonderful...she's doing the newborn thing where she wakes up just as we're ready for bed.  Once she's awake in the middle of the night, it takes an hour or two to get her back down.  During the day she naps in the pack & play in our main living area.  At night she's in the bassinet beside my side of the bed.  She does not like to be swaddled at all.  After swaddling Ben for so long, it's strange to have a baby who just goes to sleep without being wrapped up.  We make sure to bundle her up in lots of layers because it's been so cold here.  She has been out and about to social functions several times, and she does well being held by all of her adoring fans.

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Early December

Wearing a hand-me-down from Ben.  And posing just like Ben did when he was a newborn.
 
Studying Daddy.

 I snuck up on Aunt Katie for this one.

 Ben is obsessed with his Advent calendars.  He has two of them, one for before naptime and one for before bedtime.

 Checking out the floating teddy bears.

 It took a while for Ben to understand that the pack & play is now for the baby and not for him.
  He's cool with it now.

 She loves her super-comfy ducky sleep sack.

 Helping to make pumpkin bread.  He didn't think I was putting in enough of the spices.

 "Benamin stir!"

Our first friend to visit us at home after Madeline was born.  Ben is always thrilled to see Aunt Ali, or "Ah-yee" as he calls her.

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Dwarfism

For those who don't know, Madeline has been diagnosed with dwarfism.  This wasn't a huge surprise to me & Mike since my high-risk doctor had noticed some interesting things back on that ultrasound several months ago.  But since I never got a chance to give any details here about her birth, I thought I'd explain more now about how she is being diagnosed.

We were aware that Madeline probably had some kind of skeletal dysplasia, which could range from something very mild to some horrible life-threatening condition.  My doctor thought there was a good chance that she had achondroplasia, the most common form of dwarfism.  We just had to wait until the birth to find out.  The first step would be for a doctor to simply look at her after the birth.  During my c-section, a doctor from the NICU (Dr. A) was in the operating room to evaluate Madeline as soon as she was born and determine whether she was healthy enough to stay with us, or whether they'd have to whisk her off to the NICU.  After she was born Dr. A examined her and told Mike it looked like Maddy did have dwarfism and that she'd order some tests for further evaluation.  I can't explain how relieved we were that she seemed to be healthy and did not have any immediate medical problems.

The next step was a skeletal survey, which is a whole bunch of x-rays.  From this, a radiologist determined that she had many of the characteristics of achondroplasia - but there were some things that might point to a different form of dwarfism, so he couldn't make a definite diagnosis.  While we were still in the hospital, Dr. A decided to proceed as if Madeline did indeed have achondroplasia and ordered a brain MRI to rule out certain problems that might come with that condition.  The results were normal.

Dr. A also explained a bit more about dwarfism and how it may affect the future for Madeline and our family.  In the long term, we don't know if she will have any medical complications.  She may need access to specific kinds of medical resources when we get back to the states.  She could possibly need resources like speech therapy, physical therapy and occupational therapy.  Or she may not need any of that.  But for now, we know to be prepared for possible delays in developmental milestones such as sitting up unassisted, crawling, and walking.  Because her head is large and she has decreased muscle tone, we need to avoid using baby equipment that does not provide support for her head since she will probably have trouble holding her head up for a while.  She may be more likely to have ear infections, and we need to watch out for sleep apnea.  She is scheduled for a sleep study in February.

We are taking Madeline to a wonderful pediatrician, Dr. O, at the Army hospital where she was born.  Dr. O pointed out some of Madeline's physical traits other than her short arms and legs that indicate achondroplasia, like the shape of her face, her prominent forehead, and the shape of her nose and eyes.  At one appointment she was slightly concerned about a sudden increase in Maddy's head measurement so she ordered an ultrasound to make sure there was no hydrocephalus, or "fluid on the brain" (there wasn't).  This is a common concern in kids with achondroplasia.  Dr. O also sent us to a German clinic in Heidelberg to speak with a genetic counselor and have bloodwork taken to see if they can confirm that Maddy has achondroplasia, and if not, what kind of dwarfism she does have.  We saw that doctor this week and hope to have the results from the blood test in about a month.  The genetic counselor said that it's certainly not necessary for us to do the blood test, but we'd like to have a definite diagnosis if possible because it would help us know what kinds of medical issues could be down the line.

All of this is very new to us.  First we were advised to not do too much research while I was pregnant (my doctor didn't want us stressed over nothing until we knew what we were dealing with), and then we scrambled to find information once she was born.  And while we've gotten great support from Madeline's doctors, they have very limited experience with dwarfism.  We are doing a lot of research on our own.  Mike and my sister Katie found the website for Little People of America, and it offers a lot of super-helpful information.  I also hope it will provide some social support for us as Maddy gets older.

Right now it's easy for me & Mike to forget she has dwarfism.  She is just our sweet baby girl.  There are only a few things we need to deal with that are different than what we're used to.  She is quite a bit top-heavy and we have to carefully support her head, and she has some feeding issues possibly due to lack of muscle tone in her face and tongue.  And I will need to learn how to hem her clothing - her newborn clothes fit her torso just fine, but her arms and legs get lost in the sleeves and pants.  She looks awfully cute in all the girlie outfits we have for her.  She is adorable in pink (thankfully, since that's most of her wardrobe!) and it looks like her eyes are already starting to turn brown.  I'd be shocked if they were any other color.  So far Ben is very good with her.  He kisses her goodnight, and he helps to feed her bottles.  I know Madeline's not even a month old yet, but right now she's a calm, mild-mannered baby.  I can take her in the car without her screaming her head off like her brother did when he was a baby, and she only cries when she's hungry or uncomfortable.  She makes the most darling facial expressions.  I love that she loves to snuggle.  We're looking forward to seeing more and more of her personality come through over the next few months.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

At Home

 Coming home from the hospital.

 Sitting on Big Brother's lap for the first time, with help from Nana.

 The first time Ben saw Madeline at the hospital, he cried, "No baby, no baby!"  By the time she came home, he was ready to offer her the remote control - one of his most prized possessions.




 Her hair gets really curly during baths.  As soon as it dries, it's straight.  And goes into a mohawk.




Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Madeline Rose's Birth

Madeline Rose Richter
November 22, 2010
9:01 am
9 lbs 4 oz
20.5 inches