بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

The Letters from Mother

Dan hendaklah kamu beribadat kepada Allah dan janganlah kamu sekutukan Dia dengan sesuatu apa jua; dan hendaklah kamu berbuat baik kepada kedua ibubapa. [al-Nisa’ 4:36][1]

Katakanlah: "Marilah, supaya aku bacakan apa yang telah diharamkan oleh Tuhan kamu kepada kamu, iaitu janganlah kamu sekutukan dengan Allah sesuatupun; dan hendaklah (kamu) membuat baik kepada ibubapa.” [al-An’aam 6:151]

Dan Tuhanmu telah perintahkan, supaya engkau tidak menyembah melainkan kepada-Nya semata-mata, dan hendaklah engkau berbuat baik kepada ibu bapa. [al-Isra’ 17:23]

The tears fall , there're so easy to wipe off onto my sleeve , but how do I erase the stain from my heart?

This statement usually come from the mouth of friends, spouse , or perhaps our siblings but absolutely imposible to come from the mouth of our Mom.Allah has given a miracle feeling to every mothers' heart in this world towards her children which known as a LOVE that they always pray the best for us despite we always ignore and angry towards her.
I love to share a story about the sacrifice of a mom.I do.not know whether this story is true or not but I just love to share it.Perhaps your tears will fall down after reading this supersad story.

My mom only had one eye.I hated her..she was such an embarassment.She cooked for students and teachers to support the family.There was this one day during elementary school where my mom came to say hello to me.I was so embarassed.How could she do this to me?
I ignored her, threw her a hateful look and ran out. The next day at school one of my classmates said, ''EEEE, your mom only has one eye!''
I wanted to bury myself. I also wanted my mom to just disappear. So I confronted her that day and said, ''If you're only gonna make me a laughing stock, why don't you just die?!!!''
My mom did not respond...
I didn't even stop to think for a second about what I had said' because I was full of anger. I was oblivious to her feelings.I wanted out of that house , and have nothing to do with her.
So I studied real hard.Got a chance to go to Singapore to study.
Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own.I was happy with my life, my kids and the comforts.
Then one day, my mother came to visit me.She hadn't seen me in years and she didn't meet her grandchildren.
When she stood by the door, my children laughed at her, and I yelled at her for coming over uninvited.
I screamed at her, ''How dare you come to my house and scare my children!''
''Get out of here!!! Now!!''
And to this, my mother quitely answered, ''Oh, I'm so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address,'' and she dissappeared out of sight.
One day a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house in Singapore.So I lied to my wife that I was going on a business trip.After that reunion, I went to the old shack which was my childhood home just out of curiosity.
My neighbours said that she has passed away. I did not shed a single tear.They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have :

My dearest son,
I think of you all the time.I'm sorry that I came to Singapore
and scared your children.
I was so glad when I heard you are coming for the reunion.
But I may not be able to even get out of bed to see you.
I'm sorry that I was a constant embarassment to you
when you were growing up.
You see.......
When you were very little, you got into an accident,
and lost your eye...
As a mother, I couldn't stand watching you
having to grow up with one eye.
So I gave you mine.
I was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me,
in my place, with that eye.
With my love to you..
Your mother...

A man came to the Prophet and said, ‘O Messenger of God! Who among the people is the most worthy of my good companionship? The Prophet said: Your mother. The man said, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: Then your mother. The man further asked, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: Then your mother. The man asked again, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: Then your father.(Bukhari, Muslim).

I remember my mother's prayers and they have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life. ~Abraham Lincoln
The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness. ~Honoré de Balzac

4 Jamadil Awal 1433
27 March 2012
7.30 pm
Bayt Ibtisam,Amman,Jordan

Thursday, December 29, 2011

What are you wish for this Life?

Most people said Tarbiyah is everything..Without it,our heart will empty..But I think this statement is wrong because Tarbiyah is the way of life for us to know and fall in love with Allah Taala.It should be Allah is everything..right?
So what is the true statement for Tarbiyah?

~EVERYTHING BEGINS WITH TARBIYAH~

Although this two statement almost same,but actually they are different at all! Actually Islam begins with Tarbiyah.Rasulullah SAW educates his sahabat to put Iman and Islam in their heart. Watch this vedio and you will find the answer ^_^

Praise be to Allah for giving us these nikmat.We as a human(best of creation) should put a motive and objective and goal to obtain an eternally life -akhirat-.Spread Islam to our neighbourworld so that they know how precious Iman is, and how lucky to be a Mukmin..

Wallaua'lam

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

The Secret Behind Tests

When we are wake up in the rainy morning,we will say..what the.....!!! i will get fever....when we walk in a hot day,most of us will say,ahh!! where is the rain? i'm very hot....

we never thanz and grateful to Allah for everything HE gives to us in our life...but we forget,all of these is the tests from Allah,

Allah only tests people with such difficulties as they can bear

This is an important secret of the test that most of us dont know.Just compare ourselves with all sahabat during our prophet time,how they face their enemy in Badr(war) during 17 Ramadhan 2 hijriah...they are starving at that time until they tie the stone in their stomach.Have we ever feel like this before? but with the help of Allah,they win..Alhamdulillah they can bear with it.

And if we know about Ja'far Bin Abi Thalib r.a , the warlord of Mu'tah war happened in Jamadil Uula 8 Hijriah,the tests Allah gives to him show that his Iman is very thight..at first,his horse was killed force he to go down,then they(enemy) cut his foot and his right hand...try to put ourselves in his place,what should we do? i think that i will lie down wait to kick the bucket,but not him..Ja'far Bin Abi Thalib never fed up as he still hold the flag with his left hand...then,they attacked his left hand,but he still hold the flag using his arms,imagine..the war leader that amputated hand and foot still hold the flag until he was killed.This show how love he is towards Allah, Rasul and Islam,making him easy to bear that tests.

Allah does not impose on any self any more than it can stand. For it is what it has earned; against it, what it has merited. Oh Allah, do not take us to task if we forget or make a mistake! Oh Allah, do not place on us a load like the one You placed on those before us! Oh Allah, do not place on us a load we have not the strength to bear! And pardon us; and forgive us; and have mercy on us. You are our Master , so help us against the people of unbelievers. (Surat al-Baqara, 28)

All people in this world must face the tests, some of us lost their handphone or their shoes,lost one of their sweet family, live in a poor family and live in luxury...all of this are the tests tests and tests...this is how we live,full of tests...whatever happen in our live,there have a purpose behind it,the BIG purpose of it is we will become closer to Allah,more sincere in ibadah towards HIM.He has explained why we cannot be freed from difficulties and troubles, and why we remain weak, unhappy and without answers. He has said that there is always a solution for people who believe and have a profound love and respect for and a genuine fear of Allah.This immutable law of Allah is revealed as follows in the Qur’an:

For truly with hardship comes ease; truly with hardship comes ease. So when you have finished, work on, and make your Lord your goal! (Surat al-Inshirah, 5-8)

We will ease you to the Easy Way. (Surat Al-A‘la, 8)

Express your feeling towards Allah..
you will find happiness and peaceful

Allah has shown the moral values that bestow ease in this world and the Hereafter, what is true and easy, and how to live amid blessings and happiness. For a believer to live without forgetting this important secret and to know that he will draw strength from Allah in the face of all difficulties and that all doors will be opened for him when he submits to Allah is the only solution that can provide peace, comfort, happiness and blessings in this world and the Hereafter

Monday, December 12, 2011

The Miracle Of Journey

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

The book of 'The miracle Of Journey' writen by Abdirizak Omar was started with the birth of a child in nomadic land and have to face the chaos in the civil war in somalia.

How about your life ?Is your life start with chaos and pain like the nomadic child or with happily and pleased? Some will say : yes,i started my life with pleased and comfortable with luxury in a banglo house.But some will say : even i've more money,but it can't comfort my life...and the other one will say : i live happily with my family even we do not have much money.There will be variety of answers because Allah creates His servants with different way of life with different luck..But this coming up question will bring a answer.Do you born with true faith of Islam? The answer is YES....

ما من مولود إلا يولد على الفطرة ، فأبواه يهودانه ، أو ينصرانه ، أو يمجسانه ، كما تنتج البهيمة بهيمة جمعاء ، هل تحسون فيها من جدعاء ، ثم يقول : فطرة الله التي فطر الناس عليها لا تبديل لخلق الله ذلك الدين القيم
الراوي: أبو هريرة المحدث: البخاري - المصدر: صحيح البخاري - الصفحة أو الرقم: 4775
خلاصة حكم المحدث: صحيح

Narrated Abu- Huraira: Rasulullah SAW said, "No child is born except on Al-Fitra (Islam) and then his parents make him Jewish, Christian or Magian, as an animal produces a perfect young animal: do you see any part of its body amputated?" Then he recited the holy verses 'The religion of pure Islamic Faith (Hanifa),(i.e. to worship none but Allah), The pure Allah's Islamic nature with which He (Allah) has created mankind. Let There be no change in Allah's religion (i.e. to join none in Allah's worship). That is the straight religion; but most of men know not..." (30.30) (Book #60, Hadith #298)

so innocent..so cute..so sweet

Everybody in this world are innocent at first...so who you want to blame if today you are bad and evil?your parents whom educate you or your freinds or YOURSELVE? Remember,nobody can change you unless you change yourselve and make an improvement in your life,the improvement in all aspects such as faith,confidence in Allah and the most important is your attitudes,how was your attitude towards senior citizen or the beloved one your parents?is it same as the manner towards your friend or the children?NO NO NO NO...You have to know that you are the one who make yourselve become good or bad person.

All of us come from the same place,and Allah put us everywhere in this world just to worship him and be strong of all test that come from HIM..and at last,we will return back to HIM.But,not in the same place anymore,some will go to jannah and some will go to the hell!this is how Allah create our journey...so,dear servant of Allah,dont forget that our life in this world is not the life but the transit to go to the eternal life.I'm sure that all of us know about this,even non muslim also know about this,but the difference is how far you confidence with ALLAH and how sincere you worship ALLAH.

QUOTE FROM MALAYSIAN
Hebatnya manusia yang apabila pagi bermula dia pun mula berharap yang pagi itu dia dapat menolong orang lain yang memerlukan,menggembirakan orang lain yang sedih,melindungi orang lain yang lemah,menghormati orang lain yang berilmu,menyayangi orang lain tanpa syarat,lalu menebarkan salam kepada semua muslim,sehingga semua yang menemuinya akan tersenyum bahagia melihatnya..MasyaALLAH !!!

Saturday, October 8, 2011

Almost a Month i've Been in Prophets' Trail

Within 2 days, on this coming 10/10/2011 it is accurate a month I live in jordan...dont know why,but i feel it is almost a year i've been here..maybe bcause i miss my family so much,n all my frendz there...really miss all of u !! T_T...but..i know,i've a mission here..to complete my responsibility as a chaliphate..Allah said in surah al-Baqorah:30 ''And remember when your Lord said to the angels: ‘verily, I am going to place a successor on the earth.’ They said: ‘will you place therein those who will make mischief therein and shed blood, - while we glorify You with praises and thanks and sanctify You?’ He said: ‘I know that which you do not know’" what point Allah sent me here if IF I just sit n cry remember my home swett home..fasihah nasuha!!please be strong!!i like this inspired malay quote:

BUKAN SAJA-SAJA Allah meletakkan anda dalam BIDANG itu..
BUKAN SAJA-SAJA Allah mengurniakan anda KEPAKARAN itu..
BUKAN SAJA-SAJA Allah memasukkan KELEMAHAN itu..
BUKAN SAJA-SAJA Allah memberikan UJIAN sebegitu..
BUKAN SAJA-SAJA Allah membiarkan anda mengemudi dalam KEADAAN sebegitu..
MELAINKAN Allah tahu anda akan memberikan sesuatu dalam bidang itu..
MELAINKAN Allah tahu anda bakal membiakkan ilmu-ilmu itu..
MELAINKAN Allah akan temukan anda dengan insan-insan ikhlas membantu..
MELAINKAN Allah mahu menguatkanmu..
MELAINKAN Allah mahu anda tahu betapa tingginya kasih sayangNya padamu..

yeah..I can stand on my own,

because I know I am never alone.ALLAH..thank u for being here with me..