My Boys

My Boys

Saturday, August 29, 2009

Happy 2nd Birthday!

***I've been absent from the blogging world for a few weeks because I've been studying hard core for the school librarian TExES test. (I studied for 2 months about 30 minutes each day, but tried to increase my study time the last 2 weeks.) I graduated with my masters degree in library science a year ago, but in order to use that degree in Texas and get a job, I had to take this TExES test. When I graduated, I decided that it wasn't worth it to take this test as it only certifies you in Texas for 5 years. I knew the chances of me working as a librarian in the next 5 years were slim, so I opted out. But, with the economy not doing so well and lots of people losing jobs, I figured I better play it safe and just pay the $120 to take the test, which I did this morning. I feel pretty confident that I passed as there were only about 5 questions I wasn't totally sure on out of the 100 questions. It felt weird to study again after having a year break from schooling.

The most important thing to catch up on from these last two weeks was that Caleb celebrated his 2nd birthday last Saturday, Aug. 22nd. For reasons of crowd control, we had my family over Saturday night and Matt's family over on Sunday night. The Saturday party started around 3:30 for some swimming. We ate dinner at our house at 5:30 followed by presents and dessert. His presents from my family revolved around Thomas the Train, as that seems to be Caleb's favorite obsession right now. Here is a video of us singing happy birthday to him and his first attempt ever at blowing out candles.



Sunday night, Matt's family joined us for dinner, presents, and cake. Matt's mom made this doggie cake for Caleb.


Caleb was unsuccessful in blowing out the candles Sunday night.

I thought this was such a neat idea for a present...a piggy bank! Caleb LOVES to put the quarters in that came with the present over and over again.

Caleb's 2-year-old stats from the doctor: Height 33.25" & Weight 27 lb. His cousin 6 months younger than him is now taller and bigger than Caleb, but his stats are still average.

As I've been reflecting on all that Caleb has added to our lives over the past two years, his more unique qualities that grate on my nerves come forefront to my mind perhaps because this last week was really trying. He got a live flu virus at his doctor's appointment which gave him symptoms of the flu so he's had a fever and diarrhea all week and therefore did not sleep/nap well (when I so desperately needed his nap time so I could study)!

Some of these unique qualities include some of his sleeping troubles that I didn't mention in the last post. Caleb is a light sleeper. When he was much younger, we had to watch what activities we did at night after he went to bed, and I had to be careful about noise while he took a nap. He's improved slightly, but even this morning a toilet flushing woke him up at 6:30 a.m. as I was preparing to leave to take my test. Not so much now as when he was younger, but phones ringing when he took a nap woke him up, so I usually unplugged our house phone and had my phone on a low ring tone. If I talked on the phone while he napped, I had to be at the opposite side of the house, and I still lowered my voice. Not anymore, but I remember watching movies downstairs after Caleb went to bed (his room is upstairs) and having the volume on low. We got real used to subtitles and now actually prefer to have them on when we watch movies. I can also count on one hand these last two years the number of times Caleb has woken up happy and just plays in his crib. When he wakes up each day, he lets you know he's awake with a terrifying death scream that neighbors could probably hear walking past our house. Is this normal? Are there any other kids out there like this or is Caleb just "special"?

Despite how hard it can be to be his mom at times, the good always outweigh the bad. It is so adorable the way he greets Matt when Matt gets home from work each day. His "Thank you Momma and Thank you Daddy" melt our hearts. He's always been a little cuddler, and we love cuddling when we watch a movie with him. I love his fascination with the scriptures. Caleb loves music and will get up and dance right away when fun music is playing. He's recently started singing songs (abc song although he just knows the tune and throws in whatever letters he wants), and he loves to act out songs in nursery. Races are his favorite, but usually he's just racing against himself. He'll say "mark, set, go" or "1, 2, 3, go" and just start running from one destination to another. He's so forgiving and so fun to play with. We love taking him on new adventures (zoo, museums, new parks, etc.) because his face just lights up.

We're so glad he's a part of our lives and love him so much.

Monday, August 17, 2009

Bye Bye Binky

Getting rid of the pacifier has been a work-in-progress since Caleb was 15 months old! At Caleb's 15-month appointment, the pediatrician told me straight up that it's time to be all done pacifier when she saw Caleb had it in his mouth (which I normally didn't bring out with me in public but knew he was getting shots and would need something to comfort him). She said cold turkey was the best method and to just throw it away.

Matt and I didn't act on her advice right away because sleeping has been our biggest trial with Caleb. The first time Caleb slept through the night was when he was 3 1/2 months old, and that was a fluke. I recorded in Caleb's journal any time he slept through the night because the nights were so infrequent!!! (When Caleb was 5 months, I have an entry expressing my frustration of waking up with him twice during the middle of the night every night!) It was more than just sleeping through the night that was so difficult. Getting him to go to sleep by himself took forever/5months (I did start some bad habits in his first few months of nursing him to sleep which didn't help matters...I didn't start reading books on sleeping until he was 3 months and realized everything I had been doing was wrong!). I remember how I used to dread putting Caleb down for a nap or down for bed because it was so hard! There was always lots of crying/screaming involved not just for a few minutes, but for 45 min. to an hour. When he became attached to his pacifier, there were no complaints on our end simply because it made nap/bedtime so much easier.

So at 16 months we took away the pacifier cold turkey. He actually did okay as long as we were in the room with him (usually holding his hand) until he fell asleep. However, a week later, he caught some sort of cold virus and was the sickest he'd ever been with fevers, stuffy nose, etc. We finally gave in and gave him back his pacifier so that he would actually sleep. After he was better, we noticed most every kid older than Caleb at church still had a pacifier, so we didn't worry about taking it away anymore, but made sure he only had it for naps and for bed.

About a month ago, we decided that he better be all done pacifier by the time he turned 2. So we tried cold turkey again. I guess he was ultra-attached by this point and after listening to my toddler cry for 90 minutes, my nerves just couldn't take that twice a day (nap and bedtime). Instead we tried snipping his binky, and that's what ended up working for us. I snipped it just a little at first, and then once a week I would snip it a little more. It got to the point where he didn't like his pacifier anymore, which is what we needed.

The glitch in this plan happened when we made our impromptu trip to Utah. Caleb wouldn't sleep and was preventing his cousin, Dallin, from sleeping as well. As if a road trip is not hard enough, throw 2 crying, cranky babies on top of that where the parents never get a reprieve from trying to entertain their children, and it will drive anyone crazy! After 2 days of driving to Utah and wanting to pull my hair out (as well as knowing everyone else is miserable), we finally gave in and gave Caleb his cousin's spare binky for the rest of the vacation. It made things 10 times easier with getting Caleb to take naps and sleep in an unfamiliar environment, and the drive home was much more pleasant when the babies actually took a 2 hour nap and slept well at night.

I was worried about starting from scratch again when we got home, but Caleb only had a tough time that first night going to sleep. Now sometimes he'll still cry for 10 minutes or so, but generally he will just lay down until he goes to sleep.

Mission accomplished!

As a weird side note, Caleb has called his pacifier a 'na na' since he was about 18 months old. I have no clue why he calls it this. Dallin, Caleb's cousin who is 6 months younger than him, has started calling his pacifier a 'na na' as well, much to his parent's dismay :o).

Sunday, August 9, 2009

Impromptu Vacation

We made the long drive to Utah on Saturday, August 1st in order to attend the graveside service of my grandfather who passed away on July 31st. Most of the extended family was there for the service, and it was good to catch up with family and celebrate my grandpa's life. One of his greatest talents was painting and sketches. I get so many compliments on the sketches he has done of Matt and I when we got married and 3 different sketches of Caleb at various ages. We have two beautiful scenery paintings that he has done for us as well. Although I didn't know him as well as my older siblings (because we moved to Texas when I was 7), I know how much my mother admired and looked up to her father. His passing was expected and a relief as his quality of life had gone down significantly.

Because we were going to spend 4 days driving total for this impromtu occasion, we decided to make as much of a vacation out of it that we could. We visited a museum with the kids and went to an indoor pool with lots of kids' activities. The kids were also able to go to the zoo with my parents, grandma, aunt, and cousin while the kids' parents attended the Salt Lake temple. Thanks to my cousin, Ali, for being the photographer so we could have lots of pictures of the outing! Probably the most memorable activity that we did with my family was to go to a park and sit in a circle and talk about all our favorite memories of my grandpa. It ended with a rousing game of red rover, which the kids enjoyed immensely. Here are some pictures of the trip. Unfortunately Matt is only in one picture as he had to fly home early for work.