Well, as most human beings, my life has been pretty uneventful this past week. Well, not
completely uneventful but nothing of noteworthy to report.
Today I had some funny random thoughts and just had to share.
1. Dustin. Yes, Dustin continues to be funny, all the time. While I like his
funniness I hope he will figure out before he goes to kindergarten that there are times to be funny and there are times not to be funny. Saturday night we went as a family to
Panera Bread for supper. While on our way Dustin had the biggest grin on his face. The grin was associated with the fact that instead of putting on his own tennis shoes before we left, he purposefully put on my tennis shoes, tied them and all. He was very proud of this, and not the least bit hindered by the fact that the shoes were 10 times bigger than his feet. So.... we continued driving to
Panera and went in and ate. I tried to ignore the fact that some people must have wondered why our 5 year old had overly large shoes on.
2. Going to the bathroom. Everyone knows that once you become a parent the notion of "privacy" quickly
disappears. I was in the restroom (to much information I know), and I could hear Dustin coming down the stairs saying "Mom! mom!, Dad, do you know where mom is?". A moment later Dustin appears at the bathroom door with a
handful of super
heroes he has just drawn on a stack of
construction paper. He is oblivious as to what I am doing and goes on to ask me to look at them and tell him which one is my favorite. I calmly told him that I would be out soon. So he lays them out systematically on my bed and as he walks away I can hear him say "just look at them and then bring them upstairs". The life of a mother.
3. Logic. Each day with kids is a reminder that there are just certain areas of a childs brain that haven't fully developed yet,
like in the logic area. Daria took a shower, and used a regular towel. This is normal for
Daria, she's a very logical, systematic person. Then Dustin takes a bath, I came in and gave him a towel, and he says "No! that's not my towel, mines the small one" I look over to find that he got out a hand towel to use when he was done bathing. I can't even figure that one out.
4. Piano practice. It's spring break.
This means that all normal routines in this house are on hold. Daria hasn't touched the piano all day. She usually practices in the morning, but she's enjoying these days off (even though she still has lessons this week). I finally get a chance to practice late this evening. The moment I begin, it seems to draw Daria to to the piano. She is anxiously waiting behind me with a song book in her hand "hurry mom, I've got to play this
piece". I remind her I'm practicing, it will take awhile. With each page I turn she asks if I'm done yet. I eventually got her to leave and find something else to do.
5. Parents. I think the coolest thing about being a parent is it forces you to look at your own parents through eyes that have the layers peeled back. All of those
things that one
used to hate that their parents did, becomes so understandable and logical as a parent oneself. Like the long showers for instance. I would think that given Daria's small size that a 10-15 minute shower would be good enough. Not so! Daria can drain our water heater in one washing. Now we've put limits on it. She's getting better.
6. Floors. There are two things I really hate to do. Wash floors and clean toilets. It goes back to the "in-box is never empty principal" in the Don't Sweat the Small Stuff book. The fact of the matter is, my mind tends to be to logical sometimes. Like, it just doesn't seem logical to clean the kitchen floor when you KNOW it will be dirty in less than an hour, which is rare, it's usually less than 20 minutes.
The same for toilets, you clean them and they get used right away. I was thinking of this
tonight because I really feel like I"m on a
cleaning strike with my kitchen floor. It drives me insane to clean it. Oh yes the kids will sweep it when they make a mess but that does not always do the job. The kids will help mop, but again, it's not always
thorough. So for now I must endure the pain of a floor that will forever get messy.
7. Fruit snacks.
Ok, I hate that they call these things fruit snacks. I consider them fruit flavored candy with vitamin C pumped into them. My kids know I wont buy them. But even after years of them knowing I wont buy them, they are still drawn in by the marketing
tactics of the boxes while we're at the store. It happened today. The princess box of so called fruit snacks practically jumped off the shelf into our view. I was a bit on edge anyway and told the kids that they would probably be better off going home and eating a table spoon of sugar
instead! joking of course. I'm reminded of the fact that Costco here stopped carrying the all natural fruit bars. So when I visited my friend in Utah last year, we went to her Costco and I bought 10 boxes. The problem was trying to figure out how to get 480 fruit bars home. It's amazing how heavy they can be once put together in large groups. I finally
figured out I could take them out of the boxes and stuff them into gallon bags and place them in multiple suitcases to even out the weight. It worked perfect!
Now that all of you have read my random thoughts I'm sure you feel much better for it! Ha, ha.