For Valentine's Day Loni volunteered to watch Crue so Jared and I could have a night to ourselves. We went to Pizza Factory for dinner (I LOVE their breadsticks dipped in honey butter) and then Jared surprised me and took me to Maggie Moos for dessert (they just opened two days before). It was SO good! Then we went to our house to hang out with just the two of us for a while. It was nice to be able to just be with Jared for a night and not have to chase around a little boy. (Thank you Loni and Mom!)
After a wonderful night our crazy week began. The Saturday before Valentine's Day Jared kept saying his gut hurt but it wasn't like an upset stomach or anything. He couldn't describe it. It went on for a few days and then it was gone. Saturday it came back but in a more specific location. Sunday he looked online to try to figure out what he might have and said it might be appendicitis from the location of the pain. Sunday night he was in so much pain. He asked me if I remembered when they asked me at the hospital when I had Crue to rate my pain a 1-10 (10 being the worst). He said it was a 10. Rather than going to the ER and having the added expense, he decided to wait until Monday morning to go to the doctor. His doctor was on call so he wasn't in the office that day. The office told him to go to the emergency room. He called the InstaCare but they were closed so we finally went to the emergency room around 9:30 on Monday morning (the biggest thing that made him go - he didn't want another night like Sunday night). I took Crue to our friends' house because they wouldn't let him in the room in the ER area with all the sickness. After blood tests and a CT scan they said he had appendicitis. They took him to another part of the hospital where we waited for a while and then they finally got him ready for surgery. They took him in at 2:15 pm. I went home to eat something because the last thing I ate was breakfast before we went to the hospital. I came back an hour and a half later (surgery was supposed to take an hour) and he was in the recovery room but they hadn't brought him back to the room he had been in before yet. While I was sitting there one of the nurses said he was in the operating recovery room and when they brought him out I could walk with them to another room. We ended up going from the er at one end of the hospital, to surgery in the middle, to patient rooms at the other end. The doctor stopped and talked to me before they brought Jared out and said the appendix had perforated (luckily it didn't rupture) and had leaked some fluid into him. He said he can't lift more than 30 lbs for two weeks and he can't go back to work for 2 weeks. He said if he was feeling really energetic and wanted to go back to work he could on Monday but only part time (and of course he'd only be able to lift 30 lbs). He also said his appendix was really sick so it's a good thing he came in. So then they brought him by and he was still waking up. I followed them to his room. Because of the perforation he had a drainage cord coming out of him that led to a bottle thing (the shape of a grenade). It was to pull out any of the fluid that had leaked. Also because of the perforation he had to stay in the hospital overnight so we didn't get home until Tuesday night around 7 pm. I ended up not watching kids Tuesday or Wednesday (luckily Monday was a holiday). Thanks to Tyson and Rachael for taking Crue all day (literally) Monday and Tuesday night and to Jenny for watching him Tuesday! I did take Crue to see Jared but he just wanted to go run around in the hall and not sit there in the room with Jared so it was nice to have friends that took him so I could be there with Jared. Then my awesome cousin Tamara brought us dinner on Wednesday night. Tyson's parents had taken Tyson, Rachael, and Crue to dinner Tuesday night so they got some for us and brought it home (it was Jared's first solid food since Sunday night). Thank you to everyone for your help and support.
Scotty's first year
14 years ago

