Monday, April 10, 2017

counting by 10's

My father turns 60 this year, which reminded me of attending a surprise 50th party for him a decade ago, which of course reminded me that 10 years ago this month my husband graduated from law school.

From there my thoughts turned to what life was like 10 years ago: two small children, ages three and one. One mini-van. Our first experience ever not in school: a job at a prestigious law firm, 1741 miles away in Cleveland, Ohio. A home to be bought.

2007 dreams for 10 years ahead: income!, another vehicle, a real dining table, perhaps more children, children going to school, student loans paid off, a bigger home, maybe partnership at said law firm, sharing life with friends and family.

Looking back over 10 years: economy crashed, job lost, home values plummeted, short-sold home. Moved to colorful rental. Started a law practice.

Faith.

Three more babies. Moved, three times. Two vehicles. Finally, income. Built a house. Four kids in school. Things we've tried: baseball, soccer, piano, oboe, gymnastics, tae kwon do, swimming, art, choir, student council, football, track, cross country. Still paying student loans. Friends lost, friends found. Friends moving away. Tears, laughter; exhaustion.

Looking ahead 10 years:

  • a 23 year old: Mission? College? Career? Married like his parents were at that age? Children? 
  • a 21 year old: Mission? College? Career? Married? 
  • 19 year old: Mission?
  • 16 year old: sophomore in high school. Sports, music, art. 
  • 12 year old: stinky, sports, music, camping with the scouts.
Me: TBD

Same house? New house? Student loans paid off--please. Travel. A patio (Joseph?).

Tears, laughter, Hope.