Wednesday, January 30, 2008

You Know What?

I wish I had more windows. Yep, I want to tear down the entire east side of our apartment and put in walls of glass, (not gonna happen, we rent.) I can't believe how much I miss sunny mornings, bright afternoons, and saturated sunsets; I'm sure they're still out there, but we can't see them through the cold, brick walls. This has brought me to start a list of things I must insist on for our next house:

  1. Windows, lots of them, especially on the east and south sides of the house. Double-paned, Low E, Argon gas-filled. The whole kit and caboodle. (This will be my dream house, because it will probably remain in my dreams.)
  2. A yard with growing space. Meaning a large yard in which I can grow lots and lots of plants and still have lots of grass for the little kiddos.
  3. I would prefer having wood flooring. Actually, I don't want real wood, as strange as it may seem; I would like to have the laminate wood paneling because it can look as refined, but it's way easier to clean-up and maintain (and replace, if necessary.)
  4. Recessed lighting. After seeing our friends' new lighting, mmmm..... Stacia like.
  5. I'm sure I could go on and on... but this will be the last one for today: a butler. I want a butler who can say "Sorry ma'am, she's not here"... even when I am, so I can stay in my pajamas all day long.


Tuesday, January 29, 2008

When My Words Are Not Enough


Over the last two days, I have been struggling to find the right words that express my feelings about the passing of Gordon B. Hinckley, President of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. He was not the first President to pass away in my lifetime, but since I was older, I remember much more vividly the feelings I had when I heard his testimony in every talk I listened to. I am so sad that the world has lost a great leader and a man whose life was dedicated to God and service to his fellowman; however, I know that there is life after this in heaven and that President Hinckley is once again happily reunited with his dear wife, Marjorie.

Since I know that others can write it better than me, I will turn your attention to these stories:

Monday, January 28, 2008

It's Always About Me...

...so I decided to give the blog a break from "Stac".
I think Siena gets her good looks from her Papi.

Saturday, January 26, 2008

I'm so glad that Juan reminded me that we have our own baby pictures on file...

Friday, January 25, 2008




For Christmas, Siena received a hand-made sweater from her Great Grandma Wood. This is no ordinary sweater, as my grandmother is no ordinary woman. You see, she knit it in the fashion of sweaters she used to knit many years ago when she was working at the credit union. For every child that was born in the small town where she lives, she knit a sweater and anonymously mailed it from the post office in the town where she worked to the family's post office box. She spent countless hours doing this, not in search of any praise on her craftsmanship or thanks from the recipients, but out of sheer service and love.

Now, she suffers from tremors in her hands that make it difficult to pursue many of the hobbies she has loved for years; however, she was able to make this sweater for Siena last year and when I think of the time and effort that must have taken, I am overwhelmed with gratitude. When I see it I will not only be reminded of her selfless love, but also of her example of what true service is.




yep, that's little Stac

The second woman I would like to highlight is my other grandmother. After raising a family of 3 boys (4, if you count my grandpa) and 1 girl, she continued her teaching career at the elementary school. I was fortunate enough to be in her class when I was in 2nd grade and remember learning many things, but two in particular: first, that I should always try to write in cursive; second, that I should never address her as "Grandma" in the classroom, but as "Mrs. Camp" like everyone else. To this day, whenever I write a letter or in my journal, I try to write it in cursive because I can still hear my teacher, Mrs. Camp, telling me that cursive is best.

Whenever I run into anyone from Salina, I introduce myself as a Camp, and most of the time they say something like "Oh, Mrs. Camp was my favorite teacher!" My sister who is attending college in Idaho said that she had a professor from Salina. On the first day of class she introduced herself and the professor asked, "Are you related to the Camp family in Salina?" She nodded; the professor set down his roll book and started to tell the entire class about how wonderful Mrs. Camp was as his own teacher about 30 years ago. I know that my grandma's classroom was a place where everyone felt important and needed and those memories are lasting.


Because of these two women, I have parents who have been taught by their example and who both have these same qualities. I challenge anyone reading this to take a moment to ponder the things your parents and grandparents have done for you and if possible, let them know of the things you have learned from them.

Gratitude isn't gratitude unless it's passed on.

Thursday, January 24, 2008

Now I Can Have My Cake, and Write About It Too.

There has been an idea poking at my mind for some time now... a recipe blog (ask Juan, he'll tell you of my woes in trying to come up with the name of the blog; yep, that was the only thing holding me back.) Luckily, I have been invited to be a "contributing chef" to this fantastic blog: Where Cooks Collide. I will be posting my latest invention there soon- Chocolate Orange Drrrrrizzle.

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

About Juan and Me


How long have you been together? We got married in November 2005


How long did you date?
Seriously: 9 months. Casually: 2 1/2 years.

How old is he? 24 years old.

Who eats more? Depends on the day...

Who said "I love you" first? I did. It took him another month or two to say those three words.

Who is taller? Juan.


Who sings better? Juan. You see, I never have known if I was a good singer or not, so sometimes I test the waters and say things like "Sorry, I won't kill your ears any longer" after I sing. Nobody has ever protested to that, so now I know....

Who is smarter?
Science: Juan.
Math: Juan.
Finance: Juan.
Religion: Juan.
Foreign Language: Juan.
Economics: Juan.
Psychology: Juan.
Technology: Juan.
Anything -ology: Juan.


Who does the laundry? Most of the time I do it, but sometimes he helps out.

Who does the dishes? If I cook, he does the dishes. If he cooks, I do the dishes. (At least, that's how it is supposed to work.)

Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? My right, or the bed's right?



Who pays the bills? Juan, (after nagging and nagging from the wife who doesn't want to deal with them.)

Who mows the lawn? Our gardener, Jacque, and his team of grass experts. They use baby-small shears and clip the grass blades one-by-one so as to ensure that the lawn is well-groomed. They cost a fortune, but it's worth it to be the best lawn on the block!

Who cooks dinner? 60/40. You can guess which names go with which numbers.


Who is more stubborn? It's hard to say. We're both eldest children, so if that gives you a clue....

Who kissed who first? Juan kissed me... by the river... on a big rock... it was beautiful.

Who asked who out? Juan asked me out to a Tim McGraw concert. I decided that night that I had better start liking country music!

Who proposed? Juan proposed to me... by the lake... on a big rock... it was beautiful. He put the ring in a fortune cookie and gave it to me on our "9 month dating anniversary". (Yes, we celebrated every month on the 20th!)

Who is more sensitive? I don't like this question. It's offensive.

Who has more friends? If you compare our Facebook accounts, then I am. But let's be honest, Facebook is just a bunch of people who are tragically trying to prove to everyone from their old high school how cool they are... so that's not a reliable source. (To everyone out there with a Facebook account, I don't mean YOU, we're still BFF! Go Bulldogs!)

Who has more siblings? I do. (Thanks for being born, Spencer.)

Who wears the pants in the relationship? I would say that we equally share the pants... but he does a lot better job at it, thank heaven.

Who are you tagging?
Nicole, Tatum, Erin, and anyone who wants to do this. I actually like reading what people write, so please share.

Sunday, January 20, 2008

Saturday, January 19, 2008

Stacia's Composition of the Year!

So I finally learned something new on our piano. It is that I can record a song in multiple layers and save it as an mp3. How cool is that!?! So I decided to start simple with a basic "lefty" broken chord with an easy melody and added two more layers of harmony (which weren't exactly "right on", but hey, it was my first time.) It was fun to play, but the effects sounded a little like Mogwai. Anyway, after listening to it all put together, I decided it was a song for an anti-depressant commercial... so Juan helped me make one with my song in the background. Here's the result: (oh, and don't sue me afterward for giving you the blues... and don't mind that the pictures are looped three times.)

Thursday, January 17, 2008



This is our new favorite picture of Siena

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

I Thought I'd Share

This is the start of a short series of Europe Trip 2005 slideshows. Hope you don't mind, but I really want to reminisce.


Monday, January 14, 2008

Perfect Dress


It's so fun to window shop, I mean "browser shop". I found myself very lucky yesterday when I landed this website: www.shabbyapple.com

Everything a girl could ever want is there... maybe that is a bit of an exaggeration, but I loved everything I saw. Modest couture. So I had to find out where the business is based. No address listed, but the phone number had an (801) area code, so..... makes sense.

Anyway, if anyone wants to fork over a Franklin for an flattering dress, my favorite is here. (And no, I'm not serious, Juan. Believe me when I say, DON'T do it! Let me dream.)

Scrabble, Thanksgiving and Loupes

The latest on the Chavez family: 1.) we've been playing Scrabble a lot with our neighbors (okay, only twice so far, but hopefully this is the beginning if a great pastime.)



2.) We also had a second Thanksgiving meal yesterday with our friends, the Vests. I didn't realize how much I wanted Thanksgiving dinner year-round until last night. The menu was extensive and delicious... thanks Dani and Kurt!

Go here for the best sweet potato recipe ever!



3.) Juan came home from school today with a box that he was guarding with his life. His loupes finally came. Because there is a huge learning curve with those, he decided to lose all financial inhibition and buy them now... just kidding, I think it was a very worthy purchase.


Saturday, January 12, 2008

Major Chavez Milestone


We are so proud of our little nena. She finally figured out how to roll over! She gets really frustrated being on her stomach, and the little trooper figured out that if she pushed up more with her right arm and twisted her waist, she could get what she wanted... off her pot-belly.

(p.s. don't mind the "mother-ese"... I have to do it, or she will not recognize me.)

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

It's all just Frou Frou


...or Imogen Heap, a name by which she is more recognized.  Her music is what I kindly term "Bjork for sensitive ears".  She is one of the UK's little gems and I have grown a liking to her odd lyrics and quirky rhythms over the last 2 years that I have been aware of her existence.  Go 
here to learn more about her.

Whew, She's Finally Asleep

There's only the sound of the typing in my house right at this very moment. Siena has fallen asleep and Juan is out running errands... so I get the next hour or so to do whatever I want. Wahoo! I now choose to blog.There's only one problem with this scenario... I have nothing to blog about. Talk about bad timing for "spare time".
Hmmmmm... there's always the default
 Recipe of the Day!
We had this on Monday night. I'm telling you, even if you don't like seafood, the salmon is amazing, and if you pair it with the rice, AAA+aaamazing! The recipes are both from Wal-mart recipe cards... if you can believe it. (If you are on a student budget like us, just get the inexpensive frozen salmon portions they sell in the deli freezer section.)

 

Friday, January 4, 2008

The Homemade Gift Results


As I blogged before we left for Utah, at least one of our gifts had to be homemade. I didn't think Juan would do it because I really didn't give him that much notice, so I decided to just make it into a joke. My dad actually inspired it: he asked if anyone I knew needed a napkin holder. Hmmm, strange... I don't keep tabs on napkin holders, but it was lucky he asked because we didn't have one. He said he got a kit for it at Deseret Industries (the "Utah-equivalent" of The Salvation Army.) I sanded it, painted it, and put it all together. To finish it all off, I painted hearts and dots and "Chavez" on it to make it even that much better. Well, Christmas morning I gave it to him with eager anticipation of his reaction. He was genuinely happy that I gave him something homemade and I was enjoying the joke.

However, the joke turned on me. He pulled out a homemade gift for me. It was a spiral-bound book entitled "Our E-Story". He had compiled all of the saved e-mails he had of before we were dating until the time we were engaged. He said he had panicked that day that I mentioned that we should give homemade gifts and had "scrounged this together." It was one of the best gifts I have ever received, and he was left with a heart-shaped napkin holder. How he ever manages to put up with my shenanigans, I will never know.

I Resolve...

The beginning of a new year is about change. Usually, there is a specific process I undergo whenever change occurs: I first abhor it because I am comfortable with where I am, what is going on, and who Stacia is. Then, after a minuscule panic attack or two, I come to realize that, in general, old things must continue and I try to go on as before. It usually doesn't take long before I discover that I can't go on as before, I need to adapt to the new change. I do, as painful as it is, adapt. New Stacia. New schema of Stacia. I then embrace the change as if I had planned it myself. I entertain myself with the idea that whatever happened is "precisely how I had hoped it would be" and I get cozy with the new me. Not surprisingly, just as that happens, (yep, you guessed it,) another CHANGE! and yada yada yada, the cycle continues.

Now, I know that this happens to virtually everyone on the planet to some degree. And most everyone, including myself, actually encourage change at this time of year. So, knowing this will be painful, I will start my New Year's Resolutions (however late they are in coming.) I do not dare type them out into cyberspace, because who knows how well I will follow through; however, I will say this: they are there and I have half a mind to actually accomplish them (which is more than I can say for most of the previous years' resolutions.)

So to all of you who are starting up on your New Year's "Changes", I say in the words of Red, "Keep yer' stick on the ice."



pps. (Do I need an excuse to post a picture of Siena?)