Monday, July 26, 2010

Words for Grandpa Benz

I have been meaning to add these words my dad came up with for Grandpa's eulogy and am just getting a chance to do those. My dad wrote this and I was honored to say it at his memorial service. I think my dad did an awesome job encompassing all the many things that Grandpa was and still is in our hearts!

LOOK AT HIS HANDS
When you walked by the casket this morning to pay your respects, I hope you took a moment to look at Grandpa's hands. If you did, I hope you were able to see beyond what age and arthritis has done to those hands today to see all that those hands have been.
Those are the hands of a Marine who dutifully did the unthinkable in war so that his country could remain free and strong.
Those are the hands of a man who encircled his wife with love and who faithfully carried out the duties of husband and protector.
Those are the hands of a working man who worked hard to provide for his family and understood that a good job was a blessing that wasn't to be taken lightly.
Those are the hands of a man who spent hundreds of hours building part of his own house so that his family could have a beautiful home with plenty of room for friends and grandchildren.
Those are the hands of a man that spent hours every week on the steering wheel of an A Farmall so that his property would serve as a private park for family and loved ones.
Those are the hands of a man who worked in his workshop to turn raw pieces of lumber into beautiful keepsakes that will always be treasured.
Those are the hands of a man who gently lifted his children onto his shoulders when they were too small to see over the crowd. They are also the gentle hands that brushed away tears and picked his children and grandchildren up when they stumbled.
Those are the hands of a man who hooked up the wagon for his grandchildren to ride in and who started the lawn tractor for them when they were big enough to ride on their own.
Those are the hands of a man who worked on go-carts, cars, motorcycles, cars, and houses for his kids, even when he was really too tired or too sore to do it.
Those are the hands of a man who held his grandchildren and then his great grandchildren in his lap and always found great joy in the time that he got to spend with them.
Those are the hands of a man who till and tended a garden much larger than he needed for his own family and then delivered the excess to countless friends and co-workers.
Those are the hands of a man who held his Bible and Sunday school quarterly every Saturday night for decades so that he was prepared to lead his Sunday school class.
Those are the hands of a good man, and today, those are the hands that have reached out to touch the very hands of his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
Thank you for joining us today as we celebrate all that those hands have been
The Benz Family

Friday, July 16, 2010

Where did our baby go?

Seriously, Cale is just growing up so fast-the baby look is totally going away and he is developing into a little man! It's exciting but sad for me as his mommy with how fast it's all going. He is so fun now (well most of the time-he's started temper tantrums every so often he doesn't get his way-so that is not fun). I have my moment's with being a mommy where I just want to throw the towel in, but those are so small compared to how much I love it! Cale is talking more and more and repeating what you say-so therefore we have to be careful what we say around him!
He still loves to be outside, playing in his rice pit, he loves the PBS show Noddy, and still loves hummus. He still will only eat most veggies as baby food only although I did get him to eat some cooked carrots the other night-that was so cool!
He says:
Cherios, where'd it go, moon, hot, paci, blanket, night-night, papa for grandpa, gaga for grandma, mallori, fluffy (we think that's what he says for Stefani or something like Stefy, but comes out fluffy), waffles, bagel, drink, rice, ball, Mommy along with momma, Bailey, Addie, book, off, fruit snacks, cheez-its, ice cream (he totally loves all things sweet), and I am sure there is more I am just not thinking of.

He is starting to climb on things and thinks that's fun, loves to throw his toys-not really sure how to handle this one, enjoys stroller rides, and loves waking daddy up in the morning when it's my turn to wake up with him.

Cale,
You bring so much joy to your mommy's heart. I can't wait to see you at the end of the day-it's my favorite part of the day. I love your hugs and your snuggles. You are becoming more and more social and are moving out of that shy stage into high-fiving everyone! That is so neat to watch. I love tickling the back of your knees and hearing that sweet laugh of yours. I love the way you raise your eyebrows and your eyes get big when you are excited about something. I love watching you and daddy wrestle on the floor, I love how into books you are right now and finding you sitting and just babbling and reading books on your own. I thank God for you. You warm and melt my heart as my love continues to grow for you! Excited to see where God takes you and how He uses you as His beautiful child and am so blessed that He allowed us to be your parents here on earth!

Grandpa Benz


Grandpa Benz and Cale-his first time meeting him.

It's been kind of a whirlwind of a week. Grandpa Benz passed away last Saturday morning. We were all surprised and very saddened by the news. This was so surreal for me-I have been so blessed to have had 30 years with all of my grandparents with them all still living. So to lose the first one hit me hard. We headed to Illinois on Sunday and the funeral was on Monday. The service was beautiful-dad and Uncle Dale sang Amazing Grace with their guitars and lots of beautiful words were shared by Pastor Paul. My dad wrote an amazing eulogy in honor of grandpa and asked me to read it at the service. I was so honored that he asked and that I got to share those great memories of Grandpa. I have a peace and a joy in knowing that he is up in heaven right now, pain free, and maybe even dancing with Jesus or knowing him, he's probably playing an instrument while others dance! His faith is one of the things I will remember most about him. Although I am happy knowing where he is, I am still saddened that he is gone.



There are so many memories of grandpa:

His "pull my finger" trick

Waking us up in the morning with that crazy horn he had

What a joy it was to be able to go out and work in his tool shed-I think I felt like I was pretty cool when I got to do that

Playing croquet in the backyard

Tractor rides

Countless hours on the go cart

Fishing in the pond

Checking out the vegetable/fruit gardens

His blue dickie one piece outfits he used to always wear

His jokes and tricks he used to try to play on us

His laugh and smile

His love for the Lord

His willingness to do anything for us if we needed it-he was always saying to me and Jeff "Now if you guys need anything, you just let us know."

His excitement over the birth of his first great grandson Cale and the joy it brought him to visit with Cale

Grandpa, I love you and will tresure the memories we have with you. So thankful to know you are in heaven and that I will see you again someday.

Thursday, July 8, 2010

If I hear momma one more time

Don't get me wrong, I love when Cale calls me momma and looks at me with those sweet eyes and says "hold me" but the past few days have been trying as a mom. Cale hasn't been feeling the greatest so I stayed home with him yesterday and heard a whiny momma all day. Then today after work, all he wanted was me again. He wouldn't go to Jeff and would cry when he picked Cale up. I love Cale with all my heart and think most times that it's really cute that he's a mommas boy, but sometimes wish he would just go to daddy and not be upset. Does anyone else experience this? Do you think it's just a phase kids go through? I don't think it helps that I am PMSing really bad right now!

4th of July weekend


A lot of our weekend was spent with Cale collecting rocks for his dump truck. Here he is with "papa", that is what he is calling him now, collecting rocks


Gaga and Cale

Great Grandma and Grandpa Cauble came for a visit on Saturday


Saturday night we took dad's pontoon boat out on the water to watch the fireworks


Cale loved helping to drive papa's boat


Too cute


Waiting for the fireworks


Mama and her boy watching the fireworks-Cale did great and really enjoyed them!




His new thing is saying "where it go" this is what he was saying when there was a little break in the fireworks


Sunday we headed back into St. Louis for the air show at Fair St. Louis. It's been a few years since they have had it so we were excited to see it! Cale's first metrolink ride from IL to MO


Ready for some "airplanes"-one of Cale's favorite things right now


Dad emceed the Kids Stage at Fair St. Louis Saturday and Sunday, but came down early to watch with us


Cale made it about halfway through the show. Here he is tuckered out on the train ride back to the Scott Air Force stop


On Monday, Ray and Diane came out for lunch and a boat ride and relaxing. We had a great time with them!


Playing washers with daddy


Showing grandma and grandpa the washers



Cale loved splashing in the pool outside of it and getting soaked!

Mal and Stef came out on Monday and Tuesday to hang. Cale enjoyed hanging with his aunts. Here he is building a tower with Mal.
My birthday was great-just relaxed, ate, and took the jet skis out! What a wonderful weekend

We came back to Cale having a slight fever. We think maybe he is teething because he hasn't been himself the past few days. Hopefully he will feel better soon.

What a 4th! We went to my parents lake house in Carlyle and spent 4 days there. We had a great time and I had a great 30th birthday! Here are some pics to tell the story of the weekend.

Surprise Party Pics

I was absolutely shocked!








Our balloon family-thanks Jason!

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Suprise Party

First I have to start out by saying my husband is amazing and loves me well! I am so blessed to have him in my life. He threw me a huge surprise party last night for my 30th birthday next Tuesday. Here is how the story went:
I have a women's group that meets on Wednesday nights. Last Wednesday, one of my friends, Jen, asked if we could go to hear an author speak next (last night)Wednesday named Elizabeth George. We all agreed.
So I arrived at Jen's house last night to go to hear this author speak at the Kirkwood Community Center. She drove us there and the rest of the girls from my group were going to meet us there. When we arrived, we walked inside and it said on the board "Elizabeth George room 200". So we went upstairs to the room and went inside.
I looked around and thought it kind of odd that some other friends from church were sitting in the front row, but then I thought-they were just here to see the author too. Then everyone started clapping. (I thought they were clapping because we were a little late and sometimes people will clap if you are late to embarrass you).
Then I looked up and saw friends and family from all walks of my life and a girl that works there said "And here is Elizabeth George" and pointed to me. After looking around, I realized that I was Elizabeth George and that we were not there to hear her talk, but there for a 30th party for me. Let's just say I was in shock for the next 1/2 hour. I felt so loved to have dear friends and family there to celebrate with me! What an awesome night-and the fact that Jeff pulled it off (with the great help of friends and family) and I had no idea was awesome! There was food and cake and great conversation. I am so blessed. Cale even had a blast and didn't go to bed until 10:00pm that night-he did great! He had so much fun with Addie-Jeff's friend Craig's daughter! Thanks to everyone who came out and made my night so special. God is so good in providing all of you in my life! Here's who all came (this is more for me so I can remember this night forever!)
My hubby and beautiful son, mom, dad, Stef, Ray and Diane, Andy and Leslie, Dale, Diane and Michelle, Mike and Cheryl Barrett, Jen Sage, Erin and Mark Wilkins, Rachel and Jeff Smith, Sharon Strope and her future hubby Andy, Melanie George Prachyl, Jim and Kathy Bingley, Mike and Cheryl Barrett, Beth and Dave Salvatierra, Kevin and Julie Thorpe, Glynn and Janet Young, Travis and Stephanie Young, Kelly Bliss and Gina Braymer, and I think that's it. WOW! I am amazed and in awe of how loved I felt last night and praise God for my friends and family!