Saturday, August 28, 2010

Potty Training, part deux

So potty training was going really well. We had a week of small victories...and we were making progress little by little. And then, Wyatt figured it out. He realized that Mommy isn't fooling around and this isn't a game. We are not going back to comfort and ease of diapers. Which is when he started to buck the system. He has done everything he can to resist the potty...and I have tried every trick I could think of to convince him that it might be a good idea to keep pee pee off of the floor. Our biggest struggles are that Wyatt could care less if his underwear are wet or dirty. He would sit in a mess all day, if I would let him. He also thinks that cleaning the carpet/floors is fun. Uugh!

Today I broke out another strategy. I set a timer to go off every 20 minutes. When the timer beeps, he has to go potty. The first couple of times he fought me all the way to the potty...but I still got him to go. Then I think he caught on and maybe even liked the idea because now Mommy isn't telling him what to do...the alarm clock is telling him. Fast forward to this afternoon and we've only had once accident today! Normally by this point we'd be on pair number 30 of undies. I count it as a win...hopefully this situation will only continue to get better and better. I'm banking on all the struggles with Wyatt paying off when it comes time to potty train Miss Rea.

I haven't been taking as many pictures of this process, probably because I'm ready to get it over with and I'm not really sure it's something I want to remember. haha. But I will leave you with a picture of what has become my arch nemesis...

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

While you were gone...

This one is a post for Daddy...here's what you've missed...







(yes...they destroyed the rubix cube. haha)










(found a mouse in the garage, trapped in the garbage can)







Sunday, August 22, 2010

Ask me anything...

I just got a question, not seconds ago, in my "Ask Me Anything" box....the question is:

How much do you miss me?

Well, Joshua Loyal...and I know it's you...I miss you so much it physically hurts sometimes. I miss you so much that I lose sleep and wear your clothes occasionally. I miss you so much that I find myself tidying up a house that you're not coming home to tonight just because I know that's how you like it. I miss you so much that I plan all of the special things I'm going to do for you when you get home three weeks in advance. I miss you so much that I won't let Wyatt go into your office because I don't want him to move things from the place that you left them. I miss you so much that I eat leftovers even when you're not here. I miss you so much that I find myself staring at Wyatt for long periods of time because he makes all of the same faces that you do. And I miss you so much that I think about you every second of every day.

I love you, honey...and I'm counting the days until you get back! XOXO

Friday, August 20, 2010

Happy Anniversary!

Just wanted to say Happy Anniversary to my wonderful husband of 5 years! Today is the anniversary of the day that I finally got the man God had destined for me, and the beginning of an amazing adventure that we have lived together. Joshua, you are the best friend, husband, father and provider that I could have ever asked for or imagined.

Here's to another 5!....heck, here's to another 50! I love you, Keev!

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Potty Training

I have decided to potty train Wyatt, my 2-year-old. Am I crazy? you ask...Perhaps. I just figured that while Daddy is away and we don't have a lot of things planned, this would be as good a time as any.

I started this process by reading as many potty training guides as I could get my hands on...all of which contained conflicting information. They weren't much help. So I asked around...again, got conflicting advice. So I figured I would take the pieces of advice that seemed like they might work for Mr. Wyatt and put them all together...

We took Monday morning to collect "supplies". We needed some big boy underwear and what we affectionately refer to as "potty prizes". Can I please just give all of my mommy friends a piece of advice? NEVER EVER take small children to Toys R Us with you! I promise you, you will regret it! That night after I put the kiddos to bed, I went about setting up the house for our potty training boot camp. While setting up, I became so nervous about what was going to happen that I had to have a glass of wine to get to bed that night.

I got up super early Tuesday morning and waited for Wyatt to wake up. When he did, we took off his last diaper (single tear from mommy) and he threw it away. He picked out his first pair of underwear and then had this reaction when I told him that there were no more diapers in his future.

We made it a whole hour without an accident. And then it happened. He was standing on the hearth, in front of the fireplace, when he looks down and his eyes get as big as saucers. Clearly he wasn't expecting the warm trickle of water now running down his leg. I thought it would be cute to take pictures of all of the different underwear he wore on his first day as a big boy...but it quit being so cute after pair #17. I will spare you all of those pictures.

On the upside, Wy pee peed in the potty twice on Tuesday! For his progress he got to pick two prizes from the "Potty Prize Box" which sits on the bathroom counter.




After dinner on Tuesday night I cut Wyatt off from drinking anything. I was praying this would help him stay dry at night. No pull-ups? Nope. We're going cold-turkey, and I mean it! I tried to get him to go potty before bed time, but he refused. This sent me into a tailspin of nervous energy. I walked away from his room praying that he would stay dry. Well, it only took about an hour before I hear him up horsing around. I go up to check on him and he had peed on the floor. Uugh! So Wyatt and I clean it up and I put him back in bed. Major downer on mommy...When I went in to check on Wy before I went to bed, I was pleasantly surprised that he was still dry....so I kept praying.

I woke up early this morning and went in to check on him before he woke up. He was still dry!!! I waited around until he woke up and then shuffled him straight to the potty. He peed!!! Talk about a fabulous morning! I was in mommy heaven! Wyatt got to pick another prize...he was so proud of himself...

Over the course of day two of potty training, we have had five accidents and three victories! I'll count it as a good day. Right now the kids are napping and I'm praying that everyone sleeps for a while and then stays dry! I'll keep you all posted on our further progress!


Reagan June is 8 months old today...

Friday, August 13, 2010

Wyatt is so fast...

I took Wyatt to the indoor playground at a mall in Fresno, since it's about a thousand degrees here in the central valley...he decided he wanted to show me how fast he was. Here is how fast Wyatt is...


I have tried numerous times to upload the video of Reagan crawling and it's not working, for whatever reason. I'll try to take a new video of her crawling and then post that one.

Monday, August 2, 2010

Reagan June...the overachiever

In the span of 9 days, my sweet little girl sat up, crawled and pulled herself up to standing. It absolutely blows my mind how quickly she has reached all of these milestones. I wouldn't be surprised if she started walking tomorrow. haha.





I've been trying all afternoon to get a video of Rea crawling to upload...it's not working. So I'll try it again tomorrow and post it for your enjoyment!

Our Travels

As promised, I am updating the blog...finally.

So Josh left for Fallon, Nevada on a Friday. The following Thursday, the kids and I got up really early and drove to Las Vegas to meet 30 of our family members for a huge celebration. It was my grandparents 50th wedding anniversary and they generously provided hotel rooms at the Wynn for all of us to come celebrate with them. It is a gorgeous hotel and I would highly recommend it to anyone traveling to Vegas.



The drive over was surprisingly uneventful. There wasn't one solitary temper tantrum. Clearly God was traveling with us. Once we got there, we got all settled in and then headed with the whole family to the MGM Grand to have dinner at the Rainforest Cafe. Wyatt loved it! Talk about the perfect restaurant for my sweet boy. I think everyone else enjoyed it too.



On Friday, we headed to gorgeous pool at our hotel, the Wynn. I wish I had a picture of it, but it was a little difficult to take pictures while wrangling two little ones. Anyway, we hung out at the pool until my children were melting down then we headed back up to the room for a nap. While the kids were napping I had to shower and get all gussied up--that night was the big anniversary dinner for Nonna and Papa at Maggiano's...and my hubby was driving in from Fallon. So, I had to look cute.

The anniversary dinner was amazing! Nonna and Papa really outdid themselves. They rented a private room with a bar, and the menu was outstanding! What can I say...family dinners with the DiCesare's are always fun. It didn't hurt that Josh showed up towards the end of the night too!



Saturday in Vegas was my favorite day of the trip. First of all, it was my baby boy's 2nd birthday! I can't believe he's two already. It seems like just yesterday, God blessed us with his little life. Uugh, I could just eat him up!



Anyway, since Nonna and Papa had never been to Las Vegas and they love all things italian, we walked around to some of the "italian" hotels in town. First we went to the Bellagio to see the Murano glass and the beautiful fountains. The glass really takes your breath away...they had these glass flowers that are the size of a small car. It just blows my mind how they even do that. Anyway, after ogling the lobby for a bit, we headed through the shops and outside to watch the fountains. At the fountains, I had what I call a "God moment". You know, a moment where God shows Himself and his Providence is evident. There are two things you should know about my Papa--he is the most patriotic person on this planet, and he has already picked out a song to be played at his funeral. So we walk up to the fountains and end up waiting about 15 minutes for the show to start. Just when I started to think that this wait might not be worth it...the show begins. The first song played in sync with the water cannons is "The Star Spangled Banner". And as if it couldn't have been more perfect, the second song of the show was--you guessed it--the song Papa wants sung at his funeral, "Time to Say Goodbye" by Andrea Bocelli. It was one of the coolest moments I have ever had the privilege of witnessing. I will never hear that song again without flashing back to that place in time.







After the touching fountain show at Bellagio, we headed to Caesar's Palace for some shopping and lunch. By this point the kids were worn out, to say the least...



Sunday we said goodbye to Josh and drove back to Hanford...with my mom! It was so wonderful to have my mom here with us for a few days. The kids love their Nana, and I love having adult conversation so it was awesome. I only wish she could've stayed longer...

On Thursday of that week (one week after heading to Vegas) me, the kids and my mom all headed to Anaheim where we met our good friend Lindsey. I guess it was a girls/babies weekend. We got to see the new CAbi fall line and did a little shopping and eating. While mom was in a meeting, Lindsey and I braved Newport Beach and found the most amazing shopping mall, called Fashion Island. I cannot express to you how fabulous it was...I wish I had the picture that Lindsey took of the parking lot. There sat my little Chevy SUV surrounded by Range Rovers, 7series BMWs, Bentleys and Jaguars. It was ridiculous. My poor traverse must have felt a little insecure that day. Anyway, from this mall Linds and I both wound up with some fabulous shoes. And we loved the place so much that we convinced my mom to go back with us that night for dinner. The restaurant was hands-down the best Italian restaurant I've ever been to. The staff was SO nice (even helping me entertain Wyatt), and the food was delicious. So if you're ever in Newport Beach...definitely go to Canaletto at Fashion Island. Reagan hit a major milestone while we were sitting in our hotel room one afternoon--she sat up! I'm so glad that Lindsey was there to see it too, otherwise no one wouldn't have believed me. Sadly, I have no pictures of this wonderful weekend--we were too busy juggling babies and shopping bags. haha.

That Sunday, I dropped mom and Lindsey off at LAX and started the trip back to Hanford with the kids. I hadn't even gotten out of town--was on the 405 around Mulholland Drive--when Wyatt fell asleep. I was excited about turning off the Veggie Tales DVD and just listening to the radio for a little bit. Well, the radio wouldn't work. I started getting irritated, but figured I would just leave it alone and stop up the road to try and fix it. I picked a gas station on the GPS to stop at and kept driving. About two minutes later, I hear Reagan making the biggest poop I have ever heard. So I had to find a new place to stop...I ended up stopping a lot sooner than I had anticipated, but wasn't too crazed by it. When I finally pull over at a Shell station, I go get Reagan out to change her and I see it...her car seat was literally filled with poo. I should have taken a picture of that too, since there is no way you could imagine what a mess it was. While I'm cleaning Reagan (and her car seat) up, another couple with a baby pulls up at the pump next to me. The girl taps me on the shoulder and says, "I am so embarrassed, but my baby has a dirty diaper and I just realized that I don't have any wipes...and we're on a trip...do you have a couple of wipes to spare?" Of course I handed her two wipes without hesitation, and continued on about my business. When I had everyone clean and strapped back in, I hopped back into the drivers seat and started the car. That is when I felt compelled to give this woman all of the wipes I had in the car (had almost a whole pack of them). So I went with it, hopped out of the car and told her that I wanted her to have my wipes since I was going to be home in a couple of hours anyway. I thought she was going to cry...after her reaction, I realized that God had me there, at that gas station, for a reason. It was something so simple to me, but it was a lot more to her. I learned a lesson that day--when your day seems to be going wrong, there might just be a reason.

Anyway, we made it back home and began preparing for Josh to get back from Fallon. I was relieved to be getting back into a schedule and about getting some rest. Just when we were settled in, we were reminded (by Josh) about a fun weekend ahead. It had been planned for some time, but I had totally forgotten with everything else going on. Josh's mom, Pat, was going to be in Los Angeles for a wedding and we were supposed to drive over and meet her there. Josh came home on Thursday, and to say that Wyatt and Reagan were overjoyed to see him is an understatement. Then four days after returning to Hanford, we left for Los Angeles...again. It was so wonderful to see Pat. Wyatt was so excited...he kept yelling "Grandma! Grandma!" the whole way there. We met her at a fabulous BBQ place in Venice Beach, which I would highly recommend, and had many other fabulous meals together. We also visited the Long Beach Aquarium. It was so much fun... I only wish we could have stayed with her a little longer.




Whew....those were our travels as of late. It was a blast and exhausting all at once. Can't wait to do it again!

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