Friday, March 25, 2011

He did it!! We did it!!

Today is Friday, March 25, 2011. Today is the day Ryan completed medical school. I feel like everything we have done the last 4+ years has been to get to this point. Talk about a long road – that led us from Nashville to Miami, then Dominica, then back to Miami, then to New York City, then to Atlanta, and, finally, back to Nashville! If I could have written out what I wanted our medical school years to look like it would have been a short (and much less adventurous) story. God had such different plans for us and I feel like I hit the jackpot by getting to experience these past four years with my best friend. I used to look at couples who met and married after school and think how easy that was to already be over the giant mountain when their marriage started. Now I see that going over the mountain together was such a blessing. I’m kind of speechless right now. I’m feeling so many things – mostly just thankfulness to God for leading us down this road and bringing us to this point. And just really really proud that I married such a hard worker who sets a goal and, literally, travels the world if that’s what it takes to finally say mission accomplished!

So, as most of you know, we are moving back to Nashville next week! Ryan will be doing an Internal Medicine residency through UT at Baptist hospital. Maybe someday soon (now that he is finished with school and can be lazy for a little bit) we can get Ryan to write a blog post and give you his take on this whole experience. :)

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Sunday Night Smiles

A coworker forwarded me a copy of the actual newspaper article. Since it is in pdf format, I have copied and pasted the text for you below. I especially like #8.

1943 Guide to Hiring Women
The following is an excerpt from the July 1943 issue of Transportation Magazine. This was written for male supervisors of women in the work force during World War II.
"Eleven Tips on Getting More Efficiency Out of Women Employees: There's no longer any question whether transit companies should hire women for jobs formerly held by men. The draft and manpower shortage has settled that point. The important things now are to select the most efficient women available and how to use them to the best advantage.
Here are eleven helpful tips on the subject from Western Properties:
1. Pick young married women. They usually have more of a sense of responsibility than their unmarried sisters, they're less likely to be flirtatious, they need the work or they wouldn't be doing it, they still have the pep and interest to work hard and to deal with the public efficiently.
2. When you have to use older women, try to get ones who have worked outside the home at some time in their lives. Older women who have never contacted the public have a hard time adapting themselves and are inclined to be cantankerous and fussy. It's always well to impress upon older women the importance of friendliness and courtesy.
3. General experience indicates that "husky" girls - those who are just a little on the heavy side - are more even tempered and efficient than their underweight sisters.
4. Retain a physician to give each woman you hire a special physical examination - one covering female conditions. This step not only protects the property against the possibilities of lawsuit, but reveals whether the employee-to-be has any female weaknesses which would make her mentally or physically unfit for the job.
5. Stress at the outset the importance of time the fact that a minute or two lost here and there makes serious inroads on schedules. Until this point is gotten across, service is likely to be slowed up.
6. Give the female employee a definite day-long schedule of duties so that they'll keep busy without bothering the management for instructions every few minutes. Numerous properties say that women make excellent workers when they have their jobs cut out for them, but that they lack initiative in finding work themselves.
7. Whenever possible, let the inside employee change from one job to another at some time during the day. Women are inclined to be less nervous and happier with change.
8. Give every girl an adequate number of rest periods during the day. You have to make some allowances for feminine psychology. A girl has more confidence and is more efficient if she can keep her hair tidied, apply fresh lipstick and wash her hands several times a day.
9. Be tactful when issuing instructions or in making criticisms. Women are often sensitive; they can't shrug off harsh words the way men do. Never ridicule a woman - it breaks her spirit and cuts off her efficiency.
10. Be reasonably considerate about using strong language around women. Even though a girl's husband or father may swear vociferously, she'll grow to dislike a place of business where she hears too much of this.
11. Get enough size variety in operator's uniforms so that each girl can have a proper fit. This point can't be stressed too much in keeping women happy."


So, to all the girls out there who will be getting up and heading to work tomorrow morning, make sure your employer knows you will require several rest periods throughout the day - to wash your hands. :) I'm glad I didn't have to go through a physical examination to determine if I have any "female weaknesses".

Other things that are making me smile, despite the fact that Monday morning is creeping up on me:
1. 3 day work week! Woo-hoo!!
2. Tennessee Thanksgiving! First since 2006. That is hard to believe.
3. Residency interviews are going great. We're pretty excited about them.
4. Ryan and I had a super relaxing Saturday. We kept commenting on how it felt like Saturdays did when we were in college. We slept in - waaay in. Kept comfy clothes on all day. Watched football. Cleaned the apt a little. Ran a couple of errands together. Ate at a Mexican restaurant. Got hot chocolate. Rented a movie. Caught up on all my girly magazines. Went to bed talking about how we loved our relaxing day.
5. As I type this my room smells like Christmas, thanks to my new candle. And I'm probably going to fall asleep with a Christmas movie on. The holidays are here!!!

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Turn it up

This video has 2 parts. The first is an actual news clip from here in Atlanta. The next is a scene from Family Guy. Make sure your volume is turned up.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=peD7tc88K3s&NR=1

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Naples in November

Finally. After 3 years of missing the trip, I finally made it to Naples in November. The 4 nights and 3.5 days we spent there were such a blessing. Five of these girls have been friends all their lives. Julie and I met them 10 years ago when we were freshmen at Lipscomb and I spent a semester in Vienna with 4 of these girls. We were all roommates with at least 1 or more of these girls at one point or another. In other words, we've known each other a while and I know we will be friends until we are 98 going on our Naples in November 2080 trip. These girls are all wonderful friends, wives, and Christians. They are smart, fun, ladylike, kind, hilarious and oh, so classy. They make me want to be a better woman. That's the kind of friend everybody wants - the kind that makes you try to be the best version of yourself. It amazes me how much God must love me to have put such sweet friendships in my life. We spent 3 days laying by the pool, eating fabulous food, and basically having a very long slumber party. Blessed.


A little snippet of the most beautiful condo in Naples, 15 floors above the ocean. We were getting ready to leave and had already shut the hurricane shutters - that's why it's dark on the left and you can see the reflection of another building.






The rolls royce we parked our mini van close to. :) Hey, we loved our mini van! It was the only way all 7 of us could ride together.















































































Can't wait til our next reunion in December!

Thursday, October 28, 2010

It's Christmas Eve

It is Christmas Eve at my house tonight! The most exciting night of the kid year. Laying in bed and trying to sleep but being way too excited about all of the fun that would come with Christmas morning. Wanting it to hurry up and just be morning already! I remember being so jittery and excited in my bed and occasionally looking out the window for Santa's sleigh. I also remember feeling like I needed to go to the bathroom so badly (a side effect I had when I got really excited), but staying in bed because I couldn't face the risk of seeing Santa in the hallway. Every kid knows if you see him then he won't come back. So I stayed in bed with my legs criss-crossed like a pretzel, trying to hold it til morning and trying to fall asleep.

This is the excitement I feel tonight! Ryan comes home tomorrow!!! He has been doing an away rotation through UT in Jackson. I had to stay in Atlanta for work. He has been there for FOUR WEEKS!!! We got to see each other the first two weekends but last weekend Ryan had to go to Louisiana to be in a wedding and I had to stay in Atlanta because I couldn't take off work. SO, I haven't seen him since Sunday, October 17th! And I am dying. And to top it off, Bauer has been in Jackson with him. Bauer had to make a few visits to Mr. Danny to get a little surgery and have a follow-up visit. So I have been in Atlanta alone. By myself. Totally alone. And it ends today because tomorrow Ryan and Bauer come home!! Woo-hoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so lonely when Ryan is gone. It doesn't matter if I'm around a bunch of other people or if I have a lot of fun things planned - life is just off when he's not around. There are spots in my heart that can only be filled by spending time with Ryan and Jesus. And no one can fill those spots but them. Thank goodness Jesus can go to Jackson with Ryan and still stay here in Atlanta with me!!

Well, goodnight blog world. I'm off to lay in bed and try to fall asleep...

Tomorrow! Tomorrow! I love ya! Tomorrow! We're only a day away!!!!!!!