几个月前看完这部连续剧后
就一直想写个关于这的post
很多那些年的回忆
都被勾了起来

和戏里的情节一样
我们的 M Club 在求学时代是很要好的
4 个女生 2 个男生
一起下课，一起留校，一起吃饭，一起补习
一起走街，一起褒剧，一起讨厌同一个人 =P
褒起电话来可以好几个小时
有几次甚至睡在对方的床上
大家共处的时间，敢敢比与家人还要长

分道扬辘后
开始的那几年
我们偶尔还会联络
再过三五年
大家开始有自己的朋友圈子
过着自己的生活
也许是因为我们都分布在地球的几个区域
也许那时没有whatsapp，通电话很贵，又有时差
建立的友情
慢慢淡化了
死党，变成了朋友/旧同学
总之不是会在priority list 里有名次的那种情况

每当想到着
自己难免会觉得惋惜
有时也会自责
没有巫小诗死缠烂打，打不死的精神
没有她宽心待人的态度

她们六个女生的 M Club 快乐收场合体了
那我们的 M Club 呢？

 Some reflections upon finishing another term in the societal university:

1. 'Sorry' is the cheapest but powerful remedy
You might think that apology is costless and people would ignore it as nothing but cheap talk. In fact, it triggers an instinct to forgive, overcoming rationality. Ironically, many people are unwilling to get the word out of the mouth.
 
2. Modesty is a virtue that can rarely be observed, especially for ordinary people
 A sign of modest people are those who use words like 'We' instead of 'Me', or always put 'me' behind their conversations. Perhaps these are people who strives to shine or boasts their credits, thus explains the reason that they could not stop highlighting 'I'.

3.  It is easier to remember harm than good
Some people can just forget all the good and support rendered to them when one just did a small little mistake. The black dot on the paper always looks more eye-catchy despite the entire paper is white.

Young Malaysians in particular, like myself, have taken the news of MH370 rather strongly, despite we may not know any of the victims, crew, or their families. Perhaps it is due to the fact that we have all traveled on  Malaysia Airlines before and so it feels like it could have happened to any one of us. Or maybe it is just the  sense of national pride which is now at stake so we all feel compelled to uphold it. Or simply, we are just very compassionate and sensitive gen-Ys.

It is officially a year and still no signs of MH370. The biggest hope right now, is that, we will be able to locate this missing aircraft and bring closure to the affected families who have suffered more than anyone should.