Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Precious Gifts


Motherhood is a complex calling. Days can be long, nights sleepless and it can be easy to fall into the temptation of self-pity or discontentment. I am reading a book called, George Muller of Bristol. It is a Biography about a man who wholeheartedly serves the Lord with his wife through caring for orphans. His wife got pregnant and gave birth to a still baby. She then was in her sick bed for 6 weeks after the birth. Following is an edifying exert from George's journal that once again gives me proper vision and focus in motherhood:

"How many a servant of God has no more exalted idea of the divine privilege of a sanctified parenthood! A wife and child are most precious gifts of God received, in answer to prayer, from His hand. Not only are they not hindrances, but they are helps, most useful in fitting a servant of Christ for certain parts of his work for which no other preparation is so adequate. They serve to teach him many most valuable lessons, and to round out his character into a far more symmetrical beauty and serviceableness. And when it is remembered how a godly association in holiness and usefulness may thus be supplied, and above all a godly succession through many generations, it will be seen how wicked is the spirit that treats holy wedlock and its fruits in offspring, with lightness and contempt. "

Monday, January 22, 2007

One minute... the next






Call it what you will- I often call it a roller coaster ride. I have learned that the only thing you can predict in parenting is that things are destined to be unpredictable. Right when I think I have things figured out- The Lord is sure to teach me that I don't. One minute the kids are happily playing together, the next minute they are both passionately grabbing for the same toy. One minute the house is spic-and-span, the next minute there's laundry everywhere, a sink full of dishes, play-dough on the wall, and avocado rubbed into the carpet. One minute my kids are nice and healthy, the next minute our house is so covered with the bodily fluids from the stomach flu that our pottery barn candles are barely covering the scent. One minute Lucy's saying, "ok mommy, I love my mommy, this is my mommy", the next minute, "no, no, no mommy!" One minute peace and quite, the next minute, the extreme opposite of peace and quite. All that I can do is thank the Lord for the one minutes, or the next minutes would drive me nutso. At the end of the day, I have to say, the one minutes outweigh the next minutes by a long shot.









Wednesday, January 17, 2007

Proud Aunt




Emma's first snowMAN
"Emma was in charge of the decorations. I thought you might enjoy the "buttons" she made with some broccoli and a celery stick. :-)"
-Stacie

Monday, January 15, 2007

He's just sleeping

Lucy's first hard life lesson









Name: ABC's
Purchased: January 14th
Proud first time pet owner: Lucy










RIP: January 15th
Lucy: "Fishy nigh night"



Saturday, January 13, 2007

Too much time on our hands





Truly, too much time-

Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Fun on the plane




On the plane-off the plane, our family will start getting used to this, as our dear friends and family now live hundreds of miles away. We just made our first trek back to Washington and was it an adventure. We have never flown with children before and of course were very nervous at the thought of having two very active children confined to three seats amongst the four of us for four hours. In an airplane there are not many places to escape (except the bathroom- which I have to admit, I did a few times). We were very thoughtful about preparing Lucy for the flight with new special toys, a DVD player, and special treats. After much anticipation, we got on the plane and found the 3x5 area that we would be confined to for the next few hours. We stuffed our four bags under the seat (which took away virtually all our leg room) and prepared for take-off. About 10 minutes into the flight came Will's first cry. Unfortunetly it was naptime and he needed to be rocked to sleep, but this would be impossible seeing that we were taking off. There I sat with a crying baby in my lap who so wanted to just be rocked for a couple minutes to enter into dream land, but instead was helplessly crying and unable to soothe himself. I thought, well, surely he'll fall asleep once the seatbelt sign is taken off and I can stand up. This probably would have been correct if the seatbelt sign ever would go off. It was such a turbulant ride that seatbelts were a must, despite the fact that my child was crying and so wanted to be rocked. Finally, I decided- so much for the seatbelt sign, the stewardists are standing up, so will I. So, I stood up, and after a couple minutes Will was at peace and asleep in my arms. Will slept for a disappointing 45 minutes and I thought- what will I do for the next 3 hours of the flight? As Will was getting antsy I let him stand up on my lap and hold onto the seat in front of me. Though I thought he was holding onto the seat, it ends up that he was actually holding onto the woman's hair in front of me and decided to give it a great pull. I heard a yelp from the woman and looked in Will's hand to find a chunk of the woman's grey hair in his hand. Mortified I sincerely apologized for my son, she was sincerely upset. Then, here come drinks! Just what Lucy needs, some orange juice and mommy some water. She hands me some water first. I set it on the table while I was holding Will and in a moment Lucy's book accidently hit the water. There goes water all over the floor and in mommy's purse. Nate had me hold the juice while he cleaned up the water. I was attempting to balance too many things and Will knocked the juice straight in Nate's lap. Nate's jeans were covered in OJ. Given the circumstances I burst out in laughter- it was one of those times that was so ridiculous that all you could do was laugh. However, Nate did not find it quite as funny (given the oj was in his lap and not mine). So, finally we got all our juice mess cleaned up and had a nice chunk of time that was semi-relaxed. A little time later we heard the person behind us say: what the heck (PG version) is on my bag. Yes, the oj did not only end up on Nate's lap, but on the man's bag behind us too. I apologized and did what I could, but the man was not too pleased with the oj on his bag (I can't blame him). So, there you have it, the end to a very eventful trip that was full of sanctification opportunities- specifically humility. Words cannot express how thankful we were to feel land beneath the plane and all was reconciled when we were surprised with my sister's beautiful face as we walked into baggage claim and had a delicious meal at the Bellevue Club with our family.