Nutcookie found it elsewhere- see her post here: http://nutcookie.blogspot.com/2010/11/on-scale-from-1-to-10.html
On a scale of 1-10, 1 being the bottom of course-I know where I fall, as does the Nutcookie- how about you?
1. Being unable to raise your child
2. Having your child not have access to sealed and amended information
3. Losing your child without the ability to have a connect to you and your family
4. Having unequal rights in the U.S.
5. Adoption stereotypes that are applied to mothers
6. Not being able to see your child grow up
7. Knowing your child has no access to family medical information that could save their lives
8. Being looked at by everyone, family or not, with disdain, pity, disgust or hatred
9. Not having verifiable answers to your questions
10. The way the media talks about mothers