Tuesday, December 7, 2010

First Christmas Present of the Season


I get to do chemo from home. I am taking a pill called Xeloda everyday, it has less side effects since you don't have to get one big dose. I have already taken it for 2 weeks and this third week is my week off.

Saturday, November 13, 2010

October - Hawaii





In October we were able to go to Hawaii for a week! We had a great time. We went to Kauai and stayed at the Kauai Beach Resort. The kids loved to swim and snorkel in the ocean and the hotel pool. It was the perfect get-away between treatments and we made some good memories. I don't have any good photos but i'll post the couple of lame ones I have with me that I took with my phone and will upload some better ones later.

Not the best news...

Mistie had a PET scan last week to see how her Faslodex shot was working. At first they compared it to the PET scan that she had back in April and they reported that the cancer sites had been reduced; however, the doctor then asked that it be compared to the CT scan that she had in September. This comparison showed that the cancer in the bones and lungs was stable, but that the cancer in her liver was again progressing. So, back to chemotherapy. We will start a new treatment on Monday (most likely Adderall) and will continue to use it until we need to jump to something else. He is also looking for some clinical trials that we could participate in possibly at MD Anderson or NIH. Today, we are at the hospital getting an MRI of her brain to see if it has remained stable or is progressing as well... The hospital is actually pretty quiet on Saturday.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Faslodex

Mistie has gotten 3 Faslodex shots. She received two a couple of weeks ago and then got a third this last Wednesday. She will get the final loading shot the week after next and then she will only need a shot every 4 weeks. The shots have actually gone pretty well considering the needle is 2.5-3 inches long and the medicine has the consistency of Karo Syrup. After the shot she sits down softly for a day or two, but surprisingly no bruising.

Monday, September 27, 2010

MRI Results

Wednesday we met with the radiation oncologist. He said that the results looked good and that the tumors in the brain had shrunk considerably. We scheduled an appointment for the first of November for another MRI. From here he said the tumors could continue to shrink , stay the same, or get larger... sure that might seem a little vague, but hey as least we got 'explode' off the table.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Mid-September is Always Busy


Last week was a busy one with Derick having his 10th Birthday on Tuesday and Misite having her 33rd birthday on Thursday. We wanted to have a party for Derick but didn't want to do alot of planning, so I borrowed a 10' screen and projector from work and we set it up to play the Wii. Combine that with about $30 in junk food and you just hit the party hall of fame. With 8-10 fourth graders I wasn't sure how it would turn out out... but the kids loved playing Mario Cart and said it was the best party ever (I am thinking that we ride this wave as long as possible with a repeat next year).

As you can see above, there was also a 30' screen so why not go dramatic. We set it up for a movie on Monday and Friday.

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Out Early on Good Behavior

We had a CT scan on Tuesday and discussed it with the doctor today. We scanned her abdomen and chest and looked at the cancer in her liver, bones and lungs. They compared this test with the last CT scan in May.

The envelope please...

And the winner is...

All of the cancer sites improved or stayed the same. Although not all the cancer shrunk it is not uncommon to get a great response at first and then reach a static level. The fact that it has not increased during this period is good and gives us an opportunity to try a hormone inhibitor (faslodex). The hope is that the inhibitor will keep the cancer at bay for as long as possible and then we can try another treatment.

Faslodex has a 'loading' period where she will get a shot next wednesday and then 2 weeks later. Beyond that she will get a shot every 4 weeks. How great is that!

Round 1, the TKO goes to Mistie and we will take advantage of some time off to get back up to fighting weight.

Will the Faslodex work?
How will Mistie's brain scan turn out?
Will she finally get her vision back???

Stayed tuned and don't touch that dial...

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Labor Day Weekend


For the Labor day weekend the kids (me) wanted to go swimming so we went up to the new Cowabunga water park in Draper. I have driven by it a million times on the way to the airport and could no longer resist all the colors and slides. We went for a couple of hours and had a great time. The wade pool and lazy river were at least 90 degrees so I put Mistie on a tube and pushed her into the flow and off we ran to ride the slides :) Of course I would forget to bring the camera, but I found this image online and figured that the back of that guys head looked alot like mine.

Last Week Off

With this last week off, Mistie has been feeling well. The mouth sores have gone away and she is not quite as tired. She still is getting plenty of rest taking a nap during the day and rolling into bed between 7 and 8. On this week off we only went to the doctor once! Over the last few weeks the Taxol is giving her some trouble with her vision, making it blurry, so we have tried all sorts of eye drops. This time he finally said that there wasn't really anything he could do to help, but as soon as she finishes the chemo it should clear up. Naturally, he said he would like to see her again next week (fat chance).

Thursday, August 26, 2010

Finished the 5th Cycle

I finished my 10th treatment of chemotherapy today! We are going to have some CT scans before the next cycle to see how things are shaping up. Kids started school on Tuesday and the big shock is that Derick likes it (except for school lunch).

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Anniversary


Russ and I went to Lunch at Red Lobster on our anniversary. The only way to go is the ultimate feast with Lobster, crab, and shrimp.

Cooling off at the pool

The boys needed a day out of the house, so off to the pool. Mistie even took a little dip to cool off.

Thursday, August 12, 2010

No Chemo For U

Its Mistie's week off but we just cant stand to not head to the hospital at least once a week. Misties' eye was red and tearing all last week and that might not be too big of a deal except that her vision was also getting blurry... so naturally we looked it up on the web to see if it might be a side effect of taxol and as it turns out, it sure is. Monday our family doc had told us to use some artificial tears and 'eye lube' but it hasn't really seemed to make a difference. We were up at the new IMC in Murry to see another cancer doc yesterday and she recommended that we see a opthamologist (just to make sure she's not going blind from some viral infection, fair enough). So today we were back in Provo. The guy said that she had some name that takes at least 8 years of additional education to pronounce... correctly. Somehow I had forgotten to take my medical to english dictionary but finally he summed it up for us by saying that her Cornea (part of the eye) looked like someone had taken sandpaper to it and that it is likely a toxic reaction to her chemo. He gave us a cute little bottle of eye drops (with a bright blue cap that I can take on and off by myself) and we drip it in Misties eyes 4 times a day. He also said her vision should return to normal after she is done with chemo.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Tropical Getaway

Today we had our little 5 hour lunch date. It is a kick back and relax time with people coming by every 15 minutes to ask if we are hot or cold, if we would like a warm blanket, if we need a drink... "anything I can do for you?". Add the tropical breeze coming from the bathroom air freshener and its like being whisked away on some romantic holiday... At least that is the way I see it, though Mistie may not agree. To her point I guess there is a small inconvenience with this tiny little needle and then there is the whole bit about poison seeping into her veins, but really i think we all agree that it is a little over-dramitized.

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Doing Good and Ready for Tomorrow

Mistie has been feeling much better. Ever though she had chemo last Thursday she has been getting stronger and doesn't get so dizzy when she stands or moves quickly. She has been getting around well and isn't using the walker as much.

We found that she had an ear infection on Sunday and Monday got her started on some antibiotics.

Derick and Calvin were in St George with my parents all last week and we were glad to have them back home. They keep us busy.

Thursday, July 29, 2010

48 days to go

Mistie pulled off her chemotherapy today without a hitch.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

We had a great week with no chemo


This last week was my week off. Russ had a short business trip in Colorado and we thought it would be a good chance to leave town for a few days together. We didn't do much but the kids had a great time eating out and swimming. On the way home we dropped the kids off with Russ's parents and they have been in St George for a family reunion this week. Which turned out to be a good thing since they got a cold (Good for us anyway). Russ tells me that I have exactly 50 days from today to be finished and that I have gone 98 days since my first.

Monday, July 12, 2010

Keeping Cool on Saturday

We went to the Payson pool on Saturday. It was nice to get out and do something. The water was great, Russ brought a few floating noodles and I enjoyed going around the lazy river.

Baseball Game


Mistie had a good time at Dericks game last week. His team is doing really well and they have only lost one game. They will be playing in the State tournament this next week.

Chemo Start Up

Mistie started her chemotherapy again last Thursday. It all went well and she hasn't had too many side effects. She gets a little nauseous now and again, but overall is feeling well.

Tuesday, July 6, 2010


Davey Orgill put together this video for us when Mistie was first diagnosed in May.

Friday, July 2, 2010

Radiation is Done


Mistie received her last dose of radiation today! We are celebrating with an IV for some extra fluids and a nap. It has been a long month and we are glad to finally cross the finish line. She had a touch of bronchitis and nausea this last week, but is feeling much better. Misties sisters have been a real help, Thanks.
After stopping the steroid she has gained a little strength back and some of the swelling in her legs and face is starting to go down. We wont really know how effective the treatment was for a few months, but are optimistic.
She gets a few days off and then starts her chemotherapy again on Thursday. She has 12 weeks of chemo and the plan is to get her last treatment on September 16th (her 33rd birthday).

Friday, June 25, 2010

Three weeks down and one to go

Mistie finished another week of radiation and only has one week left.
She is feeling well and getting a little strength back.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Fathers Day


Fathers Day and we are over halfway on Misites treatment!!!

After stopping her steroid she is feeling much better. She had a headache on Tuesday and threw up, but she has been doing well since then. She still has trouble standing, walking and gets dizzy when she stands up, but we are optimistic that she will start to feel stronger as time goes on.
She took a little spill on the floor at the doctor office on Friday so were keeping a close eye on her.

Monday, June 14, 2010

Monday at radiation

Mistie has been taking a steroid to help control the swelling in her brain caused by the cancer as well as the radiation treatment. This steroid is awful. The side effects are that she has lost all mobility in her legs, only having the ability to pick them up a few inches, her face and limbs have swollen, and she is doing crazy things like trying to turn the TV off with her phone and asking nonsensical questions. Unfortunately all of these symptoms could also be due to swelling in the brain. So the dilemma was do we stop taking the steroid and risk increased swelling or do we continue taking the steroid and allow the side effects to continue to escalate. Her normal doctor was out of town last week and his replacement tried to increase the dose of the steroid as she felt it was likely the swelling that was causing side effects. It didn't make sense to us since these symptoms started long before we started the radiation and we have done this whole chemo thing before without any of these symptoms. After considering this we talked with our radiation oncologist and decided that instead of doubling her dose we would cut it in half and see how it effected her. I think it was the right decision as she is much more alert and her cognitive thinking has improved. Today we met again with the radiation oncologist and he was pleased with how improved she was and told us to discontinue the steroid. It will still take some time for her strength to be regained, but as long as she doesn't start experiencing headaches we are hopeful that she can start to feel better.

Weekend around the house


Spent the weekend just relaxing. We went with Misties sisters (Carmell and Sharla) to Brick Oven in Provo. Derick had earned a spotlight student award for reading and was anxious to cash in his free pizza and root beer certificate. We tried most of their pizzas and I would say that the BBQ was the best.

After lunch the rain had finally let up and I helped Mistie climb on the riding mower and let her mow the lawn. If you think that was inconsiderate of me to let her mow the lawn, you don't know Mistie very well. She said it was the most fun she has had in a long time. It is a little liberating when you think about it doing circles on the lawn, sun in your face, wind in your hair or not hair... why not.

Friday in SLC

Friday we went up to a doctor appointment in SLC at the new IHC hospital in Murray that you can see off the freeway at 53rd. It is really nice. That hospital replaced the old LDS hospital right above downtown SLC in the Avenues. It was about time they got a new hospital. In 2004 Mistie spent a full month in the LDS hospital and it was pure torture. Everything was old and outdated and the only place to go for a walk was in the parking garage. A few times we talked about going and saying thank you to the people who took care of her there. Well actually I talked about it; the only way she said she would ever go back to that hospital was if she was unconscious. Honestly, I cant blame her.

Calvin at the Dentist


Last week Calvin had a little bump on his gums so we took him into the dentist. It was a root canal and it did hurt a little. He didn't cry and whoever decided to start handing out prizes at the dentist... genius.

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Look Good Feel Better Class


Today we are at the Look Good Feel Better class for cancer patients. Sadly, Mistie was the only one who got a makeup kit... but I did pick up some great tips on highlighting my cheekbones.

A Quiet Weekend

We had a quiet weekend without the boys. We had my parents stop by to trade us cars and bring me a bag of oatmeal chocolate chip cookies. I made my dad promise not to bring it back with a trail of speeding tickets. It was getting difficult for Mistie to get into our SUV so now with the sedan it makes it easier to get in and out. We also went and bought a walker for her to use around the house. Over the weekend we went to the store and I barely caught her before she fell, so yesterday we borrowed a wheelchair from the hospital.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Boys are off to Lake Powell

Derick and Calvin are headed down to Lake Powell with Misites entire family until Tuesday. Josiah has a share on a houseboat and they have been excited to go. We just packed up swimsuits and a ton of sunscreen and sent them for the ride.

New Set of Radiation Treatments

We are here for the 1st of 22 radiation treatments today.

Since Mistie was diagnosed with the blood clot, I have been giving her a daily shot in the stomach. Well yesterday we had her blood drawn and her platelets were very low, so the good news is no more shots.

Unfortunately, her blood pressure was also high 158/107 so she is now taking some blood pressure medicine as high blood pressure can cause the tumors to bleed.


Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Mrs Shine


Cant wait to get started with Radiation on Thursday. The sooner I get it done the sooner I can stop taking this steroid. Hopefully when I am off that my legs will have the strength to start driving again. Everybody has to have a bald picture, plus Derick and Calvin like to have a turn wearing it and making faces... Glad we got our family pictures when we did.

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

4th Treatment

We talked with Dr. Rich today about the CT scan she had on Monday. He was very enthusiastic, saying that the radiologist had said her liver had markedly improved. He showed us the pictures and it was nothing short of miraculous! What had been possibly 20-40 areas of cancer had been reduced to just a handful.

With this amount of success we discussed halting the remaining chemotherapy to begin radiation on the cancer in her brain. This will give us a chance to treat the cancer in the brain as well as to begin treating her with blood thinners to reduce her risks of another blood clot. Once this is completed we can finish out the chemotherapy and are hopeful she can stop taking the steroid that is likely contributing to her weakness and fatigue.

Monday, May 24, 2010

CT Scan Results

Misties CT Scan showed a reduction in the cancer!
Unfortunately, it also turned up a pulmonary embolism, so we went straight from the scan to meet with our Oncologist. After that we were off to get a ultrasound to check for blood clots in her legs.

The Result: No blood clots in the legs and we probably wont do anything about the one in her lung as blood thinners have a small chance of making a cancer situation worse.

Follow up: They are comparing this scan with the one we had last month and we can talk about it on Wednesday when we go in to get another fresh helping of chemo.

My conclusion: Blood clot... smud smot

CT Scan


Mmmmm! Nothing like a liquid Barium smoothy on an empty stomach. We are here for a CT scan to see how the chemo is working.

It is a crazy day so far.
It is snowing outside like the middle of January.
Derick remembered just as he was about to leave for school that it was a class party and he needed to wear pajamas and bring his favorite toy.
Calvin had a field trip today where his class was going to walk down to the Salem Pond and fire station, about a mile from his school.
And with just a few hours of sleep last night Im looking forward to a nice long CT scan.


Yesterday my mom, dad, and Delaina came up and had lunch with us. We had a picnic out on the deck and a good time just sitting around.

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

3 Down 9 to Go



Here for my 3rd treatment today. The tumor marker in my blood had gone down (another good sign that the treatment is working). Dr Rich is hopeful that the aches and pains will improve in the next few treatments. He also gave me a prescription to hopefully increase my energy. My sister Cheri came with me and that was nice and made for a good day.

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

A Piece of Good News

Yesterday we went in to get her blood sampled and the Dr said that everything looked really good. He also said that the results from the MRI last week showed that the cancer in the brain was not progressing and possibly had shrunk slightly. This was a big relief as we were concerned that we may need to stop the chemo treatments to do some radiation on the brain.


Monday, May 17, 2010

Night at the Movies



Went and saw 'How to train your dragon'. Cute show!

Friday, May 14, 2010

Hair Cut





Last night we went and got Mistie a new short hair cut. It looks great and she likes it too. I posted a couple of pictures from the kids school carnival with her new hair cut. the boys had a great time.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

A Tough Week

It has been up and down this week for Mistie. She has been acting extremely tired, which seemed to be a bit more then what I expected, so Monday while she was at Radiation I got her an appointment to get her blood drawn. We have been concerned that her white blood cell count was low. It was low at 2.2 but not dramatically, so that was a relief.

Tuesday was the last day of Radiation on her right hip. The nurses were great and gave her a certificate of completion. Unfortunately the day didn't stay upbeat as she began to lose her hair and became nauseated.

Today we came back in to check her blood and it turned out to be back in the normal range. She had lost some weight, so she plugged in and got a Liter of fluid. We mentioned how tired she has been and Dr Rich ordered a MRI this afternoon.

Sunday, May 9, 2010


Russ: We had a good weekend. We got some pictures taken and a video made on Saturday. To bribe the kids we went and saw the Tooth Fairy afterward. They did a great job and it was one of the most pleasant picture taking days that I have ever had. It seems to be easier when you take pictures outside instead of being paraded through a dept store.

Friday we had a great time at the Sugarland concert. I lost some hearing, but I think it was the first concert that I had been to since well... my brothers high school concert, which for me was pure torture (sorry but true). On the way up we stopped in at Chipole for a romantic 3 taco dinner.

Having a good weekend

Mistie has been feeling well. Now with a few days of recovery after chemo she has more energy. We got a prescription for some "magic mouthwash" that has helped to numb the sores in her mouth. Her treatment plan is 2 weeks of chemo and then one week recovery. This is considered one cycle. Dr Rich is anticipating 6 cycles with a CT scan every 2 cycles. We are glad to finish the first cycle and are encouraged that it has gone this well.

Wednesday, May 5, 2010


He called it the "Jolley Roger". He may have had a little help from his dad but it was the wind power that put it across the finish line.

Rain Gutter Regatta


Here for Chemo today. White count is still normal and I am feeling well. I uploaded this photo of Derick at the rain gutter regatta last night. He sure was excited and got 1st place.

Monday, May 3, 2010

Blood Test

She had her blood drawn today and the White Blood Cell count was 5.7. Good news the average range is between 4 and 11. We will probably have it tested again before her next chemo treatment on Wednesday. Usually after chemo it may take 7-14 days to hit its lowest point. We will be watching it closely since it was her low counts that nearly killed her last time.

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Typical Side Effects (thank goodness)

Lucky so far with only typical side effects (sores in the mouth and sleeping like a newborn). She should be getting closer to her normal level just in time to get the second round on Wednesday. Wednesday is actually a big day with a surgery to insert a portacath at 6:30am then over to Chemo and finally a dollop of radiation to top it all off, luckily I just get to watch. We are actually looking forward to the "port" since some nurses are better then others at hitting veins. A few time we have joked around about them using a worm on the end of the needle with as much fishing as they are doing inside her arm to hit the vein. Tomorrow she will head in to get her radiation and have her blood drawn to check her white blood cell count. As always with Mistie you wouldnt even know if she had a cold by looking at her.

Thursday, April 29, 2010

The Day After

Mistie had her chemo and radiation yesterday. She took it all well without complications and surprisingly felt really good last night. She will have radiation every weekday for 9 treatments, but so far we are very happy with how things are going. Today we are hoping to go to the temple after her radiation.

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

First Dose of Chemo

I told Mistie that walking back into the room where she had chemo, to start it again, made me feel like flopping on the ground and kicking my feet. You always have smells or places that trigger a reaction in your memory, this is one I was hoping to forget. Well today we are getting our first dose of chemo. Dr rich was considering using Taxol and Avastin to fight the cancer and zometa to add some strength to the bones. He discussed Mistie with some other doctors this morning and considering that she has cancer in the brain decided to change to a Taxol and gemzar. So far she looks like she is taking it fine. This treatment likely wont make her loose her hair and should just make her feel tired. He will monitor her blood to determine if the treatment is helping; otherwise, he will switch the chemo.

He also said that the last time he drew her blood in August she was at normal levels and now she was obviously way over on a tumor marker. I asked him if it is normal that three months ago she would be fine and then for it to explode like this. He said that it happens, and doesnt know what may have triggered it after 5-1/2 years.

Days 1-6

Welcome to my blog. Russ and I thought it might work better to keep everyone up to date and we would both write updates every so often.

Well we finally figured out why my muscles have been aching. Last Thursday we went to a GI doctor in AF after we found that my blood counts had been unusual with a high iron content. She recommended that we get a CT scan. After that Russ and I went down to Zupas for lunch. By the time we got there she called us and asked if we could come in her office. It was funny because she asked if we were available right away then I said yes and I think that she was trying not to scare me so she said let me check my schedule. Then without out pausing she said ok come in right now. We joked around about maybe winning a prize or something as we drove back up to AF. Mostly it was just to help us stay calm as we thought of all the possible reasons why she might want to see us right away. We really weren't too alarmed since she was a nursing assistant and in our experience they sometimes act weird and jump to conclusions. Anyway so we arrived in the office and she dropped the bomb on us, really rather brutally. Worst nightmare come true! I just sat there and shook my head as she said that I have several spots of cancer in my liver and some on and in the bones that they could see in the small area that they had scanned. Well she called my oncologist, Dr. Rich, and he said he was waiting to see us in his office. We drove down to Provo and waited in the waiting area in the hospital. After what seemed forever we discussed with him that the cancer was throughout the liver and that he wanted to start treatment right away. From how it sounded we asked if there was any point in doing chemotherapy... or should we just take a vacation for a few weeks and try to spend as much time together as possible. He said that if I were over 40 then the story might be different but with a young family and that I appeared to be healthy he thought that we had to try to extend my life as much as possible. We also talked about how the treatments before had done a great job in stopping the cancer and that this had the same chance of slowing it down. Unfortunately, we had only seen a small area of the body and for us to make a better decision we needed to get a PET scan. The PET scan shows any cancer activity through out the body. The PET scan was set for Monday... 4 days away.

This is probably going too slow... So Monday we got the PET scan and went to see our oncologist. He said that the cancer was throughout and his main concern was still my liver. Tuesday we met with our radiologist Dr Clark. He showed us the pictures of the PET scan. Every time it shows some cancer it lights up in that place. As we scanned down through the body Russ said it was like watching a firework show. The short of it is that I have cancer in all of my bones, my lungs, my liver, and small areas in my brain.

Russ: Well it is really unusual to hear the doctors say that we should come to their office as soon as we get done with the last doctor, no apt necessary. The doctors kept asking if she had any pain in her hips or back and then would pound down her back, well after seeing the PET scan it was clear why they were asking. The area of particular interest was her hip since the image showed that the cancer had dissolved a significant portion of her hip joint. We are scheduled to get that irradiated today after the chemo, which should stop the cancer from progressing in that joint. Dr. Rich said that she should be extra careful and not to do any jumping (she is banned from the trampoline).