Friday, May 25, 2012

The LAST day of School...



It's that time of year again...

SUMMER

I love this time of year (even more than Christmas!)...

The memories are so sweet for me.

Camping trips (the few that we did when I was a kid, and the few that we have done with my own   family.)

Over-nighters in the backyard

The smell of fresh cut grass and alfalfa

The cool night time air while driving past an open alfalfa or cotton field (or orange grove...when they existed!).

Late nights watching movies with family and friends (especially in Roy and Lana's backyard...open fire, roasting marshmallows and a big screen TV watching a movie in the cool evening air...mom and dad can snuggle, kids can run wild...what's better than that?!)

BBQ's

Road trips to Idaho...especially when we go through the small towns in Utah and visit cousins and Grandma's and Grandpa's!

"Ranger Rides"

Wagon Rides with "Waylon's Wagon"

Extended stays in the Valley...we love to visit our cousins and other family members!

The frogs croaking after a good irrigation.

The birds chirping in the EARLY hours of morning.

The sunrises and sunsets!

Twilight walks

Cool green grass

Tire Swings

Peaches...canning, and eating them!

Ice cream!

Viking Burger!

Watermelon, cantaloupe, grape and strawberry salads!  YUMMY!

Baseball games at the ballpark right next to my house...with shaved ice and red vines!

Although I'm not much of a swimmer now, I remember enjoying it as a kid!

The list goes on and on...

But my absolute favorite thing about summer...

THE FABULOUS FOURTH OF JULY! 

I love everything about this holiday!

It's a time that, as a family, we get together and celebrate this great nation and what it stands for and family and what they stand for!  To say that I love it is actually an understatement! 

If only every day could be like the 4th of July!


















Thursday, May 17, 2012

My New Best Friend...?

Let me tell you a little about her. I've been introduced to her on a number of occasions throughout my life by friends, family members and even strangers, but I don't think that she remembers me..I think she may have Alzheimer's because she's always trying to reintroduce herself to me like she's never met me before and although I know who she is, she really has a difficult time remembering me. Since September, she's started coming around more often.  She's very faithful.  She likes to come around about once a month to check on all of us.  She is very Loyal, and she loves to share too.  She seldom ever keeps anything from us and makes sure that we all get a piece of whatever she has to share!  She loves my family very much and it is apparent to me that she may love us more than the other families she visits.  (Personally, I think that my family is her VERY FAVORITE!)
Recently, she came to visit and decided that she would stay for a while.  Her natural tendency of staying a day or two turned into almost a week!  I don't mean to be rude, but sometimes these longer visits overwhelm me....A LOT!  She NEVER cleans up after herself, in fact, I am usually left with a lengthy amount of chores to do not just while she is visiting, but most often for days after she has left!  The last time she visited, it took me weeks just to catch up with the laundry she used! 
Sometimes, I find that she can be rather expensive too.  She usually doesn't have a clue what she needs or wants!  Last time she visited I spent almost $200 just trying to figure out what was needed to help fix her problems!  She has many you know!
I've found that she isn't very nice either.  I've noticed that she likes to pick on one person more than another.  She really can be a BuLLY!  She especially likes to pick on my Wyndel lately!  Maybe it's because Wyndel is so little and sweet.  Wyndel is a tough little girl though and she takes her teasing and bullying with few complaints! 
This new friend is what my husband calls a "crony"!  She clings to us like she is our best pal ever.  By definition, a crony is just that..".a close friend especially of long standing"...And believe me she's been around for a while...but, I am discovering that she is more of a "Wolf in Sheep's Clothing" or more of a "Clinger".  She clings to those that are more vulnerable and fragile.  Don't get me wrong, she may be loyal, and she may share, but she certainly isn't what I would ever call a friend.
I looked up the word friend, and she doesn't fit those qualities at all.
A "Friend" is someone attached to another by affection or esteem.  One that is not hostile.  One that favors or promotes something (as a charity). 
This so called new best friend isn't a friend at all.  She is none of those things that the word "friend" defined!  She is not charitable.  She is not kind.  She is not affectionate.  She can be rather hostile at times~ which is the opposite of what a true friend is!  So, I suppose this so called "best friend" is more like a "best foe"!  In fact I think that I might actually consider her my life long ENEMY!  I am not ashamed to say that I don't like her...at all!  She is horrible, mean, inconsiderate and even expensive!
She came to visit us again last night.  I think that I am going to ask her to leave today!  I am tired of cleaning up her messes, spending money on her questionable behaviors and trying to fix her problems! 
I AM THROUGH WITH HER!  GOOD RIDDANCE!

As a fair warning to all of my "real" friends out there, she's often referred to as a "Bug", "Sickies", "Virus", "Flu", "Cold", "Bacteria" ...oh she has many alias'.  She is very cunning and deceiving!  Don't be fooled!  Stay away from those who entertain her...she's hard to get rid of!

As a side note, I hear that she really dislikes Clorox and Lysol!  She LOATHES them about as much as I LOATH her! Hee hee!

Happy CLEANING to me and my friend Lana.... AGAIN!!!!


Dedicated to my Real Best Friend...Who shares the same stressful life right now...Lana  Lou!

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

A week in the life of "ME"....

Visited my parents this weekend.  It's the first time in  about a month and a half since I've seen them.  I expected that my father would be bald with the way my family talked, but actually he still has hair~and that pleases me.  His arms looked a little thin in comparison to the last time I had seen him, but his color was good and in my opinion, he looked well....this was Friday evening.  By Sunday, he really looked rather tired.  Maybe we overwhelmed him with our rather large crew...We do have a tendency to do that sometimes!

He mostly sits in the chair that was originally purchased for my Grandpa before he passed away.  He has the ability to adjust it with a remote to a reclining position or whatever he needs.  This chair has helped tremendously!  The Chemo has caused him to become very nauseated and have heartburn so badly that reclining that chair to just the right position is sometimes the only relief that he gets!
 
He did get up and sit outside for a few minutes while Ed mowed the backyard lawn.  I wonder if he longed to do it himself.  Yard work is one of his joys in life.  I wish that he had enough strength so that he could do some of it himself.  I think that he would like that.

This week is his off week for Chemo.  He gets a little break from the horrible treatment.  He said that often it isn't until the end of the second week that he begins to regain a little strength, just in time to start all over again.  My mother says that sometimes just after the treatments, he feels better and has some energy but she thinks it's because of the steroids...it gives him just enough of a boost.  In the beginning, just after he was diagnosed and just before he started Chemo, they gave him a regiment of steroids to help him with his energy level.  It was as if they gave me my old father back!  It was truly amazing how well it worked!  He went from literally sleeping almost all day with no energy and feeling nauseated to....Himself again!  I just can't explain the difference.  Now if only that could happen again.  I am sure it is all in time...it will happen again....

The best news is that he PET scan that he had last week showed a significant difference...They were able to compare the cancer before his treatments and the cancer after only two treatments.  My mother said that much of the cancer had disappeared or shrunk a great deal!  No more cancer in the bones, or lymph nods.  So...the Chemo is working!!!!!!  Yeah!  I am sure that hearing this was such a relief for both of my parents.

I am so glad that we had the opportunity to visit this weekend.

On Sunday, Ed sat with my dad so that my mom and I could take the kids to church and listen to my little sister Mary speak on Mother's Day.  It was a nice treat.  She really did a great job...I felt much of her talk honored our own mother, and so it was special that my mom could go to listen.

Ed enjoyed sitting with my dad and watching the BYU channel for church (they watched a show where someone interviewed some WWII veterans.  They discussed the miraculous power of prayer and priesthood blessings and how it effected them directly during the war.)  This kind of church was right up his alley! I think he enjoyed sitting and hanging out with my dad.

Saturday consisted of the usually Target, Old Navy and Costco errands!  Due to the fact that we only have a WALMART on the mountain...YUCK!....we have to wait until we travel to the Valley to shop at any of these places~And let me tell you, it is well worth the wait!  I loath Walmart!  (That topic is worthy of a whole other post later!) 

Ed and I treated ourselves to some new running shoes while my little sister and her husband took all of the boys to play "laser tag" with their cousins for Steele's 5th birthday!  The girls along with Lily and Lauren, went with Ed and I while we shopped for shoes. (Ed and I started working out at the local High School gym together with a trainer....he's already lost 5 pounds and it hasn't even been a week!  Myself on the other had...I think I gained a pound!)  After shopping, we went to my sisters house for pizza and ice cream to celebrate Steele's birthday.

Friday, we went to my nephews court of honor.  He is the first of the grandchildren to receive the Eagle Scout award.  I hope that Wesley will be the next...he is only 4 merit badges away from receiving his! 

Monday this week, Wyatt and his team played and won yet another baseball game!  Go Wyatt!  He is doing well at it and seems to really enjoy it!

Tuesday I took Wylee to get her new glasses adjusted...they look so cute on her...they make her look much older than she really is!

Wesley is preparing for high school soccer!  (Yes...I said HIGH SCHOOL!)  He has been practicing with the team every Tuesday and Thursday with hopes of getting on the team  next school year!

Will Jaye and Wylee are just excited for school to be out!

Winston is learning to draw and enjoys asking me about every letter and number...I think he is ready to start learning the alphabet!

Wyndel is still so small and cute and cuddly!  She is FINALLY getting some hair too! 

Ed and I are still getting used to the idea of having yet another "W" amongst this crazy clan of ours!  We are both feeling a little old lately and this new work out program is quickly showing us just how old we really are!  Today I feel it in every muscle and I am NOT looking forward to tonight!  I am still sore from Monday!

Even still.....Life is Good!

Saturday, May 12, 2012

Sometimes there are posts written by others that just inspire me to write!  I enjoy reading other peoples stories.  Sometimes their stories help me to remember that my current "trial" is not really that bad and sometimes they inspire me to be/do better.

All and all, when I find a moment in my day to sit down and read, I really do enjoy the inspiring words.

So much in the last few months has changed in our home again....

My father was diagnosed with Cancer in March.  He has begun the long road of Chemo Therapy.  He is sick often and so tired.  It's difficult to see him with very little energy.  He is a very active person by nature.  He told me one day..."I feel like I have a very bad case of Morning Sickness!"

My mother spends her days with my dad...but, I don't think that she would have it any other way...(they have a love and a respect for each other that is very different from other couples).  She sits in the bedroom doing Family History work on the computer while he sleeps...just to be close to him.  The cares of the day and the house work somehow find their way to the back burner...the way it should be when a loved one needs our help.  Miraculously though, at the end of the day, the work that needs to be done... the yard work, the cleaning, the laundry...it all gets done whether through the help of ward members, friends, neighbors or family ( they serve because it's what they CAN do and they really WANT to help).  Sometimes Heavenly Father holds back the hands on the clock long enough for my mother to get a few extra things done.  Sometimes Heavenly Father strengthens my father long enough to allow him a chance to do something more than rest for the day. And sometimes Heavenly Father reminds that it's just house work and it doesn't matter as much as the service that's being given and that make it less overwhelming when it doesn't get done.  Either way,  when you are on the Lords errand...doing the things that He would have you do...the rest really doesn't matter as much!  I have no doubt my mother is doing EVERYTHING that the Lord would have her do so that my father can experience good health again.  She is a Great woman of faith and example of enduring well!  She loves my father so much!

My dad, I know, worries about her.   He loves her just as much and maybe even more!

They are enduring this battle and it's good to have wonderful examples like them so close.

I don't speak with them as much...I talk with my mother almost everyday, but it's different than it used to be.  Our time is filled with different things now.  Hers with my fathers needs, and mine with the business of my family.  My thoughts are consumed I think too...maybe with worry, maybe with anger, maybe with nothing!!  Either way we speak, but not like we use to.  I'm sure it's just a moment in time.  It will be better again.

Skipping forward...the last few weeks have been STRANGE to say the least. 

Wyndel has had Pneumonia 2x's since January with a case of  Bronchitis in between and just recently a nasty case of the Stomach Flu...which in the doctors opinion, should have landed her in the ER for some re hydration! 

Now my Winston has it!  Yuck!  It's been a while since I have had to clean up throw-up blankets, clothes, towels, pillows...you name it it's been pucked on...not to mention, now the dreaded case of "Montezuma Revenge" has begun for my little man!  Poor kid!  I wish this bug would just leave us alone! 

I must have had a touch of it myself, and it lasted almost a week...however, one would have to wonder because it came on not long after receiving a positive sign on a pee stick!  WHAT??????

"How does this happen?!" my husband asks/exclaims!  Well, I could go into detail...but I am certain he already knows!  SIGH........(from both of us!)

So here we are...Dad has Cancer, Kids are sick I just celebrated my 38th birthday **Sigh**....with the news that I am an OLD MOTHER....again!

Happy are we, Happy are we...(really we are)

More to come later...