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Souviens-toi










I wondered if this should be Sparky's Birthday Blog or Sarah's but finally settled on Sparky since it really is because of him, and Sarah has already received this as a gift from him.

Sparky started something when Sarah was born. He gave her a song. He was still going to BYU, and would often come up on weekends alone or with friends to hang out and have a meal! Every time he would come to visit us he would hold Sarah and sing her 'her' song. It was a beautiful song set to Dvorák's New World Symphony. A hymn "Souviens-toi", in the French hymnal 'Cantiques'. It was beautiful music, lyrics and a beautiful moment every time he started to sing.

He has carried this on with his own little girls. Audrey, having "Always" by Irving Berlin, and Alyssa, having "Lida Rose", from "The Music Man". Somehow it must be a little girl thing because I don't recall any songs for Miles or Duncan. Maybe because he wasn't around as much though. But this will always be a special song for Sarah from her Uncle Sparky. We sang it at her baptism and now at ten yeas old, she is learning to play a simplified version on the piano. Thank you Sparky for such a sweet memory.

The song translated...


Remember, My Child
Remember, my child : not long ago,
your divine parents held you in their arms.
Today you are here, marvelously present.
Your gaze still shines with the reflection of heaven.
Talk to me, my child, about that blessed place,
because for you the veil is still thin.

Remember, my child, the forests, the cities.
Can we down here imagine them?
And the night sky, is it rosy or gray?
Is the sun waiting for snow or rain?
Describe to me, my child, the color of the meadows
and the birdsongs of a forgotten world.

Remember, my child: at the dawn of time,
we were friends playing in the wind.
Then one day in joy we chose to accept
the Lord’s grand plan of life.
That night, my child, we promised through love,
and through faith, to be reunited.

Happy Birthday Sparky... Hope D.C. doesn't end up seeming too far away!

Clairee

Clairee is ONE!! WOW... that was way too fast!


I think the trend in April is to have someone else do the blog on my behalf.... yes.. that's the plan... no. I just haven't had many spare moments to do much of anything... even those things that I want desperately to do. Thus I'll direct you to the well done birthday blog for Clairee done by her own mother... I can't really compete with a mother's blog for those under two anyway!

Click here for Clairee's birthday blog!

Life is slowly returning to a semblance of normalcy... soon birthday blogs will be done by me... and maybe even on time!

I must add that getting to see Clairee last week just before her birthday was a treat! She is adorable, toddling around, Sarah was completely enamored and it certainly has me thinking about a lot of things with a not so baby proofed house!

hmmmm,

Snowing
Dreary
Sleepy
Achy
Unmotivated
Overwhelmed
Need groceries
Need shower
Kids need focus
Kids need haircuts
Behind on birthdays
Overdue library books
Part of me doesn't care
Hot cocoa and popcorn
Relaxing, rejuvenating
Ignoring responsibilities
Start over tomorrow

Rob

Patrick's brother Rob is celebrating a birthday today. Unfortunately he's not a fellow I know too well. Visits are few and far between with the distance from Utah to Oklahoma. So... once again... for an April birthday blog I'll enlist the assistance of a guest blogger! This time not a mother but a brother! Since enlisting the help of a mother for a blog post is for those under two years and Rob is a 'little' over two now!

To my little brother Rob,

Happy Birthday. I grew up and now I really can say 'my little brother'. Growing up only 6 weeks apart in age was a blast.... was insane.... was confusing to anyone who didn't know we were adopted!

I remember racing to Faler's for candy and gum and running to get the bus at the other school. Just being back in Pinedale last week brought back memories... but everything is sure different there now! Barely recognize the place.

Waking up to do the chores before dad got up on Christmas morning. Hating the chickens. Hauling wood. Chores and more chores. But mixed in there are great memories.

Take it easy and have a happy birthday Rob.

Pat

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ROB!

The Loney Saga, Chapter 15 --

The search had been successful and the research for the parents had at least been interesting. Forrest was a mystery. Well we had decided to let it go for the sake of respecting the siblings wishes.

Joyce had the opportunity of a lifetime that she couldn't turn down. Lloyd her 90 year old Uncle in Law was taking a genealogical tour to cemeteries and court houses to search family history records of their family in the western and southern united states. He an amazing nonagenarian takes on new projects with zeal and excitement. His latest activities were the purchase of a computer (He was quickly becoming a whiz on the computer) and an R.V.

They set off on a 4000 mile trip. They planned to travel from Oregon through Idaho, Montana, South Dakota, Nebraska, Kansas, Oklahoma, and Arkansas. It had been four weeks on the road and they were feeling excited with all their discoveries and their adventures. With plenty of time to chat on the road, Joyce shared another family history saga. The Loney Saga. Lloyd was fascinated by the tale!

Some of their discoveries led them to learn of some further leads in their own history to places in Louisiana and once there they wanted to go to Vicksburg, MS. However as they arrived in Vicksburg they discovered that they were experiencing some small RV troubles. They learned they would need a dealership for the repairs. The closest dealership was in Jackson, MS.

The repairs done, Joyce, the navigator with the map noticed that Sturgis was only an inch away. What did Lloyd think? Lloyd was game for some more adventure so they headed a little further east!

They were greeted on their arrival in Sturgis with flags and a rally. It was an annual Motorcycle rally. Joyce of course preferred to believe that this was a sign that the Loney family was welcoming her visit.

A quick stop at the post office quickly revealed what Joyce had discovered two years ago on the internet. This town was settled and full of Quinn's! The post mistress definitely knew Pat and Martha Loney. They were long time residents of Sturgis. Their son Forrest was in town she was sure at the rally that day. He and his new wife were the ones in charge of the motorcycle rally event. The parents would likely be there also, probably at the Town historical society booth! Couldn't miss it she was told.

The town of Sturgis is not too big, so they decided to park the R.V. and walk the main street lined with booths in search of the historical society booth. Joyce was fairly skipping down the street she was so excited about the prospects of being so close!

Just as they were approaching what appeared to be the grand stand for announcments or maybe an evening concert would be preformed there later that evening, our Patrick stood up to make an announcment! Our Patrick!?? WHAT? A double take! A triple take! She rubbed her eyes! There could be no mistake. It was Patrick. She knew she had to speak to this man. As he finished announcing a list of festivities and their locations he turned for the microphone and began to exit the little stand. Joyce fairly flew to the location calling out "Patrick!, Patrick!, or no Loney, Forrest, Loney Patrick Forrest Loney!"

He turned around. "Yes" came Patrick's voice with a strong Mississippi accent.

Tears were about to form. It was unbelievable. She began to blurt out who she was and could he possibly be Forrest Loney with parents Patrick and Martha Loney. How could he be anyone else... the resemblance!!

He smiled. "Are you telling me you know where my twin brother Patrick is all these years later?"
The whoosh from a nearby passing motorcycle could have knocked her down! A twin?!

After he made some quick arrangements with some buddies to take over announcing for a while he escorted Joyce, Lloyd and Muriel to the historical society booth to see his parents and discuss what he referred to as the saddest story you'll ever hear!

Pat A. and Martha were sitting both in wheel chairs in the booth. Martha was hooked to oxygen but she could communicate slowly. Pat A. was a thin, week old man, but his smile was genuine! After quick introductions and many exclamations of "Wow, you've found him!", the story began.

It was a cold winter in Wyoming in 1974. Kathy 5, Patrick and Forrest, twins, were 4 and Krissy was almost 2. Forrest had been a sickly baby and toddler and had often needed medical attention. It took a toll on the family emotionally and financially. They were living in a small trailer in Rawlins, WY. It was rarely warm in the trailer even with all the heat on.

Forrest had become very ill that winter and one evening his breathing became so labored that an emergency rush to a hospital 100 miles away became their only hope. A neighbour was called on quickly to watch the other children. Forrest made it to the hospital and was then admitted. It took many weeks before they knew that Forrest would be all right. During this time Pat A. also became ill and was admitted to the hospital. Martha did everything she could to arrange for the children at home to be cared for while whe went back and forth from Pat A's room and little Forrest's room and home. One night quite late while she was driving back the 100 miles from the hospital to relieve the sitter she didn't see the deer as it leapt onto the road.

Wyoming has long stretches of lonely, isolated roads. Hours and days can sometimes go by before someone might notice an overturned car in a ditch. This was the case for Martha. Many days went by before someone noticed her and she was rushed back to the hospital for treatment.

It was almost a month before she recovered and was able to be discharged but now she didn't have any means to return to Rawlins and learn what had become of her children. Pat A. and Forrest were still very critical and unable to leave the hospital. Her attempts to contact someone at home were not answered. She was worried and panicking. She was finally able to secure a ride to Rawlins with a trucker. She was desperate to return home to her three children. When she returned she found that the trailer had burned to the ground, as had the neighbouring trailers.

It took some time before she was able to learn that the sitter had decided that Martha had abandoned the children. The sitter cared for the children for over a week but had to go to town for more food. While she was gone she left 5 year old Kathleen alone to care for Patrick and Krissy. A fire began. Kathleen had been able to get the siblings out of the house but since there weren't any adults that came to tell the authorities anything about these poor children who were obviously cold and hungry and not being cared for they were taken to Casper, WY. There was a facility there for children.

Martha tried unsuccessfully to convince authorities and judges for years that she had not abandoned her children. Pat A. and Forrest did recover. Pat A. was never very strong after that. The anguish over losing his children drove him to drinking for many years. They returned to Martha's home of Mississippi where they lived to this day.









I hope you've all enjoyed today's April Fool Chapter... turn in tomorrow for the real Chapter XIII!!!
In honor of Paige's request that I not do a birthday blog for her birthday... I had to be a little more creative!

April Fools

April Fools' Day or All Fools' Day, although not a holiday in its own right, is a notable day celebrated in many countries on April 1. The day is marked by the commission of hoaxes and other practical jokes of varying sophistication on friends, family members, enemies, and neighbors, or sending them on fool's errand, the aim of which is to embarrass the gullible. Traditionally, in some countries, the jokes only last until noon: someone who plays a trick after noon is called an "April Fool".[1] Elsewhere, such as in Ireland, France, and the USA, the jokes last all day.

The origin of April Fools' Day is obscure. One likely theory is that the modern holiday was first celebrated soon after the adoption of the Gregorian Calendar; the term referred to someone still adhering to the Julian Calendar which it replaced.[2] In many pre-Christian cultures May Day (May 1) was celebrated as the first day of summer, and signalled the start of the spring planting season. An April Fool was someone who did this prematurely. In the eighteenth century the festival was often posited as going back to the times of Noah. An English newspaper article published on April 13th, 1789 said that the day had its origins when he sent the raven off too early, before the waters had receded. He did this on the first day of the Hebrew month that corresponds with April.[3] A possible reference to April Fools' Day can be seen in the Canterbury Tales (ca 1400) in the Nun's Priest's tale, a tale of two fools: Chanticleer and the fox, which took place on March 32nd.[4]

The birthday of the mischievous twins, Fred and George Weasley from the Harry Potter series is April 1st.


Best pranks played have been

-for sale sign in TX
-borrowing goats for the day and letting them loose in neighbours yard in TX
-telling everyone that Paige was twin boys at birth
-changing the clocks throughout the day... ok ... I've done it on other days as well.

Ava Birthday

Life is exceptionally busy and I have STILL not met my newest niece Ava! Today she is 1 and I really could say much about a 1 year old that I've never met on a birthday blog other than. I have a niece who turns one today... Not much of a blog. So today I have a guest blogger! Eden, my sister, her mother who actually has met Ava and knows all about her! So I will learn about Ava along with all of you! It will probably make me feel even more sad that I STILL haven't met her!


Firstly, I am not a blogger, so mum don't get any ideas, but for my sweet Ava I will make an exception.

Ava: aka noisy bot, Ava bell, sweet petunia, little chewkie

Activities she enjoys are :
  • dancing to songs such as the strawberry shortcake theme. sleeping beauty, and fifi and flower tots.
  • sneaking up the stairs,
  • playing in her big sisters room.
  • she also enjoys singing although there is some debate as to whether it is just squealing.
  • hide and seek,(in the tent or just under a blanket).
  • sharing and feeding us.
  • eating toes

Words she says include, mama, dada, beesista, bong,(which can mean nearly anything) my baba, my beebee, nye nye (night night) and most recently NO

Achievements she is most proud of,

  • wiping her bum (pretend) and then blowing her nose with the same tissue. sweeping,
  • pointing,
  • feeding herself with a spoon,
  • putting things in the garbage.
  • waving,clapping, blowing kisses. climbing off the trampoline (that's after bouncing on it).
  • walking, running (away from me and Sadie) and walking backwards.



Things she loves,
  • US (to clarify.. that's her family not the US of A.)
  • her couch,
  • anything soft,
  • SHOES,
  • dress up,
  • music,
  • bath time,
  • food,
  • swimming,
  • brushing her teeth,
  • making us laugh

I would be remiss in describing Ava if I neglected to mention her shall we say, Determination. She has spunk, is feisty and sometimes relentless. Things she does not enjoy...... laying still for her diaper change, getting in her new car seat, when anyone (especially Sadie) takes something from her, food being removed from her mouth, (entire pancakes etc) She is not patient and she is loud.

I know she is barely 1 but, when I get online updates of what she should be doing, it is laughable. She amazes me everyday with each new skill. not that I have taught her, but that she lets me know she can do,

She is beautiful, and loving, funny funny funny, like no kid I've ever seen, not only does she know when something is funny, but she knows how to be funny. she lights up our days, completes our family and has taught me so much about myself and how to be loving amidst frustration. I am learning how to teach patience by being patient.

She is one of many Ava's born this year, but she is unique and wonderful.

So to my sweet baby love on her first birthday..... We love you.