This is an unearthly hour to be updating my blog, hahaa..
but i just woke up after my nap at 7pm.
cos it was my brother's wedding day and we didn't get much sleep the night before. Yes, told u i was excited liao.. i managed to catch only 3 hours of light sleep. It goes the same for my folks..but guess who got the most sleep? My brother, the groom himself! -__-!
haha..
And i've got almost 50 photos to share here, haha
In the morning, all of us woke at 6am and started getting really busy. My grandma cooked TangYuan and my dad collected the roasted pig. My mom went to 'set' her hair at the salon downstairs and me ar, busy getting ready, haha..

Grandma made dad comb brother's hair 3 times infront of the altar and basically, the whole scene was quite funny...

cos my grandma was the only one serious and saying the duno what "一梳, 梳到尾..." aloud..
and my dad and brother just followed along. After the whole ritual, my brother could still jokingly say he had his hair combed infront of the fridge (cos the altar is above our refrigerator)
and i think it made my grandma quite angry, hahaa
The whole thing was quite rushed (since it was a lunch banquet instead of dinner) and my brother even forgot the whole baskets of oranges when he went over to fetch his bride.
.. and when we called him on his phone, he told us he got take 2 oranges -_-! (he think he go there 拜年 ar....)
anyway, he wasn't really concerned with the traditions and i think my grandma got very upset over it, heh..
After my brother had gone over to the bride's house, we all adjourned to his new apartment :)

:D brother and his sweet bride!!
Eating tang yuan!



we set off to the hotel around 9am for the wedding solemnisation and banquet



waiting for in-laws.. cos there was a massive jam along CTE
soon,

the exchange of rings and vows :)

it was very sweet!!


my brother looks funny here, haha.. testing the pen ink on his hand! -_-
daddy signing

After the solemnisation, we went up to brother's hotel suite to kaypo :D
Aunt was helping mom to do her make-up,

so cousins and i meddled around in the dressing room too, haha
"I....cann give u..Gatsby...."

Soon, it was the time for the tea ceremony and lunch banquet!
found time to take a photo with ahma!

Didnt take photos of the tea ceremony cos my cousins and i were busy serving at the reception.

kaiyi, jiayan and me! hur hur hur... we had fun!! love u girls!

baby cousins signing the guestbook.. they are soooo cute suited up!
Banquet time!!


kaiyi and her boyfriend, lionel, together with bailin


baby and me!
we the 'young people' were seated at the second VIP table.. and SOME VERY RUDE PEOPLE next table even had the cheek to ask whether we're SUPPOSED to be seated there.
HELLO??
wth. you dont go around asking the host if they're supposed to be seated at the VIP table right?
How rude can people get man? get ur facts right before jumping into conclusion!
Anyway, i'm glad jayen managed to stand up for us, hahaa.. (p.s: my grandma is very proud of u, baby haha!)
anyway, cant be bothered with them.. it's a special occasion for family and friends

Trying very hard to pop the champagne, heh


went up on stage to YumSeng!


Brother giving a Thank You speech... it was really heart-warming and my grandma was extremely touched when brother made it a point to thank her specially (for brewing
liang cha everyday without fail :) haha, she damn happy after that lor..

the lunch took very long, and the whole banquet ended almost 5pm!
Took alot of random shots hahaa




i really have to mention this!!! This particular waitress of FourSeasons Hotel is awesome!

Took photos together with brother. He looks damn hamsom!! hahaa


the guys

the whole wedding has a very romantic feel, haha.. Somehow, i think that the mood of a wedding results from how the bride+groom feel or act towards each other. Like, if the 2 of them are very loving, u can somehow feel it in their wedding. If they're a fun-loving couple, the banquet would usually be light-hearted.. Or if they marry for the sake of marrying, heh.. the guests will also feel that particular mood in their wedding lor, hahaaa...
I definitely have mixed feelings about it. On one hand, i feel extremely happy for my brother that he has found a woman to love wholeheartedly and live for the rest of his life. On the other hand, i feel a tinge of sadness because i know i'm gonna miss him alot at home since he's moving out. i'm going to be scared when i go to the toilet at night (hahaa.. like i was telling my cousin, i feel secured when i go use the bathroom at night cos my bro's room is the nearest to the toilet and i know he's ard, it makes me less afraid, hahaa)
And i also feel sad for my parents and grandma cos i know they will miss him alot too :) it makes me want to cry just thinking about how my brother and i have grown over the years.. it's time to start a new family on our own. Awwww.... and i feel damn emo.. Very happy yet with lots and lots of misses.. like how he thanked all of us, we actually have as many things to thank him for.
Thank you brother, for the 30 years of staying together.. the joy, tears, squabbles, going through happy as well as difficult times together as a family. We love you. May you have a blissful marriage and life ahead!