Monday, September 23, 2013

The Homeless Oregonians

I can't even believe I am typing the words - I now live in Oregon. We just moved our little family to Oregon! It happened so fast that it still doesn't seem real somedays, it feels like we're just here on vacation, visiting family like we really were last month. We have been here for a whole week and we feel blessed, anxious, grateful, impatient, and happy most of all.

Tyler had been applying for manager positions in Oregon for a few months now after we realized that this would actually be a perfect time for us to move somewhere if we ever would. And we wouldn't want to be where we didn't have any family support if we didn't have to, so he was applying and interviewing at warehouses in Oregon along with Utah. Nothing was coming of it, so I had accepted it wasn't the right time to move and got geared up to start Cole in kindergarten, Kate in preschool, renew my car registration, etc. We loved living in Farmington and being close (-ish, 2.5 hrs) to my family so it was a fine thing to not have to move. And then he got a job offer exactly one month ago. In Albany, which is the same city his grandparents live in and 45 minutes north of the rest of his family (except you Jessica! :( You east coaster). It felt like a good decision, one of those this doesn't feel wrong but isn't an overwhelming yes, just sort of a do it if you want to. So we proceeded to pack, and list our house, and pack, and try to decide where we want to live in OR, and pack and clean. We were packed up and had our stuff out of there in 2 weeks. What an amazing family and ward family we have. So much support and help, we are so lucky.

At first I cried every time I thought about leaving my mom, my awesome family, my amazing neighborhood with super moms around me and sweet friends for my kids, the school across the street from us that I had taught at and had dreamed of the day my kids would go there, the house full of happy memories where we became a family with kids, my mountains and my beautiful seasons and snow. It still makes me sad. I really miss it all. But I am so grateful for personal revelation, that Tyler and I can pray about a decision and receive help and guidance every time. We know this was a right choice for us, so no matter what I feel or what challenges we face here I know it will be best for us, that we will learn new lessons that will help us grow, and that most of all we are in His hands and it will all turn out like it's supposed to. I have been thinking a lot about Pres. Uchtdorf's talk about the forget me nots and how we need to learn to be happy now and not wait for our "golden ticket" to come to be happy.

We are selling our Utah home and hoping it goes quickly, because we can't go forward with buying a home here until it does. For now we are staying with Tyler's brother and sister-in-law's family and we are so grateful for their generosity in taking us in. I would be much more of a mess right now if he didn't have such a wonderful family out here taking care of us.

Here's how we spent our last weeks in Utah.

This was our last trip to Lagoon and it was POURING down rain. It rained an unusually large amount the last three days before we left, as if we were being prepared for what was to come. We got to the park, looked at all the rain coming down and all the people that were sprinting to their cars LEAVING and asked the kids if they still wanted to go, of course they did. A little water has never stopped us! We stayed for almost 2 hours before they were done, it was one of the most memorable times we've gone. This is in the car as we were getting prepared to hop out and get drenched.


 Train ride at Lagoon. Look at that mini-Tyler.

I was lucky to get to play in on my U Alumni team this year that plays the current team. We were their first match at the Huntsman center and it was so much fun. I couldn't believe I was one of the oldest Alumni there, it's been 10 years since I played! Sure doesn't feel that long ago. We were not the winners of the match but we sure had a great time. It made my heart happy to see the U tattoos that Tyler stuck on the kiddos during the game.



With my friend/roomie all throughout college Kim and coach Beth.
 Wearing my libero uniform! 



 This kid now has 3 teeth, 2 on bottom and one on top with his other front tooth coming in any day now. He continues to be an angel baby, so happy and easy going. He's been a little more clingy and wanting to be held more since we've been here, but when he does get down he is walking all over the place. He's so smart and I'm so lucky he's mine.


This was exactly a month ago, just minutes before Tyler called to tell me we were moving. Cole is on a bug kick lately and loves finding and collecting bugs - snails, slugs, praying mantis, and spiders were the things he found around our home in Farmington. He would wake up in the morning after the sprinklers had been on and go in the yard to see what he could find. Our garage was getting so congested with bug jars I told him it was time to put them back and he did not like that idea. So after a long discussion he came up with the idea to have a Bug Sale. We made up little flyers and he hand delivered them on his bike to friends and neighbors down the street. We set up a table, and $3.30 later all the bugs had been removed from our home :) It was the most adorable thing to see him selling his bugs. The sign said Bug Sale - snails .25, snails with jar and food .50, spiders .50, praying mantis 1.00. Our sweet neighbor Arletta wanted the praying mantis for her garden so Cole delivered it to her to collect his $.


We found out about the job just a couple days before Cole's first day of school, and after lots of thought we decided to start him at this one and let him go for 2 weeks before we left. He understood what was happening and was just happy to be with his friends. Here's his first day! He starts here in Junction City at Laurel Elementary, the same school Tyler went to, tomorrow morning.

 After 2 weeks of kindergarten and packing, we had everything done so we went home for a week to my parents. Tyler and dad had a elk hunting trip planned for months and I was looking forward to anything with my mom and sisters that didn't involve packing. The boys had a great time and of course we did as well. Have I mentioned yet that packing was not my favorite.


We went up to the cabin and played at the river one beautiful fall-feeling day.


Luke building up his confidence.
 THE rock. I have pictures of me on this rock growing up with my family since I was little.


Here's a last shot of Rod and Lisa's truck before it headed off to Oregon. I was amazed that we fit our entire home into 2 trucks that pulled 2 trailers and our car that pulled a little motorcycle trailer. Tyler has serious, marketable tetris-packing skills. 



The kids ready to take off! Tyler likes driving through the night while everyone sleeps. Less stops. :) Yes Kate has a bug jar on her lap, this one we would never sell - we found a monarch caterpillar at Grandma Morrill's the week before we left! It is now a cocoon and we can't wait for it to hatch.



We got to Oregon and began partying right away - cousin Austyn celebrated her 3rd birthday and the kids had a blast.

Our first rainstorm as Oregonians. I learned that real Oregonians don't use umbrellas.

I'm really looking forward to what our future holds!! Even in the next month things could change so much. It's an exciting time to be a Petersen.

Sunday, July 28, 2013

Summer's Post

I loooove summertime and we have had such a great one so far. I know I'm going to just savor it that much more once the kiddos are in school 9 months out of the year. I'm still avoiding thinking about Cole starting kindergarten and missing him in the mornings...mostly feeling excited for him to experience school and all that it entails. Kate going to preschool is going to be weird too. Big changes coming up! 

We love celebrating free Slurpee day every year...this is before the red shirts and faces.


It's so great being so close to Lagoon, we live literally 4 minutes away. We let the kids get wet in the huge fountain right before we go home and Tyler jumped in with them this day. He can go from 31 year old to 5 year old in a heartbeat. I love that guy.



For my birthday we went to the rodeo! It was fun, but big city rodeos just don't feel the same. The best part was having Rod, Lisa, and Eva drive out from Oregon and surprise me!! It was so great of them.

Love me some German chocolate cake every year!

It was such a great anniversary this year, mom took the kids for a day and we headed to Park City for a getaway. I still can't get over the fact that I get to be with my best friend all the time, I'm the luckiest girl! We try to get to the temple each year on the day we were married and do sealings, it's always the best part of the day. We also get a picture in this same spot each time. I love traditions.


This was a fun day, it started POURING and it happens so rarely around here that each time the kids get so excited and run out and go crazy, clothes and all! I love seeing them enjoying the moment and just being kids.


 Here's Luke's hair before his trim last week.

Parker, Jenn, and the boys are in town for the month and we couldn't be more excited. It's awesome for Cole and Kate to get some cousin time, I just wish they lived closer! Mom planned this great Grandma Camp for them and took them overnight to the cabin. They played in the river, did lots of arts and crafts, made smores, went hiking, and made so many great memories. I'm so grateful for such amazing grandparents for my kids.


Look at those adorable shirts!

This is at the end of the camp. Mom deserves an award!

They made the schedule and rule lists together.


Just loved having both of my lovely mommies with me on my birthday.

Love this guy.

Riding the train at Lagoon.

Learning to push the horn button on grandpa's tractor.

Dad, Tyler, and I ran the Neola Half Marathon on the 4th and we were all happy with our times :) It was Dad's first race with his new hip, and Tyler took 3rd place overall! He won $25! And then he won the biggest prize in the raffle, an entry into the St George Marathon in October. I was so proud of him!


Kate got a little face painting.

What a sweet boy!

They both had woken up from naps and were extra cuddly. I was in heaven.

We had a momma robin make her nest in our rose bush this year! It was so fun to watch them hatch and grow up.

Making cookies on her birthday! Such a sweet tooth.


Cole's spy birthday party! So much fun.

I'm 1 year old!

Bathtime is way more fun with balloons.

He had a great first birthday, loved the cake and did a great job of flinging it all over the kitchen.
 They were little vultures just waiting to jump in at the end!

Our first campout this year. Hope we can get out some more before school starts!


Just a few more weeks to soak it all up!


Saturday, May 25, 2013

These are THE days

I think the advice I hear the most as a mom has something to do with "enjoy them while they are little, it goes by so fast". And some days it does, you turn around and your baby you just brought home from the hospital is ready for kindergarten and now you have other babies too. Then some days nevvvvver end and you can't wait for bedtime. But 90% of the time I just LOVE this phase of our life, with little ones saying and doing funny things all day, learning things for the first time, and just bringing so much joy, light, and innocence in our home. I will love the more time for me and Tyler that we will get as they grow up and won't be so dependent on me (what, I can go to the bathroom by myself or say a whole sentence to Tyler without being interrupted??) but I know for sure I will look back on these busy busy days with happiness and fulfillment. I can truly say I am enjoying the journey and not waiting for a destination. 

I think I'm thinking about this because this past week Cole graduated from preschool, Kate turned 3, and Luke learned to say "Boo!" and stood on his own. I am really excited for this summer which will be full of field trips, hiking, learning to do regular chores (other than dinner jobs), playing in the sun, gardening, math, reading, writing, and lots of free time. It will be great!

I have loved coaching Kate's tball team this year, we've had adorable kids and really helpful parents. Although she hasn't been as self-driven as Cole was his first year of t-ball, she's really enjoyed it and has improved a lot. I love it when she brings me dandelions in the middle of a game.



Cole moved up to Shetland league this year which is a machine pitch division. He is a great little batter and has liked learning the rules more.

Luke is 11 months old now! On top of all the milk, he loves to eat "real" food and snacks, although we still offer baby food to him it's just not his favorite. This is one of our favorite snack games.


He fell asleep on a walk to the grocery store one day, I thought he looked cute.


Grandma and grandpa had a hotel room in Salt Lake one night so we took advantage of the swimming pool! I love how they all love the water.

This was something pretty amazing, I was so proud of Cole. For his man date with daddy, he wanted to take his new big bike (with no training wheels) on Legacy Trail for a ride with Tyler. They ended up going 8 miles round trip! He had heard us talk about this bridge which we run by some days, so that was his goal and he did it. This bike isn't the easiest to ride, it was Tyler's when he was little so a little old and rusty but he doesn't notice. He loves his new freedom and flies around the cul-de-sac on that thing, asking us to time him.


Our ward had a father-sons campout that the boys were able to go to. Cole even spotted a moose not too far from their camp! He really looks forward to it and counts down the days. Next year Luke will join them :)


He was excited about getting asked to ring the triangle for dinnertime.


Here's last month's pie, lemon meringue! We loved the lemon and the crust part, but the meringue was not the greatest. So we just scooped it off. I think it's because I didn't have the superfine sugar I was supposed to and just used normal. Try again another year!


What? I'm just texting my ladies.


These kids love dress up! Kate even stuck a bow in Luke's hair so he wasn't left out.


Don't let that sweet face fool you. She is a firecracker this one. :) Sugar and spice, and everything nice.

He is awesome at pulling himself up and has started cruising a little lately. Just a matter of time...

That hair! Can you believe it?


Best friends.


We made lots of strawberry jam! It turned out great. It always amazes me how much sugar goes in there. But man it's yummy.


We also made pie with our strawberries. This delicious white chocolate one was super good.


The best part of tball - treats!

Watching "The Love Bug" for movie night.


Kate wanted a friend beach party for her birthday so we invited a few of her little neighborhood pals and had a blast. Here we are eating lunch...


Then jumping in the pool and playing in the water. It was a little breezy and warm, but overall a beautiful day. So glad it wasn't raining.

Here's our Cole on his last day of preschool. I'm sad this chapter of his life is ending but grateful he had such a positive experience there the past two years. Kate will start at the same place in August.



This just melted my heart, Tyler was resting on the bed and Luke woke up from his nap and wanted to lay with him. He just laid there so still like that looking at his daddy for a good minute. It was precious.


Sweet Kate on her bday again!



We were planting our garden and had Luke over on a blanket several feet away from the beds. He usually doesn't like the feel of the grass on his legs so he normally won't leave the blanket, but the fresh dirt must have been too tempting for him because next thing I know he's crawled over and climbed on in! We let him play there while we planted the other box then just moved him to the sandbox when we got to this one. He was a happy, dirty boy.


I am so grateful for my beautiful children, my blessed life, and my sweetheart that I get to share it all with. I am one happy girl.