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Gina and I just returned from four nights in Amsterdam — our first visit — and the city defied nearly every expectation we arrived with. Coming from Barcelona, the visual shift was jarring. Amsterdam runs in browns, grays, and beiges. Monochromatic in a way Barcelona never is. Then the weather piled on: mostly cloudy, cold,…
The Porn Conversations #17 He cornered me at an industry conference, shoulders already slumping before he said a word. A Christian music executive I’d known for years. Without preamble, without my asking, he announced that he was a sex addict. A porn addict. He told everyone, male and female colleagues, young interns, whoever crossed his…
(Co-authored with the AI in question, who has no shame) A confession: I asked Claude to help me write this post about Claude. Claude agreed immediately, which either proves remarkable self-awareness or a troubling lack of self-preservation instinct. We’re going with self-awareness. Let’s start with love, because I’m a generous man. What I love —…