Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Christmas 2008

I am sad to say that Christmas is over and the decorations are in the process of coming down. Our 2nd Christmas together was wonderful and maybe even better than the first! Things just keep getting better. We got to spend a lot of time together since I'm out of school and he was off work most of last week.

Once the cabinets were finished, we got to focus solely on Christmas, which was wonderful! Christmas Eve was an adventure, but that's ok! We planned to attend 2 services that night (our church and my parent's church) with dinner in between, but that didn't exactly happen because no restaurants were open on Christmas Eve. We finally ended up at Milo's which was the only place we could find open!

Christmas morning was incredible as always! Reed surprised (and spoiled) me with wonderful presents I was not expecting to get. More to come on those in future posts. We spent the afternoon at my parent's house where mom cooked her famous spaghetti for lunch. It was so yummy!! Our evening was spent at Reed's parent's house. We watched Ian open his presents, which was precious! He was great on his first Christmas!

This is the first year that I can remember not getting to spend time with my grandparents at Christmas. We all missed them a lot, but know that they enjoyed spending Christmas at their house in Michigan for the first time in a LONG time! I am very jealous that they had A LOT of snow on Christmas morning to enjoy! Hopefully they miss the warm weather and will be down to visit VERY soon!

The Lord gave us so many blessings and opportunities in 2008, we can't wait to see what He has in store for us in 2009! See you all next year!

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Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Kitchen renovation

Two weeks before Christmas I decided I wanted to paint the kitchen cabinets. Probably not the best timing because Christmas is busy enough on it's own. Well, we did it. We painted the cabinets and I LOVE them!! I'm so happy with the way they turned out.

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Thursday, December 11, 2008

Engaged!!

Last Friday night my incredible sister got engaged!! She called while Reed and I were at the McWane Center for his work Christmas party. I was screaming like a little girl and everyone was looking at me, but I didn't care! My sister had just called to tell me that she was engaged to an incredible, God-fearing man and I needed EVERYONE to know!! I made them take this cheesy picture for me when they came to my house on Sunday. I am so excited for both of them and ecstatic that we get to start planning another wedding! I'm sure dad is thrilled about this part, too!! I am ashamed it has taken me this long to write the post, but oh what a week it has been!! I love you both very much and can't wait for the many months and years ahead!!

Jonathan -- I hope you know what you're getting into. Us Barberini women are pretty strong-willed girls who ALWAYS like to get our way!!

And just for fun, here are some pictures of Reed at the McWane Center during the Christmas party. James Spann's got nothing on him!



Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Sharing the AWESOMENESS

I thought everyone should get to experience the e-mail I got from "the one and only" Kelly Brown. Enjoy!
I love you Kelly Brown! And I miss those many, many days of living with you!

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

'Tis the Season

I am thrilled that the CHRISTmas season is finally here! It is my favorite holiday by far! I don't think there is anything about this season I don't love! The music, the lights, the decorations & the celebration of our Lord and Savior's birth! My Christmas music is playing in full force, the tree is decorated, the stockings are hung, but that's about all. Thanksgiving break just wasn't quite long enough to get everything decorated. That means we have boxes upon boxes all over our house with Christmas decorations just waiting to be unpacked. My next goal is to get the presents wrapped so I can put them under the tree!

Matilda wanted to help Reed cut down the tree!


We had a wonderful Thanksgiving with both of our families. We ate lunch at my parents' house then headed off to Lake Martin to celebrate with Reed's side of the family. The lake was beautiful this time of year! We had a mini photo shoot with our nephew Ian and got lots of great pictures. I can't believe how big he is getting!

The Nike+ challenge is going well. We are on Day 20 and haven't given up! Last night's walk was EXTREMELY cold, but we survived it.

I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving and is getting into the CHRISTmas spirit!

But the angel said to them, 'Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; He is Christ the Lord. - Luke 2: 10-11

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Happy Fall Y'all

Fall is officially here! We went to the Auburn/Georgia game on Saturday and just about froze! There is just something about watching football in the cold that I love! Reed has spent the last two Sundays out in the yard raking leaves. If you've ever been to our house then you know what a challenge this is. Our house is surrounded by trees! We had two trees removed this summer, but the leaves are still falling out of control! Once the leaves are all raked into a nice big pile Matilda and I like to come outside and "help."



Reed is a good sport and lets us jump in the pile and mess it all up!! We are all enjoying the last few weeks of fall before the Christmas season officially begins, which I am thrilled about!! I keep catching myself turn it to 96.5 where they are playing 24 hours of Christmas music. I am trying to hold off for a little bit longer before I completely switch to Christmas music. God has given us incredibly beautiful scenery to enjoy during this time of the year and am going to do just that, enjoy it! This year is going by way to quickly anyway! So for now, happy fall y'all!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

50 day challenge

This is the theme of Reed's latest Nike+ Plus challenge. Some of you already know, but a few months ago Reed and I both invested in the Nike+ systems. We love them. The first month we were both very motivated, but lately it's just taken a backseat to other things in life.

Today, while at work, Reed sent me an invite to a new challenge:: run or walk at least 1 mile everyday until the end of the year, 50 days. With Thanksgiving and Christmas quickly approaching it is especially easy to forget about exercising. We're both excited about the challenge and took Matilda on a 2 mile walk tonight to get it kicked off. It was a beautiful night for a walk! We'll keep you updated as time goes by!

Friday, November 7, 2008

Advice for new brides

My advice for new brides is:

  • Get your name changed on your passport as soon as you have your name changed. It will save you a lot of hassle and it will be free. Otherwise, you have to pay $75.

Yes, my advice comes from my experience yesterday.

I am going to Nicaragua in January with my mom and sister and have been trying to get my name changed on my passport before we go. Well, I needed a paper that said I "officially" changed my name. After scavenging the house to try and find such paper, Reed and I concluded that it was lost. I thought, "no big deal, I go and get another printed." Boy was I wrong!

After calling SEVERAL courthouse phone numbers, I finally got someone to answer. The lady told me to come on in and they would print one out for $1.00 per page. Again, I was thinking, "no big deal, I'll go after school." I get to the Jefferson County Courthouse at 4:05. I walk in, and explain to the people at the counter what I need. They send me downstairs to the records room. This is where the trouble began. The man in the records room looked up my name and told me I wasn't in the system. Seriously! I'm not in the system! I ask him what I should do or where I should go from here. He just kept repeating "You're not in the system" I wanted to scream, "We've established that, what do I do now!" But I didn't. I kept my composure and simply walked away.

Back upstairs, this sweet woman asks me if I've been help. I said "yes," but continued with my story. I am just about in tears at this point. She calls Shelby County to see if the record is there and the people are rude to her on the phone. Why do people have to be rude?? It's really not nice. Anyway, she asks me why I need it and I explain that I am trying to get a new passport and she says I am chasing down the wrong thing! What?!?! After all this!! She said all I needed was a certified copy of my marriage license! She takes me to the other end of the counter and prints out the license. She didn't even charge me for it! I really wish I knew this woman's name because she was so kind and patient with me. I am so thankful that God put her in that building at just that time. He is so good!!

I mailed out my passport renewal application this morning, so hopefully it is all taken care of now!

If you have gotten married in the last year or are getting married soon, I suggest you take care of this as soon as possible!

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

She sleeps

Our sweet puppy Matilda has been extremely lazy the last few days. She has been completely worn out when we get home. In the mornings, we have to wake her up and force her outside. Well, a few nights ago while she was sleeping I realized it was cold in our house. I got myself a blanket and thought, "Hey, Matilda might be cold, too" So I pulled out a blanket and covered her up thinking she would wiggle herself out of it. She didn't. She simply looked up at me, then layed her head right back down and went to sleep! Here is a picture of our spoiled puppy sleeping, all snuggled into the blanket.
ps: the black thing on the left of the picture is her "Mr. Bear" squeaky toy/sleeping buddy.

Monday, November 3, 2008

Election Day

Election day is almost here. This is going to be a very exciting/scary day for several reasons. The biggest reason I am excited is because all the political ads will be done! Don't get me wrong, I do feel very strongly about voting and about our country, but I am very glad that all those TV ads will be over soon!

I've never been one to be terribly involved in the political realm, but this year I've listened and paid attention. As Christians, we need to cling to the scriptures and trust that God is in total control of the situation. I plan to go out tomorrow and vote for the candidate I feel most reflects my values as a Christian. I pray that the candidates of God's own choosing will be elected. We are all called to pray continuously for our country while trusting that God's will be done.

"Your Kingdom come, Your will be done, on Earth as it is in Heaven." - Matthew 6:10

Now, I told you I'm not one to get too "politically involved", so besides the obvious reasons to vote, here are a few more incentives I just found out about. Of course, you must be wearing your "I Voted" sticker to get these deals, so wear that sticker proudly all day!

1) Starbucks - get a free tall cup of coffee (only the stand alone stores, not the ones in the mall or the bookstore)
2) Krispy Kreme - free star-shaped doughnut w/ red, white & blue sprinkles
3) Swoozie's - 20% off your entire purchase
4) Ben & Jerry's - free scoop of ice cream from 5-8pm
5) Books-A-Million - free cup of coffee
6) Chik-fil-A - free chicken sandwich (don't know if it's all locations, but Patton Creek is participating!)

Everyone make sure you go and vote tomorrow!!

ps: Has everyone seen the Blogette?? Too cute!

Friday, October 31, 2008

"Trick-or-Treating"

Reed and I got to spend this Halloween with our adorable niece and nephew. Mom, dad, Melissa, Jonathan, Reed and I went trick-or-treating with Tommy, Jill, Mia and Tre. Mia was Dorothy and Tre was the cowardly lion. He did get the badge of courage, although I'm not sure he earned it! He's not exactly a "tough guy" yet. His sister of course is a daredevil and had no problem walking up to every house we passed with a light on. One of her friends from the neighborhood came with us and they were so cute walking up to the houses together. Tre didn't exactly get it, whenever he went to the houses he would say, "trick-or-treating" and he would get the people talking and then double dip into the candy bowl! It was pretty entertaining to watch them. Matilda came along, and even got to get carried part of the way. She is so incredibly spoiled!

We didn't get to see Ian on Halloween, but we did see him a few days before at the Halloween carnival at our church. He was dressed up as an adorable little caterpillar! What a cute little bug he was!

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Broomball

After a wonderful dinner at Mudtown, Reed and I got to spend last Friday night with the youth from our church. We all met at the Pelham Ice Rink and played broomball. Well, I didn't play, I was the official photographer! The kids (and adults) had a blast chasing each other around on the ice. It was quite a sight to see! Reed's back was still hurting him last night, but he said it was worth it. Here's a few pictures of all the action and a little video of the first goal!
Michael giving instructions before everyone could play!

This was Reed before the helmet weighed him down and he decided to "take his chances" without it. I don't think it was going to do much anyway!

The group that played broomball! What a great group of youth and adults!

Friday, October 24, 2008

Boo Ya'll!

Our Sunday school class, The Footsteps, had a pumpkin carving party last night and it was so much fun!! We carved our pumpkins during halftime of the Auburn game. The guys really got into carving! We feel extremely blessed to be a part of this wonderful group. We have 12 "regulars" in our class so far, but we are always looking for more! The class started in April, but went through a few rocky months over the summer. It seemed like everyone was always out of town! Well, fall is here and the class is back in full swing. We are studying the book of Mark right now. If you haven't found a church home, or a Sunday school class, we would love for you to join us. We meet every Sunday in the chapel of Bluff Park United Methodist Church @ 10:00 a.m. The Lord is doing wonderful things in our class and we hope you will join us!

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Siesta Key Nuptials

We just got back from a fabulous weekend in Siesta Key, Florida. Bryan and Natalie tied the knot on Sunday evening in a beautiful beachside wedding. Before we get to the wedding, let me take you back to Friday...

We got into the Tampa airport Friday night where Ginny & Townes picked us up. Let's just say this was the start of an incredible weekend! They were in a Mini Cooper! If you've ever been inside a Mini, you know why this is funny. It easily fits four people, but four people plus luggage for a long weekend is a different story! Ginny and I rode in the backseat with a double rolling suitcase on the seat between us. Townes was driving and Reed was sitting in the passenger seat with a duffel bag between his legs and a guitar in his lap. What good times! It was squishy, but TONS of fun!

We finally arrived at the duplex's that Bryan and Natalie had rented for us around midnight. The house had a private pool and of course Bryan, Anthony & Paul were already swimming when we got there. We sat out by the pool for hours just talking and catching up. We finally took the party to the beach and it was beautiful!! The weather was perfect the entire weekend. We spent all day Saturday laying out, working on our tans! Saturday night we all got dressed up for the rehearsal dinner and then went to the Sniki Tiki for some more catching up.

Sunday morning we went to brunch and then headed back home to hit the beach for a few hours. Did I mention the weather was perfect? Because it was! Sunny, warm and breezy!

After we spent some time on the beach we went back to the house to get ready for the wedding! Natalie looked beautiful! She had the perfect dress for a beach wedding, soft and flowing. The reception was on a sunset cruise. So much fun! We basically had the whole boat to ourselves with a guy playing the guitar and singing. It was so laid back and tons of fun!! We took A LOT of pictures this weekend and I couldn't decide which pictures to post, but here a few from the wedding and reception:

Well, after the reception we all headed back to the house. The boys got to spend a few last moments with each other before Natalie and Bryan left for their honeymoon suit! Monday morning came very quickly for everyone. Reed and I had a 6 a.m. flight back to Birmingham!

I know this post is SUPER long, but there is one more thing. It isn't possible for us to spend a weekend with a Burgess and not have a story to tell, so here goes. To start it off, Drew left the majority of his clothes for the wedding in his bedroom in NY. Then, as things are winding down Sunday after the reception and people are contemplating going to bed, Drew decides he should check on his flight back to NY because he isn't sure if it is leaving from Tampa or Sarasota. You might think this is the comical part because most people would know which airport they are flying out of, but no, just wait. He pulls up his flights and realizes that his flight is a 6 a.m. instead of 8 a.m.! The Burgess's never let me down when it comes to funny travel stories! That's why I love them! Zoe, are you ready for this?

Well, as you can tell we had a wonderful weekend! We are both exhausted, but nothing a little sleep won't cure!

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Give Grace

While I was waiting at school for a parent conference I decided to check up on our friends' blogs. I stumbled upon the website for Give Grace and thought I should share it with everyone.

Give Grace is an incredible organization started by Matt Dean and other members of Encounter, more specifically, Grace Campus Ministries, from Auburn University. I guess I should give you a little story about why Grace Campus Ministries means so much to us.

My best friend, Kelly, and I started going to Encounter my Junior (maybe Sophmore) year of college and loved every minute of it! I only regret that I didn't find out about it sooner. It was a time of praise and worship and it was incredible to see the power of God at work in so many people. Reed began to go to Encounter with us while he was in graduate school. God did amazing things in our lives on those Thursday nights. Reed and I have never felt more connected and alive than we did while at Encounter. It was these feelings that eventually led to our engagement and yes, it was at Encounter! In front of 1,000 people! Definitely an Encounter I will never forget! Although, I had to go back a few days later and listen to the message from that night. My head was in the clouds the entire night. I mean, I had just gotten engaged to the most incredible, God-fearing man I have ever known! Encounter was what opened the doors for us to a stronger relationship with each other and a more passionate relationship with our Father.

The people of Grace Campus Ministries are doing incredible things all around the world! If there are any Auburn students reading this blog, I strongly encourage you to try it out! Encounter is held Thursday nights @ 8:30 in the Auburn University Student Center.

Ok, so this post is pretty scattered, but we are passionate about helping with this ministry and feel they are really making a difference in Auburn. Check out the websites, they're awesome!!

Monday, October 13, 2008

Despite the season...

we're still Auburn fans! The game was just plain pitiful. Thankfully, my sweet, sweet parents made the day a ton of fun for everyone despite the loss!

One of my family's favorite things to do is sit outside in the fall, winter, spring (and yes, sometimes summer) around a fire. We can sit out there for hours just talking and hanging out. We thought it would be fun to be able to do this while watching the Auburn game, so mom and dad got it all set up!

Mom went to Charter and got an extra cable box (since the game was on Pay-Per-View) and pre-ordered the game on Thursday. We didn't want to take any chances on gameday! Mom and dad spent much of Saturday morning getting the tv set up outside. They had everything all worked out and set up when we got over there for the game. Everything was working great until game time! The Pay-Per-View wouldn't work! It worked in the house so luckily we didn't miss kick-off. Mom spent a good while on the phone with Charter, but still couldn't get it to work. Then dad and Tommy came up with a plan. I'm not really sure how, but somehow they got the tv outside to work! Their cable-man backgrounds saved the day! We got to enjoy 3 of 4 quarters outside, by the wonderful fire dad had built. And so, despite the loss, we managed to have a good day and night! Even Matilda got to come and enjoy the atmosphere. Mom and dad don't have a fence so she felt like a hotshot getting to roam around in the woods!
After the game, my sister and her boyfriend headed off to her 10 year high school reunion. I can't believe she has been out of school for 10 years! That means mine is only 4 years away andReed's is only 2 years away! That just seems crazy! She said they had a lot fun getting to see people she hadn't seen in a while.
Of course, this post wouldn't be complete without an update on Matilda! She got a new toy on Friday. A "Mr. Bear" of her very own! Reed and I found it at Publix and couldn't resist! We've caught her snuggling with it several times already! We're such proud parents. I can only imagine how we'll be with a real child... Well, that's all for our weekend. We hope you all had as good of a weekend as we did!

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Fireproof

We went to see Fireproof this past Sunday and it was great! We definitely recommend that everyone who is married, engaged or wanting to get married go and see it. It has a very strong message and was very refreshing to see a wholesome, clean movie at the theater. It is a great reminder of what marriage is all about. The music in it is really, too! Lots of Casting Crowns, Third Day, Grey Holiday, John Waller and more! We stayed after the movie and watched the credits (one of those wierd things we always do) and noticed Alex Kendrick kept coming up. We checked it out when we got home and he is the pastor at Sherwood Baptist! He and his brother are producing these films! They are doing such incredible work for God! It is amazing to see what Christ can do in our lives and in our marriages if we lay it all before Him.

"I seek you will all of my heart, do not let me stray from your commands" - Psalm 119:10

Friday, September 26, 2008

One of those weeks...

Have you ever had one of those weeks where nothing is really "wrong", but everything you do just seems to be in order to pass the time. Well, last week was one of those weeks. Nothing was wrong, but I felt like I was just going through the motions as I went through my routine for the week: Sunday: Church & youth Bible study, Monday: Bible study & school, Tuesday: school & Bible study, Wednesday: school, Thursday: school, Friday: school... My weeks are basically the same, as I'm sure it is for most people. Sometimes (most of the time) this routine is a good thing, you always know what to expect. Well, last week, it just felt boring! BUT, the most incredible part of my job is that I have 15 little ones to remind me why I do what I do. When I got to school on Friday one of my students handed me this:Isn't that precious? It made for a wonderful day on Friday and a great weekend! I get a ton of hugs everyday! It's very easy to get wrapped up with the paperwork and such in my job, but this picture was a great reminder to me of why it's worth putting up with. I hung the picture on my window by desk and look at it often for reassurance!

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Michael's Married!

This past weekend we got to see a lot of our friends we haven't seen in a while. Michael Carra got married so lots of Reed's fraternity brothers (and wives/girlfriends) came in town! It was great to get to see everyone! Cliff, Kristin and Maya stayed with us Saturday night. Matilda loved having company! The reception was wonderful and everyone had a good time. We ask that God would bless this new marriage. Congratulations Mr. & Mrs. Michael Carra! We hope you are enjoying your honeymoon!

Monday, September 15, 2008

Labor Day Weekend

Ok, I know this post is LONG overdue, but as the old saying goes "better late, than never!!" We spent our Labor Day weekend between Lake Martin and Auburn. It was great! We got to spend lots of time swimming in the water and riding in the boat with these precious kids:
That is Mia (my brother's daughter) and Ian (Reed's sister's son). Aren't they both getting so big? All of Reed's family was there for the weekend and my parent's, sister and Mia came down on Monday to spend the day. There really isn't anything better than being at the lake for a long weekend. Well, maybe there is one thing. Getting to spend a long weekend at the lake AND going to the 1st Auburn football game of the season on Saturday! It was great to get to sit outside ALL day and tailgate! It got really hot in the afternoon, but it was still great to be down there! We got to see Kelly for a little bit (not long enough), but hopefully I'll be getting to see a lot more of her VERY soon!! Melissa and Johnathan even came by the tailgate for a little while. This is a typical Saturday afternoon at our tailgate. The guys are standing around the grill making inappropriate comments about hot dogs while the girls are taking group pictures. We feel truly blessed to have such great friends all around us. We miss the ones that we don't get to see as often as we'd like and hope they all decide to move home (aka Birmingham) soon! We got to sit with Jared and Nicholas at the game which made it even better! Thanks for taking care of us, guys! I miss not being at all the games and savor every minute of the ones we do get to go to.











After the game on Saturday we drove back to the lake so that we could spend ALL day out in the sun on Sunday, which we did! We couldn't have asked for better weather. Sunny and warm with a good breeze. Now, just because we were at the lake was no excuse for Reed and Marcus to miss the fantasy football draft. They made sure to have the internet up and running for the Sunday night draft. Yes, they are sitting outside, huddled around the laptop because that is where they could get the best signal. Well, this post is getting long so I'm going to wrap it up with a few miscellaneous pictures from the weekend. Enjoy!