They say Love is the most unpredictable thing. It can come from any time, any where. Just when I didn't expect it to come the way that I am going to write it down... it just happened. Seriously...this way!? :P
Shall just keep it short (as always the aim, which will fail eventually.. but who cares, it works for me and I am happy to read it after that anyway :P)
So.. this is how it happens.
There's this girl whom I saw (and that's all, no proper conversations before), for the second time, at this Fo Guan Shan Intervasity Camp 2013 that I am going to helped out, as a Team Leader. I can remember her from the previous 2012 camp that I attended 1 year back.. totally, didn't have memory of talking to her at all then.
So this year, because she's rather unique, and hids behind the scene in a room, looking intelligent, I noticed her presence. First day, I saw her doing some admin work all by herself in the room, distributing logistics to the earlier helpers, which is the committee members, and the team leaders. I just have a deep impression of her, as this is the area of work which will totally bored me to death, and before death, actually living a life worst than death while trying to make sense of things I may confused and missed out (due to the weak brain sadly...).
So the first words is something like: 这件小红，给你 (passing me a red shirt).
2nd sentence of the day: "这件黄色，M size 的，给你。记得放回来这个箱“。
This is where the 2nd admiration comes... if it's me, i will confirm forget about this things as I am quite sure my brain cannot be trusted for such stuff.... SADLY again. Of course I don't just leave it to fate like that, I will have measures to make sure that it will work within the range of 95-100%, with the goal as 110% confidences level, so if anything messed up, I will sure have some backup plans to eventually make it a 100% whole.. keep it short, it means I will work hard at it to make sure it works out. Human brain replaced with a computer brain.
Last sentence (3rd) of the day: 我已经给你黄色的衣服是吧。。？
Took me 5 seconds to dig out the fact from my half asleep brain: eh.. 是的。。
Then another 5 seconds.. "谢谢“
Leaving the room with a awkward dumb smile as I realised that she can remember this better than myself (she have to remember so many people, and I can't even remember my own -__-")
She smiled too. I remember this one... cos I a bit paiseh~
So this is the start of the interesting part.
This girl calls herself 花田露 on Facebook（玉露 is her real name）
So this Monday, after the DBS gathering, I decided that I do have time to continue meeting this group of FGS friends at Marina Square, 爱情海餐厅。since I am nearby (at Raffles Place). So after the whole thing, as usual, I will be making people happy with their group photos and all. Then 阿花 surprized me with a
"你帮我们拍很多照， 我可以跟你一起拍张照吗？“
"当然可以! :)" was my standard reply to people, be it any gender.
And from my point of view, a photo keeps the intention of preserving the memory which will last eternally (hopefully). So this "instance" people tend to treasure the photo as much as they wanted it to be. Am always using photos to guess the relationship and intention between boys and girls, also to judge the comfort zones of people. And with a series of photos, the whole personality profile can actually generated. Of course it's not very accurate in some case (as people can choose how they want to be portrayed on social media, self filtering "naughty" shots etc). But generally, I do trust my skills after trying so hard in training myself in this "psychology" segment.
So the photo ended up like this which was unexpected...
First series of shot.
Judging from the movement from first burst to last, there's a movement nearer to me. That's definitely an indication hahaha.
2nd series of the shots (as I am blocking the whole thing behind, of course it's not intentional, I don't know about it).
Of course on my side, I tried to bend my knees, lower my height. Another part of me does knows that my face will be nearer to her now, but logic overrides me usually, since I am good with Emotional Control, it's not the time to show "shyness" since in this photo, I am suppose to make sure I won't block the signboard again.
Yes it failed again (not deliberate I can promise myself again!). So leading to the final series....
3rd series - with 小亭子's "靠近一点，靠近一点“
Last shot... almost touching already.... I only realised it after seeing the camera...... didn't expect this photo taking to tell me so much.
Anyway, I can tell that she's someone who really knows the situation well, and definitely in control as well, with each steps meaning something for the others to "detect".
After that, we talked a bit while we go home, since I get the hint. So I tried to know her better, and it seems that she have noticed me for a while already (as usual, people remembers me as the friendly photographer)
ok, sure end it like this. Definitely too long but.. effort la.
As for the rest of the stories on FB, this is how we chat.
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10151677231721443&set=a.10151677226546443.1073741922.598681442&type=3&theater
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2nd time I meet her: Pioneer supper - Reason: I just want her to have her 2nd meal of the day...
yup, logic override, it's not that I am already attracted to her, but I would really like to know her better too. And making her eat more food is definitely the right way to go, so I made her come out to eat.
So this is the summary..
She came over to study with a scholarship by a company, after working X years (forgot zzzz), she realised this is not what she wanted to do, as the planning team behind setting up businesses like 口福， with the whole messy team of people). Work include planning the marketing, banner design, stalls, layout.. everything to set it all up. Definitely doesn't sounds like a fun thing to discuss with lots of people.
So she broke the bond, nice director, so she is able to give back $1k every month to repay for the scholarship bond breaking. Also a $5k bonus from going back there to work, helped her to repay a big portion of it.
So now, happily working for the 3rd year in the production side for Metals, she is thankful to the Director who treats her like a daughter. She have went thru 3 rotations, finally ending up here (I forgot the first 2 rotation, but she did say that after she setup a certain process workflow in her previous department, she was switched over here, and she's quite stressed about this decision too since she's just starting to get comfortable at her role.
Anyway, family side - same mess as mine. Parents are the same. Dad is a MCP, mum is a housewife, but part time nanny. Home is in Muar.
2 brothers, 3 sisters. They are spread out around Singapore, Johor, KL.
Now staying in her god brother's place, where he met at work place. It's been 3 months already, and she just goes to work and come back home only. Never explore the neighbourhood at all. Every week, he will happen to meet her over work, 2 times a week. Have wife, who also tries to take good care of her meals, and scold her if she doesn't eats.
Last time staying in... Toh Guan road is it!? -_- (memory fail again la zzzZ)
So, every now and then during lunch time, the uncles will drive her to NTU to work. Her work place last time is in Tuas, and now working in..... Tuas also is it -_____- (zzz)
Anyway, the director is nice to her, when the 2 manager beside her tries to control her, the director shielded her, so she already remove the red tape of reporting to "useless" people for useless stuff. Nowadays, they are travelling around for work trips, so they don't get to see her too.
Her work place is super noisy with all the Hokkien speaking uncles. She wears ear phones to work as she enjoys her peacetime, anyway, she can't work with all the noise and discussions in front of her desk too. It's just cubicals, and she have been allocated right in the centre.
Director always pulls her along for meeting, so it seems like the director wants her to learn more stuff so that she can do BIG things in future for him..? Most probably managerial role I guess. She's not simple, actually very strong in the mind.
She mentioned that she is a more active person in the mind. Not physically. So I guess she should be really a smart person. Anyway, before I complete my sentences, I see that she's already nodding, so she can have a rather good guess at where I am going.
Does play bowling and badminton as company bonding session.
She is a strong person at home with strong personalities to control situations at home. So mum usually calls her up to tell her sob stories. When she goes home, she's the only one who can talk logic and wins the dad.
- Definitely a strong personalitied person, am guessing her dharma and human logic is really strong... if our is not in the same frequency, definitely a big problem... but we have buddha to guide us.. so should not go too far off :P
It's already an amazing feat how I can remember so much stuff about the conversation from just now.. the power of love..? Actually, to update 1 final weird thing about this encounter...
I actually don't feel physically attracted to her, the so called "chemistry" thing that people fall in love. Don't know if there's an explanation for this, but she's suppose to look quite attracting to the normal person.. so am I abnormal? But I thought it's quite a good thing to happen to me actually... it actually enables me to think through things really clearly, as I am not under the effects of the "Love Potion" as all the negative things are disregarded (and most probably resurface to haunt the couple later on).. And it seems like she is the same too, with no sense of "shyness" and those to do with first love etc.... either she is a super pro, or she also have super high level of EQ... I don't know why in this situation, I also have the ability to act the same way... which I didn't thought it possible too...
Maybe Buddha is trying to help me too haha.. so I don't go the wrong way and waste most of my time doing the things I didn't set out to do in the first place....
I just want all Sentient Beings to be happy as well.
:)
Shall just keep it short (as always the aim, which will fail eventually.. but who cares, it works for me and I am happy to read it after that anyway :P)
So.. this is how it happens.
There's this girl whom I saw (and that's all, no proper conversations before), for the second time, at this Fo Guan Shan Intervasity Camp 2013 that I am going to helped out, as a Team Leader. I can remember her from the previous 2012 camp that I attended 1 year back.. totally, didn't have memory of talking to her at all then.
So this year, because she's rather unique, and hids behind the scene in a room, looking intelligent, I noticed her presence. First day, I saw her doing some admin work all by herself in the room, distributing logistics to the earlier helpers, which is the committee members, and the team leaders. I just have a deep impression of her, as this is the area of work which will totally bored me to death, and before death, actually living a life worst than death while trying to make sense of things I may confused and missed out (due to the weak brain sadly...).
So the first words is something like: 这件小红，给你 (passing me a red shirt).
2nd sentence of the day: "这件黄色，M size 的，给你。记得放回来这个箱“。
This is where the 2nd admiration comes... if it's me, i will confirm forget about this things as I am quite sure my brain cannot be trusted for such stuff.... SADLY again. Of course I don't just leave it to fate like that, I will have measures to make sure that it will work within the range of 95-100%, with the goal as 110% confidences level, so if anything messed up, I will sure have some backup plans to eventually make it a 100% whole.. keep it short, it means I will work hard at it to make sure it works out. Human brain replaced with a computer brain.
Last sentence (3rd) of the day: 我已经给你黄色的衣服是吧。。？
Took me 5 seconds to dig out the fact from my half asleep brain: eh.. 是的。。
Then another 5 seconds.. "谢谢“
Leaving the room with a awkward dumb smile as I realised that she can remember this better than myself (she have to remember so many people, and I can't even remember my own -__-")
She smiled too. I remember this one... cos I a bit paiseh~
So this is the start of the interesting part.
This girl calls herself 花田露 on Facebook（玉露 is her real name）
People call her 阿花。
So this Monday, after the DBS gathering, I decided that I do have time to continue meeting this group of FGS friends at Marina Square, 爱情海餐厅。since I am nearby (at Raffles Place). So after the whole thing, as usual, I will be making people happy with their group photos and all. Then 阿花 surprized me with a
"你帮我们拍很多照， 我可以跟你一起拍张照吗？“
"当然可以! :)" was my standard reply to people, be it any gender.
And from my point of view, a photo keeps the intention of preserving the memory which will last eternally (hopefully). So this "instance" people tend to treasure the photo as much as they wanted it to be. Am always using photos to guess the relationship and intention between boys and girls, also to judge the comfort zones of people. And with a series of photos, the whole personality profile can actually generated. Of course it's not very accurate in some case (as people can choose how they want to be portrayed on social media, self filtering "naughty" shots etc). But generally, I do trust my skills after trying so hard in training myself in this "psychology" segment.
So the photo ended up like this which was unexpected...
First series of shot.
Judging from the movement from first burst to last, there's a movement nearer to me. That's definitely an indication hahaha.
2nd series of the shots (as I am blocking the whole thing behind, of course it's not intentional, I don't know about it).
Of course on my side, I tried to bend my knees, lower my height. Another part of me does knows that my face will be nearer to her now, but logic overrides me usually, since I am good with Emotional Control, it's not the time to show "shyness" since in this photo, I am suppose to make sure I won't block the signboard again.
Yes it failed again (not deliberate I can promise myself again!). So leading to the final series....
3rd series - with 小亭子's "靠近一点，靠近一点“
Last shot... almost touching already.... I only realised it after seeing the camera...... didn't expect this photo taking to tell me so much.
Anyway, I can tell that she's someone who really knows the situation well, and definitely in control as well, with each steps meaning something for the others to "detect".
After that, we talked a bit while we go home, since I get the hint. So I tried to know her better, and it seems that she have noticed me for a while already (as usual, people remembers me as the friendly photographer)
ok, sure end it like this. Definitely too long but.. effort la.
As for the rest of the stories on FB, this is how we chat.
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10151677231721443&set=a.10151677226546443.1073741922.598681442&type=3&theater
________________________________________________
2nd time I meet her: Pioneer supper - Reason: I just want her to have her 2nd meal of the day...
yup, logic override, it's not that I am already attracted to her, but I would really like to know her better too. And making her eat more food is definitely the right way to go, so I made her come out to eat.
So this is the summary..
She came over to study with a scholarship by a company, after working X years (forgot zzzz), she realised this is not what she wanted to do, as the planning team behind setting up businesses like 口福， with the whole messy team of people). Work include planning the marketing, banner design, stalls, layout.. everything to set it all up. Definitely doesn't sounds like a fun thing to discuss with lots of people.
So she broke the bond, nice director, so she is able to give back $1k every month to repay for the scholarship bond breaking. Also a $5k bonus from going back there to work, helped her to repay a big portion of it.
So now, happily working for the 3rd year in the production side for Metals, she is thankful to the Director who treats her like a daughter. She have went thru 3 rotations, finally ending up here (I forgot the first 2 rotation, but she did say that after she setup a certain process workflow in her previous department, she was switched over here, and she's quite stressed about this decision too since she's just starting to get comfortable at her role.
Anyway, family side - same mess as mine. Parents are the same. Dad is a MCP, mum is a housewife, but part time nanny. Home is in Muar.
2 brothers, 3 sisters. They are spread out around Singapore, Johor, KL.
Now staying in her god brother's place, where he met at work place. It's been 3 months already, and she just goes to work and come back home only. Never explore the neighbourhood at all. Every week, he will happen to meet her over work, 2 times a week. Have wife, who also tries to take good care of her meals, and scold her if she doesn't eats.
Last time staying in... Toh Guan road is it!? -_- (memory fail again la zzzZ)
So, every now and then during lunch time, the uncles will drive her to NTU to work. Her work place last time is in Tuas, and now working in..... Tuas also is it -_____- (zzz)
Anyway, the director is nice to her, when the 2 manager beside her tries to control her, the director shielded her, so she already remove the red tape of reporting to "useless" people for useless stuff. Nowadays, they are travelling around for work trips, so they don't get to see her too.
Her work place is super noisy with all the Hokkien speaking uncles. She wears ear phones to work as she enjoys her peacetime, anyway, she can't work with all the noise and discussions in front of her desk too. It's just cubicals, and she have been allocated right in the centre.
Director always pulls her along for meeting, so it seems like the director wants her to learn more stuff so that she can do BIG things in future for him..? Most probably managerial role I guess. She's not simple, actually very strong in the mind.
She mentioned that she is a more active person in the mind. Not physically. So I guess she should be really a smart person. Anyway, before I complete my sentences, I see that she's already nodding, so she can have a rather good guess at where I am going.
Does play bowling and badminton as company bonding session.
She is a strong person at home with strong personalities to control situations at home. So mum usually calls her up to tell her sob stories. When she goes home, she's the only one who can talk logic and wins the dad.
- Definitely a strong personalitied person, am guessing her dharma and human logic is really strong... if our is not in the same frequency, definitely a big problem... but we have buddha to guide us.. so should not go too far off :P
It's already an amazing feat how I can remember so much stuff about the conversation from just now.. the power of love..? Actually, to update 1 final weird thing about this encounter...
I actually don't feel physically attracted to her, the so called "chemistry" thing that people fall in love. Don't know if there's an explanation for this, but she's suppose to look quite attracting to the normal person.. so am I abnormal? But I thought it's quite a good thing to happen to me actually... it actually enables me to think through things really clearly, as I am not under the effects of the "Love Potion" as all the negative things are disregarded (and most probably resurface to haunt the couple later on).. And it seems like she is the same too, with no sense of "shyness" and those to do with first love etc.... either she is a super pro, or she also have super high level of EQ... I don't know why in this situation, I also have the ability to act the same way... which I didn't thought it possible too...
Maybe Buddha is trying to help me too haha.. so I don't go the wrong way and waste most of my time doing the things I didn't set out to do in the first place....
I just want all Sentient Beings to be happy as well.
:)
