As I mentioned sometimes those barriers are dropped and my heart will be exposed. In September, shortly after our move to Visalia I met a wonderful woman and her three little girls. Brittany was a fellow soccer mom on Isabel's team this last season, and she and I hit it off at the first game. She was a sweet, kind and caring person and a great mom to three darling little girls. Unfortunately, Brittany was going through a horrible time in her life -I won't say anything about her horrible husband that had just walked out on her and their daughters- but, through her trials she was still happy and fun to be around and still fulfilling her role as mother. We never really talked about religion- remember I don't wear it on my sleeve- I do think she knew we were Mormon. Toward the end of the season, we invited Rebecca to spend the night and Saturday seemed to be the night that worked best. I asked if it was okay if Rebecca came to church with us, since this is what we do every Sunday. Brittany said of course and we made plans. The day before Rebecca would be spending the night, I had a constant thought in my mind that I should invite Brittany to come co church with us. I ignored the thought, because we had never talked about church and I barely knew her. The day of the sleep over the feeling still would not go away and it was putting a knot in the pit of my stomach. I knew I had to do it, but I took the chicken way out... I texted her. To my shocking surprise I received and immediate response, "Yes." I was giddy and shocked that she accepted the invitation so easily.
I am not going to go into all of the details of how her conversion took place, but I will mention the high points.
1. Brittany attends church tells me it was normal and not what she expected (she was raised in an anti-Mormon type church).
2. Tells me how her girls love the primary music and keep trying to sing the songs. I get her a primary music CD.
3. Calls and asks if I will explain the Articles of Faith songs that are on the CD. (I know she's golden right?)
4. Attends church a few more times.
5. Says she loves coffee too much to give it up after a word of wisdom lesson. Calls the next day and tells me she gave it up.
6. Goes to Halloween party and more church.
7. Says she's not ready to meet with the missionaries, calls two weeks later and asks to meet with them.
8. Meets with missionaries, asks tons of questions, knows so much already, and offers amazing prayer during second discussion.
9. Commits to baptism, even though family and friends offer to abandon her if she makes the choice to be baptized.
10. Decides after a lot of prayer to let her daughter be baptized with her.
11. Get's baptized, receives the Holy Ghost, and is working toward the temple.
Clearly, you can see that this conversion had nothing to do with me ( or the other awesome women in my ward who jumped in to help and befriend Brittany so easily). I was only the Lord's tool to offer her what I knew. Brittany was prepared for the gospel. Her heart is good and pure. She is open minded. She is obedient. Before she even began talking with the missionaries she was adjusting her life to coincide with what she was learning on Sundays. She told me once, "I just feel like I would be a hypocrite if I drank a cup of coffee and than came to church, knowing you don't drink coffee." I am in awe of her obedience and faith in the Lord. She is strong, she overcame every obstacle Satan laid in her path, knowing it would make her life harder, because she wanted to choose the right.
While sharing the gospel with others is supposed to be to the benefit of those we share it with, it is an immense blessing in our own life for so many reasons. As I answered Brittany's questions, I had to consider and reaffirm with myself what I knew to be true. Some of her questions required me to search, ponder, and pray about the answer the Lord wanted me to give to her, causing me to grow even closer to my Heavenly Father. She gave my fasting and prayer a greater purpose. As I sat in on her discussions, I was often overwhelmed by the Spirit as my testimony confirmed in my heart what the missionaries taught, and as I watched her countenance change and fill with the knowledge of her Heavenly Father's love for us. Watching Brittany's strength and watching her life evolve, gave me the desire to be a little better and improve my daily life so that I could be that much closer to my Heavenly Father. As I prepared a talk for their baptism day, I took time to really think about the Holy Ghost and all that he blesses me with daily. And as I watched these daughters of God come out of the water after their Baptism, the radiance on their faces, confirmed further that this is the true Church and that through this gospel we can find happiness that is eternal.
I am grateful for the opportunity I had to step out of my comfort zone and extend that invitation that is often so scary. I am grateful for these new friends in our lives. I am grateful for my life long knowledge of our Heavenly Father's plan for me. Hopefully, next time I won't be so hesitant when the Spirit is giving me that nudge to share something I hold so precious and sacred with someone else. I still don't think I will be facebooking my testimony of the gospel, but I might be a little quicker to share what I know with those that become a part of my every day life.
This is Brittany and her three girls (Rebecca, Emily, and Piper) the day of their baptism.
This is our two families on their big day. Left to Right: Landon, Ryan Mia, Isabel, Mandy, Rebecca, Brittany, Emily, Peter( Brittany temporarily has three brothers that are foster kids), Piper, Anthony, and Luis.




