May 21, 2009

Parker Update
















I have been meaning to write this update for some time now and I have not got around to it. My life with a new baby has just been turned upside down. Our life pretty much revolves around Parker right now. :)
Parker's blessing was such a fun day for us. Thanks to everyone who came and supported us! I just wanted to write a little about Parker's blessing. I was so overwhelmed by all the friends and family that came and supported us. The day could not have gone any better. I am so grateful for my mom and all the energy she put into making it a wonderful day for us. I felt so much joy for a husband that is worthy to be mouth piece for the Lord. I am so grateful that I have to opportunity to have these special spirits in my life. It seems at times like this I catch a little glimpse of Heavenly Fathers love for them. I just hope and pray that one day they will be able to see what I have seen in them. I am so grateful for the gospel and the joy and happiness it brings to our family.

We went to his 2 month appointment and found out a few new things. We found out that he has Congenital Torticollis and Plagiocephaly. I had never heard of either one of these until now. It is not to serious we are just glad the doctor caught it when he did. For those who don't know Congenital Torticollis happens before birth. With Parker's situation they think that it happened when he dropped a little early and his head was turned to the right and up. They believe that he stayed that way the last few weeks and one side of his neck grew longer and stronger and the other side is shorter and weak. So when we was born he was not even able to move his head to the left. At 2 weeks Parker got a little cold and so we started to prop him up at night to sleep. Since he was only able to lay on the right side of his head he developed a really bad flat spot on his head. The flat spot is called Plagiocephaly. The Torticollis was a mild case but his head was a few centimeters from severe. The problem with plagiocephaly is that it not only affects the head shape but it was also affecting his ears, eyes, and forehead.
To fix the problem we have had to go to weekly physical therapy to learn stretches and exercises to do with him to help him get full range of motion with his head. We also have had to do a lot more tummy time with him the help strengthen his muscles. At first I felt very overwhelmed with all of this because of all the stretches and exercises and tummy time that they were asking us to do with him. I felt like if he was awake we needed to be doing some stretch or exercises with him. After a few weeks Kyle and I had a system down and we have been working on it together and that has really helped a lot. We will see how much all the stretched and exercises will help. The doctor said that it will take 9 months or more to get it all totally fixed. We will have to decide in September if he has not made enough progress if he needs a correctional helmet or not.










May 20, 2009

Thanksgiving Point fun!

Fun times timing the cameras just right to get some good pictures!
Kaden having a blast!!!

The two kids playing in the water. The other one is doing the same thing just out of the picture:)


Nanette and Kaden chasing Neal and Sarah! This was fun to watch!



Our Fam




We had a lot of fun this last weekend! We met Neal, Sarah and Nanette at Thanksgiving Point and walked around the gardens for a few hours. It was so much fun to spend time with them. Kaden sure loved it! As you can see in the pictures uncle Neal showed him how to play in the water. Then that started a water fight. With Neal Kyle and Kaden all playing in the water and Sarah Nanette and I telling them to stop it was really like having 2 kids to watch after! LOL :) It was really fun to get out and be with Kyles family. We are hoping to get together like this more often!

May 8, 2009

Kaden

OK so I have now spent a week trying to make this post about Kaden. I am not sure why but when I try to post this scrap page I made it turns this weird color! If anyone knows why let me know what I can do. I am really bugged that I cannot figure it out.


I have been thinking about Kaden a lot and how grateful I am for him. He bring so much joy to my life. He is growing so fast I cannot even believe it! I just wanted to share some little things about him that I have enjoyed that last little bit. About 2 weeks ago we had to take Kaden to get his blood drawn. I told him before we went in that they were going to "poke" him once and if he does his best to be strong I have a treat for him. So we went in and I was expecting him to throw a fit because the previous week when we were at Primary Children's. So I held him while they got everything ready we all counted to 3 and then they "poked" him. He did not even cry!! I was so happy! There is nothing harder to me than holding your child down while they give him a shot. He was so big I could not believe that he did so good. He was happy too because the nurse game him a stuffed animal and cookies and a really cool duck bandaid. LOL :) I know I should have got a picture but I forgot. The other thing that has really made me stop and take a good look at how big he is was a few weeks ago we went to the park and had a picnic with Kyle at the park. It was really fun to spend time with Kyle and to have lunch with him. We played at the park for a while and then as we were driving away out of nowhere Kaden says "Mommy that so much fun! We go sontine?" . It totally melted my heart! I realize now that he just loves to get out like I do. He is a different child when he can get out and run around for a while. The last thing that I wanted to share was probably the sweetest thing that Kaden has ever done to show love towards me. As most of you know he is not an affectionate child. That has been really hard on me because I am the opposite. I have always found my way of giving him hugs and kisses but I have almost always had to sneak them. The other day I was sitting watching a movie and Kaden was playing like he usually does and all of the sudden he says " Mommy I need to tell you sumping". He said it as serious as can be! So I stopped and looked at him and he pulled me in close to him and whispered "I love you" in my ear. It was one of those things that just makes all of the hard things about being a parent worth it! I am so grateful for those little moments and I have a goal now to write them down and turn to them when I am having one of those hard days as a mom. I love being a mom and I am so grateful for the chance I have to be a mom.


I just wanted to tell Garek and Julia that Kaden is really missing you guys because yesterday he was acting like he was calling people on the phone and he called Kyle and Nanette and Grandmas and Grandpas and then he called you guys. He called Garek first and asked "you going to come over sontine?". Then he called you Julia and asked you the same thing. It was so cute I just had to tell you guys.