Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Friendship

Had a 2-hr long good chat with one of my closer chem engin friends today. He told me that he's dreading the day he graduates, as it means all the friendship that he had built up for the past few years will die away.

True, as people grow, they meet new friends in different phases of life. Some friendships, which are only built on just academic discussion and nothing else, will just die off. True friendship - those who share joy and sorrows with you, help you whenever u need it - will last and even bloom.

So far, I have many many friends. Haha that's because I'm considered the relatively more "sociable" person in my circle of friends. However, there are very few whom I consider true friends. I probably have less than the count of the fingers on both hands.

Nevertheless, I'm quite thankful to have met one or two who click well with me at each phase of life, so that I have the motivation to carry on leading life to the fullest.

Hence, here's my reply to him:
Treasure those whom you consider as true friends. Don't let it fade away. They'll be your strongest pillar of support at any point in your life!

This piece of advice also goes out to all readers :)

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Balance between interests and money

For the past few days I've been very busy with design project. Have been pondering what kind of job I really want myself to be in. Till now, I still can't make up my mind. Perhaps that's because I do not really set my priorities. It's time for me to seriously think about it!

Tomorrow is V Day. Last year of this date, I went Yunnan for an awesome tour. This year, I'm planning to spend it at home. After attending the Buddhist classes, I realize that I'm less and less interested in relationships, more and more keen on self-improvement and volunteerism. Haha but rest assured I won't become a nun. Maybe now is still not the right time for me to settle down. Meanwhile, I'll still keep a lookout for suitable guys!

Lastly, just wanna share with you guys a sentence that I like a lot:

The purpose of life is a life with purpose.

Nowadays everyone has been so obsessed with fame and glory, so much that they have forgotten/chosen to ignore what they are really interested in. Sadly, I belong to this category. When I'm seeking jobs, I actually look at the starting pay instead of what I like to do! Joining non-profit organisation has always been what I like, but I know that I'll be very troubled over the survival factor M in the near future.

Really hope that I can find a way to balance my interests and financial status!

As of now, I shall continue focusing on my studies and working on my design project... Zzzz

Happy V Day everyone :)