SY's Colourful diary，彩色日记

I have finished watching the entire series of the Desperate Housewives. It was few years ago when I first watching the drama. All this while, the desperate housewives have become my entertainment source, especially when I am alone in Canada.

My dear will say it is a stupid drama, but still it is one of my favorite series. It brought me joy and taken away my loneliness when I was watching it. So I don't describe it as stupid but funny. These women in the series have told me the reality of human and the world. Things change dramatically just like what was shown in the series. Nothing is perfect....

The perfect woman, Bree was not perfect after all when she starting to have an affair with Karl who is Susan's ex husband. Edie, whom has been described as " One of a kind" had die in an accident. Susan, the most troublesome and stupid woman in the series is very lucky to have a good husband who is willing to remarry her. Gabrielle is a materialistic women and always proud of her beauty, is willing to sacrifice when her husband had be blind for years. Lynette, a selfish women whom will only sacrifice for family, has the perfect love story.

Among the 5 desperate housewives, I like Edie the best. It is because she is not as stupid as others and a straight forward person. She is kind in her bottom heart even though she din show this in her personal character. I hate Susan the most, because she is very stupid at her action and thinking. I like the best couple "Lynett and Tom", because they loves each other very well.

After all, I will watch a new series---- Gossip girls.

The summer is Winnipeg is too short that I barely can remember the warmth I had. Before I leave Winnipeg in July, the trees and grass were just turned green, the worms were re survived. The sun was not hot till I would sweat over. The wind was still strong until we can hardly enjoy our each time.

This morning, as I step out from the apartment, I felt the cold of the winter. The leaves on the trees are all fell to the grounds, left with some naked branches.
This is coming too fast. The winter is just around the corner. Our winter jackets that stored in the closet for months are now ready to be used.

I used to like winter, because I like snowing. However, I am feeling sad that the summer is gone way too fast. I miss my summer time in Malaysia. Even though it was hot, but we had a lot of fun by having outdoor activities. Now, it is time to be dormant in my room again.

I am happy today. It is because my dear had finally booked his air ticket to Canada in December. Wahahaha, this is just like a dream....Really cant wait to spend time with him again .

I have started a new term last Monday. As usual, I am taking 5 courses with 3 labs. It was supposed to be less busy than my previous term which was 5 courses with 5 labs, but I am as busy as usual because courses that I now taking are all 4th year courses. 8 more months to graduate, I am rather to be busy than having time to worry about my future.

I have my revolution for this term, I want to score at least an A in all courses to increase my CGPA. I am happy that I got scholarship and bursaries for previous term that worth $1300. This money has motivated me to study and not thinking of working. However, since this is my last year of schooling after about 18 years of education, I need to be more active in school. I have applied for gym membership and I will start going to gym. I have lose weigh, but my ideal goal is 40 to 42 kg. Hehe

I am back from Malaysia since last Saturday, I had recovered from jet lag recently. I am happy to think of the wonderful time I had in Malaysia, it was like a dream. The 28 hours flight trip was like a night mare, woke me up from the fantastic dream and then I am back to my usual life in Winnipeg. Thanks to my lovely dear, family and friends, I miss you guys. I am sorry for not be able to see some of my friends, but don't worry I will be back in future. We can always keep in touch through msn.

I have some philosophy talk with my boy friend about how relationship can be maintained well without destruction. The answer is LOVE, FAITH and TRUST.

Love is an emotions, experiences related to a sense of strong affection. It is difficult to define the word of love. By google LOVE, there are four types of love described generally. There are Affection, Friendship, Eros and Charity.
Affection= It is described as the most natural, emotive and widely diffused of loves. eg: family love.
Friendship= It is the love between interaction, bonding between two people. This love is normally built by having the same interest and beliefs.
Eros= It is love in the sense of " being in love". It is well described by the feeling of " appreciation" rather than " pleasure".
Charity= It is an unconditional love. Love naturally regardless of circumstance and reasons.

After defining these types of love, I think it is not right to ask " why do you love me". Because true love should be charity, love should not have a reason. In fact, if a relationship has included these four types of love, it is still not perfect if there is no faith and trust. What are faith and trust then?

Faith is defined as the confident belief or trust in the truth or trustworthiness of a person, idea or thing. I think my dear's definition is better to be understood. He said faith is a belief of existing of something even though there is no reason to belief so. (dear, Correct me if i defined inappropriate). It is in general the persuasion or assent of the mind to the truth of a statement. Even though faith is always a term use in religion, it can apply in love and relationship.

Finally, it is " Trust". It is an easier term to understand the meaning. It is defined as a relationship of reliance. It is trust when you assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something. When you have a confidence in a person, means you trust the person.

In conclusion, to love a person perfectly no matter of what kind of relationship, always remember love, faith and trust. Start to think for yourself, do you love a person with all these conditions?