I have been keeping a journal for close to 20 years now. My journals tho do not follow what many people think are the RULES of journalling. My journals are not uniform, they may not be neat and nicely written, whether hand written or typed, but they are my journals. My journals do not contain secrets. My journal sits on the table by my TV watching chair and sometimes I will add things in the morning, sometimes in the evening, sometimes I will rush to my journal to put in a photo or make a drawing that seems to me to be important to remember.
The journal I worked on, I never say wrote in, cause I add so much more to a journal, photos, drawings, bits of yarn or fabric that might show a current project and memories...
There are no rules to my Journal, except that about 10 years ago, I started calling the notebooks that I put them in ODD BITS...
Even the rule of having a dated book for journaling is not a rule, where I am concerned. Most of my Odd Bits books are dollar store blank notebooks, that I often spent some time creating a cover for -- either in fabric or paper or a combination. In fact creating the cover is my favourite part of the journal book. This year, I didn't even make the cover until about September! I think, tho, I already have a "end of the world" theme cover for 2012!
Now, I put everything and anything that strikes my fancy into my journal. If there is not enough pages, or if there is a newspaper clipping or other printed article that I want to keep, I will glue in or tape in (I do try to use archival type tape) an envelope and put the extra "odd bits" directly into the envelope.
Sometimes I perhaps have decided there is nothing to write on a page, or maybe something that is important enough not to be regulated to just one day, so I will often paint, draw, scribble over or otherwise decorate a whole page and then glue in a seperate piece of paper with the written or printed bit of news so that it stands out in the book.
Sometimes, I don't have much to say or not alot has happened in the days drifting by, so the book gets words put in as I feel like doing -- some days are "memorial" days and my thoughts are too complicated and extensive to write alot about them, so I just do a small summary of the day.
I don't worry about missing days. I don't worry if a family member reads or even writes or draws in something -- but it is MY book so if something is added by another person, I do ask them to keep it to a minimum. I have pages from years past where one or the other of my sons have added special little drawings or messages -- I love to read those when I go back and flip through those journals -- and I have to say I have reread my journals many many times and can open a particular journal to a particular page whenever I am feeling the need to review that memory!
Now if you are thinking of starting a journal, make or break rules as you please. I have no secrets in my journals, anybody could open any page and not find something that might shake their world.
Remember too, not everyday is important enough to take time to write everything down -- who cares in 20 or 50 or 100 years that you got up at 8am and had porridge with cinnamon in it. Nobody, really, but it could be interesting to put your grocery list in one week with how much those things cost. Of course you want to document important days, births, deaths, and all those kind of events.
If you are thinking of keeping a journal, you don't HAVE to start tomorrow! You can start and end, or take a break for periods of time. Some of my journals fill up in 6 months and other books I have take 2 or 3 years to use up all the pages. There are no rules to it.
And speaking of Ghosts ...
We do believe that Cats have special powers. We have known for many years that cats can teleport -- one moment they are sitting quietly on the floor, next moment they have teleported to the kitchen counter (especially if you preparing a chicken for roasting or even just slicing some ham for a sandwich)!
I have finally caught Walter in the processes of teleporting from one side of the room to the other!
Happy New Year, Everyone! Drive Safe and Sober if you are out late tonight!
