I've had a few meetings lately and Nathan gets to come along. Last week I packed a bag full of snacks, plastic balls and little cars in preparation for a meeting that I hoped would be short. I knew these items would only last for about 3 1/2 minutes, so I also packed a mini-dvd player and two
Signing Time videos. The meeting location was 15 minutes away and we had about 20 minutes to get there.
"We're in good shape," I thought as I leisurely fastened Nathan's seat belt and climbed into the driver's seat.
I leaned over and tuned the radio to a station that seemed pleasant. I'm not really a big radio listener other than in the car, so I let Dave choose the preset stations and stick with those.
"I don't like it!" I heard from the backseat. Again, "I don't like it!", he was getting progressively louder.
"You don't like the music?" I asked

"Yeah, don't like it."
"What would you like instead."
"
Blue Man Group." He pronounced it with such clarity that there is no doubting what he just said.
"I didn't bring the Blue Man Group CD." I informed my cultured child.
Tears and wails issued from the backseat. The Blue Man Group CD that his daddy bought him was at home in the garage-sale find Karoake machine currently residing in Nathan's bedroom. The CD has become Nathan's nap music.
"Here, I'll try a different station." I started flipping through channels, now ignoring the preset stations. The noise in the backseat increased. I finally landed on a station playing
Lucky by Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat. I smiled at my lucky find because I genuinely like this song.
"Don't like it! Don't like it!"
I ignored him for a minute and then the wailing became so loud that it was not ignorable. While we discussed our musical preferences I missed my exit. I took the next exit and headed down to the slightly further North entrance to the road I needed to be on. Wouldn't you know it, this end of the road is not a through road. I make a u-turn and noticed the time. Our time cushion was no longer there. So I backtracked a bit and took the next road that looked promising. I dead-ended into a middle class neighborhood.
I turned the radio off and could feel my face starting to get red. Being late used to be a pet peeve of mine, but now I have kids.
I knew I should have stuck with State Street. We made another U-turn and then hit every red light possible along State Street. Oh, did I mention the construction?
We were 20 minutes late and if I hadn't been in charge of the meeting they probably would have been further into the meeting than they were. They gave me a 10 minute courtesy window before beginning.
I made a mental note to put the Blue Man Group CD into my car and sat down just a tiny bit flustered.