Monday, 31 December 2012

New Year's Eve

Ha, ha, ha!  I have been reading back on some of last years posts at around this time of year...gosh I see a similar theme, I'm like a worn out record!  I wonder if I can change that record in 2013.  We shall see.

I read an amazing 73 books last year, (not including my books on Pain & Chiari Malformation) which is pretty incredible really.  Certainly more than last year.  The increase has been partly due to last year's Christmas present, a kindle, which despite my reservations has been wonderful and I have enjoyed discovering new books and authors via Amazon Kindle, Free downloads, and the ones on special.  I have also read 'proper' books which has been good as well.  I have found my kindle so much better to use at night in bed and also when my arm has been in pain as I can use it one handed.

Not a lot of progress on the pain front...sigh and since being on the medication I have put on two stone...bigger sigh.  I've got behind with a lot of things... but tomorrow is a New Year!

So without repeating what has been said before...well actually this is a repeat of what I said last year, but it is well meant! 

Happy New Year's Eve everyone, stay safe and have a good evening whatever you might be doing and all the best for the New Year, may it be happy and healthy.


Sunday, 30 December 2012

Planning - part two

Now I don't know if this will work, but I am going to give it a try.  I am going to approach my day time chores/housework as if they are a 'paid position'.  That is, as if I was going out to work.  I think when at home it is all to easy to fall into the trap of putting things off and not taking the work quite so seriously.

My elder son made a comment to me the other day...

'I remember when you used to go out to work, study, practice, cook, clean AND do housework, now you don't do any of that stuff!'....

Hmm...certainly put me in my place didn't it?  Yet it is true.  I did my degree and masters, while working and looking after the family.  Goodness,  I wonder how I managed, some days now I can hardly string a sentence together!

So from the 1st January I am going to treat my days as if I am 'going to work', thus trying to use my time more wisely and not waste away the days unmotivated, tired and sleeping.

It is going to be really hard to start with, but I am hoping that once I have been doing it for a few weeks it will all start to come more naturally.  We shall see.  My goal is to at least keep going for a whole month and then extend from there.  By committing to both blog and paper I am hoping that I will be successful in my goals.

So I have written out a timetable, a list of jobs - now what do they call that, a personal job plan - oh I am sure it is supposed to have a fancier name than that, but see even those sorts of things escape me now.  I am going to start my day earlier.  Why the early start?  I am usually awake at that time anyway before I drift back off to sleep again and have found from experience that although it is jolly hard getting up at that time, once up, it is not so bad, and the day seems so much longer so more can be achieved!

DAILY TIMETABLE

6.00am - Cup of tea while using light box and catching up on emails etc...

7.00am - Shower & dress. Breakfast.  Unload dishwasher, put washing on, straighten cover and cushions in lounge and any other 'light surface' chores.

8.00am - Washing up,ironing if any, start working on kitchen while DS2 is getting ready for school, so I can be on hand for any necessary requests.  Feed guinea pigs.

9.00am - Music practice.

10.00am - Start work on decluttering and deep cleaning as per allocated week.

12.00pm - Lunch

1.00pm - Blog photos & 'playtime'.

2.00pm - Trips to PO, supermarket if required.

3.00pm - Sewing

4.00pm - DS2 Home.  Feed guinea pigs (before it is dark)Prepare Dinner, clear kitchen, fold any washing as required to be put away or ironed the following day.

6.00pm - Dinner, clearing up etc...

7.00pm - Blog, hand sewing, knitting, watching a DVD with hubby.

Aim to be in bed by 10.30pm so can read for 1/2 hour maximum.


Each week I will focus on one room in the house.  Aiming for 'Less is More'.  A serious declutter - getting rid of all the 'stuff' we don't use, need, require and either throwing, recycling or taking to the charity shops.

Starting with the kitchen I will be looking at getting rid of all the chipped cups - we have so many cups, do we really need chipped ones as well?

Crockery - we have so much, just keep enough that we need and use.  Also check crockery in dressers and unit in conservatory...when was the last time we used these things, have we ever used them, will we ever use them?

Cutlery & kitchen tools - do we really need umpteen duplicates of things?  Again, keep those that we use the most and that are most comfortable to use.

Tea-towels - keeping the clean and tidy ones, throwing the others - using them either for rags, or recycling.

Tablecloths - keep those that are used and fit and in good, clean condition.

Appliances - only keeping those that we use on  a regular basis.  How many old kettles do we really need?  When did we last use the chip fryer?  Goodness knows how many years ago!  It left such a mess of our ceiling we never used it again.  It is just taking up valuable cupboard space.  

Clear top of cupboards.

Finally wash walls and ceiling so the kitchen can be freshened up with a new coat of paint.

Week 2 - Bathroom & Hallyway & Front Porch (if time allows)
Week 3 - Lounge
Week 4 - Bedroom
Week 5 - Conservatory
Week 6 - Front Porch - if not done before.

At the end of each week I will report on what I have achieved, what has gone, what has been kept, etc...  If I haven't finished that room, then it will roll round until the next time it is due.

At the beginning of the week I will write a list for the following week.

I have chosen to do the outside jobs, like shopping, post office and banking in the afternoon as that is generally the time when I really do want to snooze so figure it will be best then to get out of the house as required.  Of course I won't need to do this everyday so on those days I am home I will continue with the room of the week.

Some things will okay regularly each week.  For example:

Fortnightly on a Tuesday I clean the guinea pigs out ready for the compost collection the following day.
Weekly on a Thursday I have quilting group.
Monthly on a Saturday I have quilting group.

Sewing and Knitting:  Finish my WIP's, which actually isn't too bad a challenge really, it just means putting in the effort to get them done.  In no particular order:

1. Red jumper 
2. Multicoloured jumper
3. NZ Sampler Quilt - 1 - embroidery, backing & quilt.
4. NZ Quilt - 2 - quilt
5. Mark's Quilt - backing & quilt
6. Other Quilt - backing & quilt
7. Hexie Flowers - catch up as behind again!

I am sure this will need more refining before I start and also during the process....





Saturday, 29 December 2012

Planning

Most of my year really seems to have flown past in a blur. I have forgotten things, got behind, and I mean dreadfully behind on things, for example the hexie flower swap which I have really struggled with.  I think I have probably had one of the most disorganised and apathetic, unmotivated, fatigue ridden year yet and I want that to change.  Again I know I have tried before but I have figured out what I have been doing wrong...I think!  So I am hoping that it will be different in 2013.  A different approach shall we say, but also with familiar things to help me.

I love stationery and I have a thing for notebooks and always write in them, whether it is notes, ideas, reminders, to do lists or phone numbers and addresses.


So my note book for the year is this one.  Simply lined inside with a place for the date.


With boarding guinea pigs, attending quilting groups, hospital and doctor appointments I need a diary.


This lovely inspirational one came with the DVD set my husband gave me for Christmas.

I also need a diary to carry round with me and thought I would try going back to my zip up leather filofax...


For which these pages will be necessary.

Something fun that a blogging friend of mine has been doing for several years and which I found by chance this afternoon when I was out...which was great as on Amazon they are either out of stock or being sold by third parties for ridiculous prices!


This daily doodle pad will sit in the kitchen.

Lastly to help me with my records, whether it be dolls, or stories etc... I thought I would get this when I saw it in the CS.  


For 99p, it was worth it especially as it came with new index cards and lined cards inside.





I am hoping to get these thoughts, plans and ideas formulated before New Years Eve and will post about them as well.  For now I have to go and put the dinner on, so the family doesn't starve!



Thursday, 27 December 2012

Christmas Days & What did you get?

So what did you get for Christmas?

My lovely husband bought me a 'power tool' :-)


I am hoping to use this with my wood carving that I do when I am able.  It should hopefully make work a bit easier.  Will report back when I have had a chance to use it.

As we don't have a television and have to wait until things come out on DVD I haven't as yet seen the third series of Downton Abbey so was delighted to unwrap the next gift as I had forgotten all about it.


It also came with a very useful and lovely desk diary with some awesome photos.

My younger son bought me a little lego kit...


Which was fun to build.

My older son bought me a VW knitting kit, which is currently on the needles so I will show when it is completed.

We had a fabulous Christmas day.  
My MIL and her partner came round for Christmas dinner which consisted of:

Roast turkey & stuffing
Pigs in blankets
Sausage and Stuffing balls
Roast Potatoes, Parsnip & Onions
Broccoli, Carrots, Peas and Sprouts
Yorkshire Puddings & Gravy

Desert was:  Trifle, Fresh Fruit Salad & Christmas Pudding

Later in the evening my Aunt and Uncle came round for further exchange of presents and for Christmas Tea which was Buffet style:

Cold Turkey, Fresh Homemade Bread, Sausage Rolls, Mini Sausages,
Carrots, Celery, Peppers - red, green & yellow, spring onions, lettuce, tomatoes, cheese, crisps & nibbbles.


I think it was probably one of the best Christmas days we have had.  :-)

Monday, 24 December 2012

Christmas Eve


The Christmas tree is decorated and presents are wrapped.  The tree doesn't quite meet with DS2's exacting standards as it isn't our 'proper' tree, but as we are hosting Christmas this year, we needed the room so used our smaller one.

Today I have made the trifle, fresh fruit salad, Yorkshire puddings and gingerbread biscuits for tomorrow.




The cookies have been bagged to give out as gifts.

The house isn't really as tidy as I would have liked it, but it is good enough, considering how I have been feeling these last few weeks.

We will be watching our 'traditional' film tonight 'The Grinch' with DS2 as we wouldn't be forgiven if we didn't!

DS1 has gone out to party. Sigh. We had wanted him to spend Christmas Eve with us, but sadly it is not to be.

Wishing all my lovely friends a Very Merry Christmas hoping you all have a lovely time however you may spend it.









Sunday, 16 December 2012

Advent - Part Two


Oh dear I am rather behind with my posts.  My 'Pause' post for last week has been so Paused I am now a week late, so I am going to post last week's today and then this week's tomorrow.

There is a point where being non-stressed and laid back goes a bit too far, and my apparently relaxed state is perhaps bordering on apathy!  But it is still nice to step completely back and let all the madness happen around you and reflect on the season and what it is all about.


I spotted these books in the 50p to £1 box in one of the Charity shops last week and loving poems and the gorgeous pictures of Victorian Christmas I thought I would get them and as such have been enjoying all they have to offer.  

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My week has actually passed in a blur of tiredness, headaches and pain some of which has probably been the side effect of the Ketamine Infusion I had on 7th December.




Wednesday, 5 December 2012

Advent Day Five - Snow!


We woke to a light covering of  snow this morning!


Tuesday, 4 December 2012

Advent Day Four


Monday, 3 December 2012

Advent Day Three


Sunday, 2 December 2012

A Pause in Advent - One


I feel very relaxed about Christmas this year...I know it is still early yet, but I feel no need to worry, what will be will be and what will happen will happen.  I have started on a few decorations and my aim this year is to see Christmas as a child, with all its hope and imagination.  My boys are growing up fast, 21 and 16 now, and yet they still enjoy Christmas, but I feel sometimes rather too 'commercially' so I am embracing the imagination instead and aim to put a bit of home into our Christmas this year.  Nothing elaborate, just enjoying us as a family.  

I am cooking Christmas dinner this year and my MIL and her partner will be coming to our place for a change.  Initially I felt slightly panicky...where would we sit?  How will I make room in our living room for a dining table?  But then I thought, hang on a minute, why don't we just sit round our kitchen table with an extra little table on the end like we usually do if they come for dinner.  What does it matter if the table isn't immaculately laid, and we are 'cosy', surely that is what it is really all about?  Fellowship and family.  So that is what we shall do.

I have started putting some of the decorations up, and will do a  little at a time building up to Christmas Day. I hope to enjoy each day as it comes and gradually tidy and prepare the house as I am able, instead of beating myself up over whether or not I have achieved things, or overdoing it and ending up too sore to do anything which is how I am today after Friday's efforts.  There is no point.  So slowly and surely.


The Advent Window for today shows a drum, rum pa pum pum...

If you would like to embrace a bit of the child in yourself, pop over here and see what is happening in the world of imagination and play. (Click on the word here)

If you would like to read other 'Pausers in Advent' pop over to my friend Floss' blog, Troc Broc & Recup




Saturday, 1 December 2012

Advent Calendar

Usually I recycle the same Advent calendar each year, carefully closing all the windows and pressing flat ready to use the following year.  However, this year I decided to have a new one, which came about simply by seeing it on the counter in one of the CS I went in last week.



Something about it took my eye and home it came with me.  


I wasn't sure what would be inside the little windows, verses or pictures.  This one has pictures and inside door number 1 is a candle.

I have several candlestick holders, so thought it would be fun to match up the picture with a photograph, which I will do tomorrow in daylight.