Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Wedding Day

I remember my cheeks hurting from smiling so much at my wedding. This was partially from all the pictures taken of us, but also from being so happy. Last Thursday my brother, Joel and new sister-in-law, Amanda had their turn at smiling. Aside from a few tears of joy, they were just beaming pretty much all the time. Located in a tiny chapel overshadowed by the mountains, they were wed in the presence of near family.


Joel was twelve when I got married ushered for our wedding. And on this day I got to play photographer for him, a job which I now can tell you is not as easy as one might think. But it did give me a chance to be right there with them through the whole thing, which was a wonderful thing. Here are a couple of my favorite shots.


Joy.



Friday, January 8, 2010

Back to the real world, otherwise known as 2010

Returning from our Southwestern trip it felt great to get home and have at it. I decided to jump right into all the to do things on my mental list. Unpacked when we got home and sorted laundry. Next day I took both kids went to school, restocked groceries, and worked on laundry, picked up kids, played with them, made dinner and pretty much went straight to bed, so tired. Next morning repeat, except this time the fatigue was apparent for all of us. Ephraim and Ryan dragged a bit, Salome hit an emotional wall and I flailed about trying to pull it all together, while cleaning, putting away Christmas, all the while wondering how it was that having children some how entitled us to think we should know what the heck we are doing with parenting. It was definitely one of those days.
Today, Salome and I are taking a bit slower. Making cookies and organizing the kitchen together, she is a ball of joy. Hmm... perhaps she needed some down time and maybe her mama did too. And yes, they are reindeer cookies, a belated recipe Salome really wanted to make.

Note to self: down time is important, and maybe it is okay to be a bit behind. There is lots that needs to be done, and much more that I want to make happen. We are looking forward to my brother's wedding next week and family visits. I am thinking February may have to be my January.

Friday, January 1, 2010

Arcosanti: an urban laboratory?

Architect, Paolo Soleri had a dream, and we spent a night and a morning trying to learn a bit from it. I started out feeling leary about our nights stay. After driving off the highway on all dirt roads to the Arcosanti property, I wondered if maybe I should have read the link Ryan had sent about this place a bit closer. Situated in the middle of nowhere, in an almost desert like landscape, there was immediately signs of unfinished construction. The question mark on the sign seem to confirm my suspicions, but I made myself look a little closer and found that there was a lot to think about and even enjoy.
Our accommodations sat shelved out in a row below this construction site. A sparse white room with simple accommodations, the only decoration was the full glass front window which faced a beautiful view and caught the southern sunlight to warm its concrete floors.

And when one looked up at the concrete ceiling, there was a design etched into concrete: beautiful. After about an hour Ephraim asked where the tv was, and upon discovery there was none, declared he would die and started shrinking dramatically on the floor. But really we had a nice simple time, with calm children who played games and drew. For the first night too, they shared a bed and went right to sleep, tired and content.


So in the morning a tour guide explained that we were visiting an attempted project which is intended to become a sustainable city using low density, energy from the sun, and a community based type of living. In the seventies Soleri had purchased a mere 15 acres of land and planned a community in which he hoped up to 5000 people could live. More than thirty years later, his dream is still largely a work in progress. Thousands of people have visited and donated time to build parts of this complex. Difficult to photograph, there are many parts that work together. Currently 70-80 people live here at any given time. There are families, artists in residence, temporary residents and visitors who live here from time spans ranging from years to days.
There are main spaces to share, eat, create, and amuse, but also private spaces that allow people to choose their level of community involvement. Living spaces include studio apartments, dormitory rooms, full 3-4 bedroom apartments, guest rooms, and a suites. Arcosanti is most known for their bell production, which is in some ways there bread and butter. Handcrafted on site, the bells are forged of metal and clay.
Being interested in community living, I wish I had seen more of it in action, however being winter, activity was low and some residents were away. One can't help but notice that there many things left undone and some things that seemed to be neglected. Reflecting on this I have to wonder if Arcosanti will ever come close to being finished, and even worse I worry what if this is the future of any such city. The goals of such a place could remedy much of our country's existing issues of declining energy, air pollution, and exploitation of natural resources. Yet reality exists, people like their cars, their large homes, their super green yards, how will we make that all fit and still be able to continue? And there we have it, again, the question mark.

Happy Christmas!


Merry Christmas from our tree to you!

My happiest part of Christmas year has to do with a new addition to my extended a family. I am blessed with to sisters to which soon there will officially be three. Sisters are a special thing and I already have two dear ones, but now it seems that my already large family got another really special person who will soon be marrying my brother. Introducing Amanda!!! I couldn't be more pleased with such a sweet person, we really had the nicest time getting to know her this Christmas and I feel blessed to have such a family. No we do not always get along, and no we are by no means perfect, but we love each other, and enjoy each other's company, especially when we get to be together, so for that I am thankful.
(sorry Jill, and no you don't really look like that).

On the road to Phoenix


When you are 3 or 6 vacation is exciting, so exciting that even Arbys is the best place for dinner. We left the house as the sun was just getting low and started our southernly drive only to stop for dinner, and then drive to our midnight destination in alburquerque. Overcome with tiredness Ephraim finally fell asleep sometime after ten.

Then the excitement quickly returned as we transferred them to their hotel beds which first had to be tested for trampoline quality. The toilet ran uncontrollably until Ryan shoved a serving tray in it. Jammies were put on and curtains were closed. Finally everyone settled down until light creeped through the cold full pane glass sliding door in our room.

Next morning the snow drifted down as we ran out to the hot tub and watched it steam around us. After our skin could take it no more we ran back, reloaded our car and coffee mugs and began our day long drive.


The drive went smoothly. The snow did not stick. Sedona bound, we stopped for lunch in Gallup a town full of dark haired peoples and went to a diner packed with people awaiting delicious Mexican food, cooked by chefs crammed into a tiny kitchen which was more apart of the dining room than separated. As we waited for our food and dined, person after person came in off the street to show us their handcrafted wares and hope for a sale. No cash in hand we proved to be tourists with no compassion. Our blonde heads marked us as the outsiders we were. Two of the best sopapiallas were brought to us and i think maybe they really were the best in the world as one reviewer had claimed. Drive on.


After seeing a few signs we decided to detour to the Petrified Forest National Park. In a sea of rolling deserted hills not one tree stood, yet large trees sliced by some natural chainsaw were sprinkled about as if an artist had carefully arranged them in a sculpturally fashion. White snow streaked and consrasted the colorful hard stone trunks and we marveled at the amazing randomness this land boasted. My camera could not help but clicking way to many times. Then with sudden gusto the random snowflakes started to fall faster and a blizzard like wind overtook us and we picked up our paces and once again headed for the car.


A gas stop proved exciting and sad. We noticed a hotel much like one we had seen in the movie Cars, and then realized the entire strip of town had been modeled after for the show. While filling the tank Ryan was approached three times for some change. As we passed a quarter to one fellow, his profuse thankfullness for twenty five cents made me blush. I have to get back to the res he said. Good Luck I said, and wondered why I said that. Too bad in real life this town did not get it happy ending.


Tired and dark we entered Oak Creek canyon and cautiously followed the slopes which led to Sedona. At night the red towering rocks hid from us but the town shined with holiday lights. Our room was large, two beds and a couch, with a view of the hot tub which we repeated our morning ritual dip and run in the falling snow. Tired the kids excitement of past days turned into whines and cries.




We ventured out into the town and wandered looking for a coffeeshop that was not there. We window shopped and then as our ears got colder, decided to find some lunch and then head back for a much needed nap. The brewery we sought out was closed and so we ended up in a gourmet pizza place that tried a little too hard and we paid a little too much for. Naps, and then a scramble to make checkout time dumped us and our bags back into the car.


Before leaving, we drove up to a church which had been wedged into a rock and overlooked a view of amazing scenery. A quiet spirit pervaded the whole place even though tourists like ourselves swarmed about. After a stop at the bike and bean, the kids clutched their hot cocoas and we drove on.