The Hyphenator!

An article on North Korean defectors on SF Gate ...

"How defectors cope in South Korea: The sense of loss remains, and while life may be more free, the transition isn't easy"

I was surprised to read this ...

"Last month, Senate Majority Leader Bill Frist introduced a bill that would authorize $10 billion in relief to refugees who have escaped from North Korea, reconstruction aid in the event of reunification, and aid if a new national government emerges with respect for human rights."

I saw this segment on my local news station in San Francisco (the video is available on the station's Web page) ...

"China Reportedly Tightening Foreign Adoption Rules"

"China is imposing new restrictions on foreign adoptions, barring applicants who are unmarried, obese, over 50 or who take antidepressants, according to U.S. adoption agencies."

Starting May 1, 2007, prospective adoptive parents must be married for at least two years, and a divorced parent who has since remarried must be married for five years. The parents must have a body mass index (BMI) of less than 40, and be between 30 and 50 years old, although the age limit increases to age 55 for children with special needs.

The new rules also restrict parents who take medication for depression and anxiety, as well as those with a "severe facial deformity."

Vietnam, though, is going to reopen international adoption to the U.S. after a two-year restriction, according to the TV segment.

Based on what I've heard about potential adoptive parents and how they work around Korea's weight restrictions, I'm sure adoptive parents will find a way around China's new restrictions.

New York Times article: "China Tightens Adoption Rules, U.S. Agencies Say"

Hmm, according to this article ...

"And a prospective adoptive family's net worth must now exceed $80,000."

"China will also disqualify families that already have more than four children in the home."

A small plane carrying three Japanese nationals, a flight instructor and two students, crashed into a sewage pond at a wastewater treatment plant. The crash site is hampering rescue efforts.

"Bodies Found In Plane Crash At Gilroy Sewage Pond"

I hope they died on impact, rather than drowning in the raw sewage.

A new TV show called "My Life Disoriented" from director Eric Byler ("Charlotte Sometimes," "Americanese") is debuting on PBS after Christmas ...

"Life gets turned upside down for Bay Area teens Kimberlee and Aimee when their father loses his job and relocates the family to Bakersfield. Suddenly, Kimberlee and Aimee are two of only a handful of Asian American kids at their school."

Check to see if the show will air on the PBS channel in your area here. Looks like it is showing in San Francisco, Honolulu, and Minneapolis.

According to the Center for Asian American Media, the show's future could depend on audience response to the pilot episode, airing as part of PBS' "Independent Lens" series. The show features Karin Anna Cheung ("Better Luck Tomorrow"), Tamlyn Tomita ("The Joy Luck Club"), Dennis Dun ("Big Trouble in Little China"), Autumn Reeser ("The O.C."), and Di Quon ("Maid in Manhattan").

Yul Kwon of San Mateo won this season's "Survivor" show ...

"'Survivor' winner hopes he shattered some Asian stereotypes"

Joe Barbera, of the Hanna-Barbera animation team, died Monday. He was 95.

"Joe Barbera, half of Yogi Bear creator team, dies at LA home"

"Animation Legend Joe Barbera Dead At 95"

I grew up watching the reruns and syndicated shows of the Hanna-Barbera duo -- "Tom and Jerry," "The Flintstones," "The Jetsons," "Yogi Bear" ("Hey, Boo Boo!"), and "Scooby-Doo." OK, and "The Smurfs."

Watching Saturday morning cartoons was a weekend ritual. And I always looked forward to getting home and watching the shows after school, too.

They just don't make cartoons like those anymore.

"O'Donnell apologizes for Chinese parody: But comedian warns she is likely to spoof languages again"

"Comedian Rosie O'Donnell, a co-host on the television talk show 'The View,' apologized this morning for mocking spoken Chinese - following mounting protest from Asian Americans in the Bay Area and across the country."

"On Thursday, O'Donnell expressed surprise when she learned that some Asian Americans considered speaking in that kind of sing-song accent an insult as grave as calling a black person by the N-word."

Previously, according to an SF Gate article, she had written on her blog ... that she "wasn't mocking / that's my best impression" and that her "bad accent was not meant to insult or degrade / linguistic incompetence -- guilty / mocking -- never." She tells one detractor to go "f- urself."

Accent? That was an accent?! I don't think so.

After viewing the video of the segment online, I wrote a complaint to ABC -- one of the many Asian Americans from the Bay Area that did it seems.

"World's Tallest Man Saves China Dolphins"

(See photo here.)

Good news, I guess, following the sad news that the white dolphins in China may be extinct ...

"Rare White Dolphin Declared As Extinct"

The latest Asian player to come to the U.S. to play ball ...

"Matsuzaka, Boston Reach Preliminary Pact"

The deal, worth more than $100 million in total, has Japanese pitcher Daisuke Matsuzaka playing for the Boston Red Sox.

Wanted: NorCal serial rapist
If you have any information about the serial rapist who's linked to attacks on 10 women in the Northern California area, please contact the Sacramento Police Department at (916) 264-5471.

A Web site has been created to help apprehend this man, described as a heavy-set Caucasian male with dark hair in his mid-30s to early 40s, who drives a white 2001-2003 Toyota 4Runner and is about 5' 8" to 5' 10" tall, 200-250 pounds.



More information, including a downloadable flyer, is available at the NorCal rapist info page.

He has been sexually assaulting Asian women in Northern California for the past 15 years.

Yay! Received my first Christmas gift today ...


A tower of chocolate goodies, including truffles and mint chocolate -- yum!

A gift I bought myself the other day, a little poinsettia plant, is pictured behind the boxes, adding a bit o' festive color to my drab office for the holidays.

The San Francisco School Board is expected to approve a resolution that would make the Lunar New Year a school holiday even if it falls during the weekend.

Currently, students in the district get a day off if the new year falls on a weekday, but the new measure would give students a day off on Monday or Friday if the new year falls on the weekend ...

"Lunar New Year set to become school holiday"

Something like this would never get approved in the Midwest.

SFGate.com is running an article today about what was happening in San Francisco after the attack on Pearl Harbor on December 7, 1941 ...

"Pearl Harbor was a close thing for the city in 1941"

Interesting excerpts ...

"In San Francisco, on that afternoon so long ago, the Army's Western Defense Command received a terrifying report: A Japanese fleet was 30 miles off the Golden Gate."

"Motorists suspected of being Japanese were stopped and searched on the Bay Bridge."

And ...

Later, the military took more severe measures -- some of them illegal -- to tighten up the defenses of the West Coast. In December, many Japanese Americans, some of them suspected of being spies, were arrested by the FBI. In the spring of the year, all persons of Japanese descent were rounded up and sent to internment camps.

After Italy entered the war on the side of Germany and Japan, Italians who were not citizens were ordered to stay away from the waterfront, removed from their homes and subject to a curfew. Among these "enemy aliens" were Giuseppe and Rosalie DiMaggio, parents of baseball star Joe DiMaggio.

It was a fearful time. But some of the fear was justified. On Christmas Eve, 1941, the Japanese submarine I-15 surfaced near the Farallon Islands, close enough to see the lights of San Francisco, according to Advance Force -- Pearl Harbor, a book by Burl Burlingame of Honolulu. The submarine had orders to fire on the city, but just as the ammunition for the deck gun was brought up from below, the orders were changed and the sub was recalled to other waters.

Originally posted 12/1/06:

I hope the Kim family is found safe and sound ...

"Family missing after trip to Oregon"

Updated (12/5/06): On Monday, rescuers found the mother and the two little girls nine days after their car got stuck in snow in southwestern Oregon, but the father is still missing after leaving the family to find help ...

"Rescue teams step up efforts to find missing SF dad"

Updated (12/6/06): Sadly, the body of James Kim has been found, according to reports on sfgate.com and msnbc.com.

"Internment-site preservation OKd: Sites of WWII prisons for some citizens to serve as reminder of U.S. rights abuses"

"The House, led by a Bakersfield Republican who urged Americans to protect citizens' rights during difficult times, gave final congressional approval Tuesday to a bill designed to preserve camps and assembly points across California and the West where about 120,000 Japanese Americans were interned by their own government during World War II."

Looking forward to the release of the "Curse of the Golden Flower." Saw a preview of the movie the other week.

(Although, I don't recall having seen so many bosom-bearing costumes and cleavage shots in an Asian period movie before.)

1. A raise
2. A vacation
3. A new job
4. A good stiff drink

Bloody hell!

An open forum letter to SF Gate in response to its series on Korean sex trafficking in San Francisco by the Bay Area Korean-American community ...

"'Diary' series is a misleading portrait of Korean Americans"

Awesome ...

"Fired Over Finger, Driver Wants Job Back"

Someone give this woman a new job!

Lately, I've been very productive as I sit and watch my TV shows this fall. I taught myself how to knit a few months ago and have been knitting up a storm ever since. Makes me feel better to be doing something, making something as I sit on the couch.

Below is one of my latest creations that I'm very proud of considering it was my second hat. I made it for a friend's 2-year-old niece, and she looks adorable in it (much better than Teddy below, it's not really so lopsided on top). Made with circular bamboo needles with a lovely wool/angora bulky duotone yarn on the bottom and an orange (she loves the color right now), bulky 100% wool yarn on top, with a little crocheted flower (I used to crochet ages ago and almost forgot how).


My first hat was for my hubby, which he actually likes. He's not much of a hat person, but after I gave it to him he wore it inside the next few nights until I told him to take it off since he looked like a dork (albeit with a lovely handknit hat), and he wanted to wear it at work all day, too. I also made one for myself but larger since I have a huge ol' pumpkin of a head.

My last project was a pair of mittens that I made with fuchsia worsted yarn made up of 85 percent wool and 15 percent mohair, which matches a Gap scarf I have. Love Lamb's Pride yarn from the Brown Sheep Company, have it in various colors. I'm also digging Blue Sky Alpacas yarn from Cedar, MN, which comes in organic cotton.

The mittens were a test run because my mom requested a pair. I am quite happy with the results -- OK so I had to redo them once because I followed the pattern and they were so large they would have fit my hubby. Don't think he would have been too keen on wearing fuchsia mittens.

In my knitting craze, I've bought tons of yarn, supplies and books, mostly ones on baby projects -- so cute. Can't wait to make an itsy bitsy sweater or booties.

Yes, I've started to nest.

"Laotian Immigrants Win $55M Lottery"

According to an article by the Irish public service broadcaster Radio Telefís Éireann, the father of the boy Madonna is seeking to adopt said he never intended for his son to be adopted, only raised on his behalf.

"Father of Madonna boy not aware of adoption"

The father of the Malawian boy that singer Madonna took to the UK under a temporary custody order has said that he never intended for his son to be adopted, only raised on his behalf.

Yohane Banda told news agency Reuters that Madonna had asked to raise the 13-month-old boy on behalf of him.

"Had they told us that Madonna wanted to adopt my son and make him her own son, we would not have agreed to that," Banda said.

The Korea Times has an article about the documentary "Made in Korea: A One-Way Ticket Seoul-Amsterdam?" by In-Soo Radstake, an adoptee from the Netherlands. It is debuting at the Pusan International Film Festival (PIFF) ...

"Adoptee's Journey Is Unveiled at PIFF"

More information about the documentary can be found at www.eenenkeltjeseoul.com.

The Register-Guard of Eugene, OR, has a feature story on the Holts that ran on Sunday (Holt is having a 50th anniversary conference this week):

"Children changing lives: The Holt adoption legacy that has created thousands of new families started with eight Korean War orphans"

"Harry and Bertha Holt - who married despite being first cousins - were a God-fearing, fundamentalist Christian farm couple who had fled drought-stricken South Dakota for the Willamette Valley in 1937."

Why does this not surprise me?

At least at the end of the article the writer addresses the fact that not everyone thought of the Holts as saviors ...

Regardless of the Holts' intentions, their work was not admired by all.

"The Holts believed they were doing God's work, but they became lightning rods for controversy about how adoptive families should be made," writes Ellen Herman, a University of Oregon history professor who has studied international adoption, on her "Adoption History Project" Web site.

"Many professionals and policy-makers in the U.S. Children's Bureau, the Child Welfare League of America and the International Social Service devoted themselves (unsuccessfully) to putting the Holts out of business," Herman writes.

Some felt that taking mixed-race babies and children away from their homeland was wrong.

What made the Holts unique, Herman says, is "they took this dramatic personal action." It generated a lot of publicity and made them heroes to many, but others "were absolutely horrified," she says.

USA Today posted an AP article about the air sample tests conducted after the North Korean nuclear test: "Samples are rushed back to labs in the United States for study before they loose their radioactive properties."

Hmm, just noticed the same mistake in an SF Gate article. Tsk, tsk.

I just purchased tickets to go home to the Midwest for Christmas ... and tickets to go to Korea next summer! Yeah, baby!

And the cost to go to Korea? Only $47.53! Well, OK, plus 60,000 frequent-flier miles. But still, what a deal for an international trip.

I'll be going for three whole weeks! Whew. Hubby's meeting me there halfway through the trip and we'll be flying back together.

By next summer, it will have been a little over five years since I was back there. Can't believe it's been that long. Seem like just last year I took the emotional rollercoaster trip back to Korea for the first time.

I'm going home, home, HOME!

Sigh.

What a bunch of crap:

"Nuclear North is Bill's fault, McCain tells Hil"

And I suppose Shrub calling North Korea an axis of evil played no role in the country's actions, or the fact that N.K. has watched the U.S. invade Iraq for having weapons of mass destruction when it didn't.

Stuff magazine is feature the women of "Lost" in this month's issue. And who should grace the cover but the lovely Yunjin Kim! And she's got a HOT photo spread. Check out a little preview. On stands now.

"S Korean proposed as new UN chief"

"South Korean Foreign Minister Ban Ki-moon has been nominated by the UN Security Council as the successor to Secretary General Kofi Annan."

If appointed, he'll soon be dealing with the crisis very close to home.

Some random thoughts about fall ...

Yesterday San Francisco was hit with a "storm," or just plain rain as Midwesterners would call it.

It's funny when people here call rain showers storms. I think, Man, you have no idea what a storm is. A storm in the Midwest would be straight-line winds that can take off roofs and uproot trees, lighting that has been known to defy the odds and strike the same place more than once, thunder that cracks increasingly louder as the storm moves closer and closer, pounding rain that hurts if you get caught in it, still skies that turn an eerie shade of greenish gray before you see a funnel cloud forming in the distance, or snow so high you can't get out the front door and a windchill so low that your nose hairs and eyelashes freeze the second you step outside.

Soon, the San Francisco storms will be hitting on a daily basis. Winter is coming, in other words.

This would explain why I seem to be stuffing myself silly these days. Must be some natural instinct to eat and eat and eat in the fall, storing fat for the upcoming winter. Maybe almost 30 years in the Midwest have trained my body to get ready for hibernation.

I have to dig out my umbrella, rain coat, and rubber boots. And I have to finish fall cleaning so the dust mites don't hibernate for the winter, too. (The other weekend I started by cleaning under my bed. You know it's time to clean under the bed when the dust bunnies start attacking. And, you know it's time to start an exercise routine again when a session of major house cleaning leaves your body aching.)

Anyway.

Not looking forward to the end of daylight-saving time -- waking up while it's still dark outside and leaving work in the darkness.

I miss seeing the leaves change colors in autumn, the smell of wood burning in neighborhood fireplaces. Here, sadly, I think fireplaces are mostly gas-burning ones.

Growing up in the Midwest, fall also means baseball playoffs (unfortunately the Oakland A's swept the Minnesota Twins) and football (for me anyway). Hubby and I are going to the 49ers and Vikings game on Nov. 5. Maybe you'll see me on television -- I'll be the crazy Asian woman wearing the Cris Carter #80 Vikings jersey yelling at both teams and surrounded by drunk white guys most likely.

Hmm, what else?

I'm also looking forward to pumpkins and roasted pumpkin seeds, and turkey, mashed potatoes, gravy, stuffing and corn muffins next month. And hopefully seeing friends and family in December.

A sure sign of fall? The harvest moon -- be sure to check it out tonight.

Oh, and it's Fleet Week, with Blue Angels roaring overhead, naval ships docked in the bay (with free tours of aircraft carriers, amphibious assault ships, and guided missile destroyers and cruisers -- perhaps it's just me, but doesn't it seem like a bit of a security risk? I guess it is only if Shrub is deckside giving a photo op), and can't forget the sailors everywhere -- think "Sex and the City."

Ahem, getting back to the harvest moon, just want to wish everyone a happy Chuseok. Hopefully, you can spend the weekend with your families and loved ones.

The government has cracked down on the sex trade in Korea, but now business has gone underground -- with much of it headed for the U.S. The SF Gate is running a four-part special report on sex trafficking in San Francisco. The first part includes an audio slideshow on the industry in Korea, and upcoming parts of the series will share the stories of former Korean sex slaves.

Part I:
"Sex Trafficking: San Francisco Is a Major Center for International Crime Networks That Smuggle and Enslave"

View the audio slideshow.

Some excerpts from the first part of the series:

"Human trafficking is a multibillion-dollar business. In terms of profits, it's on a path to overtake drug and arms trafficking," said Barry Tang, an Immigration and Customs Enforcement attache with the U.S. Department of Homeland Security in South Korea. "There's a highly organized logistical network between Korea and the United States with recruiters, brokers, intermediaries, taxi drivers and madams."

Yuki, 25, who fears for her safety and only gave her first name to The Chronicle during an interview in Seoul, said she was trafficked from South Korea to a karaoke bar in Inglewood (Los Angeles County), where she was assured that she would simply be serving drinks to men. Once there, she was ordered to sell $3,000 worth of drinks each month. When she failed, she was sent to the "touching room," a private suite where men could have their way with her for $400.

Women report being beaten, raped and starved by their keepers. Kim, who also withheld her last name, told The Chronicle in an interview in South Korea that she was forced to pay $4,400 for plastic surgery to open her eyes and make her nose thinner and pointier, "like Marilyn Monroe."

Those who have become witnesses have been burned with acid, have disappeared, or have had their homes ransacked and their families harmed or threatened in their home countries, said Dong Shim Kim, head counselor at Du Re Bang (My Sister's Place), a shelter for sex trafficking victims in South Korea.

[Mayor Gavin] Newsom put together a team of health and safety inspectors in summer 2005, shortly after California's largest sex-trafficking bust -- Operation Gilded Cage -- made it clear that a lot of the sex in the massage parlors was not consensual.

City officials were taken aback that all 100 masseuses removed from the 10 parlors in San Francisco were Korean, just like the 45 others arrested statewide on charges of running an international sex trafficking ring. The federal case is pending.


Related articles:
"Alleged sex-trade ring broken up in Bay Area: Police say Koreans in massage parlors were smuggled in"

"Officials ask if sex trade forced on South Koreans: Women allegedly not told they'd be prostitutes in U.S."

Updated (10/10/06):

Part II - "A Youthful Mistake: You Mi was a typical college student, until her first credit card got her into trouble"

Part III - "Diary of a Sex Slave: You Mi is put into debt bondage -- life becomes an endless cycle of sex with strangers"

Part IV - "Free, but trapped: In San Francisco, You Mi begins to put her life back together -- but the cost is high

From Korea (and Australia):

"Adoption heartache for hundreds"

SOUTH Korea has suspended all new overseas adoptions, plunging hundreds of Australian families into uncertainty.

Adoption agencies in Korea have suspended inter-country adoption because of falling birth rates and new welfare policies that promote local adoption and provide better support for single mothers.

From Japan:

"Adoption profiteers face govt curbs"

With a view to preventing human trafficking masquerading under the guise of child adoption, the government has established a new set of regulations for adoption agencies. However, many questions remain unaddressed.

Under current laws, privately run adoption agencies are allowed to receive money from adoptive families in the form of expenses to cover the costs entailed in arranging both domestic and overseas adoptions.

The Health, Labor and Welfare Ministry drafted a set of guidelines in August--the first of their kind--detailing a concrete list and definition of "expenses."

The list of expenses comprises 10 items, such as travel costs and telephone bills, as well as counseling and related services offered by the agencies to adoptive parents.

On Aug. 28, the ministry urged all 47 prefectural governments, and 15 major cities with adoption-related authorities, to tighten measures to eliminate adoption agency profiteers.

The guidelines prohibit agencies from receiving any money prior to the completion of the adoption process. However, "donations" are often difficult to distinguish from legitimate costs for adoption services, officials said.

And later on in the article, something you don't often read about regarding intercountry adoption: "In some countries, adoption is used as a cover for human organ trafficking or child pornography."

And from Massachusetts:

In a September 17 article, "For-profits to compete in child placements," from Boston.com (but only available by registering):

A little-noticed provision tucked into a bill in the dead of summer has triggered a sweeping change in adoption and foster care placements in the state, allowing for-profit companies to compete in Massachusetts for the first time.

The measure, passed without a public hearing, overturns previous language that had allowed only government and nonprofit agencies to handle the placement of children with adoptive families or in foster care. The measure was attached to an economic development bill, which was quietly approved by the House and Senate late last month, and signed into law by Governor Mitt Romney last week.

The change was pushed by a human services company, Massachusetts Mentor, with the help of well-connected lobbyists with ties to the State House and Republican circles.

On Google News this morning I saw the headline "Woodward: Kissinger Advices Bush" for a Washington Post article.

Advice is a noun. Advise is a verb.

So "Kissinger Advises Bush."

The WP got it right. Unfortunately, the folks at Google need some advising.

BTW, Shrub needs more than just advice -- perhaps a kick in the ol' keister, but that's another post for another day.

I freely admit that I am a couch potato, but now it seems I am also a mouse potato. Yes, if I'm not clicking the buttons on my remote control, then you'd most likely find me typing on my keyboard.

Merriam-Webster has posted on its Web site new words added to the 11th edition of the Collegiate Dictionary. Check them out on m-w.com.

The new words include mouse potato, gastric bypass, drama queen, unibrow, manga, and polyamory.

As in the following:

The woman felt like quite the drama queen as she yelled at her mouse potato boyfriend that she was considering polyamory, or better yet just dumping his ass, because she was tired of looking at his overgrown unibrow, and that he'd make a good candidate for gastric bypass surgery one day since he never did more exercise than walk from the refrigerator to his computer to chat online about his damn manga obsession.

Dear Santa,

I've been a good girl this year. Yes, indeed. And this year I'd like the new iPod nano in fuchsia, or hot/glam/rockin' pink.

I've included photos below to avoid any confusion. I'd like the one denoted with the arrow (V).

                               V


And the back view:


Oh, and two hypoallergenic kitties (so they don't get lonely while I'm at work).

Thank you,
H

"Allergy-free Cats For Sale At $3,950 Each"

And according to the article, the kitties weren't genetically modified -- just selectively bred.

You, too, can be the proud owner of a hypoallergenic kitty, but better get on the waiting list for one now (looks like it can take about two years to get one): Allerca Web site.

I better start saving my pennies.

Yes, I'm back. Did you miss me? Huh, HUH?

And for my first post after my return? Details from my whirlwind trip? Lamentations on being a year older? Nope.

"Penis Transplant Reported in China"

Yes, a man had a successful penis transplant with no physical rejection of the new organ, but after two weeks the man requested that it be amputated because of his wife's "pyschological rejection."

More posts to come soon ... but not on weird news -- unless I find some juicy tidbit that I can't help but share.

Ahh, Google has launched the beta version of its Books Search of digitized public domain books. Check it out at books.google.com. If you want the full online book or PDF to download, be sure to search with the "Full view books" option selected. You can search by author, title, date, publisher, ISBN, or even content.

I find it quite amazing.

Printed books, online versions, literary classics, trashy romance novels, mystery whodunits, true-crime biographies, military and war fiction and nonfiction, pop-up picture books ... I love 'em all (as is evident by my jammed bookshelves, one of which recently collapsed from the weight of the books piled on it).

Hmm, I predict my productivity level at work rapidly falling as I read at my desk (and still look like I'm working) classic works by Dickens, Hugo, or perhaps letters written by Jane Austen (text which is now seeing the light of day -- or light of a computer monitor -- instead of rotting away and getting moldy sitting on a dusty library shelf).

A Korean friend who recently came to the U.S. to study English told me something interesting last night, perhaps a reason why older KADs find that they are actually older or their date of birth is different than what is listed on their birth certificates.

It seems that older people in Korea (but those young enough to have been issued a birth certificate) have birth certificates with dates that are not their actual date of birth, but instead use the date of application for the certificate.

My friend said Korea now uses the actual date of birth for the certificates, but that wasn't the case when she was young -- she's 38. The date on her birth certificate is not her date of birth, and her Korean passport also lists her birth certificate date, which is a few months later than her date of birth. She even knows a woman whose birth certificate date is two years off.

So what about all those KADs who do happen to have a birth certificate from Korea among their limited paperwork and records? Is the information they have completely misleading, inaccurate? What about all those KADs who search for birth families with what they believe to be their date of birth, one of the few bits of information used to help in searching?

Added note: I forgot to mention the use of lunar dates for birthdays in Korea. Another twist to figuring out birthdays for KADs.

1. When you forget your house keys and need to get in at the end of the day. Voilà! Extra set of keys.

For every new academic year, Beloit College in Wisconsin publishes its Mindset List for incoming freshmen (or should I be more politically correct and say first-year students?) to help educators connect with this new generation.

Read the 2006 list for the class of 2010. (BTW, you know you're getting old when the incoming class is the same year as the title of a futuristic sci-fi movie ... that's the sequel to a futuristic sci-fi movie.)

My favorites:

1. The Soviet Union has never existed and therefore is about as scary as the student union.


6. There has always been only one Germany.


9. A stained blue dress is as famous to their generation as a third-rate burglary was to their parents'.


21. Milli Vanilli has never had anything to say.


24. Madden has always been a game, not a Superbowl-winning coach.


34. They have always known that "In the criminal justice system the people have been represented by two separate yet equally important groups."


37. Brides have always worn white for a first, second, or third wedding.


39. "So" as in "Sooooo New York," has always been a drawn-out adjective modifying a proper noun, which in turn modifies something else.


40. Affluent troubled teens in Southern California have always been the subjects of television series. (See accompanying image from actual list.)


43. They are not aware that "flock of seagulls hair" has nothing to do with birds flying into it. (See image.)

Ahh, the Hyphenator rules!

Way back when the Hyphenator was a bride-to-be searching for wedding favors and decorations, she came across a silver bamboo frame on the David's Bridal Web site. The message in the frame caused her to fight against insensitive statements everywhere. OK, well at least against the message in the product image on the Web site. She sent of a scathing e-mail to the company.

The company must have feared the possible repercussions by the Hyphenator and removed the offensive message from its site.

Alas, a new message in the frame can now be found in its place.

No applause, no applause ... pleeeease.

Don't piss off the Hyphenator!

Who needs coffee?
It's lunchtime and I'm sitting at my desk, enjoying a cup of tea. I love jasmine tea and green tea, which is supposed to be good for the skin (need that) and fertility (really don't need that now). So I was delighted to find jasmine green tea at the Trader Joe's by my work. I usually buy green tea my neighborhood Asian market, but perhaps I was dazed by the store's huge selection of teas that I missed seeing it there.

The Great Pumpkin
As I sit here, I'm also running my fingers through my newly shorn hair. My hair used to be very long, down to my lower back, and now it's a little above my shoulders with a bit of a flip, and a little more layered than I wanted it. Oh well. Whenever my hair is medium to short in length, no matter the style, it seems it always turns out pretty much the same. I think it's the texture and straightness of my hair, not to mention the shape of my huge head. OK, so it's not like Charlie Brown proportion but I've always thought I had an overly large head for my fairly petite body (or pocket-sized as my friend Ji-in would say, although I disagree, I mean really have you seen the teeny Asian girls running around San Francisco??). Hats don't really fit or look good on my melon, I looked ridiculous when headbands were in style when I was in high school, and I have problems finding sunglasses that don't leave nice dents in the side of my face. My hubby said my new haircut made me look more "modern," but I think shorter hair just makes me look older.

Leaving on a jet plane
In one week, my hubby and I will be flying across the U.S., across the Atlantic, and landing in Germany for a two-week trip, belated longer honeymoon, and family reunion of sorts (hubby's side). I never thought I'd travel to Germany, but whaddya know. I'm calling it my fairy tales and war tour. We'll be checking out some amazing castles and palaces, as well as some historic sites related to World War II, as we make our way from Berlin to Munich and the Alps to Cologne and Aachen. My hubby just hopes I don't drag him into every damn church and museum in the country like I did in Italy ... and Spain. Hmm, I'm going to have to hide my guidebook that I've filled with Post-it tabs and notes on sites to see.

Ahhh, comfy
Today I'm also enjoying a pair of new shoes (uh, one of four pairs) that I bought online hoping they'd be comfortable for above-mentioned trip. They are indeed comfy and "modern" -- goes well with my new 'do, I guess. I hate having to break in new shoes. My closet and bedroom are littered with barely worn shoes that blistered my feet.

Working for my vacation
Why is it these days when I'm planning to go on vacation, I have to do the work needed while I'm gone ahead of time? What's the point in that -- having to work twice as hard before taking time off?

Trying to wipe the stupid grin off my face
I saw "Blade:Trinity" over the weekend. I had seen the first two movies in the series, but hadn't seen the third one, which I understand didn't do as well as the first two. My hubby and I caught it on cable. We both got our kicks out of it. He enjoyed seeing Jessica Biel (I have to admit she had some lovely arms), and I drooled over Ryan Reynolds. Yes, Van Wilder. I've liked him since "Two Guys, a Girl and a Pizza Place." If I had known he was in the movie all buffed, toned, and half naked, I would have paid the $10 to see him on the big screen. I read he may be in a "Nightstalkers" film -- I'm really hoping it works out.

Aaargh, the guilt!
So much to do, so little motivation. I just want to fly, fly, fly! Sigh. I need to get two thank-you notes out for wedding gifts. One we just received last week so the guilt is minimal. The other I've been putting off for months -- it's to my Korean relatives. I need to write a letter and send copies of wedding pictures. I should also send pictures to other relatives and friends, and my mom wants all the digital pictures from the wedding, reception, and our somewhat short first honeymoon. Does she realize how many files that is???

Today on "News & Notes," Ed Gordon tackled the issue of transracial adoption, specifically African-American children being adopted by Caucasian parents.

"Parents Increasingly Adopting Children of Another Race"

Very good piece, so be sure to check out the audio when it becomes available on the NPR site.

Also from today's show ...

"A Personal Story of Transracial Adoption"

And another segment from July ...

"Foreign Adoption of African-American Babies Grows"

And a piece from May on unwed birth mothers during the '40s, '50s and '60s ...

"'The Girls Who Went Away': Birth Mothers' Stories"

Just announced this morning, the upcoming season of CBS's "Survivor" will take place on the Cook Islands. The twist this season? The teams will be divided by race: Asian, African American, Hispanic, and Caucasian.

The show has been criticized for its lack of ethnic diversity among the contestants. So they've decided to address this issue by recruiting more minorities ... and dividing the teams by race?

"New 'Survivor' A Race Among Races"

This year's cast on the CBS Web site.

I watched this show the first two seasons, but I avoided it later because I always got completely sucked in to watching the show every week. Now with my handy dandy TiVo, I'm sure I'll get sucked back in, just like those damn producers wanted.

If anything, I'll watch to see how the Asians do and also so I can yell at them on television when they do something stupid, like Korean-American Gina did all the time on "America's Next Top Model." (Yes, yes, I admit that I watch that show. Bite me.) I know, very supportive of me.

An article from Deseret Morning News in Salt Lake City about a Brigham Young University professor and KAD who recently published an article in the journal Social Work stating that "African nations and American parents should consider a radical increase in adoptions of black African orphans."

"Africa orphans need adoption: Crisis makes international action imperative, BYU professor says"

American parents have adopted a growing number of international children over the past decade. The United States issued 7,093 immigrant visas to orphans in 1990. The number rose to 22,728 last year.

Few come from African nations, which are reluctant to allow more.

"They're nervous because of the history of outmigration of their people into Europe and America, because of the former slave trade," Roby said. "They're nervous their children are being sold into domestic servitude or sex trafficking. I understand that. We all need to have empathy for that. But when they learn about the legal safeguards in place for international adoption, they want to consider it."

How about mentioning how adoption has become big business in the U.S.?

I was happy to read that the writer of the article also interviewed Joe Kroll, the executive director from the North American Council on Adoptable Children, which "believes each child should be placed with a family that recognizes preservation of the child's ethnic and cultural heritage as an inherent right."

"The federal government has gone overboard to try and make adoptions appear color blind," he said. "Color blind doesn't work when you're a person of color."

Kroll also worries that international adoptions have become trendy at the expense of older American foster children because of celebrities like Angelina Jolie, who has adopted two children, the most recent from the African nation of Ethiopia — a girl whose mother died of AIDS.

"My concern," Kroll said, "is that the publicity surrounding celebrities like Angelina Jolie is making people move away from the very real needs of the children in the American foster system. There are so many kids who need help."

The Wall Street Journal today has an article about Koreans dealing with the reduced workweek (five days a week) that companies are changing to -- what to do with their free time, managing more family time (good or bad depending on one's view), and spending more money on leisure activities.

Unfortunately, a subscription is needed for online access. Some excerpts, though ...

SEOUL, South Korea -- Jun In Kyung is one unhappy housewife.

Her husband's employer just started giving him two Saturdays off a month. The 36-year-old wrestling teacher's new schedule, though, means Ms. Jun has to spend more of her time cooking and doing extra housework. Plus, she grumbles, after staying out late with his buddies on Friday nights, her husband sleeps a lot on Saturdays -- cramping their two children's indoor playtime.

"Home is supposed to be women's space and I don't like it when he spends more time in my space," says Ms. Jun, also 36. "It's like an invasion."

I found the following very interesting ...

"To help ease the free-time burden, the Korea Culture & Tourism Policy Institute is making available yeoga kwallisa, or leisure counselors, 'to teach people to seize their time,' says Yoon So Young, a chief researcher at the institute. 'It is something that needs to be learned.'"

I've found my true calling -- a leisure counselor. I would so rock at that job.

Seattle Weekly has featured Tim Holm of Asian Adult Adoptees of Washington (AAAW) for its Best of Seattle 2006 series ...

"Tim Holm: Best Career for an Adopted Kid"

The AZN TV network is featuring Korean dramas and movies during August and September with its Summer of Hallyu programming.

Watch for five back-to-back episodes of dramas, including "Winter Sonata" ("겨울 연가"), "My Lovely Sam-soon" ("내 이름은 김삼순"), and "Jewel in the Palace" ("대장금"), on Saturdays and Sundays. And be sure to catch the movie "Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter ... and Spring."

So crank up the AC, grab that remote control (or set your TiVo), and stay cool this summer while getting your fill of Korean shows.

Ah, yes, another example of international adoption working in the best interests of the children, I see.

"Locals unwelcome at Chinese orphanages: Agencies favour overseas adoptions"

"Chinese policies are supposed to favour domestic adoptions. Yet there is strong evidence that foreigners get preferential treatment -- largely because their payments are more lucrative. Despite the national policy, many Chinese orphanages have set up unofficial barriers to discourage Chinese families from adopting their orphans."

"Partly because of the barriers to domestic adoptions, China has a thriving system of private and unofficial adoptions, including an underground system of kidnapping and baby-trafficking. Earlier this year, China admitted that six orphanages in southern China had been purchasing babies since 2002, including the purchase of 78 abducted children last year alone. At least 33 people were punished for their involvement in the schemes. Foreigners and Chinese families were adopting children from the six orphanages, often for hefty fees."

An older article from the Washington Post, long but worth reading 'til the end ...

"Stealing Babies for Adoption: With U.S. Couples Eager to Adopt, Some Infants Are Abducted and Sold in China"

Some quotes:

"The prevalence of the problem has become clearer in recent weeks with the prosecution of a child-trafficking ring in the neighboring province of Hunan. Last November, police arrested 27 members of a ring that since 2002 had abducted or purchased as many as 1,000 children here in Guangdong province and sold them to orphanages in Hunan for $400 to $538.... The orphanages placed most of those children in homes with unwitting foreign families, many of them Americans, in exchange for mandatory contributions of $3,000 per baby -- a sum nearly twice the average annual Chinese income -- according to sources familiar with the prosecution."

"A state agency in Beijing, the China Center of Adoption Affairs, pairs prospective adoptive families with available Chinese children. Foreigners who want to adopt must work through a foreign agency certified by the CCAA. The process entails many fees, the largest paid as parents depart the province in which they adopt: They surrender $3,000 in cash, typically in $100 bills, and usually into the hands of the orphanage director."

"Such is the system absorbing the proceeds from foreign adoptions. Whole industries have sprouted to service the people involved. Travel agencies ferry adopting foreign families to sightseeing spots in Beijing, then on to the provinces handling the adoptions. Playrooms occupy space at five-star hotels in cities that have become hubs for adoptions, their lobbies often packed with foreigners carrying Chinese babies. Around the White Swan hotel in Guangzhou, the city through which every family must pass to receive a U.S. visa for a child, streets are thick with stroller-rental shops and silk baby outfits embossed with traditional Chinese logos. The hotel gives each adopting family a special doll manufactured by Mattel -- "Going Home Barbie," the iconic plastic figure carrying a Chinese baby."

My god, we're talking about babies here -- human beings being abducted, stolen, kidnapped, snatched away from their families and not "abandoned" -- who are being bought and sold like any other commodity for purchase on the market.

I find the final quote by an AP just as sickening: "If we can't bring closure to it, we're just going to have to live with it." (Or, "We're going to hand over our $3,000 cash and get our babies while we can.")

Updated (8/1/06): Not anything new or suprising ...

Found the headline below on the Korea Herald Web site but need to subscribe to access, so here's a link to the article on the Daum site:

"Volunteers brighten orphans' days"

"Fowler, an English teacher from the United States, has been promoting volunteering and adoption of Korean orphans since 1995. One of the biggest problems, he says, is that orphanages do not encourage adoptions as they get more funding with the more children they have."

"If you look through the orphanage system, you will see that much of the money being donated by the banking, business and private communities is being spent on nothing more that the private needs of the founders, owners and their children," he says, adding that less than 40 percent of donated funds are spent directly on the children."

The MTV K Web site has a news segment on Asian-American adoptees with interviews with some adoptees and adoptive parents.

(The folks at MTV K might want to do a little more research -- they said that the first wave of Asian adoptees came in the '80s. WRONG!)

I'm all for Miss Korea to kick some adhesive-stuck bathing suit butt in the Miss Universe pageant, but except for Jane Pauley's early beauty pageant stint, I really can't picture female TV presenters in the U.S. who want to be the country's "greatest anchorwoman" competing in a beauty pageant.

"SBS Anchor Dons Bikini for Miss Universe Pageant"

The pageant will be on NBC Sunday night at 9:00 p.m. Pacific time. (I love the list of telecast judges.)

I gotta say, Miss Korea's national costume beats the crap out of Miss USA's.

In my current foul mood, I was happy to read this article on artificial sperm ...

"First live births from artificial sperm"

The Star Tribune has an article on stand-up comedian Amy Anderson ...

"Korean adoptee breaks new ground in stand-up comedy"

Found this Web site for the Panmunjom Travel Center, which has info about the DMZ and tours. Also has some interesting info (and photos) on the North Korean tunnels.

"Measuring two meters high and 2.1-2.2 meters wide, the arch-shaped tunnel--large enough to move such heavy weapons as tanks, field artillery and armored personnel carriers--is capable of letting pass 30,000 troops moving three to four abreast, or a division strength, per hour. Bored through 3.5 kilometers of bedrock at a depth of 50-160 meters from ground surface, Tunnel Ⅱ intrudes 1.1 kilometers south of the Military Demarcation Line at a point 101 kilometers from Seoul. A spacious troop assembly area was carved out in the tunnel, which has three exits."

Bored through bedrock and large enough to move tanks!

Some cheesy copywriting but this ad campaign for Bean Pole International has some lovely photos of Daniel Henney. Click through "Daniel's Story" and just try to ignore Gwyneth and the annoying Flash.

A New York Times article on North Korean defectors in the South ...

"North Korean Defectors Take a Crash Course in Coping"

Soon after landing in South Korea, all North Korean defectors come here to the South Korean government's main resettlement center, called Hanawon, or to an annex, for a three-month crash course on life south of the demilitarized zone.

"When they arrive here," said the center's director general, Lee Choong Won, "they realize they've been living like frogs in a well."

"Adoptees Join Football Frenzy"

So I was listening to NPR this morning and had to shake my head at a statement by the general consul for the U.S. Chamber of Commerce:

"I think the inclination ... is going to be to err on the side of not taking any even slightly adverse action ..." -- but he pronounced "err" like "her" instead of as with "error."

Looking "err" up on the Merriam-Webster site, which has audio pronunciation clips for dictionary entries, I was surprised to find that "er" is actually listed as a pronunciation for "err."

I have never heard the word pronounced that way before. Then again, I'm from the Midwest.

I pronounce "soften" and "often" without the "T." Coke is a brand of pop, not a soda (although in California, I quickly realized that I needed to ask for a "soda" from store clerks to avoid having them look at me like I just spoke gibberish to them).

I think I speak without a strong Midwestern accent (as in "Fargo"), but people in San Francisco have told me I say "Minnesota" with a long "O" as in Min-ne-SOH-ta.

The other week I lugged a bunch of groceries up three flights of stairs, and as I dumped them on the kitchen table, I found myself saying, "Uff da!" I had to laugh. If my mother had heard that, she probably would have just nodded her head and said, "That's my girl. She takes after me."

A friend posted this the other day, and I had to take this quiz myself. I'm 110% Minnesotan.

How Minnesotan Are You??

[X] You've been made fun of for your Northern accent
[X] You been to an ice hockey game before
[X] You've been snowmobiling before
[X] You know how the wind chill factor works
[X] You constantly make fun of Iowa (OK, not so much anymore)
Total: 5

[ ] You own skis or a snowboard, or snow shoes (Used to)
[X] You keep an ice scraper in your back seat (I think trunk counts since I'm now in Cali)
[X] You call the childhood game "Duck, duck, grey duck"?
[X] You know what the "Iron Range" is
[X] You've built a snowman before
Total: 4

[X] You consider 50 degrees in March a warm day
[X] You make fun of Wisconsin
[X] You know where yellow snow comes from
[X] At least one person in your immediate family hates the "Packers"
[ ] You go to "the cabin" on the weekends during the summer (Used to)
Total: 4

[X] You've taken a family vacation to either North or South Dakota before
[X] You're still mad at the LA Lakers for not changing their name (Stoopid Lakers)
[X] You know what the "North Shore" refers to
[X] You or your family owns a snowblower
[ ] You, your dad, or a close friends has a snowplow on the front of their pickup truck
Total: 4

[X] You expect school cancellations and delays to happen at least twice a winter (When I was still in school, yes)
[X] You still hear/tell stories about the "Halloween Snow Storm" of 91
[X] You know whether Minnesota really is the "Land of A Thousand Lakes"
[X] You know the names of the Twin Cities
[X] You've been to the city of Duluth
Total: 5

Grand Total: 22

Take your score and multiply it by 5. Repost this as "I'm 110% Minnesotan."

An amazing pet story ...

"A Bite and Bark That Saved a Life: Cellphone Chomp Called 911 for Beagle's Owner"


And a not-so-heartwarming story ...

"Puppy allegedly killed by 3 boys, ages 6 and 8"

Hmm, isn't animal cruelty during childhood a sign of a potential serial killer? I think I'd move my family, too.

"Judge Spares Life of Lewis the Cat"

Hmm, sounds like a cat my parents had while I was away at college. I used to come home for visits and the Cat From Hell would jump out and attack me, biting at my ankles and hissing.

MTV is launching a new channel for young Korean Americans. Check out the Web site for the new MTV K. While you're there, vote for the first video to be shown on the channel -- or just check out the Korean music videos in the running (after the annoying ad). Some are quite ... uh, interesting.

Unfortunately, the site says MTV K will only be offered on DirectTV's KoreanDirect package for now.

You'll have to excuse me as I need to go harass Comcast.

The folks at Shoebox have put out a new book with the sentiments that didn't quite make it onto a greeting card.

The NPR segment reminded me of the difficult time I have buying cards sometimes, especially around Mother's Day and Father's Day. Everything usually sounds too lovey-dovey. Often, it's hard to find a plain card that wishes the recipient a happy day. No, it's usually "I looooove you! Thanks for all the wonderful memories growing up." Blah, blah, blah. **Hurl**

So I came up with some greeting card sentiments I'd like to see ...

"Mom/Dad, Happy Mother's/Father's Day! Without your love and support, I'd be ... exactly where I am now."

"Mom/Dad, Happy Mother's/Father's Day! Bet you'd like to have returned me when I was a kid, but hey, you get what you pay for."

"Mom, Happy Birthday! I always knew deep down that, despite what you said, you were a racist bigot."

"Dad, Happy Birthday! I'm so glad I married a guy who's so not like you."

"Congratulations on your new home! Glad it's 1,586 miles away from mine."

"Brother, Happy Birthday! Thanks for hitting me all those years and putting me down every chance you got. It's made me a stronger person ... who thinks you're an a--hole."

"Brother, Congratulations on your graduation and good luck at college! Don't let the door hit you in the a-- on your way out."

"Congratulations on your graduation! Here I thought you were set on a career of being a permanent student."

"Brother, Congratulations on your marriage! God help your wife."

"Merry Christmas! I'm sorry I can't be home for the holidays ... Well, not really."

"Congratulations on your new baby! Thank god she doesn't look like her father."

"Congratulations on your wedding! I have a year to buy you a gift, right? (If your marriage lasts that long.)"

"Sympathy for the loss of your husband/wife. You couldn't take it anymore, could you?"

"Good luck at your new job! And good riddance!"


Feel free to share your ideas for greeting cards.

Just realized that two of my friends are the most compatible with me in terms of Chinese astrology.

My LYLAS friend Ji-in is four years my junior, while my other friend is eight years my junior (crazy to think that for this ol' gal) -- together that makes us a very compatible threesome.

This is in addition to our compatibility based on our Western astrology signs.

No wonder why we all get along so well.

A few years back, we hung out on a regular basis and went through a period that was, for me, one of the most fun and memorable outside of college -- that is, if you overlook some of the drink-'til-you-puke incidents and the hangovers the next morning (we always had a designated driver).

Now, we're scattered all over the country, two of us are married and the other in a LTR, and on the weekends you'd most likely find me sitting on the couch knitting or doing needlework as I catch up on my TiVo'd K-dramas.

Thank god for the Internet.

This morning my hubby and I were rudely awakened this morning at 5:24 a.m. by our bed shaking and things rattling in our apartment. Turns out it was a 4.7 magnitude earthquake centered an hour south of San Francisco near Gilroy (which has a lovely outlet mall complex BTW -- my first thought when I heard Gilroy was "Don't take out the outlet mall!!").

According to hubby, this morning's quake was small, but it was the biggest one I've felt since moving to San Francisco. The other ones I felt while at work when the whole office swayed back and forth. On these occasions I'd send IMs to my hubby at work: "Earthquake!" His usual response: "Really? Didn't feel it." And I'd just sit at my desk, wondering if anyone else felt it.


My co-workers tell me I am more sensitive to the small earthquakes since I haven't lived here very long. Glad to know I'm a human seismograph.

If only I could predict them, then I'd be all set.

As if I didn't have anything better to do. OK, so I don't. Well, OK, I do but I'm procrastinating. OK, so I was tagged a while ago. Damn it, said I was procrastinating! Get off my back -- geesh!

Four people you would like to meet and the questions you'd ask them:

1. 장동건: Will you run away with me?
2. 우리 할머니: Please tell me the story of your life. (OK, so not a question.)
3. 우리 아빠: Did you know what was going to happen to our family?
4. 우리 엄마: Will you forgive me?

Four monuments/places you have seen and would like to see again:

1. Anything in Korea
2. China/Hong Kong
3. Sistine Chapel
4. El Templo de la Sagrada Família

Four favorite words:

(not in any particular order based on usage or anything)

1. onomatopoeia
2. 사랑
3. 엄마
4. whatever

Four cities with delicious food:

1. San Francisco
2. Seoul
3. Florence
4. Barcelona (especially breakfast)

Four (nonfiction/fiction) books you would recommend:

1. A People's History of the United States, Howard Zinn
2. The Rape of Nanking, Iris Chang
3. Any novel by Jane Austen
4. Guess How Much I Love You, Sam McBratney and Anita Jeram (illustrator)

Four jobs you've had:

1. corn detasseler
2. fast-food slave/grease monkey
3. third-shift data entry procezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
4. prufreeder

Four quick answers:

1. Insomnia — Where's the remote?
2. Allergies — Kitty!
3. Road rage — A--hole!
4. Daydreams — Sorry, what did you say?

The 2006 World Cup started today in Germany. It hit me this morning that almost four years ago, for the 2002 World Cup, I was in Korea.

In Seoul, I remember seeing pictures of Korean footballer Ahn Jung-Hwan plastered all over. (Here is his official site and more info.)

World Cub souvenirs were everywhere, and I eventually bought an official soccer ball to bring back home. Getting caught up in the Ahn craze, I also bought a red t-shirt with his image on it. (I should dig that out.)

One afternoon I found myself sitting outside one of the World Cup stadiums, seeing before me a sea of red -- all the Koreans dressed in their "Be the Reds!" t-shirts in support of the Korean team, trying to catch a glimpse of a match on the large screen off in the distance.

I remember wearing my own "Be the Reds!" t-shirt and just sitting among the throng of fans, amazed at the frenzy but glad that I was in Korea experiencing this period of immense national pride -- and, probably most of all, thoroughly enjoying the fact that I was no longer a minority in a crowd of people.

Here's hoping the new "The Fast and the Furious: Tokyo Drift" movie does even better at the box office than the previous two movies in the series did. Why? Two good reasons: director Justin Lin and Korean-American actor Sung Kang.

After seeing a preview of the movie a while back, I remember rolling my eyes and cringing at the thought of Hollywood doing a racing movie set in Japan. But Jeff Yang's column on today's SFGate.com has me wanting to check out the new film.

OK, granted the movie is set in Japan, and looks to have a bunch of non-Japanese stars (including Bow Wow??), but Yang interviews the director, who explains some of the casting decisions and changes to the original script.

"After I read the original script, they called me up and asked, 'What do you think?'" says Lin.

"And I said, 'I think it's offensive and dated, and I don't have any intention of doing it.' But Stacey [Snider], the head of the studio, said, 'Just tell us what you'd do differently.' So I said, 'To begin with, I'd get rid of all the gongs and temples and Buddhas and the visual gags about how the white guy is a foot taller than all the Asians.' And she said, 'OK, we'll make the kind of movie you want.' I was like, 'Uh, are you sure?'"

We can also look forward to more movies with Sung Kang, thanks in part to Lin who cast him as the racer who teaches the main character (white boy) how to drift ...

"When we were screening this movie, Sung tested through the roof. It was unanimous: Every focus group we threw out there, he was their favorite character. Now they're looking for vehicles for him to be in. That's what it's all about, man: opportunity. It's not a revolution or anything -- it's winning one gunfight, not the war. But it's important. Little by little it adds up."

Check out the full article on SFGate.com: "ASIAN POP: Switching Gears."

Other interesting notes:

According to IMDB, "600 Asian extras were used during the LA filming days for the street scenes," more than 100 cars were wrecked during the filming, and all of the drifting in the movie was done by professional drivers, not created by CGI and computers.

Hot.

I haven't seen the first two movies, at the theater or on DVD, but I may just have to plunk down my $10 at the theater for this one.

(Stupid Blogger site having problems!)

" A place for orphaned pets: SPCA program places animals in new homes"

"The Sido program, named for a collie-sheltie mix who narrowly escaped a death sentence in 1979 after her owner committed suicide and left a will demanding that Sido be put to sleep, finds new homes for orphaned Bay Area pets."

Animals grieve, too ...

Louisa DeRosa, Sido's animal grief counselor:

"Heathcliff here was so depressed when we got him," she said of a Sido cat currently up for adoption. "He'd put his face up against the wall and just stare at it."

"The Maine coon cat refused to eat, became anorexic and had to be hospitalized; his lifelong friend Tang, a Siamese mix, paced and cried, worrying about Heathcliff on top of dealing with the same loss...."


Another great animal organization in the Bay Area is Pets Unlimited, which rescues shelter animals who are scheduled to be euthanized or sold for medical research, and gives them a place to stay until they are adopted into new homes. Check out their Fairytail Endings page.

You may have heard of Project Gutenberg and the World eBook Library. They're planning to have a World eBook Fair with free downloads of ebooks from July 4 to August 4.

"E-Book Giving Access to 300,000 Texts"

Project Gutenberg founder Michael Hart:

"We want to give the most books to the most people.... It has been our goal since the dawn of the Internet to break down the bars of ignorance and illiteracy."

I'm sure all the poor, ignorant and illiterate people who can't afford computers or Internet access will be lined up at the computer terminals at their local libraries, or perhaps at their neighborhood Internet cafes, during the month of the ebook fair, overjoyed at the prospect of reading classic literature on the computer or downloading ebooks in PDF files to -- oh, I dunno -- their PDAs ... until the next poor ignorant, illiterate person in line gets impatient and demands his or her time at the computer. Breaking down the bars of ignorance and illiteracy -- yes, indeed.

It's a sculpture. It's a vane. It's practical.

Pick a pepper.

Space Needle

Yum, crab!

Bloomin' peonies

A puffin! (And an annoying tourist)

Goodbye, Seattle!

"South Korea's main opposition leader recovering after knife attack"

"Park Geun-hye, chairwoman of the Grand National Party, suffered an 11-centimeter (4-inch) cut on her face Saturday when a man slashed her with a box cutter at a campaign rally for her party's candidate for Seoul mayor."

Park is a potential presidential candidate in South Korea. Her family history ...

"Park, 54, is the daughter of the late President Park Chung-hee, who ruled South Korea for 18 years after taking power in a 1961 military coup.

Park's mother, Yook Young-soo, was fatally shot in 1974. Five years later, Park's father was assassinated by the then chief of the state intelligence agency."


Found this info about the attacker, 50-year-old Ji Chung-ho ...

"Attacker hates establishment"

"Ji was orphaned at an early age in Incheon and raised by foster parents. But his mother mostly raised him alone after his father died when he was young. His neighbors reportedly said Ji became uncontrollable and rebellious after he found out his parents were not his biological parents when he was in junior high school."

I think I'm going to be sick ...

"Bush promotes brother Jeb to follow him in White House"


Gotta love Mark Fiore ...

"The Decider"

From Reuters Health ...

"A new wrinkle in gifts for Mom and Dad"

"South Koreans traditionally used to say it with flowers or money, but now more are showing love and respect to their parents by giving mum and dad coupons for cosmetic surgery.

Local media has reported a boom in orders this year for botox treatments, face lifts and hair transplants to mark Parents' Day on Monday."

In addition to being Cinco de Mayo, today is Buddha's birthday and Children's Day (어린이날), public holidays in South Korea. (Children's Day was known as Boy's Day until 1975, according to a Wikipedia entry.) And to incorporate the two holidays, how about a photo of children celebrating Buddha's birthday? :D


Some interesting articles I found on the Korea Times Web site:

"For the Beauty of 'Hangul'"

Hangul calligraphy and design becoming popular around the world.

"'Hollywood Plagiarized My Novel'"

A Korean author has filed a lawsuit against a U.S. film distribution company, claiming that the movie "The 40-Year-Old Virgin" plagiarized his 1996 novel, "Virgin Till The End, Just Once."

"400 Dead Dolphins Found in Tanzania"

"At least 400 dead dolphins were found on Zanzibar's northern coastline early Friday, alarming villagers, fishermen and tour operators, residents said."

"400 dead dolphins found off African coast"

(The second link includes a photo.)

Spring has finally come to San Francisco. The endless days of rain have gone and the cherry blossoms have bloomed.

Cherry blossoms by the Japanese Tea Garden in Golden Gate Park...




On Sunday, my hubby and I went to the Northern California Cherry Blossom Festival in Japantown. He hates crowded events but was a good sport considering the festival was packed since it was the last day and the day of the grand parade.

It was cute seeing little Asian kids dressed in kimonos. What was not so cute was seeing white women dressed in cheap kimonos. I wish I had taken some cute/not cute photos to post.

Always fun is checking out the vendor booths, such as the Blacklava one. Had to laugh at seeing this t-shirt and this one ... oh and this one, too. YES!

Also cool were the origami and paper doll exhibits ...

This post started out about my new t-shirt (see below) ...

I hate going to the dentist -- hate it, hate it, HATE IT!

I didn't always feel this way.

When I was younger, my parents took me to a dentist who specialized in pediatric dentistry. I actually looked forward to seeing my dentist every six months. Although, the little rewards that I got at his office probably enticed me -- and helped my parents avoid having to drag me, kicking and screaming, to the dentist.

At my dentist's office, the kids could pick a "reward" at the end of each exam from this huge, green plastic frog head toy box for being such a good patient. I remember sitting in the waiting room, looking through an issue of Highlights, and eyeing the toy box in the corner of the room before each exam. I couldn't wait to open the lid to all the wonderful toys inside and choose my reward.

After every visit, I'd walk out with a new toothbrush, a little floss dispenser, a sticker on my shirt, the taste of strawberry fluoride in my mouth, the crunch of the polishing material in my teeth, and a little trinket -- often a shiny plastic ring -- from the frog toy box.

For years I went to the same dentist -- even for the braces I got in seventh grade. But I grew up, went off to college and didn't have dental insurance for many years. When I got my first "real" job with medical and dental benefits, I decided I better go the dentist since I hadn't been to one in years and made an appointment with an office near my home.

That cleaning was the most painful, torturous visit! Granted, I hadn't been to the dentist in years, but I take good care of my teeth -- I even floss nightly -- and never, ever had a cavity before. I found out at a follow-up appointment that the sadistic hygienist who ripped apart my mouth was a temp filling in that day. Lucky me. After that series of visits, it was years before my next dentist appointment.

Since I moved to San Francisco and again got a job with dental benefits, the adult voice inside my head told me to go for regular cleanings and get my money's worth.

I found a dentist (a nice, youngish Asian one) near my work. He has a new, high-tech office -- we're talking digital x-rays, digital camera system, flat-screen monitors by the patient chairs (so you can see the hole in your tooth that he's telling you to get filled), and computers with electronic dental records in every exam room.

After a two-hour initial exam last fall, in which the dentist explained all the issues concerning my teeth, gums and oral health, and showed me digital images to back up what he was saying, and a not-too-bad cleaning by the hygienist, I decided to return in six months for another cleaning, especially after being assured that the next visit would only take an hour.

So yesterday I took off early from work for my spring six-month cleaning, feeling relatively relaxed and at ease with the idea of going to the dentist. Unfortunately, this visit wasn't as pain-free as the last. Since I was the last patient of the day, perhaps the hygienist was impatient to leave and wasn't as careful. Whatever the case, I was glad to get the hell out of the dental chair.

Despite the scraping, jabbing and poking 'til my gums bled, I have to say that dentistry has come a long way, especially in terms of easing patient discomfort: using a topical anesthetic to numb your gums (I applaud whoever decided that it should be used during dental cleanings), sonic tools to help kill all the nasty bacteria, foaming fluoride treatments (no more gooey glop in mouthguard-like styrofoam trays) and background music (to help block out the horrible scraping sounds in your mouth). I actually turned down the opportunity to watch music videos on the flat-screen monitor.

After my somewhat painful visit to the "dentist" (the nice Asian dentist didn't even examine my teeth -- guess it really was just a cleaning), I walked out with a new Colgate Active Angle toothbrush (for nonsonic toothbrushes, these are the best, plus they come in blue and yellow!), a minifloss dispenser (perfect for my purse), strawberry-flavored fluoride on my teeth, and crunchy polish in between them.

But as I walked down the street and even though I am now thirtysomething, I decided I deserved a well-earned reward for my pain and suffering.

With no big green frog toy box from which to choose my reward, I headed downtown and went shopping. I bought myself this Jim Benton/Blackjack Inc. t-shirt at a local discount store:



Mine's black with a white and pink bunny -- love it! (It's what I'd like to say to my babbling, whiny co-worker.)

A Web site was included on the shirt tag so I checked it out to see what other t-shirts were available. I found this one, which is on my list to get next:



(KADs know that this sentiment perfectly expresses how we feel about certain people.)

There are other great design lines, and here are links to some of my favorite shirts from each: It's Happy Bunny, Dog of Glee, Sweetypuss (and this one, too), Just Jimmy (I saw this one on a shirt yesterday), Just Plain Mean and So Totally True.

My co-worker sent me a press release about a cardiologist named Dr. Asher Kimchi who will receive the "Passion of the Heart Award" at the American Heart Association Heart Awards Gala.

This prompted a Google search. We found that the root of the family name Kimchi comes from Kemach, which means flour in Hebrew.

But, another Google result had me drooling onto my keyboard. The Korea Agro-Fisheries Trade Corp. kimchi Web site has everything you ever wanted to know about kimchi, its ingredients and health benefits (according to the site, it helps prevent constipation, enteritis, colonitis, acid toxicosis, obesity, diabetes, gastrointestinal cancers and arteriosclerosis; helps with digestion and suppressing aging; has lots of vitamin C; and more), along with recipes for kimchi, Korean dishes, and Western dishes that incorporate kimchi (spaghetti, pizza, pork cutlets -- sorry, no burgers).

The site also has a page on the cute, trademarked kimchi character, developed back in 2000 to "promote the excellency of Korean kimchi and to emphasize the difference from Japanese kimuchi."

(Last year I went to the Northern California Cherry Blossom Festival -- which, BTW, is this weekend -- in Japantown, and one of the food booths was serving what looked to be kalbi with kimchi. At the time I thought, "Since when is kalbi and kimchi Japanese?" The kimuchi link above helps explain the Korean/Japanese kimchi dispute.)

Now I'm craving kimchi. Good thing I have a jar at home. :D

Looks like South Korea will soon be exporting nurses in addition to babies ...

"South Korea plans to export 10,000 nurses to U.S."

But I'm guessing the nurses will have at least some say in the matter of leaving Korea.

Other related articles ...

"U.S. to import 10,000 S. Koreans for nurses over five years"

"US to Recruit 10,000 Korean Nurses"

At my office, we get the the printed version of the Wall Street Journal delivered daily. (I have to say that sometimes I miss reading printed newspapers, flipping through sections page by page instead of clicking and scrolling, clicking and scrolling.)

Wednesday's section of the Personal Journal included Avery Johnson's Travel Watch piece (page D5), which mentioned how airlines were starting to offer healthcare services onboard flights. Its subhead read: "Heath Care in the Air."

Personally, I love finding errors in printed materials. Must be the former proofreader in me. Errors like those also make me appreciate one of the benefits of online publishing -- mistakes can be quickly corrected.

April 18, 2006, marks the 100th anniversary of the great 1906 San Francisco earthquake and fire. There's an interesting article in the Wall Street Journal covering the experiences of Chinese-Americans after the earthquake, and how city leaders wanted Chinatown rebuilt on the outskirts of the city and renamed the "Oriental City" ...

"A Century Later, Chinatown Revisits History of Quake"

Updated (4/12/06): NPR broadcast a segment on Chinatown after the earthquake on Wednesday's Morning Edition program: "Rebuilding Chinatown After the 1906 Quake."