Ten years ago, before this date had such sadness attached, Baylor played a home football game against UNLV. I bet many of you were there. I'm pretty sure that I went for maybe half of it, and then am 95% sure I went to eat at Jason's Deli with Lindsay and Jill before going back to the apartment. To wait. And get really nervous.
You see, a recent alumnus was returning to Waco for the game. Said alum had just started teaching biology in Smithville, TX, not too long after Sandra Bullock & Co. set up camp there for the filming of
Hope Floats. We had gotten to know each other a bit the previous semester, when he was still hanging around for a 5th year in order to do his student teaching. (In those days, he spent most of his time scaring young Chamber pledges and darting around campus at night in his black Metallica t-shirt.) He used to go to the Student Center and get a raspberry smoothie on the mornings that I
gossiped volunteered in the Student Involvement Board information booth, and he would saunter on over to chat with me, Heather, and Barrett as we "worked." We'd even had a nice moment right before he graduated, with dinner at Chili's on a rainy night.
(The following spring, he'd take me to Chili's again and then propose behind the SIB booth, but that's another story...)
After he graduated, I didn't really expect to see him again. I spent the summer working at Nerd Camp in Pennsylvania (where, admittedly, I found it a bit agonizing that one of my colleagues drove a car with his last name smack on the license plate, since it was a county name in her state). When his birthday rolled around in August of that year, I decided to be oh-so-daring and send an email message. Methinks someone was lonely in his new town (and internet communication was still pretty darn exciting then) and electronic correspondence commenced. A month later, when the Bears hosted their first home game of the season, he decided not only to make the 2-hour drive to come to the game but said that he'd stop by afterward.
Hence the anxiety that night post-Jason's Deli. I had recently gotten my hair cut pretty short and I remember worrying that he would think it looked funny. I also know exactly what I was wearing--navy shorts and a 3/4 -sleeved navy and red striped boatneck shirt--and I'm sure it will surprise no one that the shorts and the shirt were just recently given away in the Closet Purge of 2009! (Ah, if only I could still fit in those clothes...!)
I'm pretty certain that, when I answered the door after he knocked, he had turned around as if he were about to go back down the stairs. I'm sure glad he didn't. We ended up having plenty to chat about, and he crashed on our downstairs couch instead of driving all the way back home. (And I'm sure Linds and Rach felt like he never left...)
I think most Baylor fans feel a twinge of pain when they think of the UNLV game, as it was but one in a long string of wins-that-could-have-been. For me, however, there wasn't just a game that day; there was a real game-changer.