Sunday, April 29, 2012

Golf Tournament

Every year we go to the JLF Memorial Golf Tournament in Clemson to support our friend Walt. We love getting to go back to Clemson every year and see all of our friends from college (and of course Clay enjoys playing golf)! This year we decided to make a weekend out of it and we stayed at the hotel at the golf course. It was nice getting to spend a little extra time with everyone... Here are some pics from the weekend!
 Clay meeting Ruby Putnam for the first time!
 Miller giving Ruby a kiss...
 The Boys 
(Walt, Dustin, Lindsay, Clay, Miller, Charlie, Jay, and Clark)
 Charlie in the center of attention.

 On the putting green.
 Brothers
 Dustin entertaining the boys.
 Mills getting a good hit on the ball.
 PopPop and Bebe visited just for a lift while. He got stuck
as Millers caddy.
 Charlie
 Charlie
 Miller, Momma, Charlie and Daddy 
2012
Miller, Daddy, Charlie and Momma
2011
 Mills
 Mills
The Group

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Exciting News to Announce!

So, can anyone tell me the theme of these verses...?


Father to the fatherless, defender of widows — this is God, whose dwelling is holy. God places the lonely in families.

Psalms 68:5-6

Learn to do good. Seek justice. Help the oppressed. Defend the cause of orphans. Fight for the rights of widows.

Isaiah 1:17

Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you.

James 1:27

I tell you the truth, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me!

Matthew 25:40

Defend the cause of the weak and the fatherless; maintain the rights of the poor and oppressed. Rescue the weak and needy; deliver them from the land of the wicked. Psalm 82:3-4

He defends the cause of the fatherless and the widow, and loves the foreigner residing among you, giving them food and clothing. Deuteronomy 10:18

If you haven't figured it out... Clay and I are ADOPTING... from Uganda!

We are just in the beginning stages at this point. Our formal application was accepted a few weeks ago, and now we will begin the multi-step process that should take around a year to a year and a half to complete. Our hope is to bring our baby home before the end of next year. There aren't any guarantees in regards to the time frame, but 12 to 18 months is our agency's current estimation.

How did we get to this point?... The biggest factor that caused us to look into adoption is that our time working with the fertility clinic that helped us get pregnant with Miller and Charlie is over. Clay and I were extremely blessed to have the opportunity to try one more procedure with them. We had frozen embryos that were left over from the IVF cycle that gave us the boys. A month or so ago, we tried to use those embryos, but unfortunately it did not work, and none were able to be salvaged for another attempt. This was disappointing, but if we have learned anything from this experience it is that God is at work at all times and he opens and closes doors for us, and we eagerly trust Him in that!

Shortly thereafter we started looking into adoption. We have not given up the hope that we can have our own children again one day, but adoption was something that we believed we'd consider at some point no matter what. It appears that the doors have opened for us to do it now. We started by considering domestic adoption, but after reading further about the unimaginable number of orphans around the world and the conditions in which they live, we opted to look internationally.

Uganda sort of chose itself for us. There are plenty of places to adopt from, but many factors such as age requirements for adoptive parents, travel time, wait times to be referred a child, and costs helped make Uganda the right choice for us. Even more importantly, it is a terribly depressing situation for orphans in that country. It is one of the poorest countries in the world, AIDS has been a huge epidemic there, and millions of children have no parents.

We are extremely excited about this. We feel blessed just to have the chance to be parents again, and even more so to a child who is at risk in so many ways. It is most definitely going to come with challenges, and there are absolutely no guarantees that it will be a happy ending when its all said and done. Adoption has its obstacles no matter what the variety, but having a foreign child of a different race will surely make things more complex. Regardless of all that, we are excited to get this baby and love it the best way we know how and to show him or her Jesus. It is our hope and desire that He will be glorified through this.

We hope yall will be praying for us during this process and please don't ever stop... This is obviously a lifelong type of decision and we want y'all to be a part of it with us!

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

The Past Month

Since I haven't posted as much, I went back through my pictures of the last month to have a snap shot of what we have been doing. Since it has been so warm we have spent a lot of time on the porch playing, eating, and splashing...

Charles
Miller
Miller
Miller
Charlie taking Miller's food...
... and enjoying it!
Chuddy
Mouse
Mouse smiling...
Mouse snacking...
The babes in the pool doing their favorite thing...
Blowing bubbles! They will do it over and over and over.
Hugging
Miller with his ice cream cone!
Charlie with his cone.
Charles
Charles

And if you didn't read the last post... check it out!

Easter!

We headed to Charleston for Easter and had a fun filled time. We ate good food, hung out with family, were in a hat parade, celebrated our Lord Jesus Christ rising from dead, and enjoyed some time at the beach! I have not been posting as much as usual and it is not because I haven't wanted to, but it is more because every time I want to take a picture of the boys, the don't cooperate :) You may see a theme in these pictures of them not wanting to stand still for a picture!

 Getting ready to start the Hat Parade...
(The boys at last years parade... so small compared to now!)
 Charlie soaking it all in.
 The only picture I got with them...
 Bebe trying to entertain because they were over it.
 Chuddy
 Mills from behind...
 Does this remind you of something....? Santa Claus picture, round two!
(My beautiful 80 year old grandmother insisted of having a picture holding
both of the boys.)
 Heading out to church with Dad.
 My boys!
 Charlie "loving" Daddy.
 Me with my men.
 Family pic.
 Pop Pop and the boys.
 My other beautiful 80 year old grandmother!
 Charlie loving the beach.
 Mills not liking it!

 Trying to cheer Miller up.
One last picture!