"The best kind of love is the kind that awakens the soul, makes us reach for more, plants a fire in our hearts, and brings peace to our minds." --From "The Notebook"

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Feeling A Little Nostalgic

So, I'm not a huge country music fan but I do like a few groups......ALOT! One of them is Rascal Flatts. They have a fairly new CD out and there's a song on it that is so amazing. It's called "Take Me There". The song is about a rare-gem-of-a-guy who wants to know EVERYTHING about his lady love. Here's some lines:

There's a place in your heart nobody's been
Take me there
Things nobody knows, not even your friends
Take me there
Tell me 'bout your mama, your daddy, your hometown, show me around
I wanna see it all, don't leave anything out
Your first real kiss, your first true love
You were scared, show me where
You learned about life, spent your summer nights
Without a care
I wanna roll down Main Street, the back roads
Like you did when you were a kid
What made you who you are
Tell me what your story is

[Chorus] I wanna know everything about you then
And I wanna go down every road you've been
Where your hopes and dreams and wishes live
Where you keep the rest of your life hid
I wanna know the girl behind that pretty stare
Take me there

Okay, so my nostalgic thoughts are on my "first love". I'm gonna share them. We were six, his name was Jeremy, we were in 1st grade, Mrs. Johnson's class. He had curly hair, freckles and the cutest smile. For class picture day, as you can see, he wore a bow-tie. I'm above him, in the third row, wearing a yellow vest. We are on the left side. Thinking back now, as an adult, I am amazed at his manners and how he treated me---so mature! He had a best friend, Vincent (sitting next to him in the grey sweatshirt), that didn't like me hangin' out with them (girls have cooties at that age, right?). I remember one day, Vincent, was saying some not-so-nice things to me and telling me to go home and Jeremy punched him and told him to go home and not to treat me like that. Vincent ran home crying like a baby. Jeremy would walk over to my house and, along the way, pick flowers to give to me. He was wonderful! Halfway into our 1st grade year, Jeremy had to move. I remember it was quite fast, one day he was here the next day he was gone. He ran over to my house to say good-bye. I was so sad! It's amazing, even at 6 years-old, the kind of detailed memories we hold on to. I never saw Jeremy again, I hope he's doing well. He made a big impact on my life and I'm grateful for that sweet, adorable little 6 year old who still continues to touch my heart 26 years later.
**My semi-pathetic attempt at taking a close-up of the two of us in this
class picture. Sorry it's so dark!

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

What Heaven Sees In You.......


July 15th, Tuesday--I was on one of my favorite websites http://www.sugardoodle.net/ looking for something totally unrelated, when I came across this YouTube link. I heard this song almost two years ago, for the first time. I cried the first time and still do, every time I hear it. It is such a beautiful song with such a tender message. I am blessed to have a daughter that I've been able to watch and daydream over all her special moments, including the ones she'll have in 3 white dresses. One of those moments have already happened and I treasure her special blessing day. The next is coming soon, only a year and a 1/2 away, her baptism! I tear up just thinking about it. I hope you enjoy this link! Grab a tissue!
P.S.--I have some terrific friends that are "female-producing-impaired", at least for now. I just wanted to let you know your day will come to, I'm being optimistic for you!
*These pictures are of Elise in her blessing dress and pictures I took of her when she was almost 2 years old.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mMfr9Ewp8o4

Sunday, July 6, 2008

I Got Released!

July 6th--Today is Sunday and I was officially released from my calling as Primary President. I've known since Wednesday but today it all sunk in. The ward split last week and most of my presidency went to the new ward. The bishopric felt it was time to release me rather than construct a new presidency all over again. I must say it came as, somewhat, a relief. I've enjoyed this calling quite a bit. There have been many trials and frustrations but none of them can compare to the joy I felt serving the children of our ward. I love them all dearly. I'm thankful for the many people that served and continue to serve in the Primary. I feel kind of an emptiness now. This has basically become a part-time job with all the time put into it but I wouldn't trade this experience for anything. The blessings that have come from this calling are all around me. I see how my marriage has been strengthened even more. I have a better understanding and relationship with my children. I feel more confidence in myself and my abilities. I see the importance of creating a foundation of the gospel for my children, the efforts put into building that foundation are so simple and really don't take much time. Both Brady and Elise seem to grasp all the gospel concepts quite easily, I am truly amazed. I see how important it has become to receive frequent priesthood blessings and I'm thankful to have a worthy priesthood holder as my husband to give one to me at any time--usually late at night. I've discovered that, with any calling, you will be blessed far more than you can imagine. To see the blessings and understand them you have to have faith and courage to recognize them and then you'll see that the blessings are all around you and so very obvious.
I'm ready to, again, take on another calling, should there be one in mind for me now, but I also have some personal goals that have been on hold since Brady's diagnosis and then receiving this calling shortly after. I feel I have time to focus on those goals now. Nate and I received a confirmation of the Spirit, last November, that our family is not quite complete. I remember sharing the answer to our prayers with my dad, at Thanksgiving time. He seemed to get a little emotional and expressed a feeling, he has, that there is still another child waiting to join our family. He wasn't sure which one of his children this child was to come to but was happy that one of us received a confirmation of it. He even shared the gender he felt this child is but we'll wait and see! As we find ourselves getting more comfortable with our current family routine, we realize it will be harder and harder the more we wait so we will be working on another addition to our family soon. Our procrastination has been selfish but if it happens, we know it's meant to be. We're ready for whatever our Father in Heaven has in store for our family.

Saturday, July 5, 2008

Happy 4th of July!

July 4th--We had a "blast" celebrating Independance Day with our neighbors and friends. After last years 4th of July party turned out to be so successful, we decided to make it an annual thing. We brought out the grills to cook up all sorts of meats and everyone brought either a side-dish or dessert to share with the rest. It was hot outside but also overcast so it made being outside bearable. The kids had a fun time using our slip-n-slide and a kiddie pool. I think our grass won't need watering for a few days! The kids also spent time playing some games to earn prizes. Thanks to the courtesy of my dad, who ships way too many Happy Meal toys our way. The adults had a great time chatting and munching on all the yummy food everyone brought. We had games planned but decided to just chat. Once it got dark everyone brought out their boxes of fireworks. Nate, and some of the other men, had fun lighting up all the fountains. We all agreed the best fountain was one called "Zombies".
We were all sad to see it end until we realized Pioneer Day (July 24th) is coming up. Another
reason to party! .......and think of the Mormon pioneers, of course!










Pic #1--It's not a firework show without a blow torch! Danny Short and his daughter, Ashtyn.
Pic #2--Brady and me watching the show.
Pic #3--Brooke Saluone with her daughter, Nani, and son, Alema












Pic #4--Meredith Carmon and her daughter, Tianna
Pic #5--Brady & Elise looking pretty tired
Pic #6--Nate pretending to "smoke" the punk











Pic #7--The pyro trio! Nate with James Carmon and Tony Alonzo
Pic #8--The Short Family, Michelle, Avery, Danny & Ashtyn
Pic #9--The Alonzo's, Cathy & Tony with a sleeping, Ahnika

All She Wants for Christmas Is Her Two Front Teeth.......

June 29th--While up at the family time-share condo, Elise was wiggling away at her other, upper front tooth. She finally got it out Sunday night. Wow, I thought just the one front tooth missing made a big difference but both of them, good gads, what a change! And I thought she had a lisp before, woah!, her ability to pronounce an "s" is almost gone! Grandma Rosemary was able to take a pic of her. Elise was so worried the Tooth Fairy would not be able to find her at the condo. We put her worries to rest and assured her the Tooth Fairy would find her. And, of course, the Tooth Fairy did and gave her another $1 coin.
All of us, at the condo, broke out into song singing, "All I Want For Christmas Is My Two Front Teeth." She thought it was pretty funny a song had been written for those two teeth! I remember losing both my upper front teeth right around Christmas-time. The music teacher at my elementary school, Seabeck Elementary, decided to teach the kids that song because of it. I can still remember how cool that was!
Shortly after Elise's tooth came out she was wiggling more teeth to figure out which one is next. Soon enough, she'll have enough money that I'll be able to ask her for a loan! ha ha ha No really, all her tooth money goes in our "Saving Up For a Dog" fund. She does it voluntarily, as well as any other money she earns. Brady and I do as well. Any contributions to our cause are greatly appreciated! ha ha ha j/k
Note: These pictures were actually taken on Sunday, July 6th. She had just lost another tooth on the bottom making those two bottom teeth loners. They've got that space all to themselves for a little while! TOO FUNNY!!!!

Fun at the Condo!

June 28th-30th--Our family drove up to Wolf Creek, in Ogden Canyon, for the annual week at the family time-share condo. Nate's family has been going up to this condo for many years. It's where they are able to spend time together and enjoy some swimming and hot-tubbing. Nate, his brothers, and his dad enjoy some male-bonding time playing some hard-core racquetball (back in the day, when I thought I was pretty good, they all put me to shame!). This is the same condo Nate took me to meet his entire family for the first time. I remember how overwhelming it seemed to spend a few days with his family and try to get to know them when most of them were so shy and not really willing to open up to me. But I also remember some sweet moments with Nate, just being able to talk and be together.
This year, Elise and Brady found the courage to swim around on their own--with floaties, of course--and didn't seem to need an adult around. I loved watching them kick their legs and stroke their arms as they explored the large pool. Elise was slowly figuring out how to swim without floaties. If we had been there longer she might have learned to swim without them.
We had a great time visiting with family that was able to come. I truly enjoyed myself and I know Nate and the kids did too. Saturday night my brother-in-law, Dustin, and his wife, Crystal, whipped up some delicious shakes. They made Nate and I a Snickers shake. There seemed to be a little residue left of the strawberry shake they had made prior to ours and it made the Snickers shake even better! It actually tasted like banana. So there's a shake to try---Snickers and fresh banana shake, so tasty! Sunday was spent hanging around the condo and plenty of swimming. I took advantage of the excercise room and worked out for about 20 minutes. That night, my father-in-law, Dan, made it to the condo after a long day of bishopric meetings. Nate and I made him a yummy birthday dinner of hamburgers and homemade potato salad. My sister-in-law, Jenny, and my mother-in-law, Rosemary, brought some delicious fruit and we served that as well. After dinner we brought out the Marie Callendar's pies (fresh strawberry, chocolate silk, & lemon cream cheese) to sing to Dan. We gave him a card with a promise to take him to the Desert Star Theater when we go see "Indiana Bones" in a week or so. He loved that idea since he wasn't able to go with Rosemary a few weeks ago.
Aside from Brady and I getting a little sunburnt, we all had so much fun. Everyone got along really well. Brady and Elise LOVED playing with their cousins, Kayla and Quinn. Their other cousin, Cameron, seemed to sleep a lot and then interact at night (he's 14). Nate was thrilled to be able to play racquetball with his brothers, Kip and Dustin, and his dad.
On Monday morning, June 30th, we had to head back home. I had to work in the afternoon so we weren't able to stay any longer. We wish we had been able to. While on our drive back home, we had to stop in Ogden. Brady needed to vomit. We made it to a gas station just in time. He face was ghost-white! As soon as he was able to vomit he was just fine. We're not sure why he got sick but all was well the rest of the day.
Thanks to all of you that came and made the weekend so much fun! We'll look forward to going back the next time!